#i feel so bad for my non phannie followers

[yurisupernova]

drew that iconic new years eve pic!! (ˊᗜˋ*) ✧

[angelmichelangelo]

I feel like people who think like your anon are non phandom members who stumble upon phannie blogs and have to come moralize even though they’re extremely uninformed bc they’ve decided all rpf/s is bad and there’s no gray area at all.

it’s so frustrating! i’m seeing the drama unfold on twitter (i’ve blocked and muted it all now lol) that comes from an outside perspective of: oh dan and phil gay? people like them because of gay? WRONG AND INVASIVE WAH WAH WAH

and it’s.... ughhhhh it gives me the biggest headache ever. it annoys to no end that these outsiders of phandom community don’t know that a huge chunk of us are part of the lgbtq+ community! hi! and we do actually have a really good relationship with dnp because of that openness.

people that accuse us of all only watching dnp for “the gay fetishising” pisses me off so much. i watch dnp because it’s a safe space for me. tumblr is pretty much the only place i can go:

me gay lol

and that’s because of dnp and the community here that makes me feel welcomed and happy and included and SAFE. and it’s that way for so many more people as well. and to have people come in, with no real understanding of this place we’ve created, and just accuse us all of being creepy straight teen girls... if fucks me off. like big time. why can’t we just enjoy our lgbtq+ safe space? why? and why the hell is the term “teen girl” always thrown around like some insult?

(all the teen girls that follow me, i will protect u)

but yeah. some people really have to awareness to anything and it’s so upsetting and annoying because when that safeness gets breached by some dickhead that understands nothing, you feel like that safe space is slowly starting to crumble around you. i’m not going back on twitter tonight since it’s kind of a shitstorm rn and i just... don’t feel like it’s a good idea to upset myself further with what’s happening.

i love watching dan and phil and i am SO incredibly thankful for the safe community that’s been so helpful for me as it probably has been for others. i dont understand why people can’t get that, or let us have it and enjoy it but hey, i’m glad i can just block that shit out of my life and create my own bubble of happiness for me to enjoy :’)