#i do enjoy ship partners who like discussing it but writing idk why im like wow. im on stage fucking!!

[supurman]

nsfw :)

[overlourdes]

SHIPPING INFO // Answer the following for your muse(s) so people know how shipping works on your blog. REPOST. Don’t reblog.

(i’m mostly going to talk about lola in this --- because levi is married, and dr. fish is dr. fish (honestly he’s just not in the stage of his development as a character for me to really be ready to consider shipping). however, i’m still open to doing ship things with those two, mostly dr. fish, so if something comes up or whatever, i AM open to that. also --- i’m willing to rp lola at various ages and various AUs, which i feel is relevant.)

WHAT’S YOUR OTP FOR YOUR MUSE?: i just really don’t have one. i don’t have any ships that are really very developed with lola. like, there are things that definitely exist and i enjoy, and that certainly have a lot of potential, but as is i’m not going to call anything an “otp” (also it’s 2020, we don’t say otp anymore).

WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO RP WHEN IT COMES TO SHIPPING?: development of a ship is really important to me. i don’t like to jump forward, and i really don’t like to get into heavier or more intimate stuff before we’ve really talked about them a LOT and had several interactions. i especially don’t like doing fluff in general, so to have that come up too early really gets me anxious cause i don’t wanna be an asshole about it.  it can happen but we really have to get there naturally.

HOW LARGE DOES THE AGE GAP HAVE TO BE TO MAKE IT UNCOMFORTABLE?: lola really doesn’t like younger men, but someone could be maybe ten years younger than him at most. he doesn’t care so much about if they’re older (this goes for all ages, but in his main verse obviously there probably isn’t going to be anyone much older). 

personally, as for his younger verses, while it’s part of lola’s canon history that he’s been with men much older than him, that’s not something i want to ship. depending on how young he is, i guess maybe a fifteen year gap would be fine. twenty is a lot if he’s under 40 or so.

ARE YOU SELECTIVE WHEN SHIPPING?:  yeah, for the most part. i mean, i think i’ve been too willing to explore the possibility of ships in the past and ended up discussing something with someone who i really didn’t mesh with ooc, so the other mun really has to be someone i like and get along with.

lola also just isn’t going to be that shippable. he’s a very difficult person. he really has a lot of issues when it comes to intimacy and his emotions, especially when he’s younger, and can behave in ways that would realistically drive most people off. this is mostly when he was in his 20s; while he still has a lot of issues, it’s easier stuff to deal with, but he’s still not someone who can just easily get into a “normal” relationship.

HOW FAR DO STEAMY MOMENTS HAVE TO GO BEFORE THEY’RE CONSIDERED NS.FW?: i’ve written some one-off smut things before, but if it’s an actual thread, i think it’s n.sfw once there’s any mention of arousal or genitals or whatever. i’d personally prefer to move the thread off-site IF this ever came up, which in my whole time on tumblr this has happened only once, and it happened very naturally and i really enjoyed how that went down. smut is not something i’ve ever looked to write, but i’m not against it, either. again, i would like to have a connection with the other mun before we go there, just for my comfort. it’s less that i’m embarrassed or prudish about these things, it’s that i get nervous wondering if i’m being too raunchy or something or crossing a boundary. that, and, if you don’t really know me and try to write smut with me, i wonder why you don’t care about my boundaries.

WHO ARE OTHER MUSES YOU SHIP YOUR MUSE WITH?: lola is very unlucky with ships and doesn’t have anything with any active muses on tumblr, but he’s had things before.

DOES ONE HAVE TO ASK TO SHIP WITH YOU?:   not necessarily, but i wouldn’t mind if they did. i also wanna be clear that, even if our muses haven’t interacted, if you think, okay, i think these two could potentially be shipped, i don’t mind discussing that as a possible eventuality, with the understanding that it really just may not work out.

HOW OFTEN DO YOU LIKE TO SHIP?: i really just don’t get a lot of ships, but, i’d like to have some good ones some day. in other words, i’m definitely not bogged down with ships, so definitely explore that possibility with me.

ARE YOU MULTISHIP?: yes

ARE YOU SHIP OBSESSED OR SHIP MORE-OR-LESS?: it’s not exactly a priority, because it really can’t be, but i do tend to get really invested in certain ships, if i end up really liking them. i really wish we could all start off with a mentality of, if one of us gets bored or loses interest in this, can we just tell each other? i don’t like feeling like my partner is more interested than i am, or vice versa. i’d like us both to be comfortable saying, you know i’m just not feelin this that much anymore. it wouldn’t have to mean, this ship is cancelled forever, but we’d just be on the same page. idk if this is really all that relevant to this question but i felt it needed saying.

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SHIP IN YOUR CURRENT FANDOM?: ain’t got no damn FANDOMS in here

FINALLY, HOW DOES ONE SHIP WITH YOU?:  interact with me, even if it’s just liking my ooc posts. send me memes. IM me (i may IM you first if you do the above enough, cause this shows me you’re interested, and i’m liable to return that interest). if i feel like our muses have chemistry, i’ll say something. if i feel like lola could have feelings for your muse, i’ll also say something, because i’m also down for that unrequited shit.

snatched from: @themercifulmother  tagging: steal it

[saunterfics]

picture this: dadsona jumping in craig's shower after a workout 👀👀👀

(I’m gonna answer the asks I’ve gotten these past two weeks in this post so it’ll be under the read more. I apologize I’m terrible at responding bc I always think I want to respond with more specific things to requests but maybe I shouldn’t keep hoarding asks…)

Craig would be so surprised lbr. But if you’re implying shower sex, then yes. Somehow instead of smexy I can only think of…angst…? Like 1) Craig might actually be annoyed bc he’s always so busy and he has a lot of work and stuff to get to after a shower so like, please, don’t? or 2) he does indulge in you and damn that was HOT but then he realizes he spent too much time there and starts to criticize himself for leaving River alone for too long, etc and blames himself for not being disciplined enough now that he allows himself to relax and actually be with you…? He’s someone who probably thinks too much bc he’s trying to set the bar so high and seriously. He needs to chill. 

Anon said: Will you write more Ddadds fanfics? Maybe something dirty, rough, fast with Robert? Or include some kinks, like chocking (with your hands) or rimming with any other character? 

Yes…maybe? I should? I just got really busy and haven’t been playing the game and then started losing the inspiration? I also usually browse tumblr on my phone, which doesn’t have blacklisting, so I’ve been avoiding it tbh because I am into Craig and also Robert, and tbh I like consuming content about Robert more, but I’d noticed quite the increase of Joseph/Robert stuff in there and I’m really not comfortable with that pairing so I’d rather not chance seeing it. Idk, the extent of my distaste for that kinda hit me all at once so…sigh. It just also feels very fetish-y too so that really nags at me. 

Anyways. Choking? Seriously? Hell yeah. Holy shit. I’m not into rimming myself, and I’m just indifferent to it so I don’t think I have the abilities to make it good. And something rough, fast, and dirty with Robert will most likely be when Dadsona is just “a tad” tipsy and he’s riling Robert on with dirty talk and esp calling him “daddy” and Robert just growls and holds you down but you’re just smirking up at him and continue to tempt him and he just. Can’t fucking handle you Jesus fucking Christ. (I also like someone’s hc I saw a while back about how Robert doesn’t actually enjoy sex all that much seeing as if you ever have sex with him he just chucks you out the window and all) so I like the thought that Robert slowly gets into sex more because he’s into you and it’s fun and Robert likes games and he quite likes the control play that you guys get into. 

Anon said: Concept – Robert getting hella excited to show dadsona his whole knife collection and the story behind each one ,,, what do you think

I think it’s cool…? But I personally would be more like “uh okay” tbh (I’m not a good partner to have let me tell you straight)…I’m not creative so I can’t think of what the cool stories would be behind his knives? Especially if there isn’t much to go off of on why he has them? I also don’t understand the notion of collecting things so…i’m sorry. 

Anon said: SO EXCITED FOR MORE KNIFE DAD, the first time dom robert stuff was super hot and endearing but i am so ready for FEELINGS, i can’t even tell you. (also don’t worry about the roseph requests, your writing should be for you first and foremost ❤︎)

I’M SORRY IF I’VE DISAPPOINTED YOU IN NOT PRODUCING MORE KNIFE DAD IN A WHILE. Anyways, thank you?? First time Dom!Robert will always be super cute in my heart. I had a lot of feels earlier this month but then it kinda got…knocked down several levels because of the Roseph stuff and how uncomfortable it made me? Like, it came as a shock with how much it affected me. I’m still kinda shocked, to be honest. So thank you for understanding that I want to avoid that. 

Anon said: I literally need an crave more Robert with a daddy kink

Lol same. Sorry, but I don’t really have inspiration for it right now? Unless you can give me a more specific scenario?

Brooo, im so glad u made that post abt roseph, some1 had to fckin say it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

;n; It’s good to know that some people feel the same way. I really don’t like abusive relationships especially under the guise of hot hot BDSM (there’s a reason why I specifically say that I do not write hate!sex, which is a distinction from rough or angry sex). It’s also intriguing to me that most of the people I know who identify as male similarly want to indulge in Dadsona/one of the dads instead of pairing the dads together. I mean, I can’t say much because I try not to interact with the Roseph shippers, and I don’t really look into the other dads, but it’s another reason why it feels fetish-y to me bc why is Roseph hot…? I don’t really want the answer to that I’m just rambling bc someone is on my perspective. 

Anon said: i respect and understand your interpretation, but i personally feel like joseph/robert (roseph) are heavily implied to be exes? like, joseph kind of breaks robert’s heart because minor spoilers: there isn’t really a happy ending with joseph’s route - it always ends with him running away and using mary for an excuse. actually, something quite interesting happens if you date robert twice before going on joseph’s third date - a confrontation of sorts.

Thanks…? Sorry if I’m curt in my reply, but are you trying to voice your opinion in this discussion, or is this a justification on why you ship Roseph…? Because I’m taking it the latter way, and my response will be under that impression. The immediate response I had was, “So what?” because I did express that I don’t like certain implications that Robert was still involved with Joseph, etc. in addition to separate issues that I have with the fact that there’s no way Joseph/Robert can be in a healthy relationship whatsoever, unless I make Joseph a more mature man (than he canonically is, given that he leaves Dadsona in the end regardless, in his route). The fact that they’re implied to be exes means nothing other than add to the fact that Robert is emotionally wounded on many levels, and that he has so much to heal from. It only makes me sad, because this man already seems to be the type who is hard to open his heart, so then you’re telling me that he did open his heart to Joseph, only to have it broken terribly with the lame excuse of “I love you, but I don’t have the balls to leave my wife, whom I have a deteriorating romantic relationship with and that we are not attempting to repair” which implies “you’re still only second place to me, at most.” Not to mention the implications of what it would mean if Robert was previously involved with Joseph, and still is best buds with Mary? Was he still best buds with Mary when he cheated with her spouse? So you’re saying that it’s possible that Mary doesn’t know any of this, and Robert is hiding something this big from her? How much of a burden is that on his shoulders? (Although tbh, I’m more inclined to believe that Mary knows all this shit - she’s not a moron, she’s quite the intuitive woman - and she bonded with Robert over the fact that Joseph is a shit and really, I don’t think she and Joseph are in love anymore. They definitely still care, but the “in love” aspect of romance, that’s not there anymore. But the fact that there are also fan content that depicts that Mary knows and just kinda glosses over the issue by not reacting makes me uncomfortable, as well.) So basically, even if Joseph and Robert are exes, that doesn’t change anything imo. It only solidifies my belief that Joseph needs to man the fuck up and deal (and the fact that I think the game writers really failed in, in terms of representing the complexities of a relationship. They seemed to be on the right track, and then it turned to shit with the only excuse I’ve heard being “why would you want to be a homewrecker” and that’s not valid given that they gave Joseph a route). But anyways, about Joseph, that’s what it means to be an adult - relationships are complicated and there’s no black and white. You’ve got to work with that and keep moving. 

[hhemeraa-a]

shipping meme !

ANSWER THE FOLLOWING FOR YOUR MUSE SO PEOPLE KNOW HOW SHIPPING WORKS ON YOUR BLOG. REPOST. DON’T REBLOG.

tagged by:  @shelterinsilence tagging:  oh boy

WHAT’S YOUR OTP FOR YOUR MUSE?:

         Last time I answered this meme, I said that I didn’t have an OTP for Myles and I still semi-abide by that, however if I were to pick favorites...          @corpusdxlicti because I just love them so much, it’s so good, their interests line up so nicely and oh my gosh, Myles low key loves him so much and the two of them will probably take years to say it to each other, but that’s ok because they don’t need words sjghskdjg           @etlascivus  👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀  because Asmo breaks a lot of rules and he’s the 1% that Myles lets get away with it. Talk about a beautiful accident, it’s rare that Myles feels possessive or needy over someone and yet here he is very quietly demanding Asmo’s attention. Due to recent events, he’s going to become a lot more chaotic about it so I’m excited ;;w;;

WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO RP WHEN IT COMES TO SHIPPING?:

       ¯\_(ツ)_/¯   anything. Like.... literally anything.           What won’t I RP is a shorter list, but because of how…. emotionally difficult Myles is, a majority of any ship needs to be plotted to some extent or else you are at his mercy which means that any ship success rate goes down to about 2% unless the planets are perfectly aligned. With that said, I’m pretty open to all the genres, even those taboo ones you don’t think I’d be into but I am. 👀 👀 👀 👀  

HOW LARGE DOES THE AGE GAP HAVE TO BE TO MAKE IT UNCOMFORTABLE?:  

        I refuse to (romantically) ship with anyone under 18 (muns or muses) and Myles very rarely will ever be interested in anyone between 18 - 21. With that, so long as everyone is a consenting adult, age ain’t nothing but a number. Plus Myles likes ‘em older. He won’t make age an issue if your muse doesn’t make age an issue.           Some of you have muses that are hundreds and thousands of years old, so? It’s a non-issue.

ARE YOU SELECTIVE WHEN SHIPPING?:

       Myles? Hell yes. Considering his emotional damage...        I said prior, but Myles is extremely difficult to ship with unless it’s plotted and there’s chemistry involved. 90% of the time, he is playing to emotions that benefit him in a situation, but doesn’t actually feel romantic inclinations towards someone.  He can be friendly and have one night stands, but if someone asked to be his boyfriend, he’d mean laugh in their face and walk away.           But to answer this question - yes, I am. Only because it takes a lot for Myles become attached and actually have feelings that aren’t just surface value. If he’s gotten to this point (unless it’s the rare 1% where he just instantly clicks), we’ve probably RP’d or plotted a lot and I’m starting to get real fuckin annoyed when people drop the muse or disappear right after all the work we’ve done. I’m tired of it, Myles is tried of it, and [we] I’ve become much more weary about being the one to commit when someone else hasn’t.

          OF COURSE!! that isn’t to say you shouldn’t approach me about one!  I love shipping and some times it won’t work out and that’s ok, but never be afraid to throw an idea at me or ask me if I think it’ll work.  ;;w;;

HOW FAR DO STEAMY MOMENTS HAVE TO GO BEFORE THEY’RE CONSIDERED NSFW?:

        Idk, usually if there’s a peen out, I’m pretty sure that counts as nsfw. I’m bad at tagging things and 50% of the time my written nsfw isn’t tagged, but that’s only because           1) my blog is tagged as nsfw so browse at your discretion           2) all images will always be tagged with nsfw           3) this thread isn’t for you, so why are you reading it lol (I’m half joking, half not)           4) I’m pretty sure my partner knows that it is nsfw.           Unless my partner wants things under a read more or has specific things they want, Isin proudly and openly.

WHO ARE OTHER MUSES YOU SHIP YOUR MUSE WITH?:

I’m going to keep this list short because last time I wrote like a huge thing, but not all of these are romantic, some are just platonic/friendships.

@rosaceaes  -  👀 👀 👀 👀 @kashiings - strained friendship @catastrophicur - friendship on a leash @svagefaith - soulmates from hell but also best friend who eats all my food @portalipsis - cutie with the booty @etlascivus -  👀 👀 👀 👀 @corpusdxlicti -  👀 👀 👀 👀 @inionnaforaoise -  👀  complicated friends @dcsidcrium - sister that he’s probably shot more times than necessary  @demonisch - demon dad next door @fourridersandaking - low key old man crush and beta fish bud and probably a bunch of others sO IM SORRY IF I MISSED YOUR NAME

DOES ONE HAVE TO ASK TO SHIP WITH YOU?:

        Yes, although if we have a thread going/there’s chemistry, I’m sure we’ll both reach out to each other about it naturally.            But I encourage this?? Even though my son is hard to get to know and ship with in general  ;;w;;

HOW OFTEN DO YOU LIKE TO SHIP?:

        I love it!  But shipping isn’t the end all be all of my blog. I really enjoy complicated plots and things that have nothing to do with relationships. I made Myles to be the sort of anti-ship muse, BUT LOOK WHERE THAT GOT ME. Nothin’ but pain and tears. 

ARE YOU MULTISHIP?:  

        Yes! And multi-verse unless it’s discussed.

ARE YOU SHIP OBSESSED OR SHIP MORE-OR-LESS?:

       Meh - romantic things are nice, but like I’ve been saying, this is completely up to Myles and he’s not inclined for romance. So I’m a ‘more or less’ kind of person. If I really like a ship we have going, I’ll be very obsessed and try to keep it low key cause I don’t wanna scare you off.  ;;w;;

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SHIP IN YOUR CURRENT FANDOM?:

        Fandom? Don’t know her.           HA. ok. Um…. Deimos and happiness. I love Deimos so much, I just want him to be so happy but not with Cain, he can be happy with anyone else. 

FINALLY, HOW DOES ONE SHIP WITH YOU?:

       My favorite ships always start as an accident - either though starters where we just see something click, or an ask where something funny happens.  Just write with me or approach me about it!  Chances are if you want to ship, you’re going to know something about Myles’ personality that you/your muse likes. If you come to me in hopes to finding a ship without any prior knowledge of him, you might have a bad time.           It’s really easy for things with Myles to get toxic fast, so unless you’re prepared for a slow burn, idk if this is the right place? But again! Just reach out, I absolutely love discussing relationships and plotting, it keeps me alive in my waking hours.