#gilmore girls spoliers

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personally i could not get through gilmore girls after watching rory cheat on dean, especially the scene at the window when she apologizes to him for cheating on him, and saying he was a good boyfriend, and she really did love him, and that it was all her fault, and how she hopes he eventually won’t hate her anymore because this was the exact rhetoric that my abuser said to me time and time again every time I tried to break up with him, “for good this time.” And I would always come back because of these guilt trippy lines.

And personally, I really fucking felt for dean when he’d start yelling at her about how she was being shady and clearly fucking around with other guys while they were still dating. Because it felt like he had the audacity that I didn’t. That I wish I’d had. I wish I was able to stand up to him sooner. I wish I’d been able to break up with him publicly, exposing him for the piece of shit he really was. So it always pissed me off to see people call Dean’s behavior abusive. It always feels so victim blamey to me. What victim doesn’t have a revenge fantasy like that? I’m not gonna say these accusations are completely unwarranted, he does yell a lot and as the child of a father who yelled at me a lot growing up!! Not fun!! But imo he was COMPLETELY justified for the way he broke up with her publicly.

My opinions about rory herself as a character have changed a lot over time, I’m not completely anti-rory anymore, having watched different video essays about her character. I think the idea that she is a mirror of her mother who will fix herself later in life after having her kid like her mother did makes a lot of sense and I don’t think she’s completely unfixable. She was a dumb teenager and it was her first relationship.

But people are willing to give so much slack to Rory and none to Dean whatsoever. She was only his second relationship and his first was off screen and he clearly had no lingering feelings for her which leads me to believe it wasn’t that serious. “If you could tell she was drifting away, just break up with her.” If you can tell you’re not into him anymore, just break up with him? I’m not saying either is more responsible for breaking up with the other, just that yall should be reasonable and acknowledge that they were teenagers and basically in their first relationship. Rory is not a saint and Dean is not the devil and vice versa. Obv I am biased towards dean tho

I’m not gonna excuse his behavior with Lindsay tho. That shit was egregious lmfao I wish the writers had never done that. Straight up a character assassination. Like Rory’s a fuckup but I think she could come back from the stuff she’s done but Dean? Dean having a wife and children and being in a loving family in the epilogue series made no sense to me whatsoever.

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Our girl!! Ahhh, Kelly Bishop! Our Emily Gilmore, ahhhhhh. I took a deep inhale at hearing her voice!! Omg!!

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Honestly the revival, I'm only in spring right now, but I feel like it's putting Rory into perspective. Like it shows me how she really doesn't have the passion for her job, she assumes she will get the job for SandeeSays and then Sandee interviews her about a POSSIBILITY of getting the job which I loved! Rory tries to bring up that New York Time piece, and Sandee just dismisses it, like that was New York Times this is SandeeSays! Rory has a good piece and feels likes it should just speak for herself. I feel it would be like being a lawyer and then feeling like you want to be chef and you try and use your past lawyer knowledge in the kitchen, doesn't really help out. Don't know if that makes sense lol. Gah and the whole Logan fiasco, get over that! You're 32, not 19, sleeping with an engaged man, low. I'm still not okay with her sleeping with Dean, eve though she was 19, like nah screw that. You don't go after another person's significant other. Rory just keeps disappointing me.

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Okay, there is a guest spot in the second Gilmore Girls (Spring) that made my whole evening yesterday :D

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I just realised that the first show I saw Jared Padalecki in (Dean Foster in Glimore Girls) I absolutely hated him, well his character, like I would legit boo when he came on. Idk why I think it was because I loved Milo Ventimiglia (Jess Mariano) and I knew that him and Rory were perfect for each other and Dean hated him so I was like 'aww hell no, you must be a dick' and I was so glad when they split up. However now I'm in love with Jared and I've kinda gone away from Milo. I guess what I'm trying to say is, in the words of AJ Holmes 'Sometimes the person you love is the one you initially disliked '

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i stopped watching gilmore girls once i realized rory was going to cheat on dean so if u come here telling me hes trash i dont care i quit b4 i got to that part

does anyone else ship dean forester and tristain dugray from gilmore girls. hit me up if so.

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I feel like every new episode of Mrs Maisel I’m playing gilmore girls character bingo. Who’s going to show up next? Well, if it isn’t our favourite teacher… 🤫😂