#hantoberd15

[mrs-han]

Hantober Day Fifteen!

A domestic activity that you would look forward to do with him.

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I am such a socially awkward nugget that this took me a LONG TIME TO THINK ABOUT. >w>

I think, for me? The real pleasure comes in laying in bed with him. Just — that. Our legs entertained, our feet rubbing...

I mean, we’re gonna have to get up to brush our teeth because you BET we’re gonna be kissing!! But holding in potty breaks because we’re just so comfortable? Then ordering food because we’re too lazy to get up?

And Jumin attempting to open a bottle of wine while he’s on his back?

That. Gimme an entire day in bed with Jumin.

[juminhandfs]

Hantober Days 15-18 

(In which I Simp)

Bathrobes: A domestic activity you would look forward to do with him.

All of them.

I'm dead serious about this.

Give me. All. Of. Them.

Let me give Jumin the simple life that he coveted for so long, that stability and safe ground that he lacks in his life.

Plus I like to rather stay at home and do things at home: baking, cooking, gardening (I try at least) tending the animals, relax with a book or a TV show… it makes me feel at peace.

Jumin gives me the impression of being the kind of person who enjoys the little every day details of intimacy and routine: like brushing your hair, you washing his back. Goodbye kisses, welcome back kisses, drinking wine together while making dinner… also dancing,

I totally see him sweeping you out in the middle of the night for a random dance… If you are waiting for dinner is in the living room, in front of a fireplace..

If you are cooking dinner, is in the kitchen and congrats your potatoes are burning 

Urban Dictionary: A word from said Dictionary that you'll use to describe Jumin

Loml

Definitely.

Also did you know Jumin has his own entry in the urban dictionary?

Epic.

"Man of Iron": Which do you consider is Jumin's biggest strength?

I was going to say his resilience, because the amount of times this man has picked himself from the floor and keep fighting, the things he fought... is unparalleled… except maybe, MAYBE... for Rika…

But thinking about the origin of that resilience, what fuels it, I came to the conclusion that his biggest strength is his stubbornness:

At some point in his life Jumin decided that he wasn't going to allow this particular issue (his PTSD, his tangled threads) to be a problem for him (and the people around him) and stop him. 

Jumin had places to go, Jumin had people to meet and cats to pet.

But just as this is his biggest strength, is also his biggest weakness, as seen in how he handles Jaehee on her route, for example. 

His stubbornness doesn't allow him to see what he is doing wrong, and as a result he is left more and more alone. Trying to deny that things affect him is what makes these very things affect him the most in the end. And suffer.

Lonely Island: Has he ever made you feel less lonely and more appreciated? 

YES.

ALWAYS.

When sometimes I feel overwhelmed from all the chaos from outside, thinking in Jumin by my side actually helps me. He is a comfort presence for me, but (I think) at the difference of others who feel less lonely because of him, in my case it is not as much about, I don't know how to say this… 

I feel less lonely because of him for the way he thinks, that is very similar to mine. That's it.

Just knowing that there's people who think like him makes me feel more understood, more accompanied, like I'm not alone.

I explained this better on the day 14 actually.

As for more appreciated, YES.

I've had moments where I imagined Jumin witnessing a situation in which I was being disrespected that actually made me realize "uh, not cool, they shouldn't treat me like this", it made me cry sometimes, thinking "Jumin wouldn't like to see me like this" 

It is important to me because I'm the type of person to constantly doubt myself, if I'm not the one in the wrong, especially when the damage comes from someone close to me.

Jumin makes me want to look out for myself better.

[lovehatemysme]

Hantober Day 15: A domestic activity that you would look forward to do with him.

I would absolutely love to bake with Jumin, I imagine him very precise at following instructions while I, on the other hand, tries to experiment and add this and that to the recipe lmao. And while others always see him in a suit, I get to see him in an apron, covered in flour, with a cat shaped paw oven mitts. Simply adorable. 

[juminweek2019]

˓˓ก₍⸍⸌̣ʷ̣̫⸍̣⸌₎ค˒˒ It’s the Day 15 of Hantober 2020! ˓˓ก₍⸍⸌̣ʷ̣̫⸍̣⸌₎ค˒˒

Today’s Prompt-> Bathrobes: A domestic activity that you would look forward to do with him.

Or in his own words👀: