#gaypolyamory

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We are all broken. In one way or another. But - hmmm. There is no but. That’s just how it is. The only thing left really, is how we handle the broken parts. And also, how the ones we choose to love can manage and, if they love, choose to appreciate the differences in the broken. #beard #cutegay #cutegaycouple #bearded #gaypride #gaythrouple #gaylife #gaytriad #gapoly #gaypolyamory #bearsandcubs #scruff #scruffy #scruffygay #scruffybear #scruffybears #gaydaddybear #gaycuddle #gaYlove #gaylovers #gaylovestory #bearscubsandscruff #bearscubsnbeards #bearsofinstagram #beardedgay (at Mumbai, Maharashtra) https://www.instagram.com/p/CnrBFkwo9Cf/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[caseymeaux]

Had an amazing dinner tonight! Margarita Fresco was on point and the Pollo Parmigiana was 🔥🔥🔥 • • • • • • #amazing #dinnerdate #poly #throuple #gay #gaytriad #gaypolyamory #italianfood #Florida #sarasota (at Salute Sarasota) https://www.instagram.com/p/CaBxzxqunjp/?utm_medium=tumblr

[marcusreici333]

One day I dreamed ... Model: @carsontwitchell . . . Don't miss any of my Posts. Go to @marcusreici333 and, if you want, Tap on Follow. 😘 . . . marcusreici333 #sunset #sunsetphotography #sunsetlover #romanticsunset #throuple #triad #trio #gaytriad #gaytrio #gaythrouple #gaytrouple #gaypolyamory #gaypoly #gayboyfriends #boyfriendsofinstagram #boyfriendsofinsta #sandiegogay #gaysandiego #gaycalifornian #gaycalifornia #lgbtq🌈 #thebeardedhomo #thebeardedway #scruffyhomo #instagay #gayselfie #gayfit #gayfitness #gayboy #gayspain https://www.instagram.com/p/CFLTO3bl9Y-/?igshid=z4ck2bwy7944

[gaytoon-art-blog]

@realstevenbell is a gorgeous cat dad of three with two boyfriends. He’s made of magic and something that smells like bubble gum that he puts in his beard. I can’t explain it, it’s just the way it is. . . . #gaytoon #gaytoons #gayart #queerart #queerartist #gayartist #lgbtart #nycart #drawingsofmen #portrait #cartoon #gaycartoon #instagood #instagay #cuteboys #mustache #gayswithcats #menwithcats #catdad #art #drawing #ipadproart #applepencil #polyamory #gaypolyamory #throuple #illustrator #cartoonist (at Hamilton Heights, Manhattan)

[jadeimpala67]

Fucking shit, I'd take them both #gaypolyamory

#whyhaveonesexgodwhenyoucouldhavetwo

[ah17hh]

More Than Two, "problems" with chapters? via /r/polyamory

More Than Two, "problems" with chapters?

I just got to chapter nine in More Than Two, by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert, and I've very much been enjoying and appreciating the book. As I posted recently on r/GayPolyamory, reading it has made me consider polyamory as more than a relationship type, but also as a way of being/identifying, which has been an incredible (and inspiring) shift in my thinking.

But just before chapter nine, I've now reached the second 'disclaimer' that directs the reader to a stand-alone "mini-ebook" to address "problems in this chapter." I'm assuming these disclaimers only occur within the Kindle/e-book versions of the book, but I could be mistaken. The first disclaimer I noticed was after chapter five, Nurturing Your Relationships.

It reads: "Publisher's note: A number of people have raised some concerns about this chapter. The authors have attempted to address these issues in a modified and expanded standalone mini-ebook based on this chapter, titled Polyamory and Jealousy: A More Than Two Essentials Guide"

And chapter 8's reads: "Publisher's note: A number of well-respected polyamorous writers, spokespeople and therapists have pointed out problems in this chapter. The authors have attempted to address these issues in a modified and expanded standalone mini-ebook based on this chapter, titled Polyamory and Jealousy: A More Than Two Essentials Guide"

Now, first of all, I like that we've now escalated from "a number of people" to "ALL OF THESE IMPORTANT PEOPLE" in this second disclaimer. And while I'm annoyed that if there are, in fact, "problems" with these chapters that the authors/publisher didn't just release a new edition of the book, rather than updating the Kindle version to include these disclaimers... I also realize that's probably more of a systems/money/publishing thing.

But I am frustrated that they're so vague about "problems." Like... okay, I'm probably willing to buy the e-book, but if the problems are significant enough that you had to publish a modified version of this information, then maybe like... give me a heads up as to what parts might be problematic? I just spent however long highlighting the poop out of this chapter, drawing it all in, and trying my best to learn from it, only to be met with a "Welllll, we might have missed the mark on some of that! To find out more... buy something else!"

Anyway. Anyone else notice this? Has anyone else read the standalone e-book(s)? Does anyone have insight into the problematic parts of these chapters (and any others that might have disclaimers that I missed or haven't gotten to yet)?

I'm really excited to keep learning and to ideally start exploring my own polyamorous feelings, so in no way am I like... WELL F THIS BOOK! But just wondering if others have thoughts/experiences with this.

Apologies for the novella of a post - I tend to be a little wordy. :)

Submitted August 22, 2020 at 12:25PM by danlang via reddit https://ift.tt/2FPmZfV

[rehabillitatedglitterwhore]

so, i met this girl who was is Poly, it made me think about me, and why i consider myself poly as well. i don’t have much experience, but one relationship, the middle top row example you see here in this wonderful diagram hahaha. i feel it would have worked if A, Green wasn’t constantly lieing and B Red wasn’t afraid or was able to commit like ones supposed to in a relationship. i do with my whole heart believe that you have be committed and intimate with multiple partners. you just need honesty, trust, communication, love, and an open mind. i don’t believe in limiting myself to just one experience. i want to experience all life has to offer. in my heart there is room for more then one person, i am someone that can love people for who they are and what they can bring to my life, that doesn’t mean material wise but with their life experiences and their hopes and dreams to share with and expand upon and grow as human beings. i have always been loyal to the end and honest till it hurt and i was to green and red. I displayed an unwavering loyalty and trust in them, sadly they did not appreciate it and took advantage of it, but hey things happen. not sure whats next for me in the love aspect of my life, a one on one relationship of monogamy or an open relationship? who knows and who cares. i am happy with the direction in which my life is headed and the people i have surrounded myself with ☺️ #polyamorous #polyamory #gaypolyamory #optimistic

[hsc285]

A new linen outfit. 🧿 #gay #cutegay #cutegaycouple #polytriad #gaypride #gaythrouple #gaylife #gaytriad #gapoly #gaypolyamory #bearsandcubs #scruff #scruffy #scruffygay #scruffybear #scruffybears #gaydaddybear #gingerdaddy #gingerbear #gaycuddle #gaYlove #gaylovers #gaylovestory #bearscubsandscruff #bearscubsnbeards #bearsofinstagram #beardedgay #beardedbear #beardotter https://www.instagram.com/p/Ch90J_BPQ3o/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hsc285]

It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not. - Andre Gide #beard #cutegay #cutegaycouple #cutegaycouples #gaypride #gaythrouple #gaylife #gaytriad #gapoly #gaypolyamory #bearsandcubs #scruff #scruffy #scruffygay #scruffybear #scruffybears #gaydaddybear #gaycuddle #gaYlove #gaylovers #gaylovestory #bearscubsandscruff #bearscubsnbeards #bearsofinstagram #beardedgay #tattoo #heart #🫶🏼#🫰🏼 https://www.instagram.com/p/ClSdG7wvjat/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hsc285]

Felt cute. Won’t delete. #beard #cutegay #cutegaycouple #cutegaycouples #gaypride #gaythrouple #gaylife #gaytriad #gapoly #gaypolyamory #bearsandcubs #scruff #scruffy #scruffygay #scruffybear #scruffybears #gaydaddybear #gaycuddle #gaYlove #gaylovers #gaylovestory #bearscubsandscruff #bearscubsnbeards #bearsofinstagram #beardedgay #beardedbear #beardotter https://www.instagram.com/p/CklIuwqPVJ6/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hsc285]

Pyar. #beard #cutegay #cutegaycouple #cutegaycouples #gaypride #gaythrouple #gaylife #gaytriad #gapoly #gaypolyamory #bearsandcubs #scruff #scruffy #scruffygay #scruffybear #scruffybears #gaydaddybear #gaycuddle #gaYlove #gaylovers #gaylovestory #bearscubsandscruff #bearscubsnbeards #bearsofinstagram #beardedgay #beardedbear #beardotter https://www.instagram.com/p/CjsWBlev7CW/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hsc285]

Randomness, before I groom myself for tomorrow. #beard #cutegay #cutegaycouple #cutegaycouples #gaypride #gaythrouple #gaylife #gaytriad #gapoly #gaypolyamory #bearsandcubs #scruff #scruffy #scruffygay #scruffybear #scruffybears #gaydaddybear #gaycuddle #gaYlove #gaylovers #gaylovestory #bearscubsandscruff #bearscubsnbeards #bearsofinstagram #beardedgay #beardedbear #hsc285 https://www.instagram.com/p/CjnSk8PIGMW/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hsc285]

Red was not my colour until I began to know heart break. It defines a state of being. Red is the color of life. It's blood, passion, rage. It's menstrual flow and after birth. Beginnings and violent end. Red is the color of love. Beating hearts and hungry lips. Roses, Valentines, cherries. Red is the color of shame. Crimson cheeks and spilled blood. Broken hearts, opened veins. A burning desire to return to white. #beard #cutegay #cutegaycouples #gaypride #gaylife #gaytriad #gapoly #gaypolyamory #bearsandcubs #scruff #scruffy #scruffygay #scruffybear #scruffybears #gaydaddybear #gaycuddle #gaYlove #gaylovers #gaylovestory #bearscubsandscruff #bearscubsnbeards #bearsofinstagram #beardedgay #beardedbear #beardotter #hsc285 #scruffy #beardlover https://www.instagram.com/p/Ci9kg_VI32k/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hsc285]

Though Gryffindor is my house, green will always be my favourite colour. #beard #cutegay #cutegaycouple #cutegaycouples #gaypride #gaythrouple #gaylife #gaytriad #gapoly #gaypolyamory #bearsandcubs #scruff #scruffy #scruffygay #scruffybear #scruffybears #gaydaddybear #gaycuddle #gaYlove #gaylovers #gaylovestory #bearscubsandscruff #bearscubsnbeards #bearsofinstagram #beardedgay #beardedbear #beardotter #pathani #desilook https://www.instagram.com/p/CiudC3_PVr4/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hsc285]

I have to still catch up on work. #beard #cutegay #cutegaycouple #cutegaycouples #gaypride #gaythrouple #gaylife #gaytriad #gapoly #gaypolyamory #bearsandcubs #scruff #scruffy #scruffygay #scruffybear #scruffybears #gaydaddybear #gaycuddle #gaYlove #gaylovers #gaylovestory #bearscubsandscruff #bearscubsnbeards #bearsofinstagram #beardedgay #beardedbear #beardotter #lazy #inbed #sleeplessnights https://www.instagram.com/p/CiYoaKgIH2h/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hsc285]

💚 #beard #cutegay #gaypride #gaythrouple #gaylife #gaytriad #gaytriad #gaypolyamory #bearsandcubs #scruff #scruffy #scruffygay #scruffybear #scruffybears #gaydaddybear #gaycuddle #gaYlove #gaylovers #gaylovestory #bearscubsandscruff #bearscubsnbeards #bearsofinstagram #beardedgay #beardedbear #beardotter #wolf #label #anniversary #💚 https://www.instagram.com/p/CiUyNOVotG8/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=