#holy grail shall we say. that all men need to find and pursue. is bizarre
Explore tagged Tumblr posts
Visit Tumblr Blog
Explore Tumblr blogs with no restrictions, modern design and the best experience.
Last Seen Tumblr Blogs
Fun Fact
Forty percent of Tumblr users are between the ages of 18 to 25.
Text
there’s a trend I’ve been seeing in my IG feed that perplexes me, so I want to consult my fellow complementarian Tumblr lads and ladies
Is a man’s family intended to support his calling, or is his calling intended to support his family?
#because I can see how I would agree with both statements#but I feel like lately I’ve been seeing some people say things like#‘you as a wife need to come second to your husband’s mission’#and i’m like#ok let me interpret that as charitably as possible#the only thing I think can rank higher in priority than one’s family unit is obedience to God#well I was gonna say ‘if he’s a pastor or a missionary then’ but I was like no that’s dumb#because what kind of pastor is it who doesn’t exemplify the Father and the Bridegroom by prioritizing his own family#I’m sorry I just think this perspective HAS to be circuitous to be valid.#your family is supporting your calling so that your can support your family#and in doing so you obey God#if anyone has another angle from which to come at this lmk#because I feel like I do a decently good job of filtering out legalists and antinomians in equal measure#but the spike of people in my feed talking about this nebulous……#holy grail shall we say. that all men need to find and pursue. is bizarre#and their family is described as serving in essence as a stepladder toward reaching that grail. is bizarre. and i think wrong#but again they may just be verbalizing it poorly#because i DO think families should be as supportive as possible of their heads.#but if he cares what I have to say I’m not going to let my husband go do the whole Japanese salaryman routine#just to climb the ladder for its own sake#mobile#x#Christianity#my personal belief on the matter is that a man’s family IS his calling. looking for calling? have you got a wife? have you got kids? congrat#that’s your calling
24 notes
·
View notes