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applebees4prez · 6 months ago

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snl wishes they could be this funny prepared, let alone off the cuff. nobody has perfected the art of comedic timing like zac oyama has but also, nobody could work with other comedians well as these guys do.

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iknowwhereyousnoozeatnight · 1 month ago

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#death note #light yagami #l lawliet #eyestrain #?#i like shapes and colors AND patterns #fun combinations of all of those things #anyway i feel like i don’t talk in the tags on this blog as much as i used to. i need to do that more how else will i make more ppl #parasocially in love w me…..#so hmm. i graduate in less than a month which is exciting bc school sucks ass and i want to be done w it forever (until i decide i want #to go for a masters that is T_T) and have u guys heard abt the mcrtour? making mefeel fucking craaazyyyyyy yes i’m gonna try for #tickets. and perhaps even visit some beloved mutuals in the process. and fool that i am i never finished my last scarf but am wanting #to start a new one but this one is for someone so perhaps i will have more motivation to like. actually finish it lol. knitting btw. i am #not very good at it but it is a good skill to have and crocheting is my mother’s thing and i like the look of knit better. i got yarn the #other day and i was like ough am i remembering their favorite color correctly but if not i can just die forever or smth. i’m not sure #what pattern i wanna do or if i want to add a second color or anything but like i have a small collection of yarn that i got when it was #on sale like crazy so i’m sure i can find smth that will complement my base color if need be #okay i’m done goodbye

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artemisxrose · 3 months ago

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FUCK Liam Payne! I will no longer support OT5 and I don’t even want a 1D reunion anymore. It’s so disgusting how so many of you defend these boys actions, but especially Liam, in light of everything that has come out. Maya Henry has every right to speak about her experiences. And it’s gross that I’m seeing literal threads and tweets upon tweets of people calling her a liar and saying all these horrible things. You’re proving Liam right! “No one will believe you anyways and the fans will always defend us!”

Is that not absolutely horrifying to yall? That this man is weaponizing his fanbase against women that he has treated poorly? And yall continue to enable him! Everything Maya said in her recent TikTok was true! Yall defend this abuser because of boy band nostalgia? What the fuck is wrong with some of yall? It makes me sick. It’s always “believe women” “believe victims” until it’s your fave, right?!

We don’t know these people! “He would never do that…” YOU DONT KNOW HIM! These parasocial relationships are going too far.

What’s scary is based on some of the stuff Maya said, I wonder if this is only the tip of the iceberg with Liam. He’s probably done so much shit we don’t even know about. Maybe even the other boys???

I know I’m ranting and no one probably cares but some of the tweets I saw defending Liam were so triggering and upsetting. Trending hashtags like #FreeLiam and #WeLoveYouLiam when a woman CONFIRMED that he abused her is just so sickening. This is why women don’t come forward. This is especially why victims of celebrities and people in power don’t come forward. Because this is how they’re treated. Maya literally even confirmed that Liam and his team have tried to silence her and didn’t want the book to come out. I just… there are no more words.

This whole situation is so triggering… I’m so angry and upset.

Fuck Liam Payne and Fuck all of yall defending him.

#Liam Payne #maya henry #one direction #tw abuse #if she is lying why isn’t he suing for defamation #because she’s not lying #Liam is an abuser and yall need to accept that #I will never support him again #and I’m side eyeing all of the boys who will continue to associate with him after this #there’s no way they or their teams aren’t seeing the accusations #and I’ve been feeling weird about Zayn too ever since the alleged incident with Gigi’s mom #and some women have implied some stuff about him too so I just #and apparently Niall is a cheater which we been knew #Louis and Harry have their own share of drama #the older I get the more the parasocialness is wearing off thank goodness #we don’t know these people #I wouldn’t be surprised if 5/5 are actually horrible people at this point #don’t even get me started on none of them speaking on Palestine #I could go on and on #this situation with Liam is just so messed up and fucking with me #like we knew since Maya’s book came out but still #to hear some of it from her own mouth is different kinda #the stories she could probably tell #I feel so bad for her and hope she is in a place of healing and this doesn’t set her back #end rant

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motor-city-selfryed · 28 days ago

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to the people bullying and threatening ppl because they have basic human empathy for someone who died in their favourite band ,,, please get off the internet 💀🙏 + consider urself an opp

#like girl how am i black myself and i have empathy over him as well bc he was a human being ??#ITS NORMAL TO BE SAD OVER HIS DEATH FOR GODS SAKE 😭😭😭#like ofc we could never push aside his racism but going to the extremes of bullying and threstening over this is embarrassing #its giving parasocial and its NOT a good look for yall #yall got people making PUBLIC APOLOGIES for nothing bc of how ur pushing them to become a deranged hater #yall dont look as badass as yall think 💀💀#its not like gerard way himself is gonna come to ur house and give u a cookie for ur work soooo?? why do it?#be respectful about someones death pls #its normal to not like someones actions or even them themselves #its normal to despise them #but whats NOT normal is yippieing and yahooing over a death #mcr #my chemical romance #my chem #mcrblr #mcrmy #my chem romance #mcr5 #bob bryer

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twingeof-cosmic-angst · 7 months ago

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getting to see the panel with David Tennant amd Catherine Tate was so incredibly amazing. Can't express in words how much being able to see it meant to me. Getting to hear David talking about how as a kid he was just as a big of a nerd as we are and now he can be the person who is able to make people tear up getting to see him (me) the same way he teared up meeting Tom Baker.

Also him talking about his feet for a good 5+ minutes and that pears give him the shits. Also that part. I suppose.

#god i dont think anyone knew Catherine was going to be there. and when she came out.#i fucking felt faint id never been more excited in my life.#they were so fucking funny. a 30 minute warning came over the speaker and they spent a good 5 minutes making fun of it.#they pitched ideas for : a guest show (with no guests) a cooking show (with no ability to cook) a show where they just look at maps. karoke #not to be parasocial on main but i love them. they mean so much to me #david tennant #catherine tate #doctor who

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fearandhatred · 5 months ago

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#tw neil gaiman #respectfully how is the conclusion some people are coming to all of this “good or bad doesn't exist”#by all means use that as a comfort that the media you are consuming isn't 'tainted' by the creator #but if not for comfort then how is your main takeaway that you want everyone to know after someone has done horrible things #to be that that person can be good.#it's not an inaccurate statement most of the time but neither do i think it's an appropriate one at this time.#anyway where's that post that said “are people going to stop dickriding neil gaiman now or was the zionism not enough”#because yeah. i get some people are devastated by this news and if this is your first rodeo with liking a celebrity #then i suggest you step away from idolisation or the mindset that what someone shows online is who they are #because i understand objectively why you might feel that way and the inherent connection between art and artist #and i understand feeling like maybe some of that toxicity could have bleed into the creations #but if you're crushed just because you thought he was a good person i hope this is a lesson going forward #because the reaction should not be this intense. you should not be having parasocial relationships with anyone #in the end you don't and will never know them no matter how good you think they are #feel free to disagree. but this is my take and has been my take for a long time #and it has been my take on neil gaiman since i joined the fandom

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tittyinfinity · 3 days ago

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contemplating deleting my blog soon I might make a new blog but idk

#.bdo #i just need to work on some insecurity issues is all. been on a long self journey this year #can't shake the feeling that every time i say anything it's wrong somehow #and there is some reality to that. i have been wrong several times I've even been downright mean to people over misunderstandings #i just haven't been able to break out of the habit of feeling permanently embarrassed about every small mistake I've ever made #& old insecurities from my childhood are resurfacing #like when i was a kid/teen and no one would ever tell me when i was breaking social cues but they'd make fun of me behind my back #i have 3200 followers and most of my posts get 0 notes sometimes i get 1-5 so it makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong #i end up deleting a lot of them...#almost every post of mine that's gone viral was just a screenshot or picture saved from somewhere else....#and the times that i have gotten attention over a post that stands up for people who aren't like me it makes me terrified #that i look like i'm trying to play a savior role or like i'm virtue signaling #i have a few good mutuals who i love so much and that's why I'm still here #it's also the only social media i use currently #but it does really hurt when i put a lot of thought into something like spending hours making a funny meme or a thoughtful post #just to find out that the only people who find them interesting is my extremely small circle on here if anyone at all #it's so dumb i shouldn't be feeling like this over fucking numbers....it's not even real #i find a little bit of (petty) solace in the fact that there are people on here who are loudly and repeatedly saying way more embarrassing #shit than I've ever said #but even then when i know someone is absolutely wrong it makes me feel nervous like what if im the next person to fuck up that bad #and i find out through public ridicule #well that actually kinda did happen on here once but not on that scale #last year i sent someone something i thought was funny and they sent back an 'ok'#and then immediately made a huge long post about how you shouldn't talk to strangers like you're already friends #called it parasocial behavior...got tens of thousands of notes and i knew it was about me...#i wholeheartedly agree some people go too far with parasocial behavior but i never fully understood what part of what i said/did was wrong #and i went back to feeling like the kid who never found out they were doing something wrong until they heard that they got made fun of #i don't even attempt to make new friends on my own on here anymore because i'm terrified of that happening again #almost all of the people I've become friends with on here came to me first and i love and appreciate them for that #but even then i feel too nervous to socialize that often bc i never find out/realize that i fuck up until later on

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rompetrizas · 8 months ago

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Very excited to see where the new Watcher service will go the way most people are literally just making things up to get mad at and spreading misinformation for fun just to have an argument against it. I remember literally the same reaction in the comments section of College Humor when they announced Dropout 🤷

#Like people going ''subscription service is fine but they don't have to delete all their previous content'' they're literally not ??#or ''dropout did better because they had a lot of other more diverse shows''#they didn't start making those better and more diverse shows until they had the funding from the subsription service.#Shows like Game Changer Did Not Exist before dropout and they have never been free come on man #try harder to get mad at it please I know you can be a good hater #Also everyone sharing their life stories as if the Watcher crew is personally responsible for your life being tough recently...#It's so parasocial #.txt #watcher

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cripplecryptid · 3 days ago

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Every time a man w long hair cuts his hair I am reaffirmed in my sexuality. Bc wdym all of a sudden ur just a man again and not a pretty breedable and submissive little thing anymore.....

#Is this fucked up? Perhaps. But it is my truth #Pretty man w long hair has me questioning whether I might be bi and then he cuts his hair and all of a sudden I'm like oh :/#Like DID I see him as a girl????? I fucking guess so?#This is the peak of parasociality btw. This wld never happen irl #Bc irl I'd go omg prettyyyy ur making me feel things 👀 and then we would speak and I'd go oh nvm <3 #I really am a lesbian I can't help it 😭 I can have very deep and beautiful friendships w men #But good god i would simply not be happy in a relationship w a man i fear #Anyway. Shoutout to that guy who I will NOTTTT be tagging bc i fear the stans <3

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ruvviks · 7 months ago

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the way i need to write about roksana so bad