#he’s so quick to realize when he’s wrong and seeks guidance and advice and even goes to other crews for help

[fuchsiagrasshopper]

Contending the Flame IX

Author’s note: Happy New Year everyone! Let’s start it off right with positivity and no looking back on a bad 2020. Can’t wait to continue to write for such excellent fans, you guys/gals are the best!

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Word count: 2741

Pairing: Ivar x Reader

Warnings: The usual, nothing new to add.

Since your unexpected kiss with Ivar in that dark corridor, you had avoided him. It was no simple task, as he seemed hell-bent on getting you alone if he could, and that made you feel like a mouse living with a cat. You double-checked every corner before turning, and you tried to finish your work before sundown. Audhild had been an additional ally to you, whether intentionally or by happy accident, you weren't sure. She kept you by her side even with tasks she could have accomplished without your help. You weren't certain of her relationships with the sons of Ragnar, only that she acted independently of them. That was something that still took getting used to; women operating on their own accord.

While you continued to ponder over Ivar's pursuing you, you also tried to make sense of your feelings. Men in general were something you had always been fearful of. You had seen rape and abuse from an early age on the streets of Rendlesham, and you learned quickly not to trust an innocent face. Ivar's face was fair when not screwed up and twisted in rage, and he had the shyness of a boy when he kissed you. But you could not forget he was a heathen. His affection had been severe, clutching and pulling with desperation you thought you would drown in. 

Your feelings were beginning to frighten you. You had returned the kiss without struggle, and you had been tempted to give in to more before a heightened sense of self had kicked in. This Viking had murdered your priests and his own brother, yet you were having lustful thoughts. God would be disappointed in your lack of restraint. 

You needed guidance. When you had been in the abbey, you would often go to the senior Sisters for advice. Audhild was patient, but she would not understand the inner turmoil of a Christian. There was only one other in the encampment who you could speak to, and the moment you were no longer needed by the healers, you snuck off towards the courtyard where Bishop Heahmund was being held.

Only one guard was posted now, as the Bishop had given them no more trouble since you had been brought to him. He was still fettered in chains, but he wore a serene look that would have angered the devil. His faith could not be shaken, and you envied his composure.

As you approached from the building across the way, the guard glanced at you. He did not dismiss you from coming closer to Heahmund, instead seeming to lose interest in you entirely. 

"Bishop Heahmund," You called softly, creeping nearer.

His eyes shot open, but he did not appear surprised by your intrusion. Giving you a smile, he indicated for you to sit. "Hello, Sister Mary Catharine. I wondered if I would see you again, but I had hoped. You are the bright light of York in this nest of heathens."

He couldn't seem to cease with the flattery, and you remembered the rumors about Heahmund being led into temptation by widows. Ivar wasn't wrong when he had accused you of having desirable thoughts for the man. Hearing stories of the Bishop, he had sounded larger than life, like a hero from a story. You used to envision him coming to take you away from your lonely days in the convent, this handsome and brave warrior. Those had been the daydreams of a young girl. Seeing him captured by the same heathens who had enslaved you, the glass had shattered, and what remained was just a man.

"How have you been?" You asked while tucking your dress behind you as you sat on the ground.

"My head is clear, and my resolve is set. They want me to fight for their cause, and I see no alternative to this request. If I want my freedom, I'll have to go along with whatever the Boneless one commands."

You frowned, not understanding why Ivar wanted Heahmund on his side. He was a devout Christian who wouldn't stray from his path and could turn on the heathens at the opportune moment. A part of you worried for Ivar. 

"Are you certain this is what God would want?"

"I do not see this as a defeat, rather that God has a new plan for me and this is the way I must follow," Heahmund said, and the chains rattled as he readjusted his position to look at you. "But you did not come here to discuss my fate, Sister. You are still bothered by what we spoke of the last time we met. The youngest son of Ragnar is still giving you trouble."

You ducked your head in a penitent gesture. "I feel lost, and in need of guidance. You keep calling me Sister, but shamefully I no longer think of myself as a nun."

"You have forsaken our Lord?"

You were surprised by how there was no venom behind his question, just bald-faced curiosity. "No, I still have my faith, but my station is misplaced. I would like it if you called me (Y/N)."

"(Y/N)? That was your name before you took your vows?"

"Yes, and though I haven't gone by it in years, I feel more like that abandoned little girl than I do Sister Mary Catharine."

"Their people are changing you," Heahmund said, appearing thoughtful. "Your heart is growing restless, and you are curious about their ways. The youngest son of Ragnar is trying to steal you away, but look sharp, for God would never allow one of his children to be pried from his embrace."

"Ivar he…he frightens me, but I am also excited when I am with him," You confessed, and your heart thundered at the admission. "I come alive when he's near. He sees me in a way that no one else ever has."

"(Y/N), look at me," Heahmund demanded, and you did, startled by his tone. "You cannot fall in love with this heathen. He will lead you astray, and leave when it is of most convenience for him. You must pray for forgiveness, and honor God by respecting the vows you have entered into."

His severe expression was marred by what he was preaching, and you felt your hand clench tight in anger. You surged up onto your feet, standing over him like a scarecrow in a field.

"And what of you, Bishop? Were you honoring your vows when you were between the legs of those widows?"

Heahmund turned away with a stiffness to his face, as if he couldn't believe you had spoken such a thing. You had surprised yourself as well. "That was different, and you wouldn't understand."

"You're right about that. Unless you were hoping to find God in the arms of those women, I couldn't possibly understand your reason."

"You are young, and you have yet to learn that life is often complicated."

You threw your arms up in the air, a wild gesture that probably resembled an agitated bird more than that of a rational woman. "Then let it be complicated. Hurt, and lust, and pain, and hunger; these aren't terrible things. They let us know that we are alive, and I've felt more of that here with these heathens than I ever did back home."

"You cannot possibly understand what you are saying," He argued back, and you thought he was going to lecture you further, but he took a moment to collect his breath. "My apologies. You sought my counsel, and I have only offered judgement. We should cling to each other in this desolate place if we are to survive the Northmen."

You didn't want to fight with him any longer either, but you could see that as far as Ivar and his people were concerned, you were not of one mind with Heahmund. Coming to him had erased some of your doubts, but you did not realize how much your tolerance towards the Vikings had shifted. There were bad men among them, but nothing anymore abhorrent than what you had seen from Saxons. 

"I'm sorry as well," You said, shifting back and forth on your feet. "I was quick to anger. Maybe I wasn't ready to admit in my heart how I have begun to change towards them."

"May I inquire something else about you? Seeing as I've already insulted you, I don't believe it is too bold to ask."

"You may," You said, permitting him. 

"If we were to be liberated by the King and his army this very moment, and brought back to Wessex, would you return to the Church?"

You came to your answer quickly and without trepidation. "No."

"I see." Heahmund didn't let on about how he felt about your answer, and you didn't want to know. Disappointing him seemed about the worst thing you could have done, and you didn't want to dwell on that. "(Y/N), you shouldn't have come here."

You frowned. "Why not?"

"We've been careless. Ivar knew you would come here. See there, the guard is gone."

You looked to where Heahmund's watch had been stationed to find the spot no longer occupied. The guard had taken his leave the moment you two had been engaged in your disagreement. Ivar must have known you would seek out Heahmund eventually. 

"It's fine," You said with more confidence than you felt. It was to be expected that Ivar would be waiting to speak with you again, and you knew he could have done so whenever he desired. He had held back on forcing you, but you didn't know if it was kindness or another manipulation on his part. "I think I'm ready to face him. There will be no more running for me."

"Go with the grace and strength God has given you. Even if you have turned from your path of the Church, God will never stop fighting for you."

You knelt before Heahmund. "Thank you, Bishop. I hope I am granted with clarity to see my true path."

You placed a parting kiss on his forehead and offered him a smile before standing. Taking a look around the courtyard you did not spot Ivar waiting for you. You knew he would find you though, and you began making your way back to the small room that you had been sharing with the other slaves who aided the healers. 

For such a short walk, one you had taken many times, it seemed to have grown in distance. You kept expecting Ivar or one of his guards to pop out and grab you, but nothing so substantial occurred. The faces you passed paid you no mind, and you arrived at your destination relieved and a little bit let down. You had been ready to get the confrontation over with.

You opened the door, ready to be met with the company of some of the other slaves. None of them spoke with you outside of your duties, and it bothered you. It was an act of self-preservation. They knew you held the attention of Ivar, and so that meant he spared them little mind. Better you than them was probably what many of them thought, and you couldn't fault them for that. It seemed you were fated to be alone. The only other slave who had gone out of her way to speak with you had been a spy, and you hadn't seen her since. Something about that felt deliberate.

When you entered inside of the cramped quarters, you did not find any of your bunkmates. You were alone with Ivar, and that meant his guard couldn't have been far behind. He had kept hidden, luring you into a false sense of security. 

"Hello," You greeted dumbly, not knowing what else to say. You kept tight by the door, not taking a step further in. Ivar was looking pensive, with an air of despondence clinging to him. 

"How is the Bishop fairing?"

"Resilient," You said, relaxing a bit that he didn't immediately discuss something of a more delicate nature. "He says he will fight for you."

"He doesn't have a choice. Either he fights or he dies, and I will need his strength soon enough," Ivar said, his severe tone causing you to flinch. With stiff movements, he maneuvered himself to stand, but he did not try to encroach upon your space. "The time to leave York has come, but some of my people have chosen to stay behind. Our army needs allies, but this business with the spy has made me doubtful of who I can trust."

"What will you do?" You asked, feeling out of depth to be having this conversation. You knew little of wars and alliances, and you didn't understand why Ivar was sharing this with you. 

"It's been decided that Ubbe will return home to Kattegat with a handful of warriors, under the pretense that he has abandoned our army. The woman ruling there murdered our mother, and it is likely she sent the spy."

"Where will you go then, if not home?"

Ivar hesitated, and you had never known him to look away when speaking with you. "I need to meet with Harald Finehair. He could be a potential ally to retake Kattegat...but I also suspect he sent the spy. The sons of Ragnar losing control of the Great Heathen army would benefit him in his bid to become King of Norway."

There was another man with lofty ambitions. The world must look different when you wake up as a Viking. You took a step forward, garnering Ivar's attention. 

"And where does he live?"

"In Vestfold, but you will not be going there," Ivar said, and he looked overcome with guilt. "I'm sending you with Ubbe to Kattegat. It is safer for you there."

"But I'm only a slave. What difference does it make where I go?"

"Harald and his men do not exercise restraint when it comes to Christians, and I can't have my eyes constantly on you nor can I keep a guard around one slave without arousing suspicion," He explained, but his reasoning was flawed. You had no doubt Heahmund would be going with him, and you knew Ivar didn't hold back when it came to murdering your people. "Ubbe will keep you safe, and Audhild will go with you as well."

You let out a dry chuckle, feeling any control over your life seeping through your fingers like sand. "I don't know what I'm supposed to do in Kattegat."

"I need you to stay alive," Ivar said with a fierceness that made it sound like an order. He crossed the short distance of the room before you could blink, and took your hands together to place something cold in your grasp. "Take this. It can take a life if you wield it right."

You looked down at the sheathed knife he had gifted you with. It was a heavy weight compared to the ones in the kitchen, and the hilt was carved into the shape of a wolf's head. You gave him a startled look before beginning to protest. "No, I cannot take a life Ivar."

You tried to return it to him, but he was forceful in making sure it stayed with you. "You will if someone wants to take yours. I won't let you die because of your stupid Christian beliefs about hell and perdition."

He squeezed his hand over the top of yours to secure your grip on the knife, and with the other he cupped the back of your neck, bringing you together for another kiss that you had been fearfully longing for. You didn't want to fight him, and you returned the kiss with all of the words you couldn't say. It wasn't a goodbye, you refused to believe that your time with this violent and vulnerable man was at an end. It was an 'until next we meet', and you cradled his jaw in your free hand, while you both still held onto the knife in the other. You don't know when you began to cry, only that the tears were silent as they slid down your face and transferred onto Ivar's cheeks. This caused him to hold you tighter. Even as the fire in the kiss dwindled, you clung to one another knowing this was the last moment you would share before you were to be parted.

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[sp3ncer-jean]

&&guests may mistake me as (danielle campbell), but really i am (spencer jean + cis female + she/her) and my DOB is (03/15/1997). i am applying for the (event coordinator) position as part of the EHP and would like to live in suite (209). i should be hired because i am (empathetic, honest & selfless), but i can also be (pessimistic, fearful & indecisive) at times. personally, i like to (blog & drink wine) when off the clock, but that won’t interfere with work.

tw; rape, abusive relationship.

Born on the West-side of the city.

The youngest of 4 kids. 

Her whole family didn’t have much growing up. Both parents worked weird jobs to get them all through financially.

She was really close to her older cousin, Dan from a very young age. He would take her out often and they got very close. 

Most of the family didn’t think much of it until Spencer turned six, and even then it was just weird glances occasionally from family members. 

Spencer herself felt like Dan hung the moon in the sky. He was always kind to her and never made her feel stupid. Plus he was older and gave her so much of his time so it always made her feel special.

It was not longer after her eighth birthday that Dan pulled her to the side and said he wanted to play a new game. She was hesitant at first to give him what he explained as “special touches” but he insisted that it would make him very happy, and she always wanted him to be happy.

This “game” went on until she was eleven. She explained it to her father who was horrified after he realized what this game was. He confronted Dan, who was now eighteen, and he denied it. 

Not longer after, Spencer’s three brothers paid him a visit. He was found in an alley all alone the next morning, completely naked and unconscious. 

Spencer felt like a husk after she no longer had any contact with Dan. So much so that she began to lash out and she wasn’t the bright and happy child that she had been. 

Her mother and father started looking into programs for her but quickly realized that they couldn’t afford any of them. After much conversation and tears, they decided to pack her up and send her to her mother’s widowed sister, Maggie.

Maggie was always very eclectic and outspoken and she’d been lonely since her husband died before they could have any children together. She was so excited to have Spencer come stay with her that she gave her her own completely furnished room with a computer and TV. 

Spencer was very hesitant to leave her parents and brothers. She knew that their home wasn’t much, but it was home. Maggie lived on the rich side of town and she wasn’t completely sure if she’d be able to fit in over there. Her mother and father both explained to her that she could come visit whenever she wanted and her brothers would come by as often as they could. 

After reassurance from her parents, Spencer packed up the very few belongings she actually cared about and moved in with Maggie. 

The first few weeks were a whirlwind of shopping trips. Maggie worked from home for a high profile company and her husband had left her a rather large fortune. And Maggie already adored Spencer and spared no expense for her niece. New clothes, games, furniture for her room. Spencer wasn’t exactly comfortable with all the money she knew was being spent, but she already felt as if she could trust Maggie more than anyone else she’d ever met. 

Maggie got Spencer into therapy not long after she moved in. Her therapist explained as gently as she could to Spencer what had happened to her. No one up until that point had explained to Spencer that what Dan had done was wrong, because they didn’t really know how. Maggie had to take her home in tears after that specific therapy session. 

Spencer’s therapist suggested different activities to help her cope. She began painting, writing, playing various instruments as well as throwing herself headfirst into her academics all while adjusting to her new life with Maggie. 

Under Maggie’s guidance, Spencer breezed through middle school. She made a small group of friends and socialized fairly often in and out of school. By eighth grade, she was in all honors classes and even there she was requesting harder and more complex assignments. 

Spencer visited often with her family and grew extremely close to her brothers. Her father often still blamed himself for her relationship with Dan but her mother often scolded him for this as lovingly as she could. As they watched their daughter flourish with Maggie, they both knew that they had made the right choice for her, even if sometimes it didn’t feel that way. 

Her freshman year of high school, Maggie requested the school test her for her grade level versus just putting her into freshman classes. Maggie knew that Spencer had much more in her mind than she often led on, and insisted that she be tested. To Spencer’s shock, she tested out of both freshman and sophomore year. According to all of her test scores, she was at a junior year level. She was signed up for junior year classes and started her first year of high school. 

Spencer was terrified of the potential bullying this situation would be her into, but much to her surprise, she made many friends with her upperclassmen peers. They often came to her for advice and homework help. 

She graduated Valedictorian at the age of sixteen. She had colleges seeking her out before the end of her junior year but she didn’t want to leave Maggie. Over the five years she had spent with Maggie, they had grown very very close. Spencer adored Maggie and the little routine that they had just naturally fallen into. 

Spencer took courses to become an event planner/coordinator. It was something she’d always enjoyed helping with as a kid and teenager so she figured why not. Plus living in the Chicago area, she knew there would never be a shortage of people needing an event coordinator. She was able to get all of the certifications she needed in a little less than a year. At seventeen, she began going to the University of Chicago. She majored in Psychology and minored in Visual Arts. 

College for Spencer was amazing. She started dating not long after she started attending University because in high school she felt like it just wasn’t the right time after all of her trauma and hung out with the potheads on campus.

She met a guy named Tanner on her first day of classes. He was her ideal man, or at least what she thought it was. He held doors open for her, brought her flowers, and held her hand around his friends. But not long after they started getting physically involved, he started to feel like he had some entitlement to her. He started to convince her she didn’t need to spend time with her family and more importantly, Maggie. He started keeping her at his apartment as often as he could. And quickly, it turned physically abusive. He started to convince her she wasn’t worth any of the time anyone else but him was giving her. 

Spencer was finally able to sneak away and see Maggie for a weekend. She was telling Maggie what had been happening and she watched her get angrier than she had ever seen her, even after telling her everything that had happened with Dan when she was a kid. Maggie drove her back to Tanner’s apartment and helped her collect her things, as well as reporting him to the campus. 

Tanner did attempt to contact her after he was expelled from the University but Maggie was quick to help her get a restraining order just in case. 

Spencer graduated with her degree at the age of twenty-one and on the dean’s list. Her whole family showed up for her graduation and she was given a bouquet by each of her brothers.

Her parents offered for her to move back in with them, but she politely declined. She wanted to stay with Maggie and help her with whatever she could. 

Maggie would bring Spencer to the Malnati when she had bad weeks at school for a small get away, so when she found out they were hiring, she jumped on the opportunity as quickly as she could. 

[venuspapi]

Signs as characters from ‘Black Panther’(2018) [Spoilers!]

Aries: Erik “Killmonger” Stevens / N’Jadaka

Born half a world away from his home, Erik was caught between the regal heritage of Wakandan Royalty, and the more tragic history of his ancestors from the US. He is angry, and has always been angry, with both his father and his heritage being taken away from him. He travels to Wakanda to burn it all down to the ground and start over, better, stronger, powerful and unafraid. Not for the nation that he thinks callously stood by and watched, but for him, and people like him. He consistently goes too far; he refuses to listen to others, disrespects tradition, and all life around him. The burden he carries is his and his alone, and he wants to keep it that way, accepting no help or advice. An angry, righteous, wronged child, who became an angry, righteous man, one who went about life in all the wrong ways. Not only does he claim to be helping people, but in the process, he becomes the people he fights against. He sees the error of his ways only when he has no choice, faced with the severity of what he wanted to do.

We love villainizing black revolutionaries and portraying them as New Imperialists of Color™ even though we know that’s not what anyone thinks and is only a trope based on white fears of black liberation

Taurus: King M’Baku

The leader of the Jabari, a tribe isolated in the mountains, deeply respecting the land and the ecosystem of where they come from. They don’t even use the same technology; even though they are just as advanced as other Wakandans they don’t rely on Vibranium. They rely only on themselves and their lands, using Vibranium-infused woods to build and innovate. This reflects also in their cultural divide from the rest of Wakanda, preferring to watch on as they worship the Gorilla-god Hanuman, instead of the Panther goddess Bast. They are direct, and slow of action, but once it is undertaken they cannot be stopped. All that being said; they are not cold or unfeeling. There is warmth, and humor, and comfort to be found here too. M’Baku is a proud leader, a respectful one, and who gives people the respect he thinks they are due. Ultimately, it is this respect which compels him to come to the aid of King T’Challa. He has not forgotten his grievances, but he does not let them blind him to what must be done, for his people. He has the intuitive knowledge that though the Jabari and the other tribes of Wakanda are distinct, they are equal parts of a unified whole, a family deserving of security and comfort.

Gemini: Princess Shuri

The bubbly, mischievous Princess of Wakanda, with a brilliant mind that leaves others behind her. She supplies the Kingdom with the newest technological advancements possible, and is the spark that keeps everyone going when things seem too dark. She is, canonically, the smartest person on the planet; Her intelligence knows no bounds. She prevents those around her from being too stuck in their ways, simultaneously progressive while valuing the traditions of her country. As the youngest character in the film, she keeps everyone else on their toes with quick witted jokes. She later proves herself a formidable opponent in combat too, though. Her emotions are also kept under the surface quite well; you forget she is a young girl grieving her father until she grieves the possible loss of her older brother, and it’s a memorable moment for being one of the only times she doesn’t have something funny to say, or a smile on her face.

Cancer: Queen Ramonda

A regal presence, and one of the most important people in the film. She is a new feminine archetype, a queen mother composed. The way her son never hesitates to come to her for advice speaks to the way she has been there for him, as a mother should be for her child. She makes sure her royal children toe the line, encouraging them to change and adapt while keeping them realistically grounded in tradition and respect. The love she has for her husband, her son, her daughter, and her country is part of what drives the film forward. Her guidance is what has allowed King T’Chaka and King T’Challa to become the men they were and are, and what has allowed Shuri to shine the way she does, even if it’s not obvious. Her grief and her love are one of the most powerful forces in the film.

Leo: King T’Chaka

Though we saw more of him alive in Captain America: Civil War than we do in this film (as it starts shortly after his death), King T’Chaka’s legacy touches every aspect of the story. The decisions he makes earlier in his reign and he legacy of the country he ruled are his son’s to inherit. T’Challa feels eclipsed by him, haunted by him, and misses him all at once. Even in death, T’Chaka urges his son to not stray too far from the path he himself walked as king while urging him to fix his mistakes. It was his duty to punish those who betray the country of Wakanda, and though he pays a price, it is eventually his son who must pay a bigger one. The gravity he exerts is immense. He is an avatar for the past, the noble history of Wakanda and the entire Panther tribe who has come before T’Challa and before the current generation. 

Virgo: Nakia

A Wakandan Spy, or ‘War Dog’, keeping intelligence on the goings-on of other countries, their governments, and their populations in the name of Wakanda’s. We first see her comforting and consoling a desperate group of kidnapped women, before her mission is interrupted and she is forced to finish it ahead of time. A paragon of efficiency, competency, and beauty, she is deeply analytical and yet compassionate; especially with regards to the outside world and Wakanda’s complicated relationship with it. She does not let romance or personal motivations cloud her judgement; she thinks only of making the world around her a better place for all people. She is deeply loyal and objective. Her vision of Wakanda never faltered and neither did her loyalty -- Erik Killmonger became King, and when she deemed him unfit to rule, she adapted quickly and forced Okoye to choose definitively. She is the subtle (and unsubtle) agent of change throughout the movie. 

Libra: King T’Challa

T’Challa comes to the throne in politically challenged times; the Jabari grow restless, and directly challenge him for the throne; his father has died; the secrets of Wakanda must be hidden even as their proud legacy is upheld, and within all these contradictions, there is another secret; Erik Killmonger reveals himself to be N’Jadaka, son of N’Jobu, who was brother to T’Chaka. Even as T’Challa walks in the footsteps of his father, he refuses to commit the same mistakes. Though he asks for counsel from a few trusted others, he also trusts himself enough to do what is right by his country first and foremost. Throughout the film, he challenges his own perceptions and comes to conclusions based not only on emotion, not only on logic, not only on tradition, and not only on the motives and opinions of others, but on an acknowledgement of all these things. 

Also, he still freezes when he sees his crush. It’s really cute LOL

Scorpio: W’Kabi

W’Kabi is... interesting to me. His role in the film is somewhat understated, but he is a prominent figure in the Border Tribe and a friend to T’Challa. He and his people serve as a powerful shell for the nation of Wakanda, not through force or violence but through illusion and the maintenance of it. His people are the first line of defense, the ones who greet the world playing the parts of the deprived shepherds, the impoverished populations. They know what the international community thinks of Wakanda (and of the images that persist in association to the continent of Africa and it’s people) and they maintain that facade deliberately, as they have for centuries. It’s not all lies with him either though... because he values that which is real. He asked T’Challa to return to him with the one who killed his parents, Ulysses Klaue, and where T’Challa failed him, Erik Killmonger didn’t. Fueled by a vengeance he didn’t even get to witness, against an enemy he never saw; Erik Killmonger and W’Kabi saw themselves in each other, and he put his trust in a man who fulfilled a promise his lifelong friend couldn’t. He tests his relationships, too, most overtly when he asked his wife General Okoye if she would kill him, and she said yes. He tests the boundaries of T’Challa’s forgiveness too, after everything is said and done. 

Sagittarius: Ulysses Klaue

He lives a carefree life; he takes risks, and if they don’t pay off, they don’t, but if they do, he wins! He’s clearly a gambler. He knows the legacy he inherits as a white man plundering a wealthy African kingdom, and not only does he know it, he enjoys it. He revels in it. He gambles with his life trying to go back to Wakanda to steal from it, all because he wants to. He wanted to see its wealth for himself and chose to do so by any means he could. He considers himself an expert of sorts, happily preaching to CIA Agent Everett Ross about the wealth of Wakanda and the lie they tell the rest of the world. He travels the world in this manner, always seeking something more, experiences to have and objects to accumulate. 

Capricorn: General Okoye

From the first moment we see her to the last glimpse of her on screen, she exudes nothing but confidence, loyalty, and competency. And yet... she’s complex and vulnerable in a way that doesn’t negate any of those qualities. She chides T’Challa as much as she defers to him, counsels him as much as she is counseled in turn. They aren’t just employee and employer, protector and protected, they are friends and protectors of each other. Her loyalty to her country is resolute, and as shaken as she is that Erik Killmonger sat on the throne she took it upon herself to protect him as the ruler of Wakanda, as was her duty. It’s important to realize that her not stopping Nakia, her inaction, was in itself an action. Her directing the Dora Milaje to fight against King Killmonger turned the tide, and at great personal cost to herself. She lost a friend in the battle, one under her charge, and she would’ve been trampled by her own rhino had it not recognized her! Her own husband tried to test her commitment to him and was faced with the reality that her loyalty is first and foremost to her people, her country, to tradition. 

Aquarius: Prince N’Jobu

Prince N’Jobu wanted to help the world and paid a price for it. His pain was real; the suffering he saw was real, the suffering of his son who grew up without him was real. The help he wanted to offer to the diaspora was real. He felt it so deeply necessary he willingly allied himself with Ulysses Klaue and caused the deaths of several Wakandan citizens in order to arm people around the world. His son only followed in his father’s footsteps, more angry and personally than N’Jobu ever could’ve been. At the end of the day, that’s the difference; detachment and desire. N’Jobu was too compassionate and too extreme, his son too angry and too shortsighted. 

also the opening is literally him telling his son about the Kingdom of Wakanda, explaining just how it came to be with a reverence and a detail that spoke of how much he wanted to change it for the better. and even though he never went back. Which fucking sucks 

Pisces: Zuri

Zuri’s role is that of the Priest, the Shaman, the Human Voice through which the Gods speak. He bestows spiritual authority onto T’Challa and formally passes the crown on. He guides T’Challa to the ancestral plane to speak to T’Chaka once more. This is symbolic; the sign of Pisces has always been a transition, the last experience before we cross a boundary, whether that is to the afterlife, to a new one, or to the Whole. The weight he holds as a spiritual guide to the King and to the people of Wakanda is visible as soon as he is on screen, and it is because of him that many of the events of the film even happen. His presence is very “behind the scenes” at times, which I think fits the mold of this sign really well. He was shot at by N’Jobu, which caused T’Chaka to kill him, something that’s interesting. Without him, I don’t know how the film would’ve (or even could’ve) unfolded.

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I have a prayer request.....I can’t go into grave detail because it’ll take forever but I’m trying to live for God in the midst of my emotions. My heart is growing really hard towards people to the point where I’m giving up all hope and love because I’m seeing it’s pointless in a world of disappointment, hurt, selfishness. I go through so many emotions and I wanna get my hopes up about this guy that I’m into (he’s a Christian, and he likes me too) but then I think what’s the point? I have-

-no hope for something like that and I’m just running out of hope for myself and people in general

It’s ok. I can relate to your emotions. I was exactly like this a few years ago. I’ve always been emotional ever since I can remember. I used to think of my often changing feelings as a curse because they always came with overthinking and confusion, then being misunderstood to just being called weird. My emotions have brought me to a place of acceptance though and I believe I was made to be emotional for a reason and that reason is so I can relate to the thoughts and feelings of others, in order than I might be able to help them understand through the knowledge of God why they’re going through what they’re going through. My ever changing feelings have led me to pray often for more faith, patience, confidence, and trust in Him. And I believe everyone needs to do the same. He made us with feelings whether we like them or not, because they are there to serve as triggers and reminders to turn to Him. So many people depend on their feelings, it’s okay to notice feelings but we’re not suppose to dwell in them whether they’re good or bad. We can’t dwell on good feelings for too long because the danger in that is it can lead to an obsession of recreating experiences (i.e. over fantasizing, superstitions, substance abuse..). Idleness and laziness could be the result. And if you dwell on bad feelings for too long, it could lead to the same things or worse, it could lead to hatred and violence. We’re humans to be affected by emotions, but we were also created with souls and we need guidance from God so we know how to handle our feelings. For me my emotions get deep and serious during the last 2 weeks before I get my period. I make sure to prepare myself for that time because my thoughts can be very irrational. The last week or two for most women are the toughest as well. Small issues become bigger problems, bad habits become more evident, insecurities redevelop, doubts and fears seem harder to overcome, words are taken more sensitively and personally, being alone for good makes more sense than spending time with people, suicidal thoughts are much more common during those times….I could go on, but God’s Grace produces so much more good in people if they just learn to use their feelings as reminders to focus on faith instead of hoarding disappointments because of let downs. FORGIVE. FORGIVENESS IS NOT ONLY SOMETHING VERBALLY GIVEN TO PEOPLE, IT’S PEACE AND FREEDOM YOU RECEIVE BECAUSE YOU FINALLY LET GO OF THE HURT(S) AND HANDED IT TO GOD. YOU HOARD PEOPLE’S SINS/WRONGDOING TOWARDS YOU BY REMAINING DISAPPOINTED AND THEREFORE UNABLE TO GIVE OTHERS A CHANCE. YOU CAN NEVER TRULY MOVE ON IF YOU DON’T ALLOW GOD TO TAKE THE DISAPPOINTMENT FROM YOU. YOU HAVE TO FORGIVE IN YOUR HEART AND SURRENDER BECAUSE THOSE DISAPPOINTMENTS ARE NOT YOURS TO KEEP, THEY’RE GOD’S TO HANDLE. WHETHER OR NOT YOU’RE A WOMAN AND WHETHER OR NOT YOU ARE AFFECTED EMOTIONALLY DURING THOSE WEEKS JUST KNOW THAT FEELINGS ARE TEMPORARY, YOU SHOULDN’T TRUST THEM SO MUCH BECAUSE ALL THEY DO IS BUILD UP YOUR JUDGEMENT AND CRITICISM WHICH DEFINES YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING OF RELATIONSHIPS. YOU’RE NOT SUPPOSE TO TRUST YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING. GOD KNOWS OUR COMMON SENSE LACKS HIS WISDOM. OTHER PEOPLE HAVE EMOTIONS TOO AND IF EVERYONE JUST TRUSTED THEIR FEELINGS RATHER THAN THEIR FAITH, WE WOULD NOT BE LIVING IN GOD’S WILL. HE IS THE CREATOR OF RELATIONSHIPS. HE MEANT THERE TO BE COMPANIONSHIP AMONG HIS PEOPLE. WE ARE TO OBEY HIM BY TAKING OUR THOUGHTS CAPTIVE AND MAKE THEM OBEDIENT TO CHRIST (2 CORINTHIANS 10:5). WHAT YOU FOCUS ON IS WHAT YOU END UP FEELING. YOU HAVE A CHOICE ABOUT HOW YOU SHOULD FEEL BY CONTROLLING WHAT YOU THINK, MORE SPECIFICALLY WHAT YOU BELIEVE. LOOK UP BIBLE VERSES TURNED INTO POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS faithandhealthconnection.org. GOD’S TRUTH AND PROMISES NEVER FAIL. IF YOU’RE TURNED OFF BY THE IDEA OF RELATIONSHIPS, THEN IT’S A TRUST ISSUE. YOU CAN ONLY LEARN TO TRUST PEOPLE AGAIN ONCE YOU ALLOW GOD TO TEACH YOU ABOUT FORGIVENESS. IF YOU DO NOT TRUST GOD ENOUGH, THEN YOU WILL DEFINITELY NOT TRUST ANYONE WHO WANTS TO KNOW YOU FOR YOU. YOU ALSO CANNOT SERVE GOD IF YOU CANNOT SERVE HIS PEOPLE. Please don’t run out of hope for people. We make mistakes just like you. The Lord is so forgiving and He has so much faith in everyone, He just wants you to pass along that same love. I understand that it might be overwhelming for you to start loving everyone, so I would just focus on loving God as much as you can. It’s ok to be selfish for now, pray for yourself like you’ve never prayed before, focus on your relationship with Him, pray that He will change your heart to appreciate people, to see the good in them so He grants your desire for real and meaningful relationships. Pray to see the good in yourself too, that you are capable of trusting, forgiving, and loving people unconditionally. It’s in His will you become that person of integrity as long as it’s Him you’re praying to. He knows very well what you long for, what things make you happy and sad, but even though He already knows those things about you, He wants to hear those words come from you. Be specific about what you expect from your relationships and ask Him what you must realize about yourself, what must be changed and how you can change. REMEMBER THAT YOU CAN ONLY TRULY LOVE A PERSON WITH YOUR BEST WHEN YOU MAKE GOD FIRST ABOVE ALL OTHER RELATIONSHIPS AND YOU WILL ONLY SEE YOUR DESIRES COME TRUE THE MORE YOU ACKNOWLEDGE HIM AND THE NEW DESIRES HE PUTS IN YOU. David was betrayed many times. He learned that people will always fail him, but he could never go wrong by trusting in God. You’re going to deal with people no matter what because life goes on, but it’s ultimately better when God is behind your convictions. This issue with trust and relationships reminds me a lot of something I replied to not long ago…please read it, it might help http://godfirstgodalways.tumblr.com/post/167875743231/could-you-biblically-draw-the-line-between-having

Lord it’s awesome to call on You, the King of glory, the King deserving of all our praise. We trust in the name of Jesus because there is no other who can help us when we’ve lost all hope. God of love, we adore You, God of forgiveness we honor You, God of all, we worship You. Father I lift up my friend to You who is losing faith in relationships, be that One to remind them how they have even come to exist, the One who planned their birth, You’re the One who created that desire for connection in them. Lord it’s because of You we want love, it’s because of You we long for friendships, and it’s because of You we want to be understood and accepted. You made us to live purposefully, so we thank You for this, this time we have right now that brings us back to You to focus on You and less on ourselves. We thank You for every chance You give us to interact and receive from others, every chance You give us to encounter potential friendships, every chance You give us to experience interest in others because of what You enable us to see in them, and thank You for every chance we have when others are listening and willing to understand us. Thank You for being that One who creates the time You know we need apart from others and the time You know we need to draw closer to You. Thank You. Lord Jesus, I ask that You reveal Yourself to be that Best Friend this person needs right now, remind them that it’s because of Your love for them that they have a deep desire to share that with others, it’s because of Your unconditional, relentless, and perfect love they are searching for loving relationships. God we love because You first loved us, and we return to that absolute truth so we can understand the reason why we even live. Father You equip us to love meaningfully when we draw ourselves closer to the source of it, so I ask that You open up the eyes of those who can’t find what they’re searching for. Open up their eyes to turn to You. I ask that You convict their hearts to let You in with complete trust in how You are going to be ending their search, mend their brokenness, help them to patiently let You pour Your forgiveness for all the times they have counted their disappointments and not your blessings. Lord open their eyes to see how much You keep giving so that they take their chances to show others this undeniable love You give them. I trust that You will never forsake their desire for respect, honesty, commitment, trust, sincerity, and everything else they righteously want because it is You who made us to seek great qualities we want others to see in ourselves. So please help them to be with others as well as with themselves that they may also be quick to forgive and see past their shortcomings, and lead them always to humble themselves before You and others that they may be treated with what they deserve in return. In Jesus name I pray, amen.

1 Corithians 15:33 Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”

Luke 6:31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.

Psalm 118:8–9 It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in man. It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in princes.

Proverbs 19:20  Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise.

Proverbs 22:24-25 Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared.

Psalm 118:6 The Lord is on my side, I will not fear. What can man do to me?

Colossians 3:12-14 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

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