#goodbye to the buckley parents who never even cared that he spent his whole life feeling like a disappointment to them
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Canât say Iâve ever really heard a song that was SO fitting for a character that I needed to say it was theirs before. With that being said,, Evan Buckley OWNS âwhat do you wantâ by Benson Boone
#yes I have Spotify playlists for lots of my faves and otps but theyâre mainly just vibes and how Iâm feeling on a certain day#benson boone#really stuck his hand in evan buckleyâs chest after he came out to Maddie (accidentally) and Eddie (on purpose)#and decided to write a song about this manâs love life and his RAGING abandonment issues#then thereâs Oliver irl talking about how buck is finally free and feels this is the right path for him and this song is SO moving on vibes#goodbye to Abbyâs ghost#goodbye to Taylor for choosing her next big story over buck and his familyâs safety#goodbye to Natalia after he told her all his secrets#goodbye to the buckley parents who never even cared that he spent his whole life feeling like a disappointment to them#Iâm SO looking forward to a new era of#bisexual evan buckley#and how free he can be now that heâs figured that out#evan buckley#911#911 abc#Buck and his unending need to give all of himself away to the people he loves :((#what if i cried
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Iâm so in my feelings about Jeff Buckley right now. With uncanny prescience, I unwittingly spent many quiet nights with his ghost, and with his memory, as if leading up to the anniversary of his death tomorrow.
Mostly, I mourned that so many years have passed since his death. I imagined what his reaction would have been to the key moments in our world, culture, and society. And I mourned that he never got to experience the wisdom and contentment that come with old age.
So much has happened in the last 27 years. A whole other Jeff Buckley has probably been born, but could someone like that touch the world now? Could todayâs audiences honor the presence of sound, put their phones down long enough to be truly present as a powerful voice unites them in song?
In 1997, we lived in a much more innocent world. I was 17 years old, and I dreamed of attending art school, even though I knew my parents could never afford to send me. I was crazy about playing guitar, and alternative rock.
I had a college-age pen pal who I met through a music listserv, and it was thrilling to correspond regularly with someone who was attending a liberal arts school on the east coast. She was living the life I dreamed about, where academics and art mattered.
One day the letters stopped coming. I had thought it was merely because I lived on Guam and the mail was slow. But she eventually wrote to me, and said she was despondent that Jeff Buckley had just passed away, and she hadnât been able to write. She was attending a memorial service in Boston later that week.
My pen pal and I lost touch soon thereafter, but my curiosity was piqued: who was this artist that could inspire so much sorrow and sadness with his passing? He wasnât a big name, like Kurt Cobain who had infamously taken his own life 3 years earlier. I felt that one. I lived that one, along with millions of other fans all over the world.
Who was Jeff Buckley?
Music was still hard to come by on island those daysâI couldnât go to record store and find CDs easily, and Napster hadnât made a splash yet. Those factors meant that finding amazing music just outside the mainstream was rough--local buyers had to have impeccable taste, and they just⊠didnât. Eventually, I found a compilation CD that had a single Jeff Buckley song: "Last Goodbye." (That same compilation also had âGang of $â by Shudder to Think, one of Jeffâs favorite bands. A good mix!)
âLast Goodbyeâ was unlike anything else I had heard at the time. It was wistful, yearning. If I had to group it with anything, the emotions it evoked are similar to the ballads in U2s Joshua Tree album: where love is so massive, it absorbs you, it forces you to feel, it makes you believe in soul connections and engulfs you in the simultaneous warmth of romance and the chilling prospect of losing it. Epic, if you will.
Once I got to college in the US mainland, I finally scored myself a copy of Grace. My musical life changed, and Jeff Buckley would forever be a part of my lyrical and musical lexicon. I began consuming what was readily available: Live at Sin-Ă© and Sketches for My Sweetheart the Drunk.
Yet, I had never explored Jeff Buckley: the person. Lore didnât interest me. He was a remarkable artist, influencing my musical journey, whose life ended tragicallyânothing more.
And by all accounts, he wouldnât want us to think of him outside of his musical legacy. Nevertheless, over the last few weeks, I dove deep into interviews, books, and live shows. I have glimpsed a portrait of an artist who was just beginning. Who at 30 years old, was still just a kid, trying to figure out who he wanted to be in the world, bravely taking on the mantle of being a beacon for positivity, joy, and love.
And to see that snuffed out was heartbreaking.
Here was a man who cared about art. Who believed that all of us have the ability to create and engage with art, if we recognize that power within ourselves. Here was a man who was tapped into the mystery of life, of the power of the moment, of NOW, and used every bit of his energy to seize joy.
Here was a man known for his singular voice, yet whose talents were heightened by collaborating with others. A man who freely admitted that he didnât understand songwriting, and relied on the gifts of others to ignite his spark of genius.
Here was a man who was equally deep and goofy, who gave all that he had to the people he loved and lashed out with vitriol when he was pushed. He wasnât a saint. He was a just a human, a skillful connector of words, sounds, and souls.
A person we would have loved to watch grow up and come into his own as an artist.
But the Wolf River had other plans. I have spent too many hours thinking about what he must have felt as the water took him. But in the best scenarios, I think of him reaching a moment of clarity and peace as he resigned himself to his fate: he was suspended in time, leaving us to our imaginations, giving us the freedom to wonder what could have been.
Rest easy, JB.
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That Which We Carry
Day Five of the Evan Buckley Week 2020! The prompt was âYou're a good liarâ + comfort
Summary: Bobby stops in his tracks.
Buck is sitting on the ground, next to his own car, his keys and phone forgotten next to him. His breathing is loud and short and he has his head in his hands so that his face is hidden.
Heâs having a panic attack.
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Their shift has been over for almost an hour, but Bobby has taken the time to finish up some paperwork before heading up home.
He says goodbye to the relief crew and jogs down the stairs. This is one of those rare occasions where he can go home at a normal hour, and even better, Athena has a day off today that she has spent with Harry and May.
Bobby finds himself humming an upbeat song heâs been hearing on the radio. The sun is shining and thereâs just enough of a breeze to make the temperature bearable.
He notices that Buck has left his car in the parking lot, but thinks nothing of it. The kid does spend an awful lot of time with the Diaz boys, Eddie and Buck probably left together. Bobby smiles, he does not know who they think theyâre fooling.
Everyone knows they are closer than friends. If they are not together yet, it wonât be long before they are. He is thrilled for them, they truly deserve that happiness.
Bobby stops in his tracks.
Buck is sitting on the ground, next to his own car, his keys and phone forgotten next to him. His breathing is loud and short and he has his head in his hands so that his face is hidden.
Heâs having a panic attack.
âHey, Buckaroo,â he calls, softly so as not to startle him.
Buck flinches anyway. His breathing, already worrying, only gets more erratic. He jumps up and almost stumbles in his precipitation to get away, to try to hide his panic.
âBobby,â he breathes out, a harsh and broken sound. âThis â Iâm â â
Bobby puts his hands up and, slowly, gets closer to him, though he makes sure that he lets enough space not to make him feel crowded.
âItâs all okay, Buck. You just need to breathe, okay? Focus on my breathing.â
Buck nods, his eyes are wide and scared and fixed on his captain. Bobby takes one long deep breath in, and one long breath out, in, out, in out, until Buckâs breathing calms down, returns to normal. Neither move, the echos of Buck's breathing still resonating in Bobby's ears.
He watches in morbid fascination as Buck puts the pieces of his mask together. Before him, Buck smooths his face into a neutral expression, leaving no trace of his earlier panic. Soon enough, he flashes his captain a beaming smile that does not quite reach his eyes.
âIâm okay, Bobby. Thank you.â
âYouâre a good liar,â Bobby realizes with a terrible pang.
And itâs true. Bobby would not have been able to guess Buck was having a full-fleshed panic attack just minutes prior if he hadnât witnessed it in the first place.
That is a worrying thought because Buck is always wearing his heart on his sleeve, of that they have all been so sure. How many times did he hide how much heâd been suffering? Did Buck ever have a panic attack at the station and no one had any idea?
Shame and concern rise up Bobbyâs throat, almost chocking him.
âIâm good. You donât have to worry about me.â
âI am worried though. Talk to me.â
âItâs nothing, okay. Itâs nothing.â
âItâs not nothing if if caused you to have a panic attack in the stationâs parking lot." His voice is too sharp and Buck takes a step back. Bobby takes a deep breath and, gentler, asks, "Is is because of a call?â
Bobby tries to think of anything that could have triggered Buck, but he canât think of anything. They did not have any wild calls at all today and Buck hadnât looked put out at all. Though he has just learned that maybe it doesnât mean much. Buck has just shown he is quite apt at hiding his pain.
âBobby,â Buck says, and the facade crumbles, just a little. âI donât think I can. Not yet anyway.â
With a soft smile, Bobby simply puts his hand on Buckâs shoulder. Their eyes meet and Bobby hopes that the younger man can read what he canât say out loud â the love, respect and admiration he caries for this kid. That having a panic attack does not change that, nothing ever could.
âItâs okay,â he says. âIâll be there when youâre ready.â
The mask shatters.
Buckâs face falls. A sob bursts out of him, and he crumbles onto himself like a puppet whose strings have been snapped.
Bobby does not dare to hold him, afraid he is still reeling from his panic attack and the touch will only send him again. Instead, he keeps his hand on Buckâs shoulder, his grip firm, and Buck puts his own hand on Bobbyâs, holding onto it like a lost man at sea holding onto a raft.
The parking lot is still empty when Buck calms down. He avoids his gaze but Bobby wishes he would look at him, he wants him to see that he is no judging him, that he is not disappointed or anything that must be going through Buckâs mind.
They sit down on the ground, only then letting go of each other.
They donât speak for a moment. Bobby is lost â should he say something? If so, what could he even say?
Buck makes the decision for him.
âMy mom called me,â he says.
Heâs playing with his hands, a nervous habit that Bobby has noticed him doing from time to time.
âWeâre not close â my parents and I. Maddie isnât close to them either, but itâs always been different.â
He pauses, Bobby does not press. Buck has never been so open about his past and Bobby isnât about to rush him and risk him closing off again.
âOur parents, theyâre the type of people who had kids, not because they wanted to, but because it was the next logical step. They met, they got married, so they had to have kids, right. Thatâs how the story goes. Itâs whatâs expected.â
The way he stresses on the word âexpectedâ has Bobby frowning.
âSo they had Maddie, and they were done. One kid was more than enough. They were never affectionate with her, but they never loved me. You know thereâs an age difference between me and Maddie, itâs because I wasnât planned. I wasnât wanted. They told me that many times growing up.â
He sounds so bitter, yet so resigned, and Bobby feels hot red anger burn through his whole body and he struggles to quiet it down.
âThey were never cruel or violent. They were just absent.â
He laughs â sharp, no trace of humor in it.
âSo today my mom calls me â âcause what if people ask about us right? She has to know what weâre doing. So she calls sometimes, and we fight as always. In her head, she has this idea of the perfect family that we ought to be but we just arenât.â
He stops, bites his bottom lip down so hard Bobby is afraid itâs going to draw blood.
âBuck,â he says, softly, but Buck only shuts his eyes close, a sorrow so deep etched on his face that Bobby is overwhelmed with the need to smooth it down, any way that he can.
âShe said that she didnât know why she couldnât ever love me but, in moments like those, where we fight, sheâs glad she never tried harder.â
Bobby has never been a violent man but if he had Buckâs parents in front of him, he is not sure he would be able to restrain himself. Two emotions battle in Bobbyâs heart â anger, at Buckâs mom for being so cruel, and compassion for Buck who never deserved to be treated like that.
Compassion wins out.
Thatâs what Buck needs right now, support and love.
âIâm sorry. You donât deserve that.â
Buck does not seem to hear him, too deep he is in his own heartache.
âWhat does that say about who I am if my own parents couldnât even give a damn about me? How can I expect anyone else to?â
âThis doesnât say anything about you,â Bobby says, firm but gentle. âItâs on them. I canât tell you why they treated you the way they did, but it was never your fault. And you have people who care about you. You have the 118, you have Maddie, and Eddie and Christopher. Lots of people love you, Buckaroo.â
Buck wipes at his eyes, âRight. Yeah, I know.â
He looks unconvinced still.
âYou donât need them,â Bobby continues, hoping to reach, to convince him of his own worth. âItâs their loss that theyâre not in your life. You and Maddie have become great people, and if they canât see that, itâs on them.â
Bobby hates seeing Buck so small, so broken. Buck takes so much space with his big heart and his big smile. Itâs so unlike him to hold himself like he is trying to disappear, and Bobbyâs heart breaks at the sight.
âItâs dumb,â Buck says, shameful. âIâm used to it, Iâm over it. Sometimes it still creeps up on me, but donât worry. Iâll be good as rain in no time.â
âItâs okay to not be okay.â He pause but Bobby forces himself to continue, Buck needs to hear it even if itâs hard for him to say. âYouâre not alone, youâve got us. Youâve got me. Son.â
Buck finally turns to him again. His eyes search Bobbyâs, and he must find what he is looking for because he smiles, small but moved.
âThank you, Bobby.â
âAthena and I have the kids tonight. I was going to make some Cajun chicken. You want to come with?â
âOh, I donât know. I wouldnât want to intrude in on a family night.â
âBuck, I am asking for a family night.â
Tears threaten to spill again from Buckâs eyes but he manages to hold them back.
âOkay,â he says, voice heavy with emotion. âIâll be there.â
Neither of them are quite saying the words but both are hearing them anyway. Bobby loves Buck like a son, and he thinks Buck might just love him like a dad. Whatever it is, they donât need to voice it, to put a word on it. They can be their own definition of family.
âAthena will be glad to see you, the kids too. They look up to you.â
âNot sure thatâs such a good idea,â Buck jokes but Bobby reads an underlying sense of doubt.
âBuck, come on. We both know thatâs not true.â
âPlease, no more heartfelt comment. I think Iâve cried enough for today.â
Bobby shakes his head, amused. He gets up, offering his hand to Buck who takes it with a grin.
âI wonât say anything about this to Athena if you donât want me to.â
âNo, I â â Buck sighs. âI donât want you to keep secret from her. As I said, itâs fine. I donât talk about it because itâs not very riveting but I donât care. Iâm used to it. Itâs been like that my whole life.â
Once again, Bobby wishes he could have some words with Buckâs parents, but he buries the thought down to, instead, give a quick hug to the man he sees as a son.
.
As soon as Buck arrives at the Grant household, Athena draws him into her arms without even saying a word.
Although he is much taller than her, he feels protected and small in her embrace.
She catches his face when they let go. He isnât even sure she notices that her thumb is caressing his cheek in a soothing maternal gesture. Her gaze is solemn but kind.
âThey do not deserve you, Buckaroo.â
For what feels like the millionth time today, Buck feels overwhelmed and on the verge of crying. She must see it because she gives his cheeks a little squeeze.
âYou are a good man with a good heart and you are always welcome here.â
âAthena,â he stars but his voice breaks.
She brings him down to press a soft kiss against his forehead. He wonders if thatâs what a mother is supposed to do but, for once, the thought does not bring him pain, only curiosity â as if, maybe, now, he will get a chance to find out too.
âGo on, now,â she shoos him away, gently. âI know Henryâs been wanting to show you his latest game.â
âThank you, Athena,â he says. âFor everything.â
âAnytime.â
He catches Bobby smiling at him too, and Buck finally feels the anguish he has been carrying out all day gets lighter, less suffocating.
Itâs not gone yet and maybe it never will be, not fully. But itâs getting better.
He is getting better.
#evanweek2020#evan buckley#911 fic#firefam#bobby nash#athena grant#911#my writing#so i love making buck cry#but i also love him getting the love he deserves
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