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It's like they have some sort of radar the moment you've begun to move on, right? I've polled so many women while writing this last book and it's some crazy sort of phenomenon that occurs the moment we begin to move on and inch toward happiness. Why is this? Why do they come waltzing in the moment we learn to dance alone or with another partner? ⠀ What can you do? 1.) STOP LOOKING FOR SIGNS. By this I mean stop overanalyzing their words, texts, and timing so that it fits the mold or equation of which you told yourself you would take them back. 2.) IGNORE IT. IGNORE THEM. You moved on. There was a reason you once took steps back and began to walk away. Has that reason you parted ways gone away? Probably not. If it has...3.) LET TIME GO BY. Relationship experts say it takes at a minimum a YEAR to see if someone has truly changed. 'After a year, time becomes the best indicator of continued change' (PsychCentral) and while you're waiting...LIVE WHOLLY and COMPLETELY. Live your life in the meantime. Stop typing their name in the search bar and for the love of God, stop watching their Instastory. Life waits for no one. ⠀ ⠀ #quoteoftheday #30tb30 #author #authorsofinstagram #book #bookquotes #hopealcocer #qotd #advice #inspiration #wisdom

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#womenempowement #momlife Had the pleasure of chatting all things mom life, normalizing therapy, and lots more with sisSTAR @hopealcocer of Shut Up + Listen Podcast - check out the full episode on all podcast platforms!

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If you guys haven’t picked up your copy yet, I recommend you do! An amazing book By an even more amazing Friend!!! #hope #30before30 #amazon #amazonbooks #reading #abookaday #book #books #openyourmind #Repost @hopealcocer with @get_repost ・・・ My book, '30 Things Before 30' was released this week! It's available for purchase in both paperback and digital versions through Amazon, Barnes&Noble, and signed copies through my website. This book explores 30 different lessons I learned the hard way. Lessons of life, love, career, mental health, and everything in between. They're raw, unfiltered, and straight from my heart. Oh, P.S. Check out the link in my bio (30tb30.com) and sign up for my newsletter for upcoming giveaways from my partners + sponsors coming soon! (at KMG Jewelry & Engraving)

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This #Repost @hopealcocer with @get_repost ・・・ ...oh. • • • . #dailyinspo #thingsmytherapistsays #thoughtoftheday #inspiration #quotes #words #life #love #journey #live #keepgoing #strength #empowerment #qotd #quote #youvegotthis #inspo #daily #breathe #therapy #reflection #enjoy #reflections #reflection #foodforthought #positivevibes #life #therapy #selfcare (at Manhattan, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bpa9BaNB1M9/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=14bsr1oqhhfxt

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Double tap if you agree! Read our interview with @hopealcocer on #ladybossblogger here: bit.ly/HopeA and tag someone who would benefit from seeing this quote!

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When I came to @jillmars_ with my book idea (the cover with the Hope looking girl on it) she was 💯 willing to design that and move forward with it, however she asked me to trust her and allow her to show me another way to potentially go with my book. So she did her thang...and this cover was born. I’m not a graphic designer by ANY means, and so it was so valuable to have an expert direct and guide me. Tip of the day: #delegate to the expert, or those who can do it better than you so you can work on what you’re truly good at. Thank you again for the artistic direction, Jillian!! 🖤#Repost @jillmars_ ・・・ It’s here!! 📖 🎉 @hopealcocer, thank you for trusting in my vision for the cover design and cheers to you and your books success! . . 30 Things Before 30 is now available through Amazon and Barnes&Noble! #30tb30 #HopeAlcocer #BookCoverDesign #SheDesignsBooks

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Boundaries. They're a thing. How good are you at setting boundaries at work? In your relationship? With your family? How about with your social media followers and friends? Our society has blurred the lines of boundaries zones when it told us to break down walls and boundary zones. It's okay to not reply ASAP to that Facebook messenger chime that just pinged 30 seconds ago. If it's 7 PM and you're at home about to dig into your Seamless delivery, you do not need to respond to that email from your boss right away. You don't have to have every hour booked this weekend to prove that you know how to go out and have a good time. Set some healthy boundaries and take time to take a step back and decompress from the world. #quoteoftheday #30tb30 #author #authorsofinstagram #book #bookquotes #hopealcocer #qotd #advice #inspiration #wisdom

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I am so excited to be partnering with @greetabl in celebration of my next book coming out next month! With my schedule absolutely INSANE, I use Greetabl on a regular basis to send mini gifts to my friends and family to let them know I’m thinking about them and love them even when I’m a busy 🐝! Sometimes we just don’t have time to go to the store, grab a little gift, get a card, wrap it, and mail it. Greetabl does it all for you! Most gifts run under $20, shipping included. It’s a lifesaver, timesaver, and the gift selections are so cute. 🎁 Enter code hopealcocer for 15% off your first order! Check them out here >> @greetabl ❤️

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#readerregram from a former + fellow BCCS K-12 student ❤️ ••• thanks for the love, Emily! I'm so glad you enjoyed #wherehopelies! #Repost @emily3074 (@get_repost) ・・・ Thank you @hopealcocer for pouring out your heart and soul and sharing it with the world. I read this in less than a day, because I couldn't put it down. You should be so proud of how far you have come, as I know everyone is for you! I'm excited to see where you go in life! :)

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Thanks for making me your leading lady this month, @iwantherjob! Excited to be on the #podcast this week! #Repost @iwantherjob (@get_repost) ・・・ Q: What qualities does it take for someone to be successful in your line of work? A: I’d say motivation, self-discipline and the ability to take harsh criticism or work with some really cutthroat people. Also persistence, creativity, leadership and a Type-A, go-getter attitude. It’s the only way to get ahead in this world! Meet #leadinglady @hopealcocer, author and creative ambassador. #linkinbio 👆🏼 #makingithappen #womenhelpingwomen #brightboldbalanced

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I would not be remotely close to where I am today in my career had these young women/military significant others had not supported and loved me all those years ago. Your faith and belief in me and my words propelled me to the next phase of my life. From my Tumblr blog days to now, thank you for sticking with me! 💕💕#Repost @leahkimcoffman with @repostapp ・・・ Ready for some crying. So happy I got to experience this journey with you, Tumblr Buddy! ❤️ @hopealcocer #wherehopelies #books #readytocry #fanfavorites #readerregram

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#Reader #Regram •• to my beautiful, strong, talented PR assistant, Fernanda •• this project would not be doing half as well as it is without you! Your drive and passion for seeing this project succeed is evident in everything you do. So happy you're my right hand lady and my friend. 💕 bossbabes #Repost @iamfernandy with @repostapp ・・・ Just finish reading this amazing plot twisting novel by @hopealcocer! So incredibly honored and proud to be a part of this book's journey and to work with Hope. I can't wait to see what's in store for Where Hope Lies!

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#Repost @firesidewake with @repostapp ・・・ Sometimes a friend takes a few days or weeks to get back to you. Sometimes it's because their phone broke. Sometimes it's because they're being a recluse. Sometimes they're trying to give you a hint. Or sometimes it's because they're busy writing a book and following their dreams. Sometimes that book sells out in its first week. Sometimes it's because they're busy grabbing life by the throat and refusing to slow down even if it kills them. Congratulations, @hopealcocer and caffeine. This was a long time in the making and now it's time to ride the PR rollercoaster into oblivion. You deserve to enjoy these next few celebratory months. Smell the roses. I've only read the Dedication, but it sounds exactly like you and I are just having a conversation. It sounds like you, which is the best voice you could possibly have. "Hey Mom - Sorry about all the F-words in this book. There were more, believe me." 👌😂👍🌰

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Thank you for your love and support, Denise! And for making me feel beautiful last week. XO #Repost @ny_streeters with @repostapp ・・・ My job gives me the opportunity to meet so many inspiring people..Meet @hopealcocer This young woman is the author of  #WhereHopeLies (true story) It was inspired by her popular blog Diary of an Army Girlfriend (which was used as a resource by military support groups for significant others)  I seriously can't wait to read this one!  The book was sold out on #amazon but I believe stock has been recently replenished) #nycmakeupartist #rockergirl #musicismylife

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Sneak peek #9

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Feel the beat now If you've got nothing left Say I don't wanna be in love I don't wanna be in #love #oldschool #punk #goodcharlotte Read more: Good Charlotte - I Don't Wanna Be In Love Lyrics | MetroLyrics