#happyfats

[queerlytical]

Note to self: don’t be creepy - 15/08/2020

*sigh*

I still get urges to do stuff for people who aren’t in my life anymore.  Anonymously. 

In my head I am this amazing romantic person like you see in films.

Doing grand gestures that will show that I still care about someone and that I’m still thinking of them. 

In reality.. I know it would just come across as stalker-ish and creepy. 

I remember watching You on Netflix and at first I related to Joe until he became.. physically abusive and murderous. 

Now I know that I need to learn to step away when the message is clear that I’m blocked. No contact is no contact and there’s no way around it unless the other person chooses to open up contact again.

I’ll talk about it here and hope it helps make the urges go away.

I saw an amazing gift I could have gotten my ex today for her birthday in November.

A signed Sofie Hagen Happy Fat book. 

But I imagine someone else will get it for her..

And it included a message.. and what would I even put? 

For her to accept it, she couldn’t know it was from me but I’d still want it to be meaningful.  I’d probably put something like “you’re amazing. don’t ever let anyone make you think otherwise”.  If i was trying to be cryptic maybe I’d go for “sorry, baby” as our Killing Eve reference.....

I’m so weird. whyyyy

[unlikelychaossong]

On this special occasion of Father’s day, let us celebrate all the fathers, their strength, and their sacrifices. PertSol wishes all fathers a very Happy Father's Day!

[eecastr0]

Una increíble experiencia se vive en el restaurante @chicken_chicpty hoy me deleite con una #porchetta acompañada común spicy #kimchi que no te lo puedes perder. - - - - - - - #SoyUnGordoFeliz #YoConMigo #Me #Gordo #Fun #Trip #HappyFat #WorkAholic #WorkingHard #LuxuryLifeStyle #PuraTaquilla #PanamaEstaDeModa #NoSoyChefSoloMeGustaComer #Comidacriolla #ahappyfat #happyfat #NosoyChef #RicoTodo #Megustacome #foodiepanama #lataquillaesencasa (at Chicken chic) https://www.instagram.com/p/CSm6odBHBrn/?utm_medium=tumblr

[dandydoodlezart]

Reupload due to spelling error. I highly recommend reading Sofie Hagen’s book Happy Fat. It really changed my perspective on my body and relationship with food 💜thank you @sofiehagendk #illustration #art #digitalart #sofiehagen #fanart #happyfat #denmark🇩🇰 #comedian #fatliberation #representationmatters #fatrepresention #fatliberation #bodypositivity #queerart #queer #lgbtq🌈 #lgbt #nonbinary #genderqueer #positivity #quotes #lifeisgood #belly #bodyconfience https://www.instagram.com/p/B76cyQSJK7k/?igshid=rm505y0chd2f

[fatmasc]

Fatblr block list

Unfortunately there are so many fat blogs that are just straight up racist or racist apologists, as well as other gross things

worth-beyond-a-number-scale/Hannah (callout here)

fatphobiabusters (has Hannah as a mod and blocked anyone who brought up her racism, evidence here)

fatandlikeitlikethat (blocked me for linking them to Hannah's callout, even though she was asking for sources)

fine-ass-fatshion (continues to interact with Hannah and has referred to her being called out as "cancel culture")

starlighthh (continued to and still does interact with hannah even while in my discord server where Hannah's action were detailed)

squirreltastic (mod squirrel on fatphobiabusters)

happyfat (another one of squirrel's blogs)

please send me any more fat blogs that are racist, especially if they are complicit in Hannah’s continued actions against people of color. of course, other problematic fat blogs will be added here but there is clearly a huge racism issue in the fat community here

[mybodyliberation]

Truthfully I never imagined that one day when it came to trying on dresses that I would be able to consider having my arms out. I have always had big arms and for a long time they were a great source of grief. I remember finding every opportunity to layer, wear long sleeves and cardigans. I saw my fat arms as grotesque and I was convinced the world would see them as such. Many moons later, and still admittedly always a continuing journey, I am so grateful to be set free from the shackles of the idea that any part of me is unworthy or obscene. I love my soft arms and all that they do for me. I love that my mind doesn't fixate on them worrying about what they will look like. The only thing I thought about when dress shopping was about finding something that felt like me. I'm grateful that this experience came later in my life where I am free! • • • #fatbride #bigarms #plussizebride #happyfat #weddingdressshopping #weddingblog (at WED2B) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2zWfEmnmPU/?igshid=13obh6bopan7e

[you-are-crazy-beautiful]

Kieutou analysis 7

The amount of subtle hints and decisions in this one clip absolutely floored me when I first saw it and I don’t know if I have ever been more shook while watching something. I actually ended up on my hall floor, while my mum laughed at me for being dramatic. 

Before this clip, I thought we were going to get Kieutou, but I was 100% sure afterwards. Which I am so thankful for because it would have been torture not knowing for sure if Kieu My was going to be the LI until a number of clips later. 

The first subtle hint is basically as soon as Fatou enters the shared apartment

Fatou looks down and spots something, which causes Ava to explain that Kieu My is there. 

I genuinely rushed out of my room screaming ‘Kieu My is here’ because I wasn’t expecting her to make an appearance first episode. 

Then they actually did a close up of Kieu My’s shoes (which must have been what Fatou recognised in the beginning) and in the mirror reflection you can see Fatou’s boots side-by-side with Kieu My’s (poetic cinema meme)

This was exactly the moment I knew Kieutou was happening because I was like wtf they’re giving us a shot of the shoes (*Ben Wyatt voice* it’s the shoes. It’s all about the shoes)

Then they had Fatou hearing and being enchanted by Kieu My through the freaking wall!

The excellence! 

Then this camera spin was one of the longest 4 seconds of my life and it was 4 seconds filled with fear

Even though I was sure of Kieutou, I was praying the call wasn’t from some random woman or Yara (I’m looking at you tumblr)

Then to be graced with this 

(gif courtesy of @maybeineternity9)

This was the exact moment I sprinted from my room and lay on the hall floor, and was actually nearly crying with relief and happiness that we were going to get this amazing couple!

Look at the way she looks at Fatou! I mean she’s literally checking her out from head to toe. I was a clown the first time too and the way she walked forward with so much purpose, I thought she was going to kiss Fatou, and it was going to be Fatou’s dream at work or something. 

Then they both wait for the other to be the first one to say something 

Then when Fatou begins to start talking Kieu My becomes alert and you can see her quickly move her eyes to the side to see Fatou, and that she’s thinking ‘okay she’s about to say something’ (it’s really quick) 

(Again I apologise for my crappy screenshots. I wish I could make gifs)

Then Fatou asks what she’s doing there 

I thought initially that Kieu My was being sarcastic, and playing it cool, but after 6x02, I think she’s just really awkward, and doesn’t understand the question, and is confused why Fatou is asking her an obvious question (she’s walking on the street)

Then she starts laughing at Fatou when she starts stuttering her words (like she also does in clip 3 6x02) and I think she’s also laughing at herself for not getting what Fatou was asking originally. 

One of my favourite moments is this face Kieu My makes when she asks Fatou about the axolotl and Fatou starts explaining it.

I don’t know how to describe this expression, but it’s one you make when you are interested and sizing something up. She also makes it in 5x10 when she is eyeing up the cold pizza

This was the day Fatou was uploading all the videos on IG of her talking about  the different fish, so I’m pretty sure Kieu My just wanted to hear her talk about the axolotl. This was the look she gave Fatou when she is geeking out

And then she purposefully forces her eyes away. So by the time Fatou turns to look at her, Kieu My looks like she isn’t hanging on every word, and doesn’t get caught, like they also both did in the Gay silence clip (i.e. recreating the famous Peter Pan scene) 

Kieu My then is psyching herself up and you can see the wheels spinning in her head about what she should do (which is even cuter knowing she can’t talk to girls) And she just says ‘May I’?

Which is where the one brain cell makes an appearance (the first of many with these two) and Fatous thinks she’s meaning the axolotl. 

I don’t know if it’s a sticker or painted on, but I laugh everytime, because Fatou, what were you going to do if she did mean that? Break off part of the skateboard and give it to her?

Then Kieu My starts stuttering her words. 

Guys... is it gay when a girl asks to use your skateboard?

She is so freaking cute and innocent here! How adorable is it that she asked to use Fatou’s skateboard, risking injury, just so she could be close to her and share in her interest?

Then when she falls off, she legit is going to touch or hold Fatou’s hand if Fatou wasn’t oblivious and moves away. 

(gif courtesy of @floraflorenzi​)

The look ™ makes an appearance when Fatou tries to encourage her saying she does fall off too

And I thought I saw it but wasn’t sure if I was seeing what I wanted to see, but @happyfatou​ caught it too. You can see how nervous Kieu My is because she actually lets out a nervous breath after this 

You can see her lips pursed slightly here, but the screenshot doesn’t do the moment any kind of justice. 

Then she hears people laughing in the distance and her whole mood changes

and she immediately gets herself out of the situation

I’m pretty sure she took the wrong way home just to get out of the situation.

I made a post soon after this clip here with different possible reasons for her reaction. After the Gay silence clip, I think it’s almost certainly theory no.1 that she was uncomfortable putting herself out there, and thought that people were laughing at her as she looked stupid. 

The kicker is that this is Fatou’s reaction afterwards

(@floraflorenzi)

Thinking she acted stupid and had ruined the moment. I’m always saying this, but they really do ruin their own chances and mood with their insecurities. The moments are actually always going well, and they’re both doing a good job, but then they second guess themselves and end up acting funny, so they make the other feel like there is no hope and that they’re not interested (see especially Gay silence *sigh*)

[russellandpaulette]

Are you ready for today’s 5pm #fightfit ? 🥵 #trainingdifferent 💪🏼 #paulettefitlifestyle . . #keto #ketofood #ketosoulfood #ketogeniccom #ketocommunity #ketogeniccommunity #ketosis #lchf #lowcarb #ketodiet #bacon #cabbage #eatfat #goodfat #happyfat #ketosis (at Lanikai Pill Box Hike) https://www.instagram.com/p/B1J3vPihGao/?igshid=1oyrbee4adkvk

[me-n-only-me-blog1]

HAPPY FAT!!!! Now I have got chubby cheeks with a little dimple one right cheek, though no dimple chin 😝 #chubbycheeks #happyfat https://www.instagram.com/p/By7YJ8MFA2M/?igshid=1nk1uqitiwq19

[meechypants]

2005 v. 2018 🥀 Wow. I’ve been on FB for so long that my first year of profile pics have been deleted. I had to delve into the archives for this gem... I immediately regret this decision. I was SO skinny (peep that v) and my teeth were so pearly... 😣😣 ps. Erica is still this perfect pixie. . . . . . . . . #howharddidpubertyhityou #howharddidagehityouchallege #backwardstransformation #bingoarms #happyfat #loveyourself https://www.instagram.com/p/BslnGu4FtlK/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=om7eb4i68xoe

[aizicebibi]

Always a happy camper after stuffing my face at @cuckoocallay_cafe 🐷Gave the Bacon Mac Daddy a go and it was surpriaingly delightful from a -- Double Smoked Bacon, Bacon Mac-n-Cheese, 63°C Egg, Tomato Relish, Fried Shallots -- lovingly enclosed in a buttery and flaky croissant! #AizandOz #AizheartSydney #dayoffniInday #OzEats #humihipsternanaman #brunchin #brekky #cafeeats #happyfats (at Cuckoo Callay)

[eecastr0]

Para los paladares exclusivos, directo de #colon este espectáculo de #saus gracias a @elcostenitoroly Definitivamente vale la pena la esperar, ya quiero mas ! - - - - - - - #SoyUnGordoFeliz #YoConMigo #colon #Gordo #colonstyle #Trip #HappyFat #WorkAholic #WorkingHard #LuxuryLifeStyle #PuraTaquilla #PanamaEstaDeModa #NoSoyChefSoloMeGustaComer #Comidacriolla #ahappyfat #happyfat #NosoyChef #RicoTodo #Megustacome #foodiepanama #lataquillaesencasa (at Colón,Sabanitas) https://www.instagram.com/p/CSK2iFJHJ8Z/?utm_medium=tumblr

[melamoo]

3 years of Anyanyubels with @cyril.roque 😙 🐄✈😁 #happiness #happyfats #chan

[happyfathersday2018images-blog]

Happy Father’s Day Lion Images 2018 Wallpaper Quotes For Dad Brother #happyfat… Happy Father’s Day Lion Images 2018 Wallpaper Quotes For Dad Brother #happyfathersday2018 #fathersday #father'sday #happyfathersday2018wallpapers #fathersday2018USA # happyfathersday #happyfathersday #fathers #fathersdayusa #happyfathersdayimages #happyfatherspictures #happyfathersdaywallpapers #happyfathersdayquotes Source by shr4smi

[mybodyliberation]

A wild fat appears. • • Top: @newlook Shorts: @fashionworlduk #pokemon #catchthemall #happyfat #effyourbeautystandards #mystyle #andigetdressed (at Southampton) https://www.instagram.com/p/BzYZSGmHucK/?igshid=1ii5ofaqtrnc8

[themetropolitanpan]

Un minuto di silenzio per i miei propositi dietetici 🙊🙉🙈😋😋😋😍😍😍#lasagne #lasagneallabolognese #bologna #italianfood #foodlover #foodporn #sunday #domenica #happy #happyfat @nonsofarfoto (presso Bologna, Italy)