#firstly. her and harley have a cool good relationship

[gothamverse]

did someone say she/her yeehaw joker? no? okay well you still have to look at her

[nightskywonderer]

Built on Sand Superman/Wonder Woman Accusations (part 2)

Aight....so some are still trying it...

1. It’s toxic/abusive

Obviously this is bullshit but let’s break this down. A toxic relationship is when one partner is emotionally, physically, maybe even psychologically damaging to their partner. When the hell has Clark and Diana ever been “toxic”/abusive toward each other? So basically one of them is a bad character right? That’s essentially what this means. Clark and Diana has always uplifted each other, had each other’s backs. “We are each other’s shelter from the storm.” -Wonder Woman to Superman (Superman/Wonder Woman by Charles Soule & Tony Daniel) Clark and Diana are best friends with a very close bond, built on a solid foundation of love, trust and honesty.

Joker/Harley Quinn is the very definition of a toxic and abusive relationship but is acceptable and romanticized as “Mad Love”.

Being in an abusive relationship is a very serious matter. Assholes using it so freely without true knowledge because they “hate” a ship, is pathetic, childish, and insensitive.

Many many of the Superman/Wonder Woman fans are couples, young, old, married with children, newly engaged, newlyweds, etc... in a very healthy happy relationship which is represented by Superman and Wonder Woman.

2. Shallow/Power Fantasy/Superficial

Superman and Wonder Woman embodies what we strive to be male/female: The best of the best within ourselves. Superman/Wonder Woman is not just about having powers. They both are two humbled people seen as Gods, even if one is a (demi)God, but don’t act like they are Gods.

Superman and Wonder Woman HAS to be with HUMAN love interests, to be accepted. They are heroes only because of those certain human love interest...LOL now who is shallow?

Whats wrong with wanting to be more? Exceed more? Sounds like people who spout this out has such insecurity within themselves. They would rather just settle for less or be basic.

Superman and Wonder Woman are suppose to inspire to strive for more not settle to be less or fit in for insecure human comfort.

Kal and Diana are two beings that felt they couldn’t be completely understood until they met each other.

Together, they can be all of who they are. Diana loves, respects and accepts Superman/Kal-El/Clark Kent. Kal gave Diana a sense of normalcy. She didn’t have to Wonder Woman 24/7 nor seen just as a Princess.

“They have matching colors.” Ok and? It’s better than clashing and looking tacky or out of place.

3. patriarchy/racism/sexism/privilege

Patriarchy is males holding primary power and predominate in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege. Uhh???? Firstly, repeating, Diana dominates and demands to be equal. Demands the spotlight front and center. Wonder Woman was never depicted as being overshadowed by Superman. Wonder Woman was never shown as a housewife nor a damsel in distress. Superman and Wonder Woman are both the leads. They are EQUAL. They only people who try to down play their equality are some writers who have a problem and are intimidated with balancing the two and are intimidated by Wonder Woman. Which has been admitted.

Being Privileged and Patriotic: Rebirth Superman had 2 issues dedicated to show and glorify how great America is. “Truth, Justice, and the AMERICAN way”. Rebirth Superman is written to be the perfect picture of the perfect all American family that barely struggles and any kind of problem that comes about is fixed easily. He is given stuff on a platter. Newsflash, Superman and Wonder Woman are heroes of the entire WORLD and of all countries. New52 Superman and Wonder Woman was put through “tests”, they were challenged as characters. But that was too much and labeled as too dark and edgy. Real life isn’t sunshine and rainbows.

Kal and Diana have to try to fit in and hide themselves to be accepted by the government and the people who has reservations about the heroes. As seen in new52, even though the “Truth” arc went by the wayside, the premise was how the people and the government would react/turn on Superman and Wonder Woman and the entire Justice League if they knew who they were as civilians.

Superman is an ALIEN who happens to look human. He isn’t a human who happened to get powers.

As a WOC, Kal embracing his Kryptonian heritage as he did in the new52 and didn’t act like it was a burden spoke volumes. Diana celebrated life, was a free spirit, and was so unbothered by petty things. She rejoiced in her Amazonian culture.

4. Superman is seen as a cheater, unfaithful/75-78 years with the same love interest.

First of all it’s a fictional marriage so it’s not that serious. Second, majority of the general public don’t give a damn about comics. Hell they don’t even know the “history” of the character besides the basic surface information. Even more so DC Comics don’t give a damn either because outside of comics they still market Superman/Wonder Woman as a couple.

Clark thought he wasn’t good enough for Diana but he still had feelings for her trying to suppress them. Diana didn’t understand her feelings being young and inexperienced. They mutually decided to be friends, had a very close bond as best friends but still that underlying attraction/sexual tension.

These characters have had relaunches, reboots, changes, there are different interpretations. These characters have existed this long but what happened within those years are a whole other story. New52 Superman was single, pursued Wonder Woman, didn’t wimp out and had a 5 year lasting relationship until he was forcibly killed off. He loved Diana wanted to marry her and Diana wanted superbabies.

“Steven” was NOT a love interest for 30+ years. His character is still struggling for relevance because outside of being a love interest, there is not much interest in his character. That goes for Lois, too. There is a lot of talk but when it comes down to it, these supporting characters/love interest DO NOT get that much support.

There’s no belonging to one person. That doesn’t even happen in reality. Wonder Woman is saddled to belong to the FIRST man she EVER met. LOL no...just no.

5. They don’t sell/ no body likes them

Ok...the correct factual information can be looked up:

New52 Justice League issue 12 sold out, went to 2nd printing, and was named the fastest selling comic ever digitally.

Superman/Wonder Woman 1 debuted with selling over 100k.

The pairing supposedly doesn’t sell yet DC Comics consistently markets them together as a couple with merchandise. There’s a new Superman/Wonder Woman matching couple poncho set recently available at Macy’s.

Wonder Woman’s 75th anniversary earlier this year, the love interest only romantic history actually brought up was with Superman, Superman/Wonder Woman vol. 1 Power Couple was recommended as an essential.

Superman’s 75th anniversary year, Superman/Wonder Woman joint book debuted.

Jim Lee’s “The KISS” statue is very popular.

All in all, DC wants to have their cake and eat it too.

If the traditional love interests/pairings sold there would be more merchandising but for some reason it’s not? Doesn’t make sense when DC is a business that wants money....

If you don’t ship it, fine. But trying to speak for everybody ain’t cool.

This pairing has obviously proven and showed time and time again that despite internet rantings, they are very well liked and very popular.

Over 45.1k followers on Instagram. Over 23k followers on Tumblr. And more on twitter and facebook. Many of the fans/followers are couples, men, women and kids of all ages, ethnicities, orientations.

Everyone has a different preference, no one has to like the same ship, but at least give respect. Pulling BS accusations, labeling people, being bullies is not acceptable. It’s fiction. Too many (grown) people are blowing fuses over juvenile pettiness. I don’t have time for it.

I ship, love and support SuperWonder (Superman & Wonder Woman) point, blank and the period.

[creightonbeatrice1994]

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