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candies-and-eyeliner · 21 hours ago

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I was driving today without thinking about anything in particular when i suddenly thought "the relationship doesn't have to be bad for you to leave" which is like, objectively true but??? I've been single for 4 years??? Like yes it DOES apply to my previous relationships and it's definitely something I should keep in mind going forward but what prompted my brain to gain enough XP at this specific moment to unlock that thought

#he was nice and treated me right and we had a lot of fun together #but ultimately it didnt feel like we were a couple #more like besties going through life together #i was changing and evolving and getting my degree and trying new things and stuff but he kind of just stayed the same #so yeah #he really was an amazing guy and we understood eachother so deeply sometimes we felt like we could read eachothers mind #but ultimately yeah i shouldve left sooner #when i realized that even though we loved eachother it just wasn't optimal #i just got SO confortable in that relationship i kinda forgot that i didn't have to be ok with 'pretty good for the most part'#also like we shared a friend group and it felt scary cause i didnt know how people would react and if theyd still want to see me etc etc #which was silly in retrospect cause ofc just because we werent together anymore they wouldnt automatically hate me lol #everyone was pretty chill abt it #anyway #tranche de vie #thanks for coming to my ted talk

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