he said they’d found a brothel
on the dig he did last night
I asked him how they know
he sighed:
a pit of babies’ bones
a pit of newborn babies’ bones was how to spot a brothel
have you ever shared a list of your favorite books? if not, i’d love to hear about what you’re into!
i don't think i have! let's get into it (i'm quite boring, sorry in advance)
i love coming of age stuff, books written for or by women, bonus points if it's weird and twisty and ugly. i like to be haunted by a story after i've finished it, for one reason or another. some that fit into those categories are ;
➵ fen and sisters, both by daisy johnson. this woman is my god. i could (and will) scream about her all day long do not get me started i will become insufferable :)
➵ salt slow by julia armfield. a petting zoo of women who bite. magical realism in all its juicy, icky glory. shout out to formerly feral, but the entire thing is theeee shittttt
➵ chlorine by jade song. menacing, addictive, brutal. couldn't bring myself to love nor hate the main character and that's what made her so brilliant.
➵ normal people by sally rooney. just some real, heart-splitting writing that makes it hurt to be human. what's funny is the show didn't do it for me, but i found the book devastating
➵ slug by hollie mcnish. different vibe to the others on this list, but never fails to make me cry. grief, girlhood, grandmothers and good humor and what's not to love there!!!!
➵ to kill a mockingbird by harper lee. because sometimes i just wanna throw on my overalls and hang from a tire swing in maycomb, ok? it's healing. it's who i am. (comfort book of all time)
i have a reading list as long as my arm, but feel free to stop by with recs, or scream about your own favorites anytime. i love hearing what y’all think .xx
When putting together the Best Fantasy Book polls, I noticed that a lot of authors were popular choices, so I thought I'd do a little post about our most popular authors from ones that are in the list only twice to the most common author we have!
“How common, in antiquity, are the fundamental tenets of humanism: that humans—no matter their sex, their place of origin, their class—are all of equal value; and that those who walk in darkness must be brought into light? Not common at all, I would say. Indeed, I would go so far as to say that their fusion was pretty much a one-off.
In other words, secular humanism is just Christianity with nothing upstairs.”
Most people do not like fighting; most people want to invite neighbours round for cake sometimes; most people pick flowers and wrap them in paper when a lover needs more colour in their day; most people in most languages most mornings are mainly talking about breakfast; most people make tea when friends visit; most people want to live; most people want most people to live.
Last Song: Death of a Party - Blur (I've been listening to the All of Us Strangers Soundtrack a lot)
Favourite Colour: Burnt orange (this changes monthly I'd say 😅)
Last Film/Show: Pride/Drag Race Belgium
Sweet/savoury/spicy: Sweet mostly but a lil spicy
Last Thing I Googled: The address of the house my writing group just booked for a retreat ✒️
Last Book: Completed - Honeybloods by I.S. Belle. Currently reading - A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara/The King's Assassin by Benjamin Woolley/Nobody Told Me by Hollie Mcnish (Yes, I'm ridiculous)
Relationship Status: Single
Current Obsessions: Drag Race (I just finished Germany yesterday, watching US & UK Vs The World as they air and I just started Belgium s2 😇), Red, White & Royal Blue and um gender? Figuring myself out has been a journey 😅
Tag you're it: @duchessdepolignaca03 @candyspandemonium @firenati0n @myheartalivewrites @cricketnationrise & open tag as usual 💛
There’s a very short and very brutal poem by the Scottish poet Hollie McNish, written in 2019 and titled “Conversation with an archaeologist”:
he said they’d found a brothel
on the dig he did last night
I asked him how they know
he sighed:
a pit of babies’ bones
a pit of newborn babies’ bones was how to spot a brothel
“It’s true, you know,” said the writer and lawyer Helen Dale when we had lunch in London last year and I mentioned this poem, which I chose as one of the epigraphs to my book The Case Against the Sexual Revolution. Helen was a classicist before she was a lawyer, and as a younger woman she had taken part in archaeological excavations of ancient Roman sites. “First you find the erotic statuary,” she went on, “and then you dig a bit more and you find the male infant skeletons.” Male, of course, because the males were of no use to the keepers of Roman brothels, whereas the female infants born to prostituted women were raised into prostitution themselves.
I realize that this is not a nice thing to think about. Personally, I find that if I let my mind rest for more than a moment on these tiny extinguished lives, and on the cruelty of the society that regarded their suffering as an acceptable consequence of the need to satiate male lust, I experience a painful, squeezing, swooping sensation in my chest that I’ve discovered only since I became a mother myself
Poem: When I Am Dead, Will You Finally Shut The Fuck Up
For anyone else who danced to britney spears in her school uniform whilst being told that using a tampon was like having sex...and other teenage absurdities!
-- Hollie McNish, poet
YouTube video link
YouTube treats this poetry reading as adult content, which makes it show up here as a big, black box with a warning instead of the video link. That's why I've used a screenshot from the video, instead. It's just the poet reading a poem from her book, Slug.
The poem is about being being given wildly conflicting rules by society about how to go through life when you have a vagina. It may sound incredibly familiar to a great many of us.