#genuinely i think its a fear of people thinking im incompetent or stupid which leads me to be defensive and refuse help

[aphhera]

Genuinely think I might have stumbled onto like the root of why I do things

[thechaoticworld]

TW: mention of pedophilia, abuse, and misogyny

someone mentioned lavender marriage and that switched into something sinister where a person who is gay hides their sexuality over the hetero norm with someone who's not on the same level or consent with the dynamic their in making them waste alot of their time where they have to compensate their actual love or interest over a sexuality that they don't want to conform or is basing the whole relationship over fear not genuine love

If there’s one thing life is to live an honest life with others not take advantage over someone cause of your sexuality

This is a few controversial opinions I have in mind since i believe true love no matter the person you're with but using someone with love like a weapon is a dangerous and poisonous game a person can play at this rate you're filled with lies not love

I think its beyond sexuality more of relationship, theres alot of crazy relationships including in spaces around the lgbtq starting with age gap turning into pedophilia, kinky and sexual role play that leads to sexual harrasment, fetishizing a sexuality and likes the idea of being gay with another person not so much of the person, treating masculine women as men when they clearly stated they don't identify as male but more so of the masculine traits while conversion their female body and yes that exist which is very nuanced

I would say it's still hard to date around the community when boundaries are not being respected and I'm fully aware they know they simply don't care at all tbh which dissapointing and that they're not being serious about it

Bisexuals get a bad rep with gays relationships since they always choose the opposite gender for their own fears and insecurity which isn't genuine

Today's generation is so wrong in many ways morally soeaking

Im still worried for women still cause they're always targeted also by the community

I don't truat gay men who hate on women and fantasize men when misogyny is being shared with them like are you really an ally for women or are women still a toy to hang around and use men too loosely

Do you get it? Why hide yourself from your sexuality with the bad things you do to others, this is the hypocrisy i tend to observe from others and hear stories

The only rhing i respect more is a person who is clear with their identity cause their confusion of themselves hurts people alot than they think

It's common sense not to hate the other group even ifbyou don't agree majority of the time

There was a massive hate train trend going on with polygyny or polyamorous relationships thinking its ok to make degrading comments even if you came from a monogamous relationship, it's like consent hasn't went into their mind when making and argument. Don't they know that relationships have different dynamics with different forms of connections being made and being in a heteronormative relationship where you only practice monogamy is so hypocritical

Also another thing i want to bring up is the distance and disgust with being straight? This is another thing i want to call out. Since when did liking the other gender bad? Just because you don't do such doesnt mean others can't, it's so weird acting being straight is crime

If i get called homophobic from a gay or queer person then it's all projection when i make a practical statement with the gender norms and relationships, they're so inconsistent with their values with women, men and non-binary peeps

Dating confused gay guy if your a bi or pan girl is a canon event everyone should avoid, you're gonna feel alot of resentment and add more reason why men are so incompetent

If you did something you did something wrong, it's notbyou being gay. It's stupid that you hurt others and be gay, a bit embarrassing on your part

Being queer and gay is all fun and games till you get dismissed with your boundaries and get used for whatever which has nothing to do with you at all since they're the problem to begin with

This exposes many that they're still holding on outdated worldviews and participate into patriarchal norms without them realising it

And now patriarchy is mentioned feminism is another story i want to dissect because it's so problamatic in its own way starting with the meaning but for now i have no cohesive options to share i need to gather my thoughts about women and the roles they are being placed and yes men

Men are so obsessed with women i think it's time to fully expose their dirty laundry since they don't hide but be proud of it, i hate every portion of it

If you see typos this is written from a broken phone <3