#i dont want to change it. it's for consistency

[cardiac-arresting-sweetheart]

i had a fucking dream about it so that's cool... jesus christ i cannot be free from being obsessed with people for even one second

[buwheal]

out of context lyric discussion doodles solely because you guys like this... thing.... or.... whatever he is........

[snekdood]

There are genuinely people online that instead of actually bringing people to the left, at this point, would prefer that anyone who was previously not on the left but who tries to be *stays* outside of the left, because i guess its just easier to comprehend when the world is put into little shitty boxes you labeled for them instead of actually thinking for once and having the nuance to understand them. Like thats wild to me that theres people who would prefer you not be on the left or not try to be. Yall GENUINELY do not care about advocating for your side politically in any capacity. Its LITERALLY just a clique you've found yourself in. And theres nothing progressive about that or being exclusive, wtf do you think this shit is, a night club? Grow the fuck up, honestly.

[fluorescentbrains]

i think concepts like demiromantic are actually useful in a descriptive context, but the years of discourse that treated these terms as COMPLETELY equivalent to gay/lesbian/bisexual/trans identity totally poisoned me against them. like to some degree all such labels are descriptive and culturally relative and incomplete but i think you actually can be “born that way” in a sense when it comes to homosexuality/trans identity, or at least, these identities TEND to settle and remain consistent from an early-ish stage of development. and people can have different sex drive levels that stay relatively consistent throughout their adulthood. whereas i don’t think anyone is “born” with a romantic orientation/mode of being intimate that can be organized into a periodic table of sorts

anyway i have realized over the past several years that in terms of the (western) cultural consensus re: the terminology i am in fact demisexual and demiromantic, in a similar sense as i tend to be drawn to arpeggios, trees, salty foods, and brightly colored objects (which are surely culturally informed tastes that nevertheless i experience as immutable and unchanging), but i also feel very strongly that this is not my “orientation.” my orientation is bisexual

[keepingmyoptionsfluid]

The idea that Tommy, a closeted gay man who was desperately trying to fit in in a hyper macho and discriminatory environment, isn't allowed to have any growth from when he was over compensating and was a dick to Chim really pisses me off. He literally had canonical growth to the point he was going for drinks with Chim and Hen in Bobby Begins Again and they got him a fancy leaving cake.

Why isn't he allowed to grow and be better? Because he's white? Because he "gets in the way of buddie"? Because no one is allowed to say and change at all over a decade?

Like this is a queer fandom and I'd bet a lot of money that a ton of people in this fandom said and did things they weren't proud of when they were younger, especially before they came out so they could try and hide it.

I know this is quite a young fandom too but like, it was literally only a decade ago when "gay" was an insult at school and doing anything that could be get you accused of being gay was fucking social suicide. You guys have no idea how lucky you are that people at least get called out for that shit now cause they didn't when I was a kid. I would have done almost anything to just be ignored, let alone accepted, rather than being openly bisexual.

So yeah, I think Tommy is allowed to fucking change as a person because Bobby, Chim and Hen came into his life and allowed him to stop repressing. Stop being such fucking assholes. You aren't any better than him, and frankly the way some of you behave makes the way Tommy acted when he was first in the show look like a fucking saint. Touch some grass.

[puppppppppy]

When you go on walks, what’s your favourite part? Mine is when I find one of the rivers or small streams nearby my house. Or when I get to meet some new dogs- or when the temperature is just warm enough to bask in whilst the trees are rustling because of a strong breeze. Maybe my favourite part is the walk itself, I like walking places. Problem is I always need to have a destination in mind.

the weather is getting nicer so its the best time to go outside and poke around for some new visitors ^_^

[constantvariations]

I get why people say Wyll/Karlach is enemies-to-lovers but it's missing too many of its signatures for me to agree

By nature, E-t-L's are slow burn. A good chunk of the story waits for one party to discover they're on the wrong side/both parties to realize they have more in common with each other than their factions, then a whole other chunk is dedicated to them learning how to trust each other. The higher the stakes in the story, the slower the burn

Yet everything between Wyll and Karlach is revealed and resolved in a single conversation. There are no lasting consequences of that initial animosity. Both are too good to hold grudges and all the fault lies firmly in hands not their own. Karlach trusts Wyll instantly and he her. Their friendship is so immediate that it's easy to forget that we met Karlach with the intent to kill her

And then there's the source of their quarrel. Wyll was led to believe Karlach's a devil seeking destruction and Karlach was just trying to go home. The thing that sets them against each other isn't their own beliefs or loyalties or anything deep seated and personal, it's the chain of command, something they're both eager to be rid of by the time we meet them. While it gives them something in common, it leaves them with nothing to unpack or overcome together

Compare that to the king of E-t-L's, Zutara of Avatar the Last Airbender. Zuko spent most of the show's runtime trying to capture the Avatar to guarantee the Fire Nation's total conquest, something Katara wants to prevent at all costs. When the two are stuck together by happenstance, they lash out at each other only to bond over their lost mothers. Then Zuko betrays her, something Katara does not forget and does not forgive until he proves himself much, much later. Afterwards, they support each other, watch over the others together, and make a damn good team against Azula. Perfect, should have been canon, fuck Bryke

Honestly, I think Wyllach is just Faerûn's version of a meet-cute

[multi-fandom-lunatic]

harry potter needs to die.

[crimsonlovebartylus]

Bartylus? Toxic!

YES MY TOXIC BABIES! <3 <3

spotify play toxic by britney spears

toxic but also soft and romantic and cute 🤏🏻🥰🩷

[kheprriverse]

Upcoming Ballad changes 👀?

[gremlinhourz]

i hate tumblrmart i hate tumblr live i hate the tumblr app put the blog tab and search tab back where they are supposed to be

[buwheal]

The yellow in your eye is back, so I think that's good

[the-pea-and-the-sun]

changing my major to looney tunes

[loserelf]

hmm gifts for coworkers or mysims cozy bundle for me. greatest minds of our generation struggle to decide in a debate not unlike one worthy to take place in the school of athens

[summerlimeismethebrony]

Writing is rewriting. Characters' names changing between drafts is normal. It is okay, even good, to realize that you need to re-name multiple characters for the sake of consistency. This is what pre-production is for; you wouldn't want this realization to hit twenty chapters in. (I am telling myself this through gritted teeth)

[medi-bee]

@simcardiac-arrested Wade is pretty cool. i kinda like him a little bit maybe.