#gift for my aunt

[fandomsandfeminism]

Grief is so fucking wild. It sinks into your muscles, forces itself to be felt. It steals your appetite, floods your brain with cortisol. It makes you so, so tired.

If someone you know is grieving, telling them "just let me know what I can do" means nothing. They can't. They don't know. And the small things are too embarrassing to ask for.

Bring them a cheese platter. Pre-Cut fruit. Peanut butter pretzels. Protein shakes (like slimfast) Food that requires no prep and does not create dishes.

Do the dishes. Take out the trash. Sweep the floor. Vacuum the carpet. They won't ask you to do this, but it will help.

A bottle of acetaminophen honestly might help more than flowers. Grief really can cause muscle aches.

[lottieurl]

thinking about jackie's room being covered in roses. roses on the sheets and on the nightstand

and shauna telling jeff jackie likes poppies. did jackie actually like poppies? did shauna lie to jeff because she didn't want him to get jackie something she actually likes?

[door]

the trouble with having a pretty niche job that you like and are good at is that sometimes i accomplish something difficult at work and want to brag about it and eventually must concede to myself that wow…nobody will understand how cool this is

[marionette-j2x]

SPOILER DISTRACTION PART 3!

It's your cool Aunt Lilith- ❤️❤️❤️

[scarredlove]

Hope ya have a phenomenal day @pillowspace!

These guys wouldn't have existed without you! ☆ Thank you for all you do and cannot wait to see what you come up with next! Stay strong and hope ya have a fantastic day today!

[heathcliffgirl1847]

legolas and gimli with little elanor. do you guys think gimli is good with kids because i think YES

"how tf did you get this big in a year"

[sleepyfawn]

Mail to my dear aunt

[andisupreme]

One funny thing about my little lady, Tidbit, is that she looks so sweet in photos. So angelic.

And yet the two facts you need to know about her are

The moment a piece of trash appears, she's stealing it. The moment I'm done with something and it becomes "trash", she has teleported onto the desk or my lap and it belongs to her now. She's stolen flosser picks out of my goddamn mouth. I can't have open garbage cans because that's just a new spawn point for Tidbit Treasures. I keep finding hoards of wrappers and pens and trinkets she's stolen. She stole a mini pride flag. I woke up to a scuffing noise once and turned on my phone light to see her dragging my sneaker away like the NYC subway pizza rat. Goblin behavior. Prize-motivated. Is just intelligent enough to have a sense of right and wrong and deliberately make the choice to do crime when the option presents itself.

It's difficult to know when she's actually seriously mad because she only has one urgency level when it comes to complaining. Which is an 11 on a 10 point scale. Any wrong against Tidbit receives the exact same level of screaming. She'll reach the same decibel level when I drag her into the shower for a flea bath as when I gently nudge her closer to pet for a few seconds. (And it's only the initial relocation she loathes, of course. After a moment when the relocation is over she's purring over getting pet but how DARE I move her somewhere without her say so.) From the gravest injustice to a minor momentary inconvenience, all is met with a righteous AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!

And yet because of my living circumstances, I haven't had anyone around to socialize her with so the moment a stranger walks in the door, this noisy, annoying (<3) opinionated little Creechur completely disappears. Goes ghost. My dad swears he wouldn't know I have a second cat if he didn't see her in my window from time to time. It feels like she's purposefully acting like a shy little baby around others just to undermine me and my stories about her. She's doing this on PURPOSE. IT'S ALL YET MORE CRIMES.

[femmesandhoney]

i love seeing how mothers and daughters influence one another. i especially love when you see a mom became interested in something because of how much her daughter loves it and they wanna support and understand their daughter through this shared interest. it reminds me how special a mother/daughter relationship is. you both cause the other to grow and experience new things in life and guide each other in different ways, it's so beautiful and sweet.

[forbiddentaako]

so my sister and I made radioapple fankids, alas, it was inevitable at this point considering we've both developed serious hazbin brainrot 😔 heres their older refs (in the process of making their younger ones as well)

[liesmyth]

[royalthorned]

bellatrix/pansy

[sincerely-sofie]

“When I try to remember her face, all I can recall is the taste of secondhand smoke and the click of a lighter.”

[canyourlawnmowerdothis]

it should be illegal to have to spend 30 dollars

[krshush]

Today's festive gay ass outfit, courtesy of my dad insisting for a pic as I was opening my new blu-ray pghdhd

[calamitys-child]

Bought and sold and traded so many fantastic zines this weekend and honestly my favourite interaction I had was with a very shy but very very determined kid who asked politely if I'd like to trade them one of my angry political transgender poems for some drawings they did in class. I will treasure it forever it was so cute this kid has such a fun scrappy art style and I look forward to seeing them at future zine fairs with more little drawings. Weird queer accessible inclusive art fairs you have my heart always and forever 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖