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[justunderwaterthoughts]

© Text and photo by Elena Panzetta 

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(Self-portrait, Barcelona, 2021)

Tener alta sensibilidad es un poco como tener el cuerpo en carne viva y el corazón expuesto a la intemperie. Sientes más, de todo. No es fácil.

El otro día, en un momento de desánimo, mi madre, que normalmente es la pesimista de la familia, me sorprendió y alentó con la siguiente afirmación: “Elena, nosotras sufrimos más por todo, pero vibramos también más por todo. Captamos matices que no todo el mundo ve. Nos emocionamos hasta lo más profundo de nuestro ser. Una música, un libro, una caricia, un insecto que vuela. Somos incansables detectoras de belleza. Y aunque el precio a pagar sea a veces muy alto en términos de emociones negativas, yo no cambio por nada al mundo mi sensibilidad con la indiferencia y superficialidad de muchos.” 

Pues sí, mamá, si al fin y al cabo estoy de acuerdo contigo, lo admito a regañadientes, porque es mi eterna lucha interior, pero en el fondo sé que hasta uno solo de esos escalofríos, tan solo uno de esos, que me recorren entera como una descarga eléctrica, vale todo un camino de oscuridad. 

“Even when I feel nothing, I feel it completely” (Sylvia Plath)

[jdrichards]

This time I’ve had to stop reading because of life interruptions …

I don’t know what it is… but Jordan always seems so timely… and this time a little chuckle… because I tend to torture the cats…

[kayleightarot]

Tuesday, June 20, 2023 Good morning, Lovelies! Today is about Honesty, Mental Discipline, & an Open Mind Tarot of the Day: Page of Swords

This page brings news of change; and a possibility you won't love the delivery. Even where the change may feel challenging, this card speaks to issues being settled and confusion or misconceptions being resolved so, take heart that any bumps or issues today aren’t big or long term, and will serve a higher purpose in the end.

You may be trying too hard or pushing for something to move forward before its time, or just find yourself stepping on people's toes in general. Consider brainstorming a new solution - don't get bogged down in established methods or your “own way” of doing things. The day calls for strong analytical skills, an energetic nature, and fearless honesty - but be sure to include diplomacy.

💚 At work, this may indicate some conflict. Be humble. You may be approaching a situation with the assumption that you know all there is to know. Remember that although you may know all the facts you may not know the mitigating details; ask if there is more to know and the others involved will appreciate your open approach.

💙 If you are in a relationship, reassess whether you actually know when to push and when to back off. You may have the timing wrong and be causing yourself unnecessary tension and irritation. It's OK to need your partner to explain their feelings and gives them an opportunity to share with you. Allowing your partner the time and space they need is essential.

🧡 Today is a day for flexibility. Harness all that mental and physical energy you're feeling and direct it wisely. Open your mind - even if you think it already is, "read the room", "sense the tone", and in general, pay more attention than usual to the responses of others. Trust that instinct, and you'll successfully navigate any situation today Gun a-màireach (until tomorrow), Lovelies Peace out

[eric-sadahire]

Easy to spot a green car when you are always looking for a green car. Easy to spot opportunity when you are always thinking of opportunity. Easy to spot reasons to be mad when you are always thinking of being mad. You become what you constantly think about. Watch yourself.

[crackerdaddy]

Actionable advice here….JS #johnwaters #goodadvice #wordstoliveby https://www.instagram.com/p/CmUTW9lOiuz/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[afroluent]

"You can not know the good within yourself if you can not see it in others.” African proverb and quote.

[loveconnectionhub]

Love Advice For Women - Do Not Miss This

So, you are looking for some love advice for women? Well, you came to the right place. I want to address one basic idea that I believe, if followed, will make for a great relationship (at least as far as you're part is concerned).

They say that the most profound truths are often the simplest bits of advice - this article will hopefully fall along those lines.

If you came looking for some "New" truth or slickly packaged, pithy suggestion, you will not find it here.

What I am about to tell you flat out works as it is time-tested and mother-approved. Here it is: Give your man some respect.

I know that many women will not want to hear about respecting a man and they read stuff into that. So, let me be clear about what I am NOT saying.

I am not saying you are a doormat and should be trampled on. I am not saying that you are less important than he is. I am not saying that he is a harsh taskmaster over you.

Here is what I AM saying. Women need to be secure and feel loved. I know a lot of women who get turned on when their man rubs on their back, throws out the trash, or whispers sweet words in their ear. We want to feel important and valued.

Well, men are no different. If a man feels that he is important and valued and yes, respected, then you will bring out the best in him.

There are exceptions to this rule as some men are unhealthy and nothing will bring out the best in them as they need clinical help but the great majority of men will WANT to do all they can to care for you and love on you when they feel respected. This is without a doubt the best love advice for women.

Check this out for More Love Advice for Women

[jigsavv]

let go of the past

@hopeisgrey told me that I just sound so mad at myself. And I realised wait I am. The futures i envisioned for myself changed so much in the past few years, from my dream job to my dream partner. I realised that among this I kept floating, looking for the right answers in my past, looking at my past to tell me where I went wrong.

Those attempts Flopped obviously. The answers are not in the past, they lie in the future. So the journey is never about finding the answer, maybe its about creating one. This way you don't even need to be upset , because its all your hands, right now, its in the decision you make with every next breath.

[Day 2/100]

[grantbarrett]

[thethirstyspittoon]

🥃𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐖𝐄𝐄𝐊'𝐒 𝐅𝐄𝐀𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐄𝐃 𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐓🥃

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[lavndr-skye-loves-yu]

I have the same problem lol..

[soulkitchengoslar]

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[cristabeck]

Dating can feel confusing, right?  You might not know what to look for in a potential partner, or you might not be sure if something is a red flag or a green flag. In this episode, Crista will explain the difference between red flags and green flags and why it's important to know which is which. This is all about making better decisions in your dating life.

[californiastatelibrarian]

Sage wisdom @castatelibrary @dignityhealthsac #goodadvice #heartwarming (at Sacramento, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/ConkdOzSFrN/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[kmcshane]

Choose wisely

[cupidsnena]