#he’ll like me back but no it rly wasnt worth it) BC a few years ago i up and told him i didnt feel comfortable with him calling me his best
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heybinnie · 5 years ago
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#idk if ive told this story but theres this guy who used to be my childhood best friend#we’re not rly friends anymore bc a few years ago (after 8 years of friendship bc i liked him and i thought hm if i wait long enough maybe he#he’ll like me back but no it rly wasnt worth it) BC a few years ago i up and told him i didnt feel comfortable with him calling me his best#friend anymore bc he only ever came to me to talk abt his girlfriends and how they were toxic to him and i swear i gave him solid advice but#he never listened nd generally when i wanted to Share with him my own probs and stuff he wouldnt listen to me like i did for him#my other Genuine best friend convinced me hes the one toxic here and he really really was so i told him stop calling me that and he legit#stopped talking to me the next day and for the next three years#ok Anyway thats the context#so abt three weeks ago it got rly weird bc he suddenly dmed me on insta talking abt film photography#which is fine bc i like film too and we Occasionally talk on insta (but its in bursts and never every now and then)#and he was suddenly asking to meet and stuff to help him with a shoot based on a theme he had in mind#it had a lot to do with our neighbourhood and that i lived the closest to him and ‘is the closest’ to him as a friend now#so in a sense i was kinda like supposed to help him shoot for stuff help him get insp and whatever it honestly was rly sudden tbh but i Get#it#and it all still felt super fishy so i went to see his profile and all his photos with his now ex gf were all gone and it was very sudden#and i was thinking this guy better not be Doing it again......bc he did this same thing way back then where he only looked for me when his t#thing with any of his gfs wasnt working out and i told my Actual Best friend and she was like dont do it . youre too kind like that but dont#do it...she rly hates this guy btw lol anyway so i was rly super uncomfortable bc it rly did feel like that like how it felt all those years#ago and i told him dude i cant meet you tmr im actually busy (i rly was) and theres another reason but i’ll tell sometime later#and he was like hm ok and it probly might make me look like an ass bc this is a guy looking for comfort and stuff but yall gotta understand#i wasnt in the best place that week but anyway#literally. Literally a week later he starts posting pics with this completely new and different girl#and suddenly hes saying he loves her and where has she been all his life and itsjust so Weird bc he was So In Love with his previous girlfri#end too and i just??? its literally why i didnt want to meet with him bc it felt So Weird that he just broke up and suddenly hes seeing#someone else....just didnt sit right with me in my guts even if he probably needed someone bc i know there are people like that#that was literally the whole point of me saying i’ll tell the other reason later i swear it was too give him Some Time and suddenly this guy#anyway this is honestly the tiniest issue right now in my life but heres one drama thats happened during my Mini Miniest hiatus#im thinking ok maybe this is how he copes aka fall fast to forget prev relationships but i wonder if his new girl has any idea.........bc i#was sincerely hoping for the best for his prev girlfriend....i know too much abt how he is even if we havent been Friends friends for 10#years now...hes literally the same i swear and i just wish. i just hope his new girlfriend wont be too broken idk
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