#fun fact: my mom was born in ‘69 only 2 years after sex between 2 men over 21 and in private was decriminalised

[procrastiel]

Happy 10-year anniversary of gay marriage being legalised in the UK

Yes, it’s only been legal since 2014. It hasn’t been that long. Don’t take anything for granted, and don’t think that your rights will never be taken away again once they’re given. They are subject to change.

[starchild--27]

85 questions

I was tagged by @kafkascupcake .  This will be fun, so thanks ^^

rules: answer 85 statements about yourself, then tag 20 people

last

1. drink – water with lemon flavour

2. phone call - my hair dresser (if i ignore the fact that i accidently called my dad a few momnets ago when i wanted to look up my last phone call - ofc this had to happen xD)

3. text message - i told some kid from my spanish class tht we didn’t have spanish class last week

4. song you listened to – Californiacation by Red Hot Chili Peppers

5. time you cried - three days ago i think, but i waas at the verge of crying yesterday evening  

6. dated someone twice? – nope. i never dated anyone 

7. kissed someone and regretted it – nope

8. been cheated on – no

9. lost someone special – i’m so grateful to say that i never lost anyone in my life and i am so afraid of the day this will happen to me

10. been depressed - kind of. i have my depressed moments but everyone has at some point

11. gotten drunk and thrown up – never, i’m not drinking much 

fave colours

12. navy blue

13. black

14. metallic shades of basically every colour

in the last year have you…

15. made new friends – i’m always careful with the word friend when it comes to my real life, but let’s say i got to know some people better that have been around for a longer time but i never really interacted with. on the internet things are a little different, so i can say i’ve interacted with a lot of people here and i can’t help but treat them as friends 

16. fallen out of love – not in the last year

17. laughed until you cried - multiple times xD

18. found out someone was talking about you – i really don’t know and i hate that i can’t say this wouldn’t bother me because i really want to know what people think of me - just to be able to understand why they treat me how they do. 

19. met someone who changed you - oh, i really don’t know. i think i didn’t change that much in the last 365 days

20. found out who your friends are – it was a little more than a year ago, but yes i did.

21. kissed someone on your Facebook friends list – i don’t even have facebook

general

22. how many of your facebook friends do you know irl – since i don’t have facebook i’ll do this for instagram and there it is probably a minority since i follow countless art pages, celebrities, fanpages, animal pages, political pages, people i don’t know in real life, …

23. do you have any pets - yes - a black cat with the name Black Pearl, which we gave him before i even knew about the song by EXO ^^ his name referred to the ship from Pirates of the Carribbean first xD

24. do you want to change your name – i did in the past, because my name is very rare where i live. but i started to like it after some time. the great thing is that it’s meaning differs since no one really knows it’s true origin. 

25. what did you do for your last birthday - i invited my two best friends but one happened to be sick at that day (ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ) so we were only two but it was great anyway. since i was born the day after walpurgis night we went to the bonfire and spent some time there

26. what time did you wake up today – 7 am but i slept in again and got at 11:20 

27. what were you doing at midnight last night – reading or sleeping, i don’t know for sure

28. what is something you can’t wait for – vacation with my family and the summer holidays in general (school was … much in the last weeks.)

30. what are you listening to right now – the sound of me slamming my fingers on my laptop’s keyboard while writing this lol

31. have you ever talked to a person named tom – i did, in fact to more than one

32. something that gets on your nerves – that i have to go to school for one more year (i hate this place wholeheartedly) but i don’t know what to do with my life after graduating 

33. most visited website - tumblr and youtube

34. hair color – my natural hair colour is brown but i dye it ginger red and i love it

35. long or short hair – pretty long actually, but i have curls so it’s pretty hard to notice how long 

36. do you have a crush on someone -  if we ignore my celebrity crushes then … i don’t know…probably no. i’m not sure about this one boy though but…yeah, i don’t really know him that well and i probably only like the idea i have of how he could be. (this is btw so typical for me xD)

37. what do you like about yourself – don’t get me wrong, i know it sounds tragical and sad, but i don’t have something i like 100% about myself. i am used to it though because i’ve been this way since forever, having high standards for me (and for others probably too, which is very unfair from me) but the closest to 100% is my talent for music.     

38. want any piercings? – only at my ears

39. blood type – A positive

40. nicknames – the most common nickname for my name is Selmi but hardly anyone except for my mom and my sister calls me like that anymore. other than that i have the feeling my friends and i don’t have nicknames but more like pet names for each other. like, i was called “Flauschebausch” (in english “Fluffpuff”) not that long ago (it referred to my hair). i would also count “squirrel”, “the stars” and all that stuff as nicknames but we don’t really call each other often like that in person xD     

41. relationship status - single 

42. zodiac - Taurus (but most of the stuff people say about tauruses are not 100% true for me)

43. pronouns - she/her

44. fave tv shows – lately i finished Game Of Thrones and i liked it so damn much, especially the ending (i really don’t get why it was so hated, but i’ll not explain further - i don’t want to write an essay here xD). i also enjoy watching Gilmore Girls from time to time, but hardly anyone in my generation knows it. and since i read it at @kafkascupcake ‘s post for this tag i just remembered how much i liked Memories of the Alhambra too (gosh, how i waited for every episode to air … i still remember this impatient feeling so well)

45. tattoos – i’m not allowed to have any yet but i’m thinking about getting smaller ones later since i think tattoos are pretty. buuuuut i’m also afraid because i can’t really imagine the pain

46. right or left handed - right

47. ever had surgery – yeah. unspectecular story tho.

48. piercings - only earrings but one of my friends and i plan on getting helix piercings soon (originally this was planned to be done before last christmas but we never found time)

49. sport – no no no no no. i hate it. i always did. i did some horse riding in my childhood but that’s it. i’m just not able to coordinate my body so a fail at basically every kind of sport. and i am easily frustrated when i fail at something so i never really tried to ace sports.  

50. vacation – my last vacation was when i visited Berlin with my two best friends and m next vacation will be in Denmark with my family

51. trainers – Converse Chucks, always and forever

more general

52. eating – i used to be a very picky eater but it gets better with every year. lately i really like spicy food. but i also have a terrible sweet tooth. i am surprised how i am still like super slim …

53. drinking – a trait i inherited from my dad: i love milk. but i also like juices, tea, coffee (with milk ofc xD) and plain water too

54. i’m about to watch – Avengers Endgame. like today. in 2 hrs.

55. waiting for – my train ride to the next bigger city for seeing endgame. and for me getting an idea what i want to do with my life

56. want – to travel and to make music. my two passions

57. get married – i don’t think it’s necessary for a happy relationship but it depends on the person. to be honest, i like the thought of getting married but i totally understand if someone doesn’t like it.

58. career – the biggest question mark in my life rn

which is better

59. hugs or kisses - hugs. i can’t even explain why. but hugs.

60. lips or eyes - i thinj i look at the eyes first. but i am damned if a person has beautiful lips too

61. shorter or taller – taller

62. older or younger - not important

63. nice arms or stomach – yeah ofc stomachs are great. but let’s be real here: i’m a swooning bitch for nice arms.

64. hookup or relationship – relationship. i am a hopeless romantic

65. troublemaker or hesitant - i am an overthinker, which makes me the epitome of hesitant.

have you ever

66. kissed a stranger – never kissed anyone lol

67. drank hard liquor – only mixed with juice

68. lost glasses - yeah. wasn’t cool.bc without glasses i am literally blind

69. turned someone down - kind of.

70. sex on first date - no

71. broken someone’s heart – i hope not.

72. had your heart broken – yip. my first heavy crush was not that happy. but i am over it since the guy was and still is a jerk and i don’t even know why i fell for him anymore

73. been arrested - no

74. cried when someone died - yes

75. fallen for a friend – never

do you believe in

76. yourself – depends on the situation.

77. miracles - there are moments in which i do

78. love at first sight - yes

79. santa claus -  no

80. kiss on a first date – yeah.. i think itmight happen xD

81. angels - who knows? it would be great though.

other

82. best friend’s name - deer of the sun @swiftfeatherscorner and cat of the moon @fille-de-janvier xD i don’t know if they’d like to have their real names published here but here you ahve their tumblrs

83. eye color - i looked it up someday and it’s called glasz - a strange mix between green, blue and grey with some golden dots and marks. depends on the lightning which colour is stronger.

84. fave movie – impossible to tell.

85. fave actor – also impossible to tell. there are so many good actors in this world

i’m not even sure if 20 people will read this so i’ll just tag everyone who has time to answer 85 questions xD

[booandbooks]

GET TO KNOW ME

Tagged by the beautiful @kpopscenariostho (i kinda just copied and pasted yours and changed my answers xD Laziness or smartness? The world may never know) 

Rules: Answer these 92 statements and tag 20 people.

THE LAST: 1. Drink: Lemonade 2. Phone call: My cousin  3. Text message: My brother and it’s only the number 13  4. Song you listened to: Milk and Cookies by Melanie Martinez  5. Time you cried: Back in April

HAVE YOU: 6. Dated someone twice: No 7. Kissed someone and regretted it: No 8. Been cheated on: No 9. Lost someone special: Unfortunately 10. Been depressed: Hell yes 11. Gotten drunk and thrown up: No

LIST 3 FAVORITE COLORS: 12. RED RED RED 13. Purple 14. Black

IN THE LAST YEAR HAVE YOU: 15. Made new friends: Yes. Our pedonoona’s chat will have its one year anniversary in less than a month T.T it’s lit everyday. And the beautiful people I’ve met on tumblr T.T you guys are the best! 16. Fallen out of love: Have I’ve even fallen in love? (Does Yoongi count) 17. Laughed until you cried: Like a week ago looking back at our Mario Kart reel xD my brothers suck at rainbow road. 18. Found out someone was talking about you: My mom talks about me a lot (does that count) 19. Met someone who changed you: Definitely 20. Found out who your friends are: I guess 21. Kissed someone on your Facebook list: Nope

GENERAL: 22. How many of your Facebook friends do you know in real life: Like 95% and the rest are Army’s from my city who said we should meet up and never do lol 23. Do you have any pets: Not at the moment but i really want a Corgi! 24. Do you want to change your name: Back then i did but not anymore 25. What did you do for your last Birthday: I ate a burger with my brothers and my dad. My brother made me brownies and cookies which i could not touch till midnight. The next day my best friend took me to the movies. 26. What time did you wake up: Like between 10-11 27. What were you doing at midnight last night: Playing Mario Kart with my brother 28. Name something you can’t wait for: Hixtape 29. When was the last time you saw your mom: She is sitting beside me watching the last episode of her telenovela 30. What is one thing you wish you could change in your life: I could be more productive and not let my anxiety talk in my behalf. 31. What are you listening to right now: Sign of the Times by Harry Styles (oh it just changed to Hard times by Paramore) 32. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: Yeah, he saved our life trying to look for car insurance on our way to Mexico. His voice was so soothing i stopped crying for that entire half hour i was on the phone with him. 33. Something that is getting on your nerves: the hot humid weather  34. Most visited website: Google

LOST QUESTIONS. I JUST PUT IN RANDOM INFO ABOUT ME 35. Mole/s: a bunch that if i go missing and they find my body, they could identify me just by looking at the rare looking ones i have. 36. Mark/s: scars on my knees from falling when i was a kid and i have white marks on my tan feet that I’ve had since birth 37. Chilhood dream: An astronaut. 38. Hair color: Black 39. Long or short hair: Short 40. Do you have a crush on someone: Nope 41. What do you like about yourself: That i am an open minded person 42. Piercings: Just the normal ones on my earlobes that apparently i got after 5 days of being born. 43. Blood type: O something 44. Nickname: Miki (Mickey) or Michelin as in the tire brand ha 45. Relationship status: More Single that a Pringle 46. Zodiac: Taurus 47. Pronouns: she/her 48. Favorite TV show: Criminal Minds, The Middle, Friends, Big Bang Theory, Pretty Little Liars 49. Tattoos: Not Yet~ 50. Right or left hand: right 51. Surgery: Nope 52. Hair dyed in different colors: Currently its black but before that I had it Blue and Black like 2 years ago 53. Sport: Badminton, sometimes basketball and football 54. There’s no question here so fun fact: I love baking 55. Vacation: Anywhere I can go with my family 56. Pair of trainers: Does this mean shoes?? in that case, i have to wear nikes or sketchers or else i start getting foot problems again. RIP my converse

MORE GENERAL: 57. Eating: Anything my mom makes and BBQ 58. Drinking: Tea and Water with fresh pieces of fruit inside 59. I’m about to: Take a shower and play Mario Kart 60. No question here either so another fun fact: I cannot go to sleep in complete darkness so i have a night light my grandma bought me when i was 12 61. Waiting for: Calls back from the jobs I have applied to! 62. Want: Money 63. Get married: In a spare of a year or two i went from hell yeah to marriage, to hell no I am fine by myself 64. Career: Ask me again in a few months 

WHICH IS BETTER 65. Hugs or kisses: HUGS 66. Lips or eyes: EYES 67. Shorter or taller: TALLER 68. Older or younger: I’m into older guys but you never know 69. No question here: I wish I had green eyes. (it skipped a generation) 70. Nice arms or nice stomach: Both?? 71. Sensitive or loud: SENSITIVE 72. Hook up or relationship: RELATIONSHIP 73. Troublemaker or hesitant:  A little of Both

HAVE YOU EVER: 74. Kissed a stranger: No 75. Drank hard liquour: No 76. Lost glasses/contact lenses: They’re on my face 24/7 77. Turned someone down: Yes 78. Sex in the first date: No 79. Broken someone’s heart: No 80. Had your heart broken: Yes 81. Been arrested: No 82. Cried when someone died: Yes 83. Fallen for a friend: No

DO YOU BELIEVE IN: 84. Yourself: Eh 85. Miracles: Not Anymore 86. Love at first sight: No 87. Santa Claus: In front of my little cousin I do lol 88. Kiss in the first date: No 89. Angels: Yes

OTHER: 90. Current best friend’s name: Erika. My ride or die, the ying to my yang. She has a tumblr but i wont tag her. (see if she actually reads my shit xD) 91. Eyecolor: Brown 92. Favorite movie: I can watch Harry Potter without getting tired of it but Monsters’ Inc is the bomb.

Ok I’m tagging @sopeshighnotes @honey-hoseok @jooninlau @kimreilin @feyreisa18 @c-kyunjpg @hobigivesmehope @artificalove You don’t have to do it but now you know a little more about me yaay