#i cant interact with your blog for some reason?

[thismeddlingkid]

When a transphobe has in their bio "you block, I win." Baby, how does having less people to yap at winning? And as far as I know you can't tell how many people are blocking you and the only way this would be helpful* for your ideology is if you were already conversing with someone.... but guess what, you will never know I blocked you and we never talked so I think I ultimately win

*it's not helpful in the slightest. They frame it that way to boost their ego. The only person winning in that situation is the person who blocked you honestly. They are cooling and more listened to than you ever will be

[adoseofdidreality]

also my blog name wasnt to pretend to be you but to make fun of your username because i think "a dose of did reality" (or even a "a DIDose of reality") is funnier than didadoseofreality

genuinely just replace the word DID with "the shot" or something wild and "a dose of reality" can become a really clever pun for antovaxxers. i think if the op is actually an antivaxxer they can steal that idea and try to come up with a better primary title to be followed by the subtitle "a dose of reality" :P

it would all be really silly shouty lies by an old man/woman/erson who's scared of The Furries Oh my Gosh!!! and it's hillarious

[miupow]

beeeestie i am a new follower aaaand im just in love w ur blog 😩❤️

plllllsssss talk about husband!skz, i just cant go to sleep without this on mind 😫😫😫

you can include nsfw if you are comfortable with

˗ˏˋ ★ ― HUSBAND!STRAY KIDS HEADCANONS .ᐟ

╰┈⪼ ot8 x fem!reader ✦ fluff + smut , NSFW minors do not interact !

𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 。。。public sex , unprotected sex , creampies , breeding kink , marking , public sex , spanking , bondage , dom/sub dynamics , brat tamer minho , sex toys , shibari , oral (f. rec) , squirting , voice kink , oral (m. rec) mention , orgasm control , pet play sort of

notes from lia。ouuu husbant. my favorite genre of skz.. hehe thank u for the follow!! i hope u enjoy this.. it makes me so happy to hear that u love my blog ^^

SFW :

husband!bangchan who acts like he's your sugar daddy on top of being your husband. you could ask for the entire nation of korea and he'd try his best to give it to you. anything you want and more, it doesn't matter the price; chan just loves spoiling his baby girl. designer bags and jewelry, pretty clothes and expensive dinners... you don't even have to ask.

husband!minho who loves to cook with you, even though he acts like he doesn't. when he's complaining about you being in his way and making snide remarks about your culinary skills, it's out of endearment instead of actual irritation. he just finds it so funny when you throw your own retorts back at him, pouting in that way he adores so much <3 he just loves riling you up

husband!changbin who loves to work out with you! he sees it as a bonding activity, something for the two of you to do together to spend time with eachother. he helps you with all of your stretches, you spot eachother when you need to, exchanging kisses inbetween sets <3 holding his feet while he does sit ups, kissing u every time he comes up hehe

husband!hyunjin who views you as his greatest muse. his favorite subject to draw or paint is your pretty face, your smile his favorite to photograph. he shows you some of it, but most he keeps for himself-- for his eyes only, to admire when he's away on tour and he misses you.

husband!jisung who has an endless amount of inside jokes with you from all of your years together, showing up in gag gifts and one-liners that make you double over in laughter. ji loves to make you laugh, it’s his favorite sound in the entire world <3 he’s always doing something silly in hopes that you’ll give him a pretty giggle, smile and roll your eyes, make his heart skip a beat in his chest ~

husband!felix who treats you like a princess, maybe even a queen— he all but worships the ground you walk on, forever gushing about how beautiful and amazing his wife is <3 the honeymoon phase never ends with him, you’re still as disgustingly in love with each other as you were when you first started dating. he calls you all sorts of sappy pet names, giving you kisses everywhere he can reach, always needing to be touching you even if it’s just holding your hand

husband!seungmin who still acts like a tsundere even when you’ve been married for years lol. he complains about you being lazy but he’ll never let you lift a finger, he groans about you being needy when he’s the one always reaching for you and demanding ur attention >< you love him just the way he is, and he loves you more than he’ll ever care to admit. it’s so obvious that he adores you cos he’s always looking at you when he thinks you aren’t paying attention, eyes lit up like you hung the stars yourself <3

husband!jeongin who wants to spend absolutely every moment he can by your side, and he hates being away from you for any reason. a perfect day for him would be glued to your hip, from when you wake up to when you go to sleep, his favorite person and his partner in crime, his ride or die… he’d take you with him on tour if he could, but he’ll settle for being on facetime 24/7 while he’s away lol

NSFW :

husband!bangchan who can't wait to start a family <3 he figures that now you're married, it's only natural to start trying for a baby... fucks you hard and fills you up every night, fully intent on getting your belly all swollen with his babies… so much cum it’s spilling out of your hole down your hickey-marked thighs, chan pushing it back inside with his thick fingers talking about making sure it takes…

husband!minho who will put you back in your place when you’re being bratty. he will not tolerate his wife having an attitude with him!! he’ll put you over his lap and make you count in an instant, or tie you up and torture you with your favorite vibrator for hours, and he won’t stop until you’re crying and begging for his forgiveness <3 he doesn’t care if you’re out in public or out with friends, he’s whispering threats in your ear, and if you still don’t stop he’ll grab you by the wrist and drag you back home.

husband!changbin who can't help but find your workout wear incredibly sexy, the way your leggings hug your ass and curves, the way ur sports bra pushes up ur tits.. and he knows you find him sexy too, in his tank top and gym shorts, sweaty muscles all out on display.... he's drooling over you while you're drooling over him, and you can both only take so much... its not uncommon for the two of you to end up fucking in the gym showers or in the locker rooms, sometimes even getting touchy in the weight room if it's empty!! changbin slapping and gripping on your ass cos he can't stop himself from touching anymore, and you grind back onto his crotch to feel his erection... his fat dick splitting you open in the showers, his thick buff arms holding you up against the cold shower wall with your legs apart..

husband!hyunjin who loves to tie you up, more than any of the other boys. it’s like an art form to him and he takes it very seriously, buying expensive rope in pretty colors, taking immaculate care of it.. he loves to take pictures of his work, the intricate knots that bind you in place or suspend you from the ceiling�� you look so beautiful like that to him, his perfect tied up angel for him to admire and destroy <3

husband!jisung who is an absolute pussy fiend… he could spend all day with his face buried between your legs, talented tongue making you cum over and over again until you squirt hehe <3 he’s not satisfied until his entire face is drenched with ur arousal, dripping slick from his nose and chin, and then he wants to fuck you until you can’t walk ! and you better believe he’s going in raw, because why would he wear a condom when his ring is on your finger? you better be careful, because jisung wants to fuck every day and every night… you wouldn’t mind if you got pregnant, would you? because he definitely wouldn’t

husband!felix who thinks it’s so cute that you find his voice so hot. all he has to do is whisper some dirty words in your ear and you’re blushing and squirming like a virgin… he just can’t help but do it all of the time. deep aussie accent mumbling about how he’s going to ruin your pussy when you get home, or about how hard and needy he is for you to take care of him <3 his hand on your thigh dangerously close to where you need him most… he loves to rile you up until you can’t take any more, till you snap <3

husband!seungmin who loves his wife submissive and needy <3 he won’t let you touch yourself without his permission, just because he loves to listen to you beg, so desperate and dependent on him … he’s trained you to be a perfect pup for him, down to the collar he likes to have you wear. you’d do anything to hear him say “good girl”, wouldn’t you?

husband!jeongin who loves to fuck in public !! getting head in the park, balls deep in your pussy in a bathroom stall, fucking under a blanket in the dorm living room, loud movie covering up your sounds. the riskiness of it gets him so hot, the idea of getting caught slutting you out in a dressing room, closet, break room… maybe it’s because he’s so possessive, that nasty freaky part of him relishing the idea of showing off to others how you belong to him… and he loves watching you stumble around with cum dripping down your legs from under your skirt, disheveled and redfaced desperate to hide what you and your husband were just up to…

[wasppette64]

Im sorry, I know this is but a simple rb blog but I need to rant about this to SOMETHING.

End of ch4 DELTARUNE spoilers and rant under cut

Why are people acting like sans having a fling with Toriel is some new, out of character thing? Did we play the same undertale? The same Deltarune? Of course Sans is a bastard that dates your divorced mom. i feel like even though it must be hard for Kris to move on from the divorce it’s perfectly understandable for Toriel to seek something more and move on from Asgore, is it sad? Yeah, is it reasonable, also yes! Everyone is focused on Sans in this interaction, I barley see people talking about how Toriel feels. She ended a relationship some time ago and ever since her dead beat ex husband has been trying to get her back and she’s so over it, THAT day Asgore tried to offer her flowers, I wouldn’t be surprised if Toriel was fed up with it and when Sans (presumably) started flirting with her (LIKE HE DOES) she let him. Toriel is not a sailor being encapsulated by a siren’s song, she let sans in, she invited him over and offered him a drink. Sans is not some terrible guy here, he is just a guy flirting with a single woman. Is that what you’re mad about? Really?

Sans was probably aware of Toriel’s and Asgore’s relationship, and in that yes it is a kind of bitch move to flirt with a somewhat recently divorced woman BUT this isnt outside of his character, since Undertale he has been a troll and a bastard, even in Deltarune he has some pretty prick-ish tendencies. I think a lot of people are forgetting that.

Anyways, yeah I feel terrible for Kris, I have a divorced mom and when my (now ex) stepdad came into the picture I hated him so much and never once called him dad or considered him family, so I know how it feels, but I think its good for Kris to move on from their parents being… together. I think especially after chp3 Kris has a problem with moving on, and I think Sans and Toriel being together is a genuinely good plot point to force Kris into moving on from Asgore and Toriel. Which, who knows what that might lead too.

LIKE Kris obviously struggles too move on, in chp4 we get the info that even if placed in the same location, dark fountains alter based on the emotions felt at the time, and Tenna’s whole thing is that he cant move on. He cant move on from cable becoming irrelevant, he cant move on from Kris and Asriel moving on, he cant move on, and thats shows how Kris feels about moving on from their childhood, So Sans and Toriel becoming a thing might help Kris understand that they HAVE too move on, and might even help Asgore too

The whole game has a theme of “moving on” in the sense that every main character (Kris, Susie, Noelle, Berdly, and Ralsei)

Kris has to move on from their childhood, Ralsei needs to move on from the prophecy and his ‘purpose’, Susie needs to move on from her mean ways and tough personality to be more like herself, Noelle needs to move on from Dess and Berdly has to move on from Noelle and the idea that hes not actually as likeable as he pretends to be

That being said, (besides Noelle) all of these are being actively challenged, Berdly getting rejected and kinda like put in his place, Susie is having a whole character arc with Ralsei, who in turn is also learning to be more selfish and see himself as his own being, and Kris gets to move on from their mom moving on.

Sorry this is just rambling and ranting but I’m sick and tired, also this somehow devolved into a theory at the end? I dont know, I have so many thoughts I cant barley catch them to type them out. I hope you enjoyed, if even a single person is reading this

[yanderefarm]

an actual announcement (real (not clickbait))

i just wanna say i love you guys you're great!!

but there are a few things that have been getting me. i love getting asks and attention from everyone and i love interacting with you!! so i really never want to close the ask box bc i wouldn't be able to talk with everyone freely anymore. but despite not reopening my requests for fics i have over 100 asks again. some of these are just people throwing ideas at me to share. some of these are requests that i did ask for with talking to the characters. but there are still requests just always coming in.

i honestly wouldn't mind so much beyond just feeling guilty that i cant get to everything but sometimes it can kind of come across as rude? some people can treat creators like they're ai bots they're commanding to fill in a story.

during my little April fools event I received multiple asks that i had to delete that either acted rude, were plain weird, or were weirdly misogynistic. this isn't entirely new for me. I've had to delete multiple asks for similar reasons in the past but it was weird that there were so many in such a short amount of time.

the rudeness specifically stuck with me because it hit on something that's bothered me for a while. while i haven't been able to post frequently lately there's always been some subtle behavior since the very beginning treating me like just a machine you can input demands into and get whatever you want from and if it doesn't work exactly how you want just keep pushing it until you get exactly what you want. that's what i mean when I say it's like they're talking to an ai. and i know it's not just me that this kind of behavior happens to, I've talked with other people who run similar blogs I've just seen first hand other people responding to asks that had this kind of behavior.

the easiest way for you the asker to fix this? just add a little more friendliness to it. instead of being like "A getting tortured by B" you can literally just add "hey bunny! have you ever thought about (blank)" just adding a little touch like "hey" or "how are you" or even "ive been thinking about" adding a little personality to whatever you're sending with emojis or little additions like hey or even just telling the person you're talking to hi would go a long way.

part of this is something I personally need to work on myself. unfortunately i need to be more strict with my own boundaries. my requests are closed so from now on I'll be deleting things that are blatantly just requests. I'm sorry I feel really guilty doing this but it is something I need to do. I'm also not going to put effort into answering things that aren't supposed to be requests like they are requests. if you share an idea or a brain worm and i end up writing a whole thing out of it that's because i wanted to. i also need to stop trying to force myself when i dont want to it leads to me never answering anything because I want it to be better than I have the energy for.

im sorry if this leads to more lackluster answers and responses. im sorry if i end up deleting your ask. you guys do mean the world for me but this is more about setting my own boundaries and sticking to them. i cant feasibly do over 200 requests.

[dr-spectre]

Do you write fanfics? And if you do, how. I'm trying to learn how to write but blank page syndrome kinda kills me

Yes i do dabble in the occasional fanfic writing and i did write some shit for Splatoon. I wrote Marie x Shiver shit but that will never see the light of day, and i wrote a rewrite of Splatoon 2's finale which is somewhere on my blog...

And yes i did do late night writing for both of them and this is what i looked like by the time i was done.

Anyways, what i wanna say first off is that feeling stuck or lost when on a blank page and you see that blinking cursor is very very common amongst writers, trust me, it feels very daunting and intimidating.

But we have to break it down into two possible options.

Are you feeling scared because you don't know what to write?

Are you feeling overwhelmed because you know what to write but you cant bring yourself to write?

If you are number 1, the best choice of action is to step away from the blank page and do something else, trying to force your brain to write while it has no idea on what to do is a very bad idea. Take a breather, drink some water, do anything else to reset your brain. If you wanna write but have no ideas, then consume media. If you wanna write fanfiction, consume others fanfics, see how they write it, how they structure it, etc. A lot of fanfiction is basically character interactions and exploring different ideas within a universe that the author loves, so don't put big expectations on yourself. You don't need to write the next masterpiece, you just need to write, something down. Can be anything you want as long as you're enjoying the process!

If you are number 2, this is where things get tricky. What you wanna do is ask "why can't i bring myself to write?" Do NOT ask yourself that question in a mean way, really look at yourself and think why it is you cannot write? Do you feel tired? Do you feel lost? Do you feel like it has to be perfect?

Writer's block tends to be a symptom of other things like feelings of anxiety or even executive dysfunction. I'm not gonna throw any diagnoses at you because that is dumb and it's up to you and or a medical professional to figure that out but, really think to yourself on why you cannot write. Does this feeling apply to other things in your life?

If you want something practical, break down the task into smaller chunks. Break it down in a way where you feel "okay i do this amount today/this hour/this 30 minute chunk/this 15 minute chunk and I'll be happy" and stick to it. Don't go over your target, reach your target, and no matter how tiny it is, reward yourself at the end of it.

I wanna add one last thing too, but i do have a friend who writes fanfics and he basically tells me that the reason why he writes is because he becomes so obsessed with an idea that he HAS to make it. It's like a virus that gets into his head and he enters this ultra mega flow state until it is done. If you can master that flow state then you can get anything done, however it does take a while and starting something is always the hardest part. ALWAYS! But once you start something and you really love doing it and you truly believe that what you are doing is valuable to yourself then, it will become hard to stop.

Btw that person is @crump-laude they write some very neat fanfics but some are suggestive so keep that in mind....

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

WIBTA if i cut off someone reaching out for help on tumblr? i am a very anxious person. ive been on tumblr a very long time because most all other social media terrifies me as someone who grew up with the wild west internet a decade past (im in my late 20s) so i feel sometimes with how reckless and spurractic people can be online in chatroom and especially clearly public platforms where any stranger, malicious or otherwise can just archive your digital presence for personal use.

more recently as someone who has been here during the pornban and as an asexual really enjoyed the quiet with no drama farming and a slow pace to talk about more unique political topics in a measured way it is something im strangely nostalgic for and a great example of my sensibilities to people when they insist that i use other platforms like discord or twitter or whatever clone for these services comes out of the old guard introducing feature creep to copy everyone else or any other indi "were the anti corporate version" of the endless scroll apps. i just dont want it. tumblr is special because im desktop only, been here for years, and i have kept track of every single change made so i have manually adjusted the change through hacks to evade every bad decision on here and make my set up look identical to how it was in 2010. so let it be understood that i tend to be a loney person because of this stubbornness. web 3.0 is too dangerous to people with addictive tendencies that my adhd brings out and my need to wear my heart on my sleeve. so i hope i defended my personality type enough to show why someone like me would see a post about some horrible abuses they have fell victim to who also share alot of the marginalized status as me and writing depressive things in the replys of others posts as to attention seek about it.

i directly interact with this person, not only to check if they are real (but wow, modern chat bots make this part horrifying for me. we really cant ever know for sure what is real anymore. trying to find warmth on the internet feels impossible now a days) i have multiple conversations at this point both venting and just casually shooting the shit. but the begging for me to constantly repost their paypal makes me so nervous in a way that i feel so guilty for because it reminds me of all the scams that get associated with this kind of ebegging and the reminder that capitalism takes away all warmth from human interaction to make them purely transnational and conditional. but then it just has been escalating where im so scared that now its not enough that im reposing on my 8 follower, all mutual blog, they are asking me to share it on other socials. accounts i do not have i have a flip phone and a laptop and i am tinkering with a windows 7 tower that will never be connected to the internet so i can always have software sit perfectly in its time capsule for when i need it. i do not have a way to help this person outside of what i learned from collage psyche classes. a part of me is so scared to just abruptly cut them off and just delete my entire account like i tend to do often on tumblr for a multitude of reasons, its a part of what lets people survive being here this long but i worry that would crush them if i did that, i dont want to make them feel more hopeless and unwanted then they already talk about. but i am text on the internet through a screen. i can only do so much. so would i be the asshole if i just deleted my account with a "i hope you hang in there, the world is a harsh place but keep moving" to cut someone so similar to me who is struggling out of my life?

What are these acronyms?

[mishmash-webster]

WELCOME

she pinned on my intro til i post heya. feel free to read through my intro post... if you dare. have a swag day unless you bathe in bigotry, in which case i hope you bathe in different things in the near future because you smell horrible and no one likes you. also im a minor, i have no problem w/ adults following me or anything, just stating upfront in case it makes anyone uncomfortable. if you don't want minors interacting but i accidentally followed you, im vvvv sorry and likely just missed it because im stupid, feel free to block softblock etc

please note: please do not dm me asking for donations. i am sorry, but i am unable to donate to campaigns as i am a minor, currently have no source of income (will likely be years until im allowed to have one), and my whole family is also struggling pretty badly financially rn. i apologize deeply and pray you find peace and safety, and i will try my best to share campaigns when i can but beware my blog is not very popular and you’re likely better off going to someone else. again im sorry.

❂ Greetings!

✦ im Blue da ba dee da ba dai, or perhaps Bingle or Bingley if youre feeling creative. you could also just call me mishmash or webster or smth idc

✦ they/he/ey/cos/it, primarily they/he.

✦ transmasc enby, additional gender labels = genderfuck/genderpunk, androgyne, anarcho-queer. buncha jumbled shit

✦ orientation = panromantic, demiromantic, grayace.

this blog is my main and only blog, so dont expect organization, but i will trigger tag when possible/requested to.

❂ Additional info

❂ Tags legend (some tags i may still be going back and sorting through, apologies for that)

#bingletxt (posts that are mine and no one else’s)

#go fund them (donation campaigns (may not always be on the gofundme website, but just all donation campaigns in general). please look through this tag and consider donating if you have the time/resources)

#sick art, #godly art (other peoples' cool art, used interchangeably, one isnt inherently better than the other it's just based on vibes)

#vent post (my vent posts, please feel free to filter this tag, i may talk about heavy/personal subjects)

‼️Note: i may reblog posts with nsfw/suggestive content or subject matter (for example, medical diagrams of private parts for trans reasons, artistic nudity, etc), ship posts with suggestive allusions (almost always in a comedic way), or make/reblog suggestive jokes. this is because i have the eternal humor of a middle schooler who giggles during sex-ed. if you dont wanna see any of it i tag with #nudity, #artistic nudity or #suggestive. (plsplspls tell me if i forget, or if theres anything else you’d like me to tag, id be happy to ✌️)

❂ Fandoms

some of these i havent consumed in their entirety, ill mark them with purple if so

Welcome to Hell, The Owl House, Ace Attorney, Madoka Magica, The Amazing Digital Circus, Amphibia, The Amazing World of Gumball, Beastars, Cherry Crush, I'm In Love With The Villainess, Ramshackle, Heartstopper, Deltarune, Undertale, Bluey, Mob Psycho 100, Calvin and Hobbes

stuff i wanna consume but havent gotten the chance to

Sonic franchise (games + movies), Garfield (yes the cat)

❂ Stuff i don’t appreciate and will most likely block you for

i cant really forbid you from interacting with me at all costs and think the concept of dnis is kinda meh, bla bla bla, but if you support/fit the description of any of these and still choose to interact, im prob gonna block you so be forewarned:

✘ pornblog-related anything. i am a minor, dont want to date/fuck you, and you will be blocked (not in reference to blogs who occasionally post/reblog nsft content, im primarily referring to pornbots here)

✘ Conservatives/right-wing/MAGA imbeciles, centrists, homophobes, transphobes, zionists, antisemites/islamophobes (real ones, not Palestine supporters), radqueers/radfems/TERFs, predators, pedos, forced birth supporters, anti-neopronouns, anti-therian, beastiality supporters, sexists. (self explanatory)

✘ pro-sh or pro-ed blogs. (you deserve help, please do not encourage others to do it.)

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blinkie credit: blinkies.cafe

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my ao3 (dont get too excited i havent posted anything yet)

[w-d-g]

remaking pinned post

this is primarily a utdr ask blog (but not always).

Read me before sending an ask pls

(i have several side blogs. one of them is @wdg-rb. the others are secret, but not hidden too deep. you may gain “insight” from following wdg-rb, and you may gain straight up secret lore from the others.) (not @ wdg thats not me)

it is 17+ in here, im not posting anything super explicit but expect. yknow. adult-ish topics (potentially triggering topics, minor nsfw, swearing, etc.)

asks are #goop posting

comic is #dimension17 (on hold)

im not a huge dni person but i am gonna set up some base preferences of mine.

1. shipping

i dont care who you ship as long as both are unrelated consenting adults. shipping yourself, ocs, and au versions is cool as long as they align with the previously mentioned criteria.

2. general

do not interact with me if you identify with any of the following; anti-choice, terf, zooph, map, zionism, other like. basic human decency things.

ASKS (#goop posting)

(open rarely. you gotta check in sometimes. like a randomized FUN event)

ASKS WITH ART - i will draw your character if you send art of it, and it follows these guidelines.

a. put in some time and effort. i will make my best effort and spend lots of time making your character look as good and accurate as i can if you make an effort also.

b. provide some substance other than “hi, im yn.” i like to see your characters but im not running a free character art service, so only add character art if youve got a reason - such as physical interactions (handshake, hugging), showing items (gifts, etc), or other things like that.

c. this isnt required necessarily but id be more likely to do your ask (if you arent sure it fits the other requirements) if you draw gaster in there. i like to see ppls interpretations of him.

RB CHAINS/RP

if youd like to continue an ask conversation over multiple posts, you can reblog it with another response, and i will do so in return. if youre have an idea for a longer rp that you want to share, dont be afraid to message me about it.

OTHER ASK RULES

if i dont answer an ask, it may be too complicated, go against the lore i have set up (this may be the lore stated explicitly or the secret lore i have planned), its repetitive, etc. if you have questions, ask in the comments of this post.

dont give me anything too complicated to draw - when asks are open i gotta try and make the drawing time about the same for each response.

you can give him small things, be aware they disappear after a while unless he’s touching them (blanket, bed) or he is actively thinking about them (puzzles, books). eventually all disappear.

CANT ACCEPT ANIMAL COMPANIONS

ASKS LORE/STORY INFO

he cant use his abilities without significant strain, but he is effectively invincible while in the void.

time outside of ask hours is real time, and complete empty silence.

he isnt sure if he’s dead, or hallucinating everything you guys do, or what. dont expect too much consistency for this reason.

he remembers more and more each ask opening. he doesnt seem to share everything.

DIMENSION 17 (#dimension17)

on pause until i feel like doing it again lol.

[signanothername]

Ayo, how are u?

So i have to ask even if i already did it- just because sometimes i got really tempted to do it but i don't really want to bother you

So, you don't mind if i (or other people) randomly pin you in some post right? Sometimes i see a post that for some reason reminds me of your blog (i see it a lot actually, especially if it is related to Killer), but i just get embarrassed in the most of the times, at the same time i really wanted to interact with u more

I know people do this to you and others a lot (usually people you seem to have some often interaction?) i just want to make sure I'm not looking like a creepy or being annoying (bc i just like your art and way of dealing with the blog)

And i just don't notice those things for some reason, and I'm not a very smart person when come to socialize so i got pretty bad experiences what means i said awkward things without noticing lololololol

If it isn't explicit written on my face i cant understand it properly (ofc i know basic human limits, okay? I'm just a little slow)

Anyways probably embarrassing myself for this but as my brain don't work properly i have to ask

Sorry to bother

and for the bad english

:)

Hello!! I’m doing good!

And you’re not a bother at all! <333

And yes, it’s completely ok to tag me in posts! Whatever post you like, it doesn’t even have to be fandom related! I love seeing what people tag me in <3333

If you tag me and I don’t reblog or reply or at least let you know i saw it within a week at least, assume I missed it within the many notifications I get, I try to keep up with notifications, but sometimes it’s genuinely really hard to, so please feel free to send me an ask (I always check my inbox) telling me you tagged me in something , so I’d look for your tag <333

But yes, I love when people tag me in things, you’re allowed to tag me in as many posts as you’d like, the only condition I have, is that you please don’t tag me in posts surrounding controversy or discourse, otherwise, please feel free to tag me as much as you like <33333

(And your English is really good! <333)

[everyneji]

just wanted to say i love this blog didnt know there was still people a fan of neji lol. I almost never really see people mentioning him besides his death. I think the post is almost over 2 years old? im not sure but i really liked your Indepth on neji and hinatas relationship really wished we wouldve seen thier relationship develop more [fuck you kishi nejis death was unnecessary] i also often wonder if he lived what he wouldve been like in boruto what his relationship with his cousins would be like idk. Also kinda glad though while i do sometimes enjoy the boruto anime i felt like they maybe wouldve butchered his character in some way but i could totally be wrong on that. I see how people ship him and tenten together their cute but definitely not my like otp i cant really see neji being with someone feels weird besides tenten. Hope you have a good day/night whatever keep up the good work and posts on this blog! :)

We are a small but persistent community! Shout out to all the Neji fans in the world! 💖

I'm glad you liked the post ... I would have liked to see more of Neji and Hinata's relationship too. At least 🤡 gave them some interesting stuff in filler. As for Neji in Boruto ... as I said before I imagine him kind of a Hiashi figure where it just cuts to him doing cool shit every now and again. Like realistically Boruto isn't focusing much at all on the previous gen ... though the anime is more well-rounded when it comes to its cast. My dream status for him would be him getting the clan leadership, though. I think this is a natural place to take his story. I may make a post on that. I would also like to see jonin-sensei Neji, even if it seems that gen probably taught teams before Boruto began.

I do think Neji would like his cousins! He'd be like Sasuke about Boruto and just go on about how Boruto is or isn't like Naruto lmao ... and of course Himawari is adorable and superficially quite Hinata looking so you know. Two of his favourite people having kids, of course he's going to dote on them haha. He'd be such a good uncle. I think he'd also be pretty willing to sit on Naruto a bit about talking to his son more. I don't think Naruto is a bad dad (I think people exaggerate this idea of him as a neglectful father and ignore that one reason Boruto is acting out so much at the start of the series is because Naruto only recently became Hokage and so he suddenly has much less time for his children) but I do like how they point out Naruto's superpower is using his own rough childhood to connect with other people who have Suffered ... so that leaves him with no idea of how to talk to his comfortable, happy, kinda spoiled son who has never known hardship. Pair that with him lacking parents growing up and you can see why, as his son reaches an age of independence and self-expression, it's harder for Naruto to communicate with him.

Neji of course did have a dad he was close to and he's good at seeing how people are feeling so I think he'd be a good middleman there. I can see Neji as someone Boruto turns to when he's grumpy at his dad because you can tell he feels bad when he upsets Hinata with his complaining about it. His cool uncle can have a chat with him over some training, it's a cute idea.

Quick shout-out to the Boruto time travel arc that gave us Boruto and Neji interactions because this whole exchange was really sweet and good. Neji being like Hinata and just immediately liking/trusting Boruto to the point it embarrasses him just because Boruto reminds him of Naruto is great.

As for the last part of your ask -- Tenten is one of his most popular ships, probably most popular in the west. I can't pretend it's ever appealed to me but hey, to each their own. You know, something I actually like about Naruto is that, due to the structure of 'girls want Sasuke/only Hinata wants Naruto' every team but Team 7 ended up naturally having a mixed boy/girl situation where there's no romantic tension. They're all just friends and that's cute! I especially like that Tenten is a #feminist and ever since I was young I wanted to see her with a girl. She clearly loves and supports both her teammates but she isn't boy-centric which is a huge relief in this series. I'm not opposed to people shipping what they want, of course, but platonic Team Gai is my favourite flavour. Followed shortly by the Lee and Tenten divorce era 🤡 proposed in their behind the scenes relationship chart for Boruto. That shit cracks me up.

Thank you so much for this ask, sorry for the delayed response! I hope it's a good day/night wherever you are too! 💖💖💖

[the-s1lly-corner]

Hello my love!!!! (platonic) I hope you’re doing so good and taking care of yourself! I started a side blog of my own to write since I never have before, I figure it doesn’t hurt! I saw you were opening up requests again and thought I’d hop in too!!

Could I pretty please request LJ written romantically with the fair fall prompt, soulmate AU, and teasing gone right(? the sfw/ambiguous one-) I figure one day I’ll come off of anon and ask for the nsfw blog 😂

I’m so happy you’ve figured out a system that works for you!! Keep it up, take breaks, make sure to eat and drink water! Ily!!! Mwah! (platonic)

- 🩶 anon

Fair, Soulmate, Teasing w/ Laughing Jack

uuuuuuusually i dont mix the seasonal prompts with the numbered prompts but im biased for you since your requests are always a treat to see in the inbox wooooo yyeeeeaaaaah!!!! notes: gn reader, short and sweet, red string of fate au for the soulmate prompt because i had a neat idea for it, jacks the teaser cws: ambiguous but it is implied jack does something unintentionally freaky

FAIR

you might think that since he cant really be seen out in public... because how many people can reasonably say a seven foot tall black and white clown dude who seemingly has an infinite stock of candy stashed in some hammerspace a reasonable and realistic thing to find walking down the streets. not to mention he likes adjusting his proportions as a joke. you cant really explain that... so its... funny... that hes basically begging you to take him down to whatever fair he heard in passing

you can take him in his box please he promises he'll be good! he wont make a scene he swears! ....whatever game you play hes going to butt into the second he thinks no ones looking. throwing something? hes yoinking whatever youve got and SLAMMING it... at least you can get some prizes..!

you have to avoid eye contact with everyone else as you drop food into the box. this man has never tried a corndog and now he really wants to find out what the hype is. hes absolutely in love with funnel cakes now

SOULMATE

think about it... hes been around for a long time, so if say... he got stuck in a timeline where the red string is a thing... he doenst get to interact with people much so the odds of him knowing what the string is is low... not to mention id assume its simply not there for him until you pop into existence, assuming youre a mortal human

can you imagine waking up one day after being stuck in a box for who knows how long and finding "someones" tied some string to your finger somehow? yeah no hes going to be following that, its not like he has anything better to do... or even funnier, imagine you take in his box not knowing what it is and he pops out- and just. oh! so thats whos on the other end!

definitely tries to yank on it to see if he can drag you behind him. vaguely disappointed that it doesnt work like that...

he doesnt fully understand the soulmate thing, and honestly prior to the string appearing he probably thought it was all fake. but now hes like.. really dramatic about it

TEASING GONE FREAKY

listen... jack doesnt have much of a filter- for better or worse- and sometimes he says things he doesnt fully understand the weight of. sometimes this can lead to hurt feelings. sometimes it can lead to things like this

its actually a little funny seeing him visibly buffer and falter for a second when you turn it back around on him- whats all this about him having a candy cane in his- OH! OHOHOHO! he tends to lean on the more innocent side of humor... if you ignore the darker gorier things... but the moment you swing back you open the flood gates

it doesnt even process to him that it could possibly lead to something more heated, hes just there to have a laugh. poor guy. he doesnt know what effect hes having on you

[imfromthedeepblueunderworld]

Intro!!!

I'm Frye, I'm a lesbian woman and I go by she/they pronouns!!! I am a proshipper and a darkshipper, I have been since I was 8 and first introduced to shipping culture, if I see a 'nice' anti in my inbox or comments trying to 'nicely' get me to convert beliefs, I will block you. I block freely as well. Also, if I ever post my art here, do not reblog with an image ID. I get infected and ill very often and may be inactive for long periods of time because of it. I don't care if antis interact with me, I won't respond to harassment and I'll either block or laugh and move on. Reblog with as much hate as you want, you won't get anything, sorry!!!

INTERESTS:

Scott the Woz, iCarly, Danganronpa, FNaF, D4DJ I LOVE D4DJ TALK TO ME ABOUT D4DJ, Monster High G3, Repo! The Genetic Opera, Papa Louie, H2o: Just Add Water, slasher films (Halloween, Tcm, and saw my beloved) dbd, and Tadc!!

DNF:

Pro-contact harmful paras, antis, true crime fetishists (if you like watch documenaries its fine but if you make fancamsof the fucking columbine shooters shoo go awayyy), anti endo/pro fakeclaiming, Byakuya Togami simps/selfshippers cuz Makoto will start crying (no hate ofc it's js Maloto os our headmate and will get rlly sad lmao)

RADQUEERS AND TRANSIDS STOP FOLLOWING ME FFS CHILDREN CANT CONSENT AND YOU CANT CHANGE YOUR RACE

^ this is me irl btw :3

Stamps not made by me btw💗

I made these tho ^^

ROMANTIC F/O'S:

Venus McFlytrap (Monster High G3) Rika Seto (D4DJ) Pomni (Tadc) William Afton (Fnaf Movie)(belongs to Mike) Byakuya Togami (Danganronpa)(belongs to Makoto)

PLATONIC F/O'S:

Deuce Gorgon (Monster High G1) (we have been besties for years) Gooliope (Monster High G1)

I'm ok with sharers except for Pomni, thats my wife, not urz <3

Also I have a strawpage, go wild https://fryestansstupidsite.straw.page/

And I have a discord server https://discord.gg/Wdxsm7an

So far, only 1 of my headmates (Makoto) has a separate blog here

I bit the bullet and got a rednote account, take it.

I have BPD, and just found out i have DID, so cut me some slack here lol, I'm trying my best

Okay here's a list of all our headmates cuz uh idk man, literally all of them are fictives whoops

Cleo🌺🍹(host

Mike💤 (frontbanned)

Makoto🩷🍀(little)

Hajime🍊🧃(protector)

Dawktrap👾🔮 (evil as shit)

Peter🕷🕸 (totally not Spider-Man)

Chet🟢🟩(also frontbanned for worse reasons)

Frank🩸🔪(gay gay homo gay)

Migraine💧💠 (most obscure ass character for a fictive vro)

Jecka🎀👚(frontbanned, we have way too many frontbanned alters)

Adam⛓️🦴 (queer)

Stretch🎙📼 (texan)

Bubba🦴🍖 (nonverbal mostly)

Melodine🎶🎵 (also protector)

Marina🌊⛵️ (dumb)

Jesus christ anyways this will probably be updated a good bit

[todayisdeadinside]

do you ever get second thoughts about the fandom’s role in all this? I was chatting with a friend recently about coming out and they told me a story that’s shaken my faith a little.

when they were in high school, some classmates assumed they were a lesbian because they never had a boyfriend and didn’t where makeup. They didn’t tell my friend they thought this or ask, just made the assumption and talked about them as if they were. This went on for at least 2 years and my friend had no idea. At the time, my friend hadn’t really realized they were queer yet so they just assumed they were straight. When they finally found out at least half their grade assumed they were a lesbian, they corrected the others, but then that group turned on them for “lying” to them about their sexuality. Again, the conversation had never come up before at all, but my friend got blamed for someone else’s rumor. A lot of bad stuff went down, and it more or less pushed my friend’s journey of self discovery back several years because it became a painful topic to even think about. My friend is queer but not a lesbian, so the classmates were still wrong but even if they were right they were still spreading rumors based on nothing.

the whole reason this convo came up with me is because i was trying to tell this friend about larrie, and they said they refused to speculate about other people’s sexuality on principle because of what happened to them.

”if they want me to know, they can tell me, otherwise it’s not my business.”

I’ve been thinking about this story a lot and it makes me worry if there was some missed or misunderstood signal we’ve been taken as gospel for years that’s actually been wrong. At the end of the day, we don’t really know either of them, and sometimes i worry that we’re actually contributing to the problem rather than helping to fix it.

do you ever feel this way? Sorry for the ramble, i just found your blog today and you seem like someone who would have something insightful to say about this mixed feelings.

hi! so, i think the key difference between your friend's experience and HL is the circumstances. on surface level, the two situations look similar, but there's some pretty big differences i'd like to point out.

your friend was assumed to be a lesbian because of how they presented. while some of HL's coding is through their clothes, not all of it is. but even just focusing on the clothing and presentation bit- HL have been signalling about each other (bluegreening, the louis watch, things of that sort that reference the other person) for over a decade now. that's a long time to "coincidentally" signal being in a relationship with somebody. particularly when they bluegreen- they're both definitely aware of the fandom's reaction to those colours together by now. it's very intentional that they continue to signal in that way.

HL are under contractually forced closets that prevent them from simply being asked about their sexualities or relationship. your friend, i assume, was not in that sort of situation, and could have simply been asked if they were a lesbian. the people who chose not to ask her, when that was a viable option, were in the wrong for that. but we cant just go and ask HL if they're together, they wouldn't be able to tell us honestly at this point. they DID tell us, a few times, in the early days, though. i cite this all the time, but the st. paddys day fan signing in 2012 where a fan asked harry if he was dating louis and harry said "yep" was huge in convincing me.

HL want us to pick up on their subtle signals because that's the only way they can get their truth out. i'm not a masterpost person but i know there are plenty out there of HL interacting with or subtly supporting larries, especially FIMQ, and giving us hints that are too plentiful or too specific to be coincidences.

regarding your last paragraph, i don't think this is an issue of the fandom taking 1 coincidence and running with it. this is hundreds and hundreds of little things and some very loud things, over the span of around 15 years. there's simply too much for it to all be coincidence, or all be misinterpretted. have larries gotten things wrong before? of course. but there's also so much we've gotten right, and so many compounding pieces of evidence that i definitely don't have on-hand but i have observed in the months since joining this fandom.

i definitely have doubts sometimes, especially with how much regular fans try to paint larries as crazy conspiracy theorists. but what helps me is going through those old masterposts, of the coding, the signals, the signs, the evidence of them being openly together before management cracked down, stuff like that. i almost always end up finding new info, too, which just adds to the already huge web of bits and bobs that they've let slip to us so we can piece together their truth.

(and of course, there are definitely fans who take things too far and get personally offended by HL's actions or words, even if those actions and words *cough* denials for example *cough* are contractually obligated. this fandom unfortunately does have bad apples who sour it for everyone else, but i dont think they're the majority)

at the end of the day, though, i know this sort of fandom isnt for everyone. im not gonna go all "GUARDS, SPECULATE ABOUT THAT MAN'S SEXUALITY NOW!" on you or anything. i can present my reasonings, and you can come to the conclusion you think is best. i just hope this is insightful or helps you better understand where a lot of larries are coming from :)

[kittycatred]

You think we didn’t get on his case about the lava “prank”?

Enough’s enough, Red. You’ve crossed a line.

Stop.

(Seriously, person behind the screen, this has gone from funny to hitting way too close to home. Please stop. I’ve seen good people get hurt from shit like this.)

ooc, hi i am so immensely sorry for any past experiences you may have been through, i apologize that it may have hit close to home for you, and if i would have known that you were being genuine with your asks to red, i would have clarified and made this post alot sooner

first of all, i absolutely dont think your being sensitive, or a killjoy, everyone has certain things that can bring up or stir bad feelings, and thats nothing to apologize for, you cant control that, your allowed to feel whatever emotions come up, no matter the circumstance

however, im absolutely not trying to invalidate your feelings, because you have all right to them, but i cannot control or prevent everyone from having reminders of bad experiences, as much as id love to be able to do that, i cannot be responsible for what others feel, only how i react to that

i appreciate your concern, but me and green's blog owner have interacted a lot before together, in and out of character, we've bantered like this before in character, and i trust that if they genuinely were uncomfortable, theyd let me know, then id take it down 100% with no issues, if they decide even a week or month from now, that it makes them uncomfortable, then ill still take it down

and that goes for any blog interactions, in the past and future, if a one on one interaction makes someone uncomfortable, then ill take it down with no questions asked

however, green's blog is okay with the post, they found it funny and unserious, which is how i intended it, and because i used their blog's posts, the only reason id take it down is because i involved them and their blog directly

if theres any specific cw or tw i ever need to have to add for a post for someone, i have no issue doing so, however, as much as id love to save everyone from feeling upset, i cant put myself through the responsibility of maintaining everyone's emotions, as to why id only take down something by the request of someone who i involved with

i also think its very important to remember with these blogs, that we are all just playing characters and storylines, i wouldnt actually react in some of the ways red reacts, in real life, i do project and exaggerate aspects of my own personality onto red's, but red is merely a character, and not the actual person behind the screen, nor how they would act or react or say

once again, im sincerely sorry if my post upset you, i hope your able to calm down and feel better, and im sorry that it reminded you of those experiences, but i hope your equally able to understand my point of view as well

[dilfhos]

sooo this is gonna be a messy rant on the observations ive made between different writer communities, blog interactions and overall “status”. just silly little things I’ve noticed in my 4+ years being on tumblr btwn 2 diff blogs. and this is about no one specific, a very generalized post so if you find urself offended i honestly dont know what to tell you?? :o do better ig. & if you relate, i feel for you. TLDR @/end.

i dont like interacting/ building connections with people but not for the reasons ppl think. im not stuck up or pretentious or weird or anything. just another anime-enjoyer who loves to write in her free time. nobody special by a longshot!! i enjoy writing, always have since before i was a teen. (wasn’t always ff tho!).

but over the years ive just noticed fandom writing has its gritty sides that no one talks about often and its no mystery why so many prolific/ popular writers deactivated, me included. i had some shitty experiences and have seen friends go bc of it.

firstly, I’ve noticed, once you start interacting and building friendships with people, it’s easier to see the bigger perspective of where ppl stand and the blatant hierarchy of friendships and groups. same applies to that outside. like its literally just me n’ my bsf then my acquaintances bc mfs be weirddd omg its like cults or something. like thats why initially I didn’t interact w/anyone starting on my new blog. that n’ fear of drama following from my last blog ugh. ‘Cept the few i’ve met on my old blog (like my wifey)

not to mention i have bad anxiety. and sometimes im cue-deaf. i dont always pick up what people put down and vice versa and it makes me conscious in a lot of my interactions. so a part of me doesn’t want to interact at all to avoid all awkwardness and possible miscommunications. that’s not to say i don’t notice subtle changes in interactions after one situation / conversation or so forth, that in myself or witnessed between other ppl. (im perceptive, just not that good conversationalist lol. like i really have to try.)

but then…if you don’t interact with people on here, your chances of building an audience or a reader base is slim to none. the likelihood of developing relationships is zip. because you’re already perceived and pegged as just another tumblr writer. pause. to clarify, a writer who doesn’t want any recognition or interactions from mutuals or new friends. or just a lonely writer? a introverted, lonely writer. which leads to little to none interactions (anons, reblogs, moots —exposure.)

so then its like you’re kinda placed btwn a rock n a hard place. and there’s absolutely no problem with that! in fact this is the best part—meeting friends and like-minded people! people that make being online all the more worth it right? thirsting over fictional characters and sharing in each other’s works!

but you have to be in specific circles it seems. but then you can’t imply that you want to be in those circles bc then you’re desperate.

but well, then you cant purposefully want to be independent or be on your own or else you’re a hater, hypocrite or stuck up. not to mention, no one will reblog your stuff lol. no one will interact fr, and you’re friendless essentially. and god forbid if you disagree on something as if opinions don’t exist btw! then you’re being ganged up on. (like omg grow up!)

but then if you reach out you’re seen as trying to wedge in or kiss ass? you interact and follow and you’re ignored or left hanging? (bc im gonna touch your hand when i say this—it never gave fan, your majesty of horny nerds) and this is about ALL the writing communities and fandoms—spicy content, black content and dark content. ALL.

yet no one wants to talk about the pregnant elephant in the room—bias. and favoritism. also people seem to have a hard time being direct with how they’re feeling toward/about someone ( in a good or bad way) which in turn leads to a lot of miscommunication and subliminal attacks. (not to mention hate anons? one of my moots just had her inbox flooded w/them recently, ew.)

you can lead a horse to water AND you can write a 500-word essay on the observations made on tumblr writers as a whole. (a long ass post on the truth on behalf of those feeling this too)

also, slapping a HEY LOOK AT ME! IM A WRITER WHO WANTS INTERACTION AND FRIENDS! on a blog is frankly embarrassing. it shouldn’t even take all that seeing how easy it is for others wanting the same thing.

or doing less to achieve the same result.

not to mention, yall shit on ppl who essentially feel this way altogether bc you peg them as sb who doesn’t “try” or just jealous when their own works are phenomenally written themselves. ive seen it. and ive lived it. never gave jealousy baby.

at the end of the day, we’re all writers— either longterm or hobbyists. (personally, im longterm) self-indulgent or not! and its absolutely amazing when people are being fair in how they spread love and feedback to their writers.

Secondly, its not news that people have to want to reblog your fics so that their followers can reblog, so they can reblog, and their followers can reblog and so forth. but ppl honestly dont care atp bc once they’ve already read it, they owe you nothing. and apparently asking for reblogs is crass and bold. (imma do it anyway) but putting your very all into a story just to turn and see a half-thought out hc soaring 3k in 2hrs and 5k in a day — you have to stfu, open your ass and take it. keep it cute!

you’re getting fucked after all!!

because if you complain—you’re just jealous and lazy and uncreative!! and i hate that to seem like a writer worth a damn, you have to change up your writing style every two weeks to fit in with trending waves.

“no more poetic long fics, nobody’s into that! short, snappy slutty shots are all the rage!” “ppl are only into these specific tropes but you can’t exceed 2k words!” “only add trending characters to these hcs! ppl love them only!” “don’t write too much about a specific character or else ill unfollow you!” its exhausting.

i am well within my right as a literary artist to desire more feedback and interaction on anything i put out. period. and you are too! 🫵

God, im tired of that stupid, ‘you have to enjoy your writing for yourself and not worry about notes’ line. i do love my writing! don’t get me wrong there’s nobody id rather write like if not myself fr. not to mention the inspiration i draw from famous literary authors. however, i would love feedback and the same energy that i see with others in my same caliber.

and when i see others that didn’t even try fr—its a slap in the face to put it bluntly.

i can want silly little comments and notes about something i cherish and put out for that reason and yall aren’t gonna make me feel bad about it. sorry! like yall really be making people feel shitty for wanting the same type of interactions you get! especially when its harmless, bye asf. nb want to recipe to ur peach cobbler b!

the only one giving push back are those appointed popular /top blogs n’ cliques tho. now personally, i honestly dgaf if you have 20 followers or 25k, writing is writing and if its good you should want to support it regardless of following count/interaction right?

unfortunately, and quite unsurprisingly its not the case for the rest of this hellhole lol. there’s always gonna be some “big blog” in any part of tumblr or any social media for that matter.

but when the sole purpose being on a site like tumblr to write is mainly exposure, then it just makes it ten times worse especially if it seems that these blogs are steady at the top of every. single. tag. and listen, i know how initially stupid that sounds but when you’ve picked up on patterns for as long as i have, well iykyk.

so imma be real bc no one else will, half of the posts that yall see with 25k notes have alr been done. just different characters, different words, different dialogue. And 8/10 its been done by sb who only received 100 notes. Thats the evil part. whats more is that it lacks the creativity the one post with 100-300 notes is filled with completely.

POP QUIZ! what post would readers be more inclined to read? — one that says 10k (ohhh that must be popular!) or the one with only 150 (oh i guess nb really liked that one) that no one is even willing to reblog for MORE. and BOOM. now yall wonder why so many great writers LEAVE, its a fucking joke.

so unfortunately its no longer only about or only on readers anymore. its about who you know and who you know is willing to support your fr. who is willing to REBLOG your fics for their friends and followers, so that their friends and followers can reblog. to fit in you actually have to get in these days and it makes it all less enjoyable. makes it a chore and if you aren’t ‘doing it right’ ultimately it makes you feel shitty about your writing. (Please don’t, you are doing amazing. its the platform.)

it makes people not want to jump into writing. it pushes away those who actually want to join writing communities and meet people without feeling like they have to jump thru hoops to thrive or worse—live in other ppls shadows. and then it deters those from speaking up in fear of being shut down by bigger groups. ive seen it happen time and time again.

lastly, and this is the juiciest part! you absolutely cannot say anything about any of this bc you’re complaining and a fisher just looking for attention and not someone who just want things to be fair all over. play the game, right? ( wrong. and if this is your logic, you suck! )

its no longer about making flashy banners and pretty themes. its no longer about how many clever directory links you add or how many games you initiate on your blog or whether or not you’ve reblogged your fic three times already. its about your “friends”, other mutuals, and blogs willing to support you too. not just the audience. audience gonna do what they want regardless. reblog, don’t reblog, whatever. “at least ive read it right?” but everyone knows this. duh! but it’s obvious who doesn’t care as long as they’re on top of that tag! its admirable in a way but it sucks for those wanting to break out and build some kind of readerbase and/or make friends.

TLDR; people need to stop being bias and be fair and open lol. stop picking favorites and share the love all around. you see another person writing your favorite character or trope, give them a fucking chance and reblog, regardless if they’re in your ‘circle’ / radar or not. regardless if you know them or not. hell, let them put you on to a new fandom. bc writing is writing and making new moots and finding new fics seem to be what everyone loves to showcase until its time to actually do it. no wonder people get discouraged to make friends and write, yall treat it like some kind of secret society when its supposed to be fun💀 not a competition. (yall need to dead this clique-y shit. )