#how to make dua for love marriage

[islamicspecialistforloveback]

Dua To Fix Marriage Problems Immediately

Marriage is a long time commitment. But when two unknown people stay together. Some problems can arise. And it needs trust, the capacity of understanding to make the marriage work. But if everything your marriage still has problems, the best thing is to ask for Allah’s help. There is a dua to fix marriage problems. And by performing it, your marriage problems will vanish. Dua To Fix Marriage…

[quraniduain]

Dua For Love Marriage

Dua to get married to someone you love is so effective if you want to marry someone of your choice. Moreover, reading this dua can help you make him/her love you madly and marry you. Hence, we are going to introduce some of these powerful duas with you here, i

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Levitating|| Shunsui Kyoraku

Pairing: Shunsui x GN Reader

WC: 1,555

A/N: This started as a writing exercise so that I could get back into the flow of writing again but I like it so I'm posting it. Sorry I've been MIA for like 2 years, I'll be posting on again/off again for a while. Also I changed some of the lyrics of the song, Dua Lipa stans pls don't come for me.

Warnings: None, some swearing?, there's talk of marriage because I feel like the Soul Society doesn't really have "dating"

Shunsui + Levitating

I believe that you're for me, I feel it in our energy // I see us written in the stars

Shunsui knew that he was an old man. It was a notion he never attempted to disavow himself of, finding it to be a pointless endeavour; Besides, he was proud of his age.

With age, comes wisdom, one that he has refined enough to know not to deny the fluttering of his heart whenever he so much as heard your name. For him, it was nothing to be  embarrassed about, no matters of the heart were. He would readily admit that it was a bit disorienting. One moment he’d be talking with Nanao and suddenly his breath would be stolen at the slightest hint of your perfume. 

You possessed a gift so unique, a hold over him like no other. Being in your presence somehow managed to send him back to his days in the academy, leaving him feeling like nothing more than a lovesick student. You’d set his heart alight and made it seem as though the world was slipping away every time you smiled. Your visage immediately righted any wrongs. He was sure that your laughter could cure any affliction he may be ailed with. To put it simply, Shunsui had found himself utterly enraptured by you and yet, he didn’t mind. The butterflies you’d managed to elicit from him only added to the weightless feeling he’d become stuck with since meeting you.

We can go wherever, so let's do it now or never, baby // Nothing's ever, ever too far

You hadn’t treated Shunsui any different from normal, but it didn’t take a genius to put two and two together. The usually laid-back yet sharp captain suddenly became ditzy and distracted whenever you so much as glanced at him. He was quite obvious, and though he hadn’t quite acted upon his feelings, he’d made it clear where he stood. His schedule as head captain didn’t allow him free time at the best of moments and yet Nanao somehow found herself overencumbered trying to fit ‘Lunch with Y/N <3’ into Shunsui’s schedule.

“I don’t see why you don’t make things official with her. Everyone already knows that you two are sickeningly in love with each other”, Nanao would frequently complain.

Shunsui would always fix her with a look that would make her regret saying anything and reply, “Matters of the heart can’t be rushed.”

If you asked Nanao, it was all arbitrary bullshit. If she voiced that particular complaint however, Shunsui would “remind” her that she’d “understand when you have someone to love”.

Glitter in the sky, glitter in our eyes//Shining just the way we are

“Oh Shunsui, this is lovely.”

As you cooed over the late-night picnic that he set up, he took a moment to examine your features. The curve of your mouth, the slope of your nose, the reverent way your hair framed your face. Everything about you looked lovely as usual, bathed in moonlight however…

He’d give you anything you wanted.

When you looked at him with those eyes, endlessly rich and glittering with the light of the night sky, he couldn’t help but yearn to kiss you. Even just a gentle press against your lips, oh how he’d kiss you so lovingly. He’d hold you so gently and ask if he could have just one more, one more, one more.

Your gaze flickered down to his lips.

He ran his tongue over them and he swore your eyes grew darker.

You placed a tentative hand into his hair, nervous but sure fingers weaving their way into his tresses. He swears then and there that he has never loved his hair more (if only so that there’s more of him for you to touch).

He cups your face with his hand. You lean into his palm and smile. He feels that weightless feeling come back as he leans forward to feel that smile against his skin when--

“Oh Shunsui look! Did you know there were going to be fireworks tonight?”

He did, it’s one of the reasons he planned a date on the rooftop of his home. He wanted you to see the fireworks and he wanted to see the way your skin would look bathed in the multi-colored light. He doesn’t regret the way your face lights up, this time in awe, but he does wish the timing could’ve been a little better.

He supposes the feeling of your body pressed against his is an apt substitute.

I feel like we're forever, every time we get together//But whatever, let's get lost on Mars

It is not long after the night with the fireworks that Shunsui decides that maybe Nanao was right. He found that the temptation of you was far too much for him to bear. He’d been distracted since that night with thoughts of you, driven himself half mad wondering what could’ve been if he’d leaned in a fraction sooner.

It isn’t until he visits your office for a quick cup of tea (something that both you and Nanao have scolded him for) that he has this realization however. You tell him that you don’t have much time to chat, Seireitei Communications is running some special issue from what he can recall, but you’re happy to spend this time with him. 

As you get up, telling him he’s free to stay as long as he’d like, “Although, you really should get back to work Shunsui, you’ll stress poor Nanao out”, and leave, he feels a sinking feeling for the first time in relation to you. It all just clicks for him that he wants the feelings he has with you to last forever. He wants a lifetime of levitating, of your joy, of your glittering eyes locked onto him, he wants you for as long as you’ll have him.

He realizes that the fluttering feeling comes back at the mere thought of calling you his spouse.

As he floats back to his office (he isn’t quite sure that his feet ever touch the ground), confusing every person he passes along the way, he places an order for a ring and decides to have a talk with you after things settle down.

Later, when you drop by his office with snacks as a small pick-me-up, you ask him what’s got him so giddy. He merely replies with a look that turns heated the longer he looks at you. It softens at the adorably flustered way you mess with your hair and look away from him. You try your damnedest to avoid making eye contact with him, squirming in such a way that, if he were less of a gentleman he’d pull you close and feel how affected one look made you.

As it stands, he decides he can wait a little longer.

‘You want me, I want you, baby’

After mulling it over, he decides he wants the proposal to be a private affair. The entirety of the Sereitei may know of your feelings for each other but that didn’t mean they needed to see this. He wanted to keep the way that your face-- nightsky eyes glimmering-- would light up to himself. He never considered himself to be a selfish man but he supposed when it came to you, everything became unexpected.

He still remembers the way his stomach, twisted in knots, became miraculously clear when you smiled. He asked if marriage was what you wanted, if it was ok to marry you. All the more reason to keep the proposal private, it’s much harder to reject a public suit from the captain of the 13 Court Guard Squads (you’d still reject him if you wanted regardless, another reason he was nervous).

You looked at him, trying to piece together what he was asking before deciding on your answer. “I’d love to marry you if that’s what you’re asking me Shunsui.” Somehow, your smile grew even larger, he wasn’t sure what his face looked like but he’s sure his grin matched yours.

Just thinking back to that day makes this moment all the more important. In the weeks following that conversation, you’d joked that you’d be eagerly awaiting his next move. He’d welcomed the challenge, stupidly. Now he was standing here fretting over if the grass was green enough, what if you suddenly became allergic to his shampoo-- He hoped that you wouldn’t notice the clamminess of his hands.

Another power that you found yourself ordained with, making the great Head Captain nervous. He could sense your spiritual pressure before you, which made him snap out of ‘panic mode’ into ‘focused commander mode’.

When he saw you, dressed up beautifully, jewels in your braided hair. He relaxed incrementally, this wasn’t a battle to be won, you were the one he loved. He was proposing, all he had to do was speak from the heart (easy) and hope you’d accept (he was sure you would but he was nonsensical at the best of times).

He saw recognition in your eyes, like a loose thread that has finally been tucked back into place. Your eyes tear up as he moves to ask you the question that has plagued his mind for months.

You nearly burst into tears, nodding happily and sealing your engagement with a kiss.

I'm levitating

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Can you do sukuna x Muslim reader? Where he is going through a hard time and she prayers for him(Arrange marriage but sweet kinda of relationship) it's okay if you don't want to write it. Love your writing:)

Yes! Omg I'd love to! Hope you like it!

It was an arranged marriage between you and you father's friends eldest son; Sukuna. You were having dinner one day with your parents and your dad had asked you if you'd be interested in an marriage with a nice man. You blinked at that question and shrugged, "I mean as long as you know he's a nice man I guess it's not bad in meeting him," you replied with a small smile.

After a week both your families decided to go out for dinner at a fancy restaurant and you saw him for the first time; he was not a talkative type, he was a gentleman and very well-known for his devotion to his work and family. You both talked then and there; he was charming not once he said something to make you mad or upset. He was very soft spoken to you. Your father had informed you after that dinner that Sukuna agreed to the wedding and he also said that if you reject him he'll understand and it's not pressure on your side to agree but you already decided that wanted to marry him; he was nice, gentleman and respectful and every other person that knew him said kind things about him.

Once you both agreed to get married Sukuna had texted you asking about what are your requirements for the wedding venue, cake, dress and everything else to which he also added that you shouldn't look at the price of anything; whatever your heart desires he'll agree to it. He wanted you to be happy, as of that didn’t already captured your heart, you both picked everything for the wedding together; nothing extravagant but very classy wedding with few of your friends and families.

Sukuna had bought you a home and it was not less than a castle; after the wedding he still spoiled you with gifts, and handed you all his credit cards to buy whatever you need. However you'd refuse to use his money on random things even though he said his money is your money from now on. He's been nothing but kind to you but also a bit shy some might say cold hearted; but he just didn't want you to fell uncomfortable around him. He'd often walk past a room and see you praying and would just stand at the doorframe to watch you and leaving before you see him.

One of the days he had a rough day, nothing seems to be in his favour that day, his meeting ended badly, the clients were complaining about some services and few stakeholders were arguing about something in the company. He got home with a heavy headache and saw the hot dinner you prepared for him, you entered the room and saw him, with a smile you took his bag and coat greeting him, "how was your day?" You asked and he just smiled not trying to bother you with his bad day, "it was good, I'm hungry." You nodded "come, let's eat, I made your favorite today." He was very grateful to have you at this moment, he ate his dinner and showered before going to sleep with a headache. Unfortunately the headache caught up to his sleep and he woke up in the middle of the night to find you not in bed, rubbing his temple he got up knowing where you are; in the prayer room.

Unlike everyday he didn't just stand by the doorframe to watch you pray. You werr done praying when you started to say the dua, "Dear God, thank you for all the blessings you gave me, thank you for the health and thank you the most for sending me such an amazing husband. He's very kind to me and caring towards me, I pray you bless him with health and well-being and a long life where we can be together always and honour each other, I really appreciate and," you paused with a smile, "I love him so much, I just wish he'd be less shy," you chuckled before continuing, "please God , keep him happy and safe, Ameen." Sukuna felt his heart melt at your words, he waited few minutes before knocking and walking in the room, you turned to smile at him as he took the seat beside you on your prayer mat. "Did I wake you up? I apo-" He cut your sentence short by placing his head on your shoulder as he sat beside you, "I've been feeling down all day, I had a very bad day-" he couldn't speak further without tearing down and you immediately wrapped your arms around him protectively so did he, holding you for dear life as he spoke and cried while you rubbed his back, "I don't know what to do, I want to just hide away and do n-nothing I'm just so so tired from today, I- I promise I'm not l-like this always b-but-"

"You have been working so hard lately, you need to rest, Husband," you softly spoke gently caressing his pink hair with your soft hands, "please, can you take few days off of work? You need to rest, it's not good to work and feel such pressure. Can you?" He nodded in you embrace, "y-yes I can take few days off." He slowly removed himself from your embrace chuckling as he whipped his nose and you whipped his tears with the end of your hijab before he placed his head on your lap and taking your hand and placing it on his forehead, "Sweetheart, would you please pray for me everyday?" He asked and you smiled down at him as you gently massaged his head, "with my whole heart, Husband." He blushed.

"Call me by my name," he chuckled, Now it was your turn to blush, "No!" You replied, and he chuckled, taking your other hand and placing his on his chest, "come on, just once, say my name." You rolled your eyes and spoke, "Sukuna." He blinked at you, "Again? Please?" He asked this time softly, and you tried hard to hide your smirk as you called his name, still massaging his head, "are you feeling better now? Sukuna?" He smiled and nodded eagerly, then closing his eyes, letting you massage his head some more.

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Songs I listen to about Skittlescript’s Isekai’ed to the West and Triad au Playlist

hahaha lol checkout @skittlescripts’s isekai to the west au, here’s some songs that remind me of the au and some scenarios imagined would make the daydreams better, special thanks to the works of @semisolidmind, @rennsdeaddoves, @thesexydancingcrepe, @rainyriu, @ritzhasmonkeybrain and @theweepingegg

this is for the Sun WuKong and Six-Eared Macaque simps out there

problem - ariana grande - reader starting to have feelings for Sun Wukong

dear future husband - meghan trainor - reader saying what marriage be like

right there - ariana grande - how macaque feels in triad au

the guy that i'd kinda be into - be more chill the musical - reader describing the monkie she likes

bad romance - lady gaga - macaque’s feelings for reader in triad au

one last time - ariana grande - Wukong trying to understand his emotions

la on a saturday night - hearts & colors - macaque’s monologue song in triad au

a whole new world - aladdin - Wukong and reader just ridding his cloud to Flower Fruit mountain

symphony - clean bandit - Macaque when he finally accepts he’s inlove

rhythm of the tambourine - hunchback of notredame the musical - Triad au

made you look - meghan trainor - reader’s themesong in triad au

title - meghan trainor - Wukong in triad au trying to get a date

not fall in love with you - rwby soundtrack - works both for the Isekai and triad au

kiss the girl - the little mermaid - Sandy making sure his OTP is cannon

there's nothing holding me back - shawn mendes - triad au wukong in general 

stutter - mariana's trench - wukong’s 5 stages of grief about having a crush

troublemaker - olly murrs - wukong’s themesong

still into you - paramore - if Isekai to the west had a crossover with Triad au

millennium parade - belle - a reader song for triad au

light switch - charlie puth - wukong’s crush in triad au

i wanna be your slave - maneskin - wukong in a more hornii mood for reader

she's kinda hot - 5 seconds of summer - Isekai to the west chapter 3 song

teeth - 5 seconds of summer - triad au wukong’s song during a meeting

marry you - bruno mars - wukong trying to convince reader that they get married

paper rings - taylor swift - wukong finally getting a date with reader in triad au

teenage dirtbag - wheatus - macaque’s angst about having a crush on reader

my heart's a stereo - maroon 5 - Macaque starting to fall inlove in isekai au

hips don't lie - shakira - reader meets wukong for the first time in triad au

voodoo doll - 5 seconds of summer - wukong before he realises he likes reader

she looks so perfect - 5 seconds of summer - both monkey’s admiring reader

love me like you do - ellie goulding - wukong and reader in isekai

love me harder - ariana grande - reader’s feelings with wukong

girlfriend - avril lavinge - macaque's song when he’s jealous in isekai

everytime we touch - cascada - wukong simping for reader in triad au

teenage dream - katy perry - reader realising her crush in isekai au

ET - katy perry - reader and wukong’s relationship in a nutshell for isekai

lucky strike - maroon 5 - wukong vs macaque in isekai au

levitating - dua lipa - reader in isekai au

the story of the phantom - goosebumps the musical - macaque in isekai au

take me to church - hozier - wukong having a crush angst in isekai

can't hold us - macklemore - a sun wukong song in isekai

bad reputation - joan jett - how heaven feels about reader and wukong together

guy.exe - superfruit - reader describing her type of guy in triad au

super mario hyadain - wukong vs macaque for reader in isekai au

play with fire - sam tinnesz - macaque and reader first impressions

positions - ariana grande - wukong and reader relationship song in isekai au

34 + 35 - ariana grande - wukong and reader song in triad au

dinero - trinidad cardona - reader’s alter ego song in triad au

no roots - alice merton - isekai to the west in a nutshell

sway - micheal buble - triad wukong takes reader out dancing

helpless - hamilton - triad wukong being lovesick and lovey dovey, while MK witnesses his mentor being cringe

call me by your name - lil nas x - triad wukong themesong

dead girl walking - heathers - wukong and reader having some spicy fun just after wukong is banished by tripitaka

i wanna dance with somebody - whitney houston - reader during the triad au before having a relationship

fairytale - alexander rybak - reader angst on having feeling for wukong in isekai 

why don't you do right - who framed roger rabbit - triad wukong meets reader’s alter ego for the first time

La seine and i - a monster in paris - reader performing in triad au

blues in the night - queen tyr'ahnee cover - reader having feelings for triad wukong angst

the great pretender - the platters - reader’s emotional stability during isekai

boys - charlie xcx - reader thinking about wukong in isekai

you will be okay - helluva boss - reader’s song for ao lie and her kids in isekai

no matter what - book of life - reader choosing to be with wukong instead of going home in isekai

Someone you like - girl and the dreamcatcher - triad wukong pining for reader

Ang huling el bimbo - eraserheads - slow dancing in the kitchen in triad au

Something just like this - cold play - macaque pining for reader in triad

Love story of a certain bakeneko - vocaloid

Ahh, it’s a wonderful cat’s life - vocaloid

The wolf that fell inlove with little red ridding hood - rin and len kagamine

Magic mirror - rin and len kagamine

Dance with me tonight - olly murs - a date night song with macaque in triad 

La la dee - cody simpson - triad wukong describing his feelings for reader 

Perfect - ed sheeran - wukong’s feelings for reader near the end of the journey to the west

Shape of you - ed sheeran - triad wukong being a simp for his wife reader

Seniorita - camila cabello - triad wukong flirting with reader

My oh my - camila cabello - reader’s accepting her feelings for wukong in triad

Uwu - chevy - Wukong’s feelings when he realises he wants to be with reader in isekai au

Canterella - vocaloid - triad wukong and reader on a mission

Je t’aime - kelly sweet - wukong descrining his love for reader in isekai

You’ll be in my heart - tarzan - reader just being happy with her family

Strangers like me - tarzan - wukong being curious aboutreader’s life before the journey to the west

A million dreams - the greatest showman - wukong’s song when he marries reader in isekai

One kiss - descendants - wukong when reader because of magic shenannigans needs to wake-up with true loves kiss

Secret garden - undertale - flowerfell au fansong - triad wukong and reader angst

So she dances - josh groban - triad wukong describing reader to MK

Beautiful ghosts - taylor swift - macaque’s song about reader in isekai

Slow dance with you - adventure time - macaque’s song regarding his pinning for reader

Tightrope - the greatest showman - reader’s conflicting emotions about staying with wukong or going home

Thinking out loud - ed sheeran - wukong pining for reader in isekai

Work form home - fifth harmony - reader flirting with triad wukong

Criminal - britney spears - triad wukong and reader’s relationship in a nutshell

Do it for her - steven universe - triad wukong training isekai wukong to protect reader

Back to life - bumblebee movie - reader and wukong’s wedding song in isekai

I love you to much - book of life - macaque pinning for reader in isekai

Death of a bachelor - panic! At the disco - triad wukong pinning for reader

I’m in love with a monster - fifth harmony - triad reader tells isekai reader on her feelings for triad wukong

Black magic - little mix - reader is jealous that triad wukong is flirting to get info

Animals - maroon 5 - wukong being in heat and wants to mate with reader

I’m a lady - meghan trainor - the jttw crew finds out about reader being isekai’ed to help them

Who i am - the score - macaque introducing himself to the reader in isekai after kidnapping her

Rewrite the stars - the greatest showman - triad wukong and reader fall inlove 

Buwan - juan karlos - wukong serenading reader during their first date in isekai

Bad little boy - adventure time - reader and wukong’s dynamic

Monster - adventure time - Wukong angst about reader’s mortality in isekai

Hey soul sister - train - triad wukong being a simp while being cringe

Crush - tessa violet - reader pinning for triad wukong

Would you be so kind - dodie - reader pinning for wukong in isekai

I do adore - mindy gledhill - triad wukong and reader cuddling

Despair - leo - reader pinning for wukong and vice versa in isekai but angsting of it being unrequited

Save me - bruno martini - macaque and wukong paniking because their falling for reader in isekai au

Can’t sleep love - pentatonix - reader talking to sandy about her crush on wukong in isekai

Suki kirai - rin and len kagamine - reader being in denial about being inlove with triad wukong

Someday - disney’s zombies - wukong and reader in general for isekai

Boop - rwby soundtrack - wukong trying to show off and impress reader after he accepts that he loves her

Little miss perfect - owl house fandom - reader angst on wanting to focus on the journey to the west but the dilemma of falling inlove complicates things for her once the journey is done

Ordinary - owl house fandom - reader questioning wukong why he’s inlove with her in isekai au

One more night - maroon 5 - triad wukong wanting reader to stay longer in bed cuddling

You’re the one that i want - grease - triad macaque romantic feelings for reader

If i can’t i love her - beauty and the beast - wukong being in denial for being inlove with reader in isekai au

Evermore - beauty and the beast - wukong angst when reader is presented with the option of returning to her original home

Love like you - steven universe - wukong wondering why reader loves him in isekai

If i could tell her - dear evan hansen - triad macaque hiding his feelings for reader

Only us - dear evan hansen - set during the time wukong is banished from the journey to the west

Your text - sundial - triad wukong trying to get reader’s number

Glad you came - the wanted - triad Wukong meets reader for the first time

Castle on a hill - ed sheeran - wukong reminises his life before the journey to the west and meeting reader

I won’t say i’m in love - hercules -  reader being in denial about being inlove with wukong in isekai au

Circus - britney spears - another themesong for reader in triad au

love story - taylor swift - how wukong tells his kids on how he met their mother in isekai au

you belong with me - taylor swift - how triad macaque feels when he sees reader with triad wukong 

burn for you - bridgerton musical - wukong pining for reader, but not wanting to confess in isekai au

[heavyhitterheaux]

Five Years In and a Lifetime To Go

First Lady of Private Garden Instagram AU

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y/ninsta: happy five year anniversary to the prettiest husband that I've ever had. Can't even put into words how much I love and adore you and I need to stop before I cry. Ever since I was fifteen, I knew you were it for me. jackharlow I love your annoying ass so much it hurts, now come give me kisses! 🥰

jackharlow: y/ninsta first off, the prettiest you've ever had!? you got something you wanna share with the class? The class meaning ME! And I love you too with your cry baby ass 😘

claybornharlow: jackharlow you know she was married to me first

jackharlow: claybornharlow do not fucking start claybornharlow: 👀

saweetie: happy anniversary to my favorite couple in the entire universe 💖

privategarden: happy anniversary and we wish you two many many more

y/ninsta: jackharlow um nope. nothing to share.

jackharlow: y/ninsta 🤨

jackharlowsource: oh so they are still married! Happy anniversary!

jackandy/naremyparents: we love yall! Happy anniversary!

maggieharlow: I called it when they were sixteen lol happy anniversary you two. Love you 💖 allthingsy/n: five years in! happy anniversary! even though we are still very confused about the whole dua and bryson thing jackharlow: allthingsy/n and yall can stay confused. the harlows don't clear up rumors. yall can think what yall want. allthingsy/n: jackharlow well damn urbandjack24: allthingsy/n well we all know jack said he never left his wife's p*ssy so I guess it's safe to say that we have nothing to worry about y/ninsta: jackharlow my baby telling it like it is 😉 mortirolo: happy anniversary! I adore the both of you! jackharlow: mortirolo let's see how long this lasts with you being nice to me mortirolo: jackharlow as long as you don't hurt my baby girl there is nothing to worry about. but, sleep with one eye open just in case danivalentine: NICOLE! STOP IT! softtcurse: happy anniversary! even though me and y/ninsta should be married but I'll take what I can get urbanwyatt: YASMIN! softtcurse: imma see myself out

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jackharlow: my entire universe in one picture. happy anniversary my baby. five years in and a lifetime to go. wouldn't want to be doing life with anyone else and you have my word that you will want for nothing with me and be treated like the queen you are. I love you until the end of time and even after that 😘

y/ninsta: jackharlow 🥺🥺🥺

lilnasx: not Jack making me cry and this message isn't even for me lmao happy anniversary to my parents

druski2funny: lilnasx they were mine first

urbanwyatt: soul mate shit if I ever seen it. I love yall 💖

dualipa: happy anniversary to me and y/ninsta! I love you boo!

jackharlow: dualipa you have 5 seconds to delete that comment

dualipa: jackharlow no.

y/ninsta: dualipa love you too!

jackharlow: Y/N!!!!! y/ninsta: jackharlow yes big baby? jackharlow: y/ninsta you better stop playing with me y/ninsta: jackharlow or what? urbanwyatt: NO. PLEASE NO. STOP IT. jackharlow: y/ninsta you know exactly what y/ninsta: jackharlow BRING IT urbanwyatt: yeah imma head out early because absolutely not shloob_: jackharlow if you ever need to hide from y/ninsta say the word. but happy anniversary! quiiso: and we all know y/ninsta still wears the pants in the relationship jackharlow: I'm not doing this with yall today smh yungskylark: jackharlow we call it like we see it. I hope our favorite couple sees many more years y/ninsta: yungskylark well duh! jackharlow can try some shit if he wants. I'll knock all this shit over. YOUR ASS IS STUCK WITH ME. urbanwyatt: does anyone remember when y/ninsta got drunk and tried to burn their marriage license and screamed at the top of her lungs to jackharlow good luck returning me without the receipt? lmaooooooo funniest shit EVER jackharlow: urbanwyatt no not funny. I had to chase her ass down jumping over couches and shit so that she didn't burn it. her little legs were on some usain bolt type shit that night it took me forever to catch her and yall were just laughing at my pain and y/ninsta wouldn't want to be stuck with anyone else shloob_: that shit was HILARIOUS claybornharlow: you should have let her burn it so we could get married again jackharlow: claybornharlow square the fuck up danivalentine: and she didn't remember the next day lmaoooo all I remember was jackharlow shooting daggers at her every time she looked at him and she was so confused quiiso: PLEASE TELL ME SOMEONE RECORDED THAT urbanwyatt: quiiso you know I have it lmaoooo saweetie: yeah imma need that one in the group chat lmao jackharlow: y/ninsta you better not EVER do that shit again y/ninsta: jackharlow not my fault yall left me around matches

danivalentine: happy anniversary. Lil Bit stole your heart and you haven't looked back 💖

jackharlow: danivalentine wouldn't have it any other way

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y/ninsta: woke up and went downstairs to see this. jackharlow you outdid yourself this year, thank you for loving me the way you do 💖

jackharlow: and not stopping any time soon. you deserve all that and more, words can't express how much I love you 🥰

urbanwyatt: I was stressed as hell and it's not even my anniversary. jackharlow put me to work as soon as she went to sleep to make sure everything would be finished when she woke up. y/ninsta I love your dumbass bad and don't you EVER fucking forget it. we didn't go to sleep until four! I don't know how the hell I always get dragged into yall shit smh

y/ninsta: urbanwyatt I love you my urby baby and you are appreciated! jackharlow: yes urbanwyatt thank you for always helping me make sure my girl has the best and what she deserves

urbanwyatt: y/ninsta imma need something in return for all my troubles

y/ninsta: urbanwyatt already done. look on your dresser.

danivalentine: well got damn okay little brother I see you

urbanwyatt: AND THIS ISN'T EVEN ALL OF IT!

2forwoyne: happy anniversary!! and urbanwyatt you should know that it's really three people in that relationship at this point. jackharlow, y/ninsta, and you

urbanwyatt: 2forwoyne it sure fucking feels like it smh saweetie: jackharlow never disappoints when it comes to my bestie lilnasx: look at my parents go 😭 druski2funny: that one bouquet is from me urbanwyatt: druski2funny FROM YOU, MY ASS. I PUT IN ALL THE DAMN WORK. jackharlow: urbanwyatt imma need for you to go spend time with Yasmin to relieve some stress lmaoooo softtcurse: jackharlow keep him. what else did you buy my girl? I'm invested. I'll see him later. urbanwyatt: softtcurse SERIOUSLY?! y/ninsta: jackharlow can you come upstairs now? urbanwyatt: here they fucking go jackharlow: y/ninsta on my way my baby jackharlowsource: 😍😍😍

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‏اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ

My dear brothers and sisters. Alhumdulilah I got married 5 days ago 🥰

I would get some anons and off anon messages of duas for me and many times to have a good spouse, so thank you, jazakallahu khayran to everyone who ever made dua for me ❤️ your dua for a good spouse came true. Alhumdulilah beyond hopes Allah has given me.

I pray all of you who are married have an increase of love, compassion, understanding, and mercy in your marriage and those who are looking, I pray you find a righteous spouse who will take take care of you in all the ways you need and want them to. May Allah increase us all in guidance and grant us forgiveness, ameen.

You all have no idea how hard it was for me to not post about the process of the talking stage to engagement to marriage on here lol. I wanted to announce here once official. But in sha Allah I’ll make some posts in the future of my experiences ☺️❤️

[writerfarzanatutul]

Ruksana's Dua

She lowered herself into sujood, her forehead pressing against the cold floor as she whispered, "Subhana Rabbial A'la... Subhana Rabbial A'la... Subhana Rabbial A'la..."

Suddenly, tears—warm and relentless—began streaming from her eyes, falling silently onto the cold surface beneath her. Her forehead stayed rooted to the ground, her trembling hands anchored on the floor, as the storm inside her spilled out through her eyes.

"Oh Allah, help me," she whispered, her voice barely audible, quivering under the weight of her sorrow. "This marriage... I must fulfill it, no matter the cost. But I feel so powerless... so very powerless. How do I accept this man when I see him as my transgressor? How can I make him my own? How can I consider him my husband, Ya Allah? Guide my heart... plant love for him within me. I am helpless... I don't have the strength to love him, but You are Al-Wadud, the One who places love in hearts. You can make me love him, Ya Allah. Please cleanse my heart of Abdurrahman, for he is no longer halal for me. Let my heart open for the one You have now made my lawful partner. Let me forget the past, forgive him, and accept him as my husband. Let me be the coolness of his eyes, and fill my heart with respect and love for him too."

( Assalamualaikum everyone, I write Islamic stories that is based on love , faith, redemption, second chances and halal romance. This is a snippet from my story You are Mine .All my stories are free . If you are interested in reading, you can check it in Inkitt or Wattpad. My profile name: Farzana Tutul )

[naramdil]

Salam hafsah 💕

I hope you’re well. I wanted to reach out to you bc i always have admired your perspectives and thoughts on matters of the heart, seeing you have a naram dil. This is a lot so i understand if you don’t feel comfortable answering but would appreciate your insight.

I’m currently in a relationship with someone and recently i discovered something painful. I found out that he was in love with someone when we first started talking. We began as something online and weren’t in a committed relationship. I never approached him for the purpose of marriage (which i usually do) so we were definitely undefined. i did end up asking him to speak with the purpose of marriage and so we did. But during that period when i asked, he was already trying to pursue someone he loved and when she refused, he had decided to move on and pursue me.

Finding out now, i feel like i was left in the dark. He told me he didn’t tell me because at that time we weren’t committed and it would only hurt me. But he still needed to see if anything could happen with her before giving me his full attention. She was in a relationship and had just broken up and he took that opportunity to drive to her state and ask. It was a grand gesture, but she refused.

So then he and i began. But now that i’m thinking about it, i feel like he was still in love with her while talking to me. I asked him what she meant to him. He told me that this girl was an instant connection for him. You know how our souls have met other souls in a different realm before we meet physically in this dunya? She was one of those people for him. He knew immediately that he wanted to marry her without even fully knowing her. It was that kind of love. it hurt to hear about it. It hurt that i didn’t know. It hurt that that person wasn’t me.

We broke up a few months into the relationship for reasons which had nothing to do with his feelings for her. We reconnected a month ago. For some reason, i started talking to him again and we only recently started truly making the intention to talk for marriage and not just because we like each other. But he actually told me that last month, she reached out to him and he was put in a similar position as when we first started talking. Again we were in a situationship this time again and not fully committed because i didnt feel like i was ready to do this again. He told me she reached out to me before i reached out again (the second time i reached out after we first broke up) and she finally sent him a message saying it wouldnt work with them. So this has happened two times.

I don’t know if it’s bad timing with two girls reaching out to him around the same time but now I’m thinking if he’s still in love with her. That kind of love he had for her doesnt just disappear like that. He told me it’s rare to find that kind of love. He told me two weeks ago was when she texted him that it wouldnt work out. They havent talked since then.

I just don’t know what to do now because i still like him. Despite it all. Despite the anxiety i feel. Despite the hurt and my tendency to compare his love for her for the love he can have for me. He said that although it wasnt an instant connection when it came to me, he is still willing to build it with me. Build the love since most people grow i to love and choose each other every day and that’s how bonds are made. What he experienced is rare. But it just all hurts. It hurts to feel like he is just settling and getting married because he has faced rejection and the woman he loves doesnt want him. I feel like a second choice. I feel like i’m the logical decision, which is to find a person to marry and have kids. I didnt give him that cosmic, spiritual, instant connection like she did.

I dont know if this is something i can repair. He told me that he isn’t in love with her but he still has love for her and will always make dua for her. he wants to build a connection and grow into love with me. But i feel myself comparing and hurting. It was only two weeks ago that she sent him the rejection message so it’s not like she’s part of his past and it’s been years. It’s recent

But I’m still here. I almost broke up with him again because i felt like i couldnt handle this. But i’m still here. How do people love like that, get rejected and then marry? Wouldnt it feel like they settled if they chose you? I’m so sorry! I just have no one that would possibly understand what predicament i’m in. I appreciate it all anyway 💕

hey honey, I think that you should let him go. genuine love will not make you question anything. sure you could "grow into love" but ultimately he is telling you that he didn't feel that connection with you and that this other girl will always be on his mind (if he is gonna continue to pray for her....) he seems like a flake and you deserve someone who is sure about you and chooses you for you and not because you are conveniently there. it seems like you have made yourself too available to him and he doesn't view you as something he could "lose" but rather a fallback. you should never marry someone in that circumstance.

if you have so many struggles and heightened emotional lows now, before you are married? it's only going to continue. and if how you are feeling now is not how you want to continue feeling then you are going to have to let go and move on with your life. you seem religious so I will say that you should pray on it and ask that if he is meant to be in your life, to clear the path and make it easy. and if he is not meant to be in your life, to remove the emotions and make you feel nothing so that it is easier to move forward. inshAllah things get better for you, please look out for yourself. you are allowed to seek the kind of connection that you described, that cosmic connection that you just feel is right and that is easy to come together and build a life. if you broke up once it was for a reason, remember that.

[rueyam]

Salam sis,

Do you have some advice for me pls. You don’t have to answer this if you don’t want to, it’s totally fine <3

I’ve been talking with a guy for marriage purposes. We’ve kept everything as halal as possible. We have right know been going out 7 times. He tics all the basics and boxes I’ve asked him about (children, future, job, economics etc) but one thing that makes me still not feel attracted to him is his looks. Like mashAllah he is tall with good beard good character, well spoken, smart but I don’t feel any connection towards him grow. I’ve prayed istikhara for a long time now and I still don’t find any attraction. I’m more on the side to cut the ties then to move on with him, but at the same time I don’t want to loose a good opportunity like this. I have told him that my feelings are not there yet and it could maybe take a long time. Which he replied very kindly and said it’s fine that I shouldn’t worry about it. I even told him about my health conditions which he accepted with no problem. Such a good guy, but why don’t I feel attracted :((((?? Idk am I to picy?

Every time I got back home after our meetings it doesn’t sit right with me. I don’t feel butterflies when I meet him. It’s very formel. They are very formel even within his family and I don’t like that.

The thing is in Islam we don’t take the same steps as non Muslims, we have to do it in a specific way to keep things halal, which also can make it sometimes “harder” do develop feelings for someone. I know that most of it comes after marriage but shouldn’t I feel something for him before? Is it stupid to cancel him when he has all the good boxes but I don’t feel attracted to him? And if a give it more time and time and time, but for how long? I don’t want to end up wasting mine his and his families time to see if I develop more feelings, but later only to end up canceling it after a long period when I could had done it earlier.

Im also afraid of not finding a potential again and I’m not getting younger. Me and my family don’t have many ties either so it’s harder to find someone to get married to. I’m 28 yo and this was my first time going out and getting to know a man in this way sooo….

Salam <3

wa alaykumsalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh <3

first i’m glad about your efforts to keep things halal, this is where the barakah comes from and makes your path easier inshAllah. no matter how rational you have to be in a matter of marriage, emotionality is significant. you have to feel a level of attraction towards your partner, else becoming happy with him will not work, no matter how good of a person he is. and yes, there is a chance to fall in love with him with time, but no one can guarantee you that and a marriage just to get married is not something for the long run. not for you, nor for him. i am the type who has to fall in love with a person to marry him, some people can rely on logic only… it depends on how you are built.

i like the thought of Allah swt giving us messages through our intuition and it barely fails. i‘m not sure if seven meetings are enough to make a decision like this, but then again, you entrusted me with this because you came to a point. maybe it’s time to take a moment and really dive into your emotions and ask the right questions. do you really want him or a marriage? does he still have the potential for you to fall in love with him or is there no chance from your pov? will his good characteristics convince you or is what you are searching for something else? being good is not enough. you have to be on the same page on a deeper level.

and believe me, recovering from a failed marriage will take longer than waiting for the right man. never hasten in sharing a whole life with someone. no matter what your decision will be, i hope from the bottom of my heart that it will be the right one for you. keep making dua and listen to what your heart has to say, be genuine to yourself and don’t be afraid to reject when you have to. you do this for you and no one else.

[islamicspecialistforloveback]

Powerful Dua To Convince In-Laws For Love Marriage

Aslam Walikum My dear brothers and sisters, today we will give you Dua to convince in-laws to love marriage. If your in-laws do not agree for you to marry their child, then you have come to the right place. Many Indian/ Pakistani and conservative cultures do not agree with love marriages, and it gets very hard to try and convince them. Times have and always will change, but unfortunately, some…

[surahdua]

Dua And Wazifa For Love Marriage

Love is a universal force that knows no boundaries, transcending cultural, religious, and societal norms. For Muslims in love, the desire to marry their chosen partner while seeking Allah's blessings is a cherished aspiration. In this blog, we delve into the significance of Dua for love marriage within the framework of Islam.

We'll explore the power of Dua for love marriage and offer guidance on how to perform it effectively, emphasizing the importance of seeking Allah's guidance in forging a love-filled, blessed union.

The Duas for Love Marriage

Several powerful Duas are recommended for love marriage, drawn from the Quran and the Hadith. These include Surah Al-Ikhlas, Surah Al-Furqan, and Surah Al-Qasas, among others.

These verses can be recited with unwavering sincerity, beseeching Allah to bless your love marriage with His grace and guidance.

Embarking on Marriage with Your Beloved

Marriage is a wonderful and crucial journey that opens a new chapter in your life with the one you love the most. It's an adventure full of promise and hope for a future together. Here are some vital things to keep in mind and love as you take this next step together

Love and Compatibility: Your journey into marriage begins with a strong foundation of love and compatibility. You've chosen each other as life partners because of the deep connection you share. Nurture and cherish this love as it will be the guiding force throughout your marriage.

Open and Honest Communication: Effective communication is the cornerstone of a successful marriage. It's crucial to express your thoughts, feelings, and expectations openly with your beloved. Honest conversations can help you understand each other better and resolve conflicts.

 Mutual Respect: Respect for each other's opinions, beliefs, and boundaries is essential. Recognize that you are two individuals with your own unique qualities and perspectives. Embrace these differences and treat each other with kindness and consideration.

Building Trust: Trust is earned over time. Be trustworthy and reliable in your actions and words. Trust forms the bedrock of a strong and lasting marriage.

Family Support: In many cultures, family plays a significant role in the journey to marriage. Seek the blessings and support of your families, and involve them in your wedding celebrations. A harmonious family dynamic can contribute to a smoother transition into married life.

Faith and Values: If faith is an important aspect of your life, discuss your religious beliefs and values with your beloved. Understand how these beliefs will play a role in your marriage and how you can support each other in your spiritual journeys.Top of Form

Dua for a Smooth Journey to Marriage

A smooth journey to marriage is a heartfelt desire for many individuals. Whether you are preparing for an arranged marriage or a love marriage, making Dua (supplication) for a harmonious and successful journey can bring peace and blessings to this significant life event. Here's a Dua you can recite for a smooth journey to marriage:

Rabbi hab li mina assaliheen (My Lord, grant me from Yourself a good offspring). (Quran, Surah Al-Saffat, 37:100)

A smooth journey may have its share of challenges and delays. Trust in Allah's timing and exercise patience throughout the process. Whether you are in an arranged marriage or a love marriage, open and honest communication with your potential spouse is key to a successful journey.

Wazifa for Love Marriage

Perform your regular Salah (prayers) with sincerity and devotion.

Recite Durood Shareef (Salawat): Begin by reciting Durood Shareef 11 times.

Recite Ayat-ul-Kursi: After Durood Shareef, recite Ayat-ul-Kursi (Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:255) 21 times.

Make Your Request: After reciting Ayat-ul-Kursi, make your specific request to Allah for a love marriage. Pour your heart out in sincere supplication, expressing your desires, intentions, and asking for His guidance and blessings.

Recite Durood Shareef Again: Conclude by reciting Durood Shareef 11 times once more.

Pray to Allah: After completing the recitations, offer a heartfelt prayer to Allah, asking for His assistance, guidance, and blessings in your love marriage.

Repeat Daily: It is recommended to repeat this wazifa daily with unwavering faith, patience, and sincerity.

Conclusion

Dua for love marriage is a spiritual practice that enables Muslim couples to seek Allah's guidance and blessings as they embark on a path of love and unity within the framework of Islam. By approaching this process with faith, sincerity, and patience, you can trust in Allah's wisdom and timing, paving the way for a love-filled, blessed marriage. Feel free to check out our website if you're interested in learning more about the duas and prayers that can be offered for love marriages.

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Wazifa to Marry The Person You Love

Wazifa to Marry The Person You Love

In Islam, a wazifa refers to a form of supplication or prayer recited by Muslims seeking spiritual blessings or divine assistance. It is a practice where specific verses or phrases from the Quran are recited with the intention of seeking guidance, healing, protection, or other blessings from Allah. Wazifas are considered a means of strengthening one's connection with God and seeking His mercy. Different wazifas are recommended for various purposes, and they are often recited repeatedly for a certain period of time. It is important to note that wazifas should be performed with sincerity, humility, and a deep understanding of their significance. Consulting with knowledgeable Islamic scholars like our Hazrat Noor Mohammad Ji or spiritual guides can provide guidance on appropriate wazifas and their proper recitation.

How Wazifa Can Help in Getting Desired Results in Love Relationships

In love relationships, people may turn to wazifa for love prayers as a means to seek guidance, blessings, or assistance from Allah. The underlying belief is that by reciting specific verses or phrases from the Quran with sincerity and devotion, one can invoke the divine mercy and intervention in their love life. Wazifa prayers are not a magical solution but are regarded as a way to seek spiritual support and bring positive changes.

When performing a wazifa for love relationships, individuals may seek various outcomes such as finding a compatible partner, resolving conflicts, fostering understanding and affection, or seeking Allah's guidance in making important decisions. The act of engaging in wazifa prayers can instill a sense of hope, patience, and reliance on Allah, which may positively impact one's mindset and approach towards their relationship.

It is important to remember that wazifa prayers are not a substitute for personal effort, effective communication, or healthy relationship dynamics. They should be seen as a supplement to sincere efforts and the understanding that outcomes are ultimately in Allah's hands. It is strictly advisable to reader to take guidance and permissions from our Islamic Scholar Hazrat Not Mohammad Ji before performing any wazifa to marry the person you love.

Powerful Wazifa To Marry The Person You Love

While it is understandable that you may have strong feelings for someone and wish to marry them, it's important to approach matters of love and marriage with wisdom, patience, and respect for Islamic principles. Islam encourages adhering to proper channels and seeking the guidance of knowledgeable individuals. Here are a few general suggestions:

1. Seek Allah's guidance: Begin by seeking guidance from Allah through sincere and consistent prayers, known as Salah. Ask for His blessings, clarity, and guidance in making the right decisions regarding your love and marriage.

2. Istikhara Prayer: Perform the Istikhara prayer, a special prayer for seeking guidance in matters of importance. This prayer seeks Allah's assistance in making the right choice. Alongside the prayer, reflect on the signs and feelings you receive, and consult knowledgeable individuals or scholars for further guidance.

3. Patience and supplication: Patience is crucial in matters of love and marriage. Engage in regular supplication (dua) to seek Allah's blessings and intervention in your situation. Ask for His guidance, wisdom, and the best outcome for both you and the person you love.

4. Consultation with parents and elders: It is essential to involve your parents and seek their advice and guidance. Islamic teachings emphasize the importance of involving family and seeking their blessings in matters of marriage. Their wisdom and experience can provide valuable insights and support your decision-making process.

Remember, the acceptance of your dua or wazifa depends on Allah's will, and it is crucial to trust His plans. It is also important to maintain good character, adhere to Islamic principles, and respect the well-being and consent of the person you love. Consulting with knowledgeable individuals or scholars can provide you with specific wazifa recommendations tailored to your circumstances while ensuring they align with Islamic teachings.

Which Wazifa is Most Effective When You Want To Marry The Person You Love

The most effective wazifa to marry someone you love is to perform the istikhara prayer and seek guidance from Allah. Additionally, reciting Surah Yasin, Ayatul Kursi, and Surah Al-Ikhlas can also be helpful.

To Consult our Islamic Scholar Hazrat Noor Mohammad Ji, You can give them a call on +91-9914884919 or can message them on WhatsApp.For information, please visit our website:-https://lovebackduas.com/

[anotheraldin]

Salaam Alaikum brother, I hope you are doing well. I wanted to ask you about a matter if this is not too private or if it doesn't trigger you (if it does, please just don't respond!). How do you deal with your health issue with regard to marriage? Being someone who also comes with two "health" issues (one aesthetically problematic, the other affecting interaction) that are not the norm, I struggle with the thought of marriage or meeting people because us people who are affected by a certain test know only Allah can lift them from us and give us shifaa, but I also am aware not everyone will be understanding and fine with it. I keep telling myself Allah will place rahma and understanding with regard to it into the heart that is meant for me. How do you deal with your own situation? Maybe you've got a perspective that can benefit me. May Allah bless you and give you shifaa.

Wa ‘Alaikum Salaam!

This def hit the feels anon and I do think about it often.

I’d say first and foremost, to be appreciative of the life you’ve been given and consider that hardships we involuntarily experience will be of benefit for us in the hereafter. This life is temporary and Allah’s Promise of what comes after death is something you truly have to internalize.

I’d say your thought and rationale are the correct one. You are as you are and the ideal person for you would have that in their heart. Allah is Kind and loves kindness so continue to make dua that is what is placed in your life. It is not a race by any means anon. It’ll happen when it happens. That does require some vulnerability of putting yourself out there in meeting people and others as that is how it comes.

As for me lol, it’s a long story. I am hopeful Allah will aid me in all things that are good for me. I would enjoy companionship and insha’Allah that comes at an ideal time. I’m thankful to be alive and have my independence at the moment nevertheless. Marriage isn’t necessarily a difficult thing to achieve but my situation isn’t too ordinary lol. Loneliness does get to me at times but I don’t think it’s one of permanence. Life has its alterations and I hope I am able to learn as well as benefit from whatever this period attempts to teach me.

[iheartallah]

Alaykum Assalam! My husband is not a religious person. He only makes female friends. Then he tells me that he wants to do zina. He keeps telling me that he will bring another wife but also that he loves me and will keep me too. I have tried talking to him quite explicitly about everything. I have tried my best to change him but seems like it's certain that he would bring another wife and will not stop keeping female friends. I just want to know what shall I do. We often sleep in separate rooms as well. I feel like there is nothing between us. How to deal in sucha situation. Kindly answer me soon. I'm in so much pain 😫

Alikum Salam

I'm sorry to hear about the situation you are in. May Allah ﷻ make it easy for you (ameen). My advise to you is the following.

Try to seek professional couple counselling or help through involving a trusted family member or local mosque imam. Try your best to make this marriage work and give your 100% so that you never have any regrets later on, no matter what happens in the end. Tell your husband how he makes you feel when he speaks about other women and how it hurts you. Understand from him why he would say such outrageous things. It could possibly be coming from things like or porn addiction or some trauma such as sexual abuse he experienced?

However, some men will never stop womanising, not matter how many wives they take. You alone can judge the true situation of whether or not you think your husband will change and fix his ways. Take advice from people you trust but you alone will have to take the final decision. You may give him an ultimatum and let him know that you will not tolerate him speaking to other women or fantasising about zina.

If you believe there is no way to make things better even after counselling and you have no kids, you may try to get khula.

May Allah make things easy and clear for you. Please do make istikhara before taking any big decisions. There is a page called 'The Divorced Muslimah' on Facebook - please try to make an anonymous submission on the page to get advise from other sisters who may have been in the same situation as you.

May Allah grant you guidance. Do alot of dua to Allah to make your situation better and show you the best decision given your unique circumstances.

[writerfarzanatutul]

Islamic short stories 10

"SHE CALLED OFF OUR MARRIAGE," Hashem sighed, his shoulders slumping. He looked defeated.

"What? But why?" Yusuf didn't know how to console his best friend.

"She found someone better than me," Hashem confessed. "Don't worry, brother. Let her go. You deserve someone better. You should be grateful to Allah," Yusuf comforted. "I want to, but it hurts. It really hurts. I loved her so much," Hashem admitted. Yusuf placed a hand on his shoulder and said, "If Allah finds goodness in your heart, He will give you better than what has been taken from you and forgive you, for Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful" (Surah Al-Anfal, verse 70). Hashem nodded, finding hope in those words.

Today, Hashem got married. He never thought he would marry again, but he did. After constant persuasion from his parents, he agreed to marry the girl they chose. Although they didn't force him, he wanted to honor their wish. Entering his room, he noticed the empty bed. Nearby, his new bride was praying Salah. As she finished, she noticed him and froze. Hashem observed the remaining makeup on her face, probably removed while making Wudu. They stared at each other, unsure what to do. She lowered her gaze and broke the silence. "Actually, I didn't pray Isha Salah, that's why," she explained.

"It's fine," Hashem reassured as he closed the door. He noticed her standing still. Sitting on the bed, he invited her to join. Huma nervously played with her fingers. Breaking the silence, she asked, "Give me a minute. Let me fix my makeup." "It's okay. You look pretty even without makeup," Hashem replied, surprised by her question. Huma blushed, a smile appearing on his lips. "Please relax and sit down," he encouraged her. As Huma sat beside him, they began to talk.

"Thank you," Huma said, her voice laced with curiosity. "But did you really mean it? That I look pretty without makeup?"

Hashem held her gaze. "Absolutely," he affirmed.

Huma's smile bloomed. "No one's ever said that before," she confessed, a hint of wonder in her voice. "It makes me really happy."

Hashem reveled in their conversation, a soft smile playing on his lips.

"Maybe they're just intimidated by your natural beauty," he teased playfully. "Jealousy is a common affliction these days, but you seem refreshingly above it."

Huma tilted her head, considering this. "I try not to be jealous," she admitted. "Sometimes a flicker might appear, but then I just make dua for them instead."

"That's a beautiful way to handle it," Hashem said, his smile genuine.

"Listen," Huma hesitated, "I want to be a housewife. I don't like to study. I hope you don't have any problem." "Why don't you like to study?" Hashem asked. Huma explained, "There's no reason. I just don't like it anymore. My parents want me to continue studying, but I don't. That's why I married you." "Why do you think I won't force you to study further?" Hashem inquired. "Why waste your money?" Huma replied. "It's fine, I don't mind wasting money," Hashem joked. Huma pleaded, "Please, I don't want to study further." Hashem struggled to hold back his laughter. "I'm not going to listen. I want my wife to be a PhD holder."

"No, please. I will raise our children," Huma insisted. Unable to contain his laughter, Hashem burst out laughing. "Why are you laughing?" Huma pouted. "So, you'll raise our kids?" Hashem teased, mischief in his eyes. Huma nodded enthusiastically. 

"Speaking of our kids," Hashem continued, a playful glint in his eyes, "where are these future champions hiding?"

Huma's face flushed a light pink. "Well, they'll be here soon, obviously, since we're married now," she explained, a hint of naivety in her voice.

"Hmm, maybe they got lost on the stork delivery route," Hashem joked, feigning concern.

Huma's brow furrowed. "Lost? Storks? There are no storks involved, silly!"

Hashem threw his head back and laughed, the sound warm and genuine. Wiping a tear from his eye, he reached for her hand. "You're a very funny person, Huma. You know that, right?"

He  burst into laughter. "Why are you laughing? Did I crack a joke? We're having a conversation on a serious topic, and you're laughing," Huma said with a hint of irritation. "Okay, I'm sorry. We're having a serious conversation. I shouldn't laugh," he apologized. Suddenly his expressions and tone were quite serious. 

Despite his serious tone, Hashem blurted out, "What if we, uh, sped up the process of having kids?"Huma's brow furrowed in confusion.

A wide grin split Hashem's face. It took a moment for Huma to catch on, then a blush bloomed across her cheeks, as red as a ripe tomato. She playfully swatted him on the arm, burying her face in her hands. Hashem's hearty laughter filled the room.

Perhaps you dislike something which is good for you and like something which is bad for you. Allah knows and you do not know. (Al-Baqarah verse 216 )