#howtobreakup

[inhearthell]

I Want Out! How To Breakup An Unsatisfying Relationship

I want out! But I don't know how to breakup with them? As life would have it, you’re bound to become involved in relationships that eventually lose their sparkle for you. You’re not alone to find a rewarding relationship; most of us have endured a less-than-satisfying relationship. But how can you successfully leave a relationship you’ve found to be unsatisfying? Try these strategies: Be sure about your decision to breakup the relationship. Read the full article

[metropolitangirls]

A breakup guide for girls. See here for tips and guidelines for breaking up with someone -- without causing too much pain for anybody.

[goflunk]

Every relationship you ever have is going to fail. Until one doesn’t.

Which means lovers, you’ve got a lot of tough decisions ahead of you. It might only take a few dates or maybe several years before you realize a relationship is not meant to be.

So once you know you want to end things how do you do it? How do you dump actually someone?

“Don’t do it over text,” says Uisce. “It’s happened to me. It’s not the nicest thing. Do it in person.” It won’t be easy but it’s really the way to go. Especially if there is a chance the person you’re dumping is someone you might bump into in real life.

As Beau puts it - “Definitely not over social media or any form other than face to face. If you’re gonna do something you gotta say it to someone’s face.” Sitting down to have the convo, is gonna be awkward for sure. BUT it’ll be 100 times more awkward to bump into them 2 weeks after you updated your relationship status and ghosted outta there. Think about it.

When you do sit down, face-to-face with your ex-to-be what should you tell them? Is honesty the best policy?

Jess reckons you should be honest - “that might be controversial because the truth may hurt but people deserve to know the real reason. I know I would [want] to know the real reason if someone was breaking up with me.” This is one you should weight up – will the reason you’re ending things crush the other person, or is it something they really should know? As Jess says you have to weight “[being] honest and being empathetic at the same time.”

Whatever you decide, ultimately when ending a relationship you have to put yourself first. “Just make sure it’s the best thing for you. Think about yourself, “ says Akasha. Dumping someone is tough, so it’s important to prioritise some self care too. Feel your feelings. Drown your sads in ice-cream, Gilmore Girls marathons, bubble baths - whatever it is you need to look after yourself and feel better.

[nevoisland]

When and How to Break Up with Someone You Love

It’s hard to know when to break up with someone.But here are some principles that can help you figure out what is right for you. So let’s do this.I’m now going to guide you through to steps follow for When and How to Break Up with Someone You Love. Watch the complete video and don't forget to subscribe our channel for amazing videos. #nevosisland #WhenandHowtoBreakUpwithSomeoneYouLove source #Break #breakup #breakingup #howtobreakup #howtobreakupwithsomeone #howtobreakupwithyourboyfriend #howtobreakupwithyourlover #howtobreakingup #howtogetoverabreakup #howtoleftyourboyfriend #howtoseparetedfromyourboyfriend #LOVE #nevosisland #WhenandHowtoBreakUpwithSomeoneYouLove #whenbreakup #wheretobreakup Read the full article

[empoweringmeditations]

Never be afraid of ending a relationship. When a relationship no longer works, by holding on, we dig in, making the scars deeper. By separating, we give space for the wounds to heal. https://my.empoweringmeditations.com/introduction-to-meditation #abuseawareness #abusiverelationship #breakup #breakupquotes #breakups #brokenlove #brokenrelationships #connected #contemplate #driftingapart #empoweringmeditations #healthyrelationships #heartfelt #howtobreakup #hurtquotes #innerpeace #innertruth #innerwork #letgo #lettinggo #lostlove #lovequote #redflags #relationship #relationshiprules #selfawareness #selfdiscovery #selfdoubt #selfwork #selfworth #surrender #traumabonding #understanding #worthiness

[sebastyne]

#polyamory #breakup #dating #relationships #relationshipadvice #lifecoaching https://sebastyne.com/howtobreakup

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[pikagirl07]

[dannydateofbirthdenial]

Just say we're donion rings and be done with it

Danny Avidan @RTX playing On the Spot

[cubappeal]

“It’s Not You, It’s Me...” (Letting Someone Down 101)

Recently I had the awkward displeasure of a friend of an ex asking me out on a date.

I don't mind being asked but the way I left things with my ex, it would definitely be awkward.

Essentially, all you need to say is four words, in specific order:

"Thank you."

"No."

"Sorry..."

You want to acknowledge the courage it took for them to ask you out. Even if I don't want to date someone, I immediately respect them if they have the confidence to ask, directly. And not in a meandering, uncertain way.

And even if it's not someone you are attracted to the intent is sweet and it needs to be appreciated.

"No." It's very important that you are clear in your answer and you pause after to let it be absorbed.

You want to say it firm but kindly. You don't want to leave room to be misinterpreted.

The apology is for you. So you don't feel bad. Regardless of what you do it's going to suck for the person who asked.

But and here's the hard part. As bad as you feel for the other person, try your best to RESIST SAYING ANYTHING ELSE.

Or touching the person.

Let it sink in.

A mature person will take that and move on.

Someone may ask you why.

"I don't feel the same way. Sorry."

The reason really is immaterial. And giving them the reason will fuck with their heads.

I know you don't want to cause pain but saying any more than these will make it worse.

Saying you are the problem makes you more desirable, messed up as it is. And it will not help them move on.

Yes, you may want to be friends but that's not going to happen if they don't resolve their feelings over you. And for that to happen, the feeling has to die and go through the stages of grief before you can be friends again.

If after you say that they still want to ask why you say:

"Let's not do this. Ok? (pause wait for acknowledgement)."

Then leave, find a reason to. They need to be alone with what you said. Get mad. And they'll get over it.

Then you can be friends again.

Give it time.