#i find it really hard to ship remadora bc wolfstar just feels so RIGHT

[urmomsmattress]

i was thinking of remadora and how they obviously loved each other but remus was gay asf right?

remus would do anything for sirius and it showed. and despite that, he loved grant SO MUCH but grant just wasn’t sirius.

grant made the decision to leave for the better of both of them. he didn’t want to make remus choose (he knew he would choose sirius) so he chose for the both of their sakes.

“After all that waiting, they hadn't had very long at all, in the end.”

so now grant was gone, and sirius was gone, and now what? bro falls in love with a woman?

i don’t doubt remus loved nymphadora because they had a kid together but i can’t help but to wonder if he felt the same way towards her that he did with sirius or grant.

even outside the atyd universe, just looking at headcanon, i find it hard to believe that remus was alone for 12 years, mourning the loss of his friends, the loss of his sirius, just for him to feel nothing when sirius returns, and marry off to his cousin after he dies.

in my head, despite canon, i like to believe that remus and tonks married for the sake of getting married. maybe that’s selfish of my wolfstar heart, but i think they’re both queer characters who got with each other for the sake of not being alone. i think they loved each other, but not for the sake of love.

it also doesn’t help that the sole reason remadora exists is because JK Rowling is an awful person and couldn’t stand the thought of a people shipping a queer couple of her creation. it throws a wrench in the beliefs of headcanon, and makes the story all the more complicated and equally tragic.