#genderfluidpoststhings

[nonbinarypoststhings]

Hello, 

Trans rights

Nonbinary rights

Agender rights

Genderfluid rights

Bigender rights

Queer rights

Y’all deserve love and safety

[nonbinarypoststhings]

I don't have any advice, I'm afraid. However, you are not alone in this. You are valid and feeling the way you do is okay. I get having a mum that doesn't really fully accept you (mine started arguing about boxes and said "think this through" when I told her).

Identify the way you feel, you are the only person who can say if you are right or not, no one else can feel what you are feeling and only you can know what your identity are.

I've heard some suggest that telling them several times will make you look more certain, personally I'm too scared to try that, but it might be helpful for you.

Hope this is helpful ❤

I want to ask you something.

So... I think I'm genderfluid. And I want to talk to my mom about it. She says she's an ally, and even loudly proclaims such under her business name, but every time I talk to her about anything remotely LGBTQ+ related, she gets uncomfortable and changes the subject, or worse, yells at me and tells me how wrong I am in everything I believe and everything I am. It's like she's an ally when it comes to her couples that she photographs, and an ally to her friends, but her child being a biromantic, genderfluid, demisexual is too much for her to handle.

Guys, my mom is my rock. She is my best friend, my confidante, the person I go to first when I need help or when I'm excited or when I'm scared. She means so much to me. And I really want to be able to tell her, I want to talk to her about it and be able to trust that she's not going to throw me aside because I've finally crossed the line. I want to tell her that I'm actually more comfortable with they/them than she/her, that sometimes I feel like wearing a binder and a suit to formal events and that she shouldn't make me go change because I end up disoriented and lost and so so rejected for the rest of the day. That I don't always want to dress feminine. That, 70% of the time, I actually prefer to be more masculine. And 20% of the time, I even prefer to be neither. To just BE.

I just... I just wish that I could share this with her. But I don't know how to, safely. I mean, hell guys, when I came out as bisexual, she asked me for months if I was sure I wasn't confused, told me I didn't know what it meant, that I'd never dated a girl so I wasn't REALLY bisexual. When I told her I was demi, or even possibly ace, she told me that I just hadn't found the right person yet and that everybody enjoys sex and wants sex so I was definitely wrong. Both times, I came to her scared and confused and just wanting to be told that I was valid and that it was ok, and that she loved me no matter what I was. And Both times she let me down.

I don't know who to talk to. Fuck, I don't even know if this is the best place to post this. I just had to say it. If anybody has any advice, I'd really appreciate it. I feel really alone right now.

[justenoughlight]

FELLOW GENDERFLUID PEOPLE I NEED HELP

So I wanted to get some genderfluid shirts off Amazon but I wasn’t expecting to find so many. So now I have about 20 different Amazon links in a Google Doc, and only $175 in gift cards and a plan to buy an MP3 player as well as the shirts. So please help me out by telling me your top 4 or 5 from the mountain of links I’m about to give you:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B081LMCX2K/ref=twister_B081LLHNG1?th=1

https://www.amazon.com/LookHUMAN-Gender-Fluid-Medium-Cotton/dp/B07DZL5DJB/ref=sr_1_6?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid+shirts&qid=1586448820&s=electronics&sr=8-6

https://www.amazon.com/BEIIIOU-Genderfluid-Dragon-Humorous-Design/dp/B07HVCP6BQ/ref=sr_1_5?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid+shirts&qid=1586448820&s=electronics&sr=8-5

https://www.amazon.com/Spreadshirt-Pronouns-Matter-Nonbinary-T-Shirt/dp/B01MZF5T3E/ref=sr_1_10?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid+shirts&qid=1586448820&s=electronics&sr=8-10

https://www.amazon.com/LookHUMAN-Worlds-Okayest-Genderfluid-Athletic/dp/B07GBJMJ9Y/ref=sr_1_11?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid%2Bshirts&qid=1586448820&s=electronics&sr=8-11&th=1

https://www.amazon.com/Compoco-Pop-Gender-Fluid-Pride/dp/B079W715YY/ref=sr_1_12?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid+shirts&qid=1586448820&s=electronics&sr=8-12

https://www.amazon.com/Mine-Apparel-Genderfluid-Unisex-T-shirt/dp/B07T9JZ9SW/ref=sr_1_53?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid%2Bshirts&qid=1586486330&sr=8-53&th=1&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/YETTA-YANG-Bisexual-Genderfluid-Sweatshirts/dp/B07XX1LX9K/ref=sr_1_59?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid%2Bshirts&qid=1586486330&sr=8-59&th=1&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/NOFO-Clothing-Co-Pronouns-Sleeve/dp/B07MLLH1C8/ref=sr_1_63?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid%2Bshirts&qid=1586486330&sr=8-63&th=1&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/PIOL-Galaxy-Genderfluid-Sleeve-T-Shirt/dp/B07ZKLY5XS/ref=sr_1_71?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid%2Bshirts&qid=1586486330&sr=8-71&th=1&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/BencanhaiTee-Aesthetic-Genderfluid-Classic-Sweatshirt/dp/B086RHJHFJ/ref=sr_1_76?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid+shirts&qid=1586486330&sr=8-76

https://www.amazon.com/CHINEIN-Womens-Ladies-T-Shirt-Genderfluid/dp/B081LNFZ1D/ref=sr_1_88?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid%2Bshirts&qid=1586486330&sr=8-88&th=1&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/LookHUMAN-Beautiful-Respect-Pronouns-Athletic/dp/B07CN72W8Y/ref=sr_1_101?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid%2Bshirts&qid=1586486715&sr=8-101&th=1&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/Hoodteez-About-Pronouns-Juniors-T-Shirt/dp/B07Y7K623Q/ref=sr_1_129?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid%2Bshirts&qid=1586486715&sr=8-129&th=1&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/VIIHAHN-Hoodie-Sweater-Genderfluid-Lumbar/dp/B081NLJSCR/ref=sr_1_145?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid%2Bshirts&qid=1586486715&sr=8-145&th=1&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/Fubuyntee-GENDERFLUID-Classic-T-Shirt-Sweatshirt/dp/B08623NGTD/ref=sr_1_201?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid+shirts&qid=1586486877&sr=8-201#

https://www.amazon.com/Fubuyntee-Butterfly-Genderfluid-Premium-Sweatshirt/dp/B0861S8RMY/ref=sr_1_203?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid+shirts&qid=1586486877&sr=8-203

https://www.amazon.com/MINIOZE-Pansexual-Genderfluid-Decorations-Ornament/dp/B084V33F24/ref=sr_1_208?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid+shirts&qid=1586486877&sr=8-208

https://www.amazon.com/Ask-Me-About-My-Gender-Genderfluid-Shirt-Womens-Size_-Adult-S/dp/B085DKS47H/ref=sr_1_241?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid+shirts&qid=1586487030&sr=8-241

https://www.amazon.com/Shop-Intaglio-Genderfluid-Pride-Tshirt/dp/B081D8YD2M/ref=sr_1_242?dchild=1&keywords=genderfluid+shirts&qid=1586487030&sr=8-242

Thank you.

@faronisisioni @the-booted-one @hecho-a-mano @mygenderisknifu @many-things-genderfluid @thoughts-of-a-genderfluid-teen @xinthislonelyhourx @genderfluidpoststhings @genderfluidgreer @figuring-it-all-out @genderfluid-shitposts @disaster-genderfluid-bi-demi @embezzle-my-thin-mint-money

[birb-2]

THE TAG GAME

Tagged by: @samm-is-trash

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Name: Alexander

Sexuality: pansexual and polyamoras

Gender: genderfluid/ ftm

Hogwarts house: Gryffindor

Timezone: eastern standard time

Cats or dogs: CATS!!! I have a trauma with dogs

Dream job: musical actor, English teacher in a different country, comic writer/artist

When I joined Tumblr: no fuckin clue but a few years ago

Url explained: I'm pansexual and we are valid

~10 rando peeps I wanna hear about~

@animatedtext @borinquenaqueer @coming-out-ideas @pansexualrevolutionary @polyamandhellaglam @genderfluidpoststhings @yourdailyqueer @holtzbabesxx @nonbinaryresource @demi-me

[taffyoflaugh]

I saw @genderfluidpoststhings do this challenge and decided I wanted to try it!

Day 1: A song you like with a color in the title

Paint the Town Green- The Script

Just like home

Let’s color the streets like our own

Let’s make this place feel like our home

If it’s just you and me

It’s alright

‘Cause tonight

We’re gonna paint the town green

There was a few songs, but I really like this one. It’s fun to sing to.

[nonbinarypoststhings]

I don't know if this is helpful, but I would personally try to start a conversation about gender without outing yourself (maybe you know some nonbinary/trans people, or listen to some nonbinary/trans poeples music, etc.). Test the waters with them, talk with them.

If you don't think it's safe don't do it, wait until you feel like it is safe. Even if it's only unsafe mentally. However, talking with and trying to educate them on gender might be the way to go, they might not change their minds at first, or maybe ever, but education is always the right way to go, everyone can learn if they want to.

Hope this helps somewhat, and good luck on your adventures ❤

LOOK OKAY MY FAMILY ARE TRANSPHOBIC SO IF I'M EVER GONNA 'LIVE MY TRUTH' I NEED SOME WAY TO COMPLETELY CHANGE THEIR VIEWS THAT HAVE BEEN BEATEN IN SINCE CHILDHOOD WITHOUT GETTING GASLIGHTED AND GUILT TRIPPED INTO STAYING IN THE CLOSET FOR THE REST OF MY LIIIIFE

ANY OLDER NONBINARY/DEMI/GENDERFLUID FOLKS OUT THERE HELP ME OUT I'M SO CLOSE TO JUST FUCKIN,,,, BURSTING INTO FLAMES

[nonbinarypoststhings]

Apparently some bullshit bad person said you couldn’t cast trans people on broadway (which is just false, PLEASE gimme more trans actors on broadway)

But the sheer amount of just love for trans actors I've seen these past days is also v nice

Anyway

Trans actors are AMAZING and that is final :)

[nonbinarypoststhings]

Warning: Slight mention of christianity (An accepting priest). Also some mentions of transphobic/homophobic phrases (It’s all examples and not actual quotes, but I wanna warn either way). 

Hello

If you think being a christian is a good excuse for being homophobic or transphobic, I would like to tell you the story of which adult in my family who was the quickest to adapt to my new name and pronouns (even asking for my pronouns). The priest. 

No “I will pray for you”. Nothing about “it is wrong” or whatever lame excuse transphobes use. 

She said “What pronouns do you use?” and when I told her she used them without question. 

Being a christian isn’t an excuse for bigotry. 

[nonbinarypoststhings]

If someone ask you for your "Real name" or "real pronouns"

Remember that your real name and pronouns are the one you Use. Meaning the ones you've chosen to use.

If they say those aren't your "Real name and pronouns" then they are transphobic

[nonbinarypoststhings]

Language ramble

Notes: This is very long, so I put it underneath a keep reading thing. It’s just me explaining why all language is made up and still very much real. Welcome to my late night ramble :) (also, I am aware of the spelling mistakes, I just don’t have the energy to edit them out, I wrote this on my phone late at night). 

Language, and why people misunderstand it.

Basically just me rambling. I have no preknowledge, no sources. Doesn’t really matter though

I always find people who disagree with language so unnecessary.

I get that you want the language to not change or whatever, but goodness gracious language changes all the time. Words are made up by people, some words are not even that old.

We have words, we make versions of the words, and in different parts of a country we may say them completely differently.

Words are made up, it doesn't make them not be real.

This goes for anyword. I could literallt make up a word right now, and yes it would be made up, but how the hell would you tell me it's not real.

You know some authors literally make up new words to fit their story, and those words have become a part of our day to day life.

The meaning of words can also change, just by people using it wrong for a certain amount of time.

I sometimes think I know what an english word mean, until I realize I've only heard it used ironically and that it actually means the opposite from what I think.

My Point with this whole ramble is,

If you say we can't change the language to fit our needs, you are simply wrong.

The language didn't have a word that I needed, so I simply made one up to describe it.

No exisiting pronouns fit you? Make some new ones that you feel fits. You can do that, language doesn't stop you.

A dictionary is not some gatekeeper of words, a dictionary is simply a book filled with words that are known.

Did you know that they add onto the dictionary Every Year because new words become common enough?

Languages are a tool to understand others. I could literally say the weirdest sentence, but if you understand what I mean I have still succeeded in my goal of communication.

I have seen lists of words that got added into the dictionary over here, that have made me raise my eyebrows and wonder why that became a word in my language. Well, because enough people used it. It became common knowledge.

Sometimes definitions get added too.

Some words mean different things despite being spelled the same way.

If I say floss you probably either think of the act of flossing your teeth, or you think of the dance.

Both definitions are correct, even though the dance is newer. It doesn’t make either bad.

You have made a new word to describe your gender? Great for you! I'm glsd you've found a way to communicate your gender in a way that is comfortable to you. Even if it isn't widely known. That's a thing you can do, you don't have to listen to people talk shit about "it not exisiting" becuase, of course it does. You exist, and that's how you define your gender.

Language is complex, it isn't as easy as taking up a dictionary.

You have to understand language, not words.

You can study a dictionary your whole life, but it doesn’t make you know everything about language.

My point is, the goal of language is communication, and if you manage to communicate by using words that might not be in a dictonary yet, you are completely in your right to do so.

Use neopronouns, come up with specific lables that fit you.

People likes to tell us it makes the community look bad, I tell you thati t honestly doesn’t matter. People will be mad whatever you do, just live a life that make you happy. Use definitions you feel fit. You are not responsible for making the community look bad, because transphobes will still be transphobes. Transphobes does not care what you do they will still be transphobic, so you should just do what makes you happy and stop focusing on them. Their happiness isn't your responsibility.

Idk if this makes sense, it's late and I'm rambling.

[nonbinarypoststhings]

I've seen a lot of tweets today talking about not assuming content creators sexuality, which yes, don’t do that.

But also, I saw a reply with like "Yeah, followers forget they aren’t cc friends" which made me instantly think:

Don’t Assume Your Friend's Sexuality Either

Just, don’t assume people's sexuality.

It doesn’t matter who this person is

Doesn’t matter if it’s your best friend or a celebrity you've heard about once. Don’t ever label anyone as anything except for the labels they tell you.

If they don’t tell you, don’t assume.

Just let people live their lives, if they want you to know, they'll tell you. If they don’t, that’s their choice and you have to accept that.

[nonbinarypoststhings]

Cis people don’t have any say in who is or isn’t trans. 

Cis people don’t have any say in what is or isn’t transphobic.

(Yes, educate yourselves and others, and call out transphobia when it happens, but you shouldn’t speak over trans voices, you should listen to them) 

[taffyoflaugh]

Awww thank you so much! Right back at you! 💖

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support each other! uplift and unite! tag someone who has a blog you like, who you’ve always admired, who you thought was pretty; don’t be shy! spread the love

@a-sip-of-anxietea @depressed-lemon-blog @fullmetalalchemistbrotherhood420 @koiysa… There’s a lot of blogs I like! (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧

Aww, thank you!! Right back at you.

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Thank you so much!!! You would be on this list if unspoken rules didn’t exist, lol. Anyways,

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Aaaaa ty!

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And all my mutuals!

What can I say except 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛

@pepperland-timelord @a-rude-occurrence @mayplantstarrwaters @ziggy-starstop @sgtstrawman @somekindofbea @someartperson @tinydancer-39 and all of my mutuals

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thanks for the tag, it really made my day ❤

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omg thanks for the tag @artsyhippie and @oneclassichoe !!! ♥️

@cultofbeatle @sweet-lady-jane @mustaines-mustang @artsyhippie @old-memoria @ourladylennon @oneclassichoe @bazbach and honestly all my mutuals ♥️

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AAH! THANK YOU @bazbach !!

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I–OMG THANKS 😳❤️

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tysm @marteolus24 :3

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@gia-is-a-punk-rocker 

@stevenadlers 

@slashstitties 

@xx-sikki-nixx-xx 

@joeyxjohnny17 

@thehugwizard 

@hello-lobstersocks 

@brian-absolutely-can 

@dufflesmckagan 

@feedermercury 

@incorrect-classic-rock-quotes 

@incorrect-nirvana-quotes 

@incorrectmotleycruequotes 

@markiplier 

@purelyaxlrose 

@studyquill 

@tbhstudying 

@that-70s-punk 

@ubernoxa 

@vodka-bitch 

@viralwolf02 

@xx-sikki-nixx-xx 

@xxkurtcobainxx 

@youre-in-the-jungle-baby 

@ziggy-starstop

There’s too many to tag

So @every last one you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

^^^

@monochromemelody087 @a-very-weird-but-cool-dude @i-am-a-photographer @churrobird @anatthema-art @quinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn @superiorironspider @nasirklaus @mintlysweet-tea @uwuspeakanon @my-name-is-kin @kikyoyuuki 

❤️ ❤️ ❤️ *hug*

Right back at you @drifthail! And also @literalgarbagebutok @justmenoworries @pro-hunter-sailor-lapis @missholoska @a-very-weird-but-cool-dude @official-lucifers-child @deanbean-soup @cleverclove @therayningking and everybody who sees this!

YO TYSM Y’ALL TOO KIND 🥺

Tagging @taliathefox, @talenny4life, @usumaky, @loveallcountryhumans, @rage-filled-les-bean, @lunarcoast, @seductively-eats-a-bagel, and @everyone who sees this on my blog!!!

@cleverclove @caffine-and-tears @smol-paniced-sam @camcam-the-grandpan @franvolk @ANYONE WHO SEES THIS

Tysm! 💕

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Thanks for tagging me @cleverclove and @camcam-the-grandpan.I really appreciate you guys too.

Others I tag @sociophobia459 @snickersnotdoodlez @ivegotanaceupmysleeve-ohitsme @imsososssssscared @bean-kiwi @child-of-many-stories @ask-the-amazing-greenland @askstuff-forstella-andfriends @miraculous-mermaid03 @rage-filled-les-bean @carbonated-bone-juice @smolrussianbeans13 @taffyoflaugh @mysterykid @x-p0lenette-x @temmies123 @letmebegaykaren @theeerie8 @no-u-it-me-regan @peaches-and-kiwis @russianroulette-yt @cream-puff-star @countryhumanspakistan @im-the-ace-in-my-sleeve @ivegotanaceupmysleeve-ohitsme @ask-a-countryhumans-fan @aspirationatwork @ala-the-artist @cromchychipdip @the-lying-gods-are-dead @amepnka @delicatehumanexpertpatrol @lemonbars-and-fingerguns @theo-being-dumb-of-arse @zahraacookiedough @momo-ch-blog @lemon-thedemon @mynameiskori @abandonment-is-my-story @sideways-furry @bleu-berrii @juicy-pineapple-juice @rei-does-stuff @staffyouresobadatrunningawebsite and anybody else I did not mention I love you all so much:)You always make my day and deserve all the love I give you.Stay hydrated and healthy:)

[nonbinarypoststhings]

Thinking about the prom (the musical movie) and I am actually v curious about like... the whole you must bring a date of the other sex to the prom thing. Like is that an actual thing?

Like, even ignoring the obvious homophobia... can’t you go to prom with just a few of your best friends? Can’t a date be a girl and her best friend or a guy and his best friend? (Like actually platonically)

Like.... here if you were a gay couple going to prom people probs wouldn’t notice when you went in bc of the sheer amount of people who just go with their friends, y'know, as friends. There will sometimes be like a group of five good friends going to prom together?

My cousin brought my brother as her date bc they are great friends and she wanted a friend to go with.

Like, normalize going to prom with your friends, and help samesex couples not having to come out while also chilling with their partners.

[nonbinarypoststhings]

You are allowed to be halfway out of the closet.

Where people know you are queer, but don't know what that means to you.

It's okay to have come out as trans, without having changed your name or pronouns yet.

It's okay to come out as questioning, wherever that puts you later (even if the answer is hetcis).

It's okay to come out to some people but not all.

It's okay to simply make heavy implications that you are queer, without actually saying it.

It's okay to be out as a sexuality but not a gender, or viseversa.

It's okay to be out in whatever way you are out. Even if it is just a tiny way.

Being queer doesn't mean being out.

Being queer means being noncis and/or nonhet.

Don't let others determine your coming outs.

It's your journey, and you get to decide how when where if.

Don't let people pressure you into coming out when you arent ready.

And if someone does outs you, or forces you to out yourself, they are the bad guy. They suck. They aren't allowed to do that, and have absolutely no right to do it.

You can be half in the closet and still be proud of your identity. Don't let people tell you otherwise.

[nonbinarypoststhings]

I was reading one of my course books about feminism, and on one page it describes different fights, and they do it like:

“For women’s rights, against sexism.”

And I think that’s the things people forget about when we talk about different fights. We are for something and against something at the same time.

You can’t support Black Lives Matter without actively being against racism. 

You can’t support queer people without actively being against homophobia, transphobia and queerphobia. 

You can’t support disabled people without actively being against ableism. 

It all ties together, and you can’t say you support one of us and then sit silently while people take away our rights. You need to support us by actively being against the people who are against us. 

Show support to us by showing us love and respecting us as people, but also by stepping in when people are being jerks.

You can’t support those who are bullied without being actively against the bullies.

Anyway, that’s my take on that.