#first karva chauth

[shaadiwish]

Cute Mehndi Design For Grooms

[a-b-riddle]

Okay, but Simon marrying an Indian girl…

Hear me out, okay???

He is a man who, before meeting his girl, had a very mundane life. A gray life, lacking color and warmth. No family outside of work. So when he wasn't deployed, he was alone.

And it’s assumed he’s someone who wants to be left alone, but then he gets thrust into this huge family…. And it’s like breathing again.

Relatives coming to stay with them for several weeks? No worries he has plenty of room. He’s the only fun uncle of the group who never gets tired of entertaining the kids. There is always something going on. Birthdays, holidays. Puja that his mother-in-law insists on doing over FaceTime whenever she’s not in the country.

Trading his Yorkshire tea for Chai.

Who doesn’t mind talking to his mother-in-law over the phone when his wife had her fill. Who is absolutely on board with starting on giving her grandkids.

Simon who never had so much as a birthday cake growing up, now gets his own boxes of homemade barfi and mysore pak. And even though his wife isn’t too found of cooking, he could eat her maggi everyday for the rest of his life.

The only thing in his entire marriage he doesn’t like, in fact hates, is when she fasts. Not in general. But for his health. The first year of marriage when Karva Chauth came up, he figured it was like Diwali or Holi. But when she explained she won’t eat until the moonrises, he wasn’t having it. He swore he hadn’t died yet and she could risk it. The next day he ordered enough take out, it lasted them three days breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Simon who learns how to help his wife pin her saree in place when her mother around to help.

Simon who begins to have a life in his 30s. Who laughs more and smiles often.

Who is thankful everyday that he got out of the gray.

[nihyunluvskookie]

Tujhme rab dikhta hai

“Jeonghan one shot”

Pairing: Yoon jeonghan x female reader

Genre: fluff [desi setting]

Warnings: no warnings

Word count: 4.2 K

Author’s Note: Well, desi husband Jeonghan is on the way, hope you like it. And I wrote it in Hinglish (i added few words and sentences of hindi, it’s sounds romantic ahhh) i hope you like it hehe and for non-desi reader, the meaning of ‘tujhme rab dikhta hai’ is ‘I see god in you my beloved’ also I just love this song so much I can’t explain, hope you like this. This is probably one of the longest one shot I ever wrote sjjs

happy reading ~

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[4:15 am]

My alarm went off, and I was about to go and check my phone but I felt Jeonghan pulling me closer by my waist. “Hannie” I spoke in a very low tone; I had to get up no matter what. “Umm, stay here” I slowly removed his hands from my waist. “I need to get up” I kissed his cheeks lightly and got up; I checked the time and it was already 4 am. I got up and went to take a shower and got ready. Once I was done, I heard a knock on the door. I fixed myself a bit then switched off the night lights and switched on the lights and then went to open the door of our bedroom.

“Noor” I looked at her and smiled, “maa” 

“Come down” I nodded, I closed the door carefully because he was still sleeping and I don’t want to disturb his sleep, he already came late home yesterday night and looked so tired.

“Your sargi” I was actually amazed how she kept everything, she made for me, an overwhelming feeling hit me, this was going to be my first Karva Chauth, I had to keep fast until we see the moon. “You have to eat this before sunrise and you have to keep the fast” I nodded and smiled at her. I went took her blessings and took the full big plate of sargi back to my room. I was kind of excited and I had an unknowing loving overwhelming feeling inside.

I opened the door slowly and saw Jeonghan sanding near the window, I was surprised for a second and then slowly closed the door. “Hannie” I called out his name and kept the thali on the table near our bed. He turned to look at me, “Noor” he smiled at me.

“Maa gave you sargi?” I nodded and sat on the bed. I let out a sigh, he came near me, “why are you sighing? You don’t want to keep the fast?” I shook my head, “no, it’s not like that” I gave him a look. I was feeling excited and overwhelming because it’s my first time. He shrugged off and then said “you know these look tasty?” I nodded. “Maa made these” I smiled looking at everything she made. She made gobhi stuffed paratha, paneer ki sabji, kheer, she kept few almonds, fruits, sewai with almonds and dates, coconut water. I saw Jeonghan pick up the bowl which had kheer, I looked at him with a confused face.

“What? I want to taste as well” I gave him a confused look and he took bites after bites. “You know it’s very tasty” I was looking at him in disbelief, he was eating my sargi!!

“Jeonghan, she made this for me, it’s MINE” I was about to get up and snatch it from him, “Okay okay, Noor calm down.” He gave me a bite of kheer. It was tasty, ah, I miss my home where I used to make kheer for myself.

After I ate the kheer, Jeonghan took out the paratha and panner ki sabji, he gave the plate to me after serving. “Awww, hardworking Jeonghan, why aren’t you sleeping and sitting here for me?” I looked at him, he looked at me, and I could see the love his eyes held for me. “Because I don’t want my dear wife to feel lonely while eating her sargi alone” I smiled at him. “But you came home late, and you should get some rest.”

“You’re more important for me Noor” and he pinched my cheeks, I looked at him, almost flustered because what he did. “Jeong-Jeonghan stop” I tried looking away but he was just infront of me.

I started eating the paratha, “Let me taste this as well”

“You ate my kheer already and I had two to three bites hardly, and now you want to eat my paratha as well” I pouted, and I saw him eating it. “You’re insane”

“How can you say that to your husband Noor” and before I could say anything, he kissed me. I was taken aback.

Everything I ate, Jeonghan wanted to taste and we ended up eating half- half of everything. He claimed he wanted to taste everything. I wonder why would this guy even wake up.

Sometimes I wonder, what did I deserve to get him, he always tells me how much he loves me and gives me everything I need, the warmth, the comfort, he understands me and respects me and my decisions; he never questioned me in anything and always supported me in everything.

How everything slowly fit together, when we fell in love, I never thought I would end up with him the way I wanted, it’s not even a year since we get married but each day, he fills my life with more and more happiness as if last seven years were not enough for him to keep me happy.

I couldn’t believe he actually came to talk to my parents to talk about our married with his parents, the fact his parents always knew and supported him. And knowing me, I still had a hard time to accept that I was with him infront of my parents in the end, I decided to tell them before I actually got married and left my home.

I couldn’t thank god any more or less for giving me Jeonghan, as mine.

I had the last bite of apple and heard Jeonghan say, “look, it’s sunrise” I smiled at him.

“Good morning Jeonghan”

“Good morning wifey” and he kissed my forehead.

“I should go get ready and have breakfast” he gave me a teasing smile. I just shook my head, this guy is so annoying at times yet I love him so much. “Yes, go have breakfast. Eat whatever you want.”

“aur tum fast rakhogi aaj meri jaan” (and you will be keeping the fast my love) he and his teasing, I am so done.

“You don’t have work today right?” I shook my head, “No, I took a leave”

“Sadly, your husband couldn’t take a leave and have to go for work today.”

“Of course, you should go and work, and you ate my half sargi. NO WAIT you almost had full of my sargi” I gave him a side look, “You look so adorable” he pinched my nose lightly and I looked at him in disbelief. He got up from the sofa and left.

I looked at the time, it was 5:26 am. I went down to keep the plate and everything. It was almost time for breakfast. I went down and saw mom already in kitchen.

“Noor” she called my name as soon as I stepped inside the kitchen, “what are you doing here?”

“Help you in breakfast like the way I do” she turned to look at me and stopped me from helping her, “No need, you should rest today.” she paused for a second and spoke “it’s sunrise already and you’re fasting. You would be on rest today and since you aren’t going for work today so just rest.”

“But-”

“No, but Noor, go back to your room and leave this here” she told me in the softest way possible.

I kept the plates and went back to my room. I saw Jeonghan sitting on his bed, I walked towards him and sat on bed. “Did mom kick you out from the kitchen?” and he started laughing. I just looked at him, and then nodded and the moment he stopped laughing he said “My dear workaholic wife, it’s fine to take a day off at times. You manage work and home both and help my mom as well in her chores that’s why it’s not wrong to take a small break for a day atleast.” He held my hand.

“I wish I could postpone the meetings I have today, and spend my day with you”

“Jeonghan it’s fine” I smiled at him.

“You taking day off is not normal, and at times we don’t get enough time to spend with eachother, sometimes I feel I should quit being a ceo and you should work and earn for family”

“You’re speaking as if you’re not rich and would die if both of us stop working.” I told him teasingly.

He suddenly pulls me closer and our faces were inches apart, “You speak way too much at times, I can make you quit as well and we can go to vacation for months so, stop tempting me for doing that”

I slightly pushed him, “you are such a tease”

“but you look so pretty in this olive green kurti and patiyala”

“Jeonghan you- I am so done. Can you leave for work already? Please?”

“Really Noor, you look the prettiest in this, I personally love this set of yours”

“When are you leaving Jeonghan?” he again pinched my cheeks and then kissed me.

 [1:30 pm]

“Your mehendi looks so pretty Noor” I smiled at Nishi, “All thanks to you” I smiled at her. I might start loving Jeonghan’s sister more than Jeonghan loves her. He always loved her so much and now I see why he loves and adores her so much. She’s lovely. “You can ask bhaiya to search for something here” “Huh?” I asked her and she just smiled.

“And you’re done Noor” she fixed my dupatta. “Finally, I’m done, I want to go and sit on balcony” she nodded and I got up.

“Noor” I stopped my feet, when I heard maa’s voice, “yes?”

“You’re done?” I nodded, “Jeonghan is also back early today” I smiled hearing his name, well, I did miss him. When do I not miss him, it’s normal for me to miss him like this. “Are you going back your room?” I shook my head, “I wanted to go to balcony and wait for the mehendi to dry up”

“Okay, he was searching for you” I looked puzzled and then looked at the time, “It’s lunch time, he came to have lunch at home?”

“He said he already ate, and came home after that” I nodded, he said he had important meetings, maybe he was done. I walked towards my room and spotted Jeonghan coming out of our room. “so, here you are” I was walking carefully because of my mehendi, I don’t want this to mess up.

He came closer to me, “looks like you’re finally done” I nodded and smiled at him

“You’re back early” he stepped closer to me, I took a step back. He was looking at my hands, and yes I was suspecting him into pulling something right now, you can never trust him with his pranks and I could see him planning something.

“Jeonghan” I called his name

“I am wondering about your mehendi” this husband of mine.

“Jeonghan, no. you ain’t touching this mehendi”

“I wanna mess this up so bad”

“Jeonghan-” he was stepping closer, I need to run away or this devil guy will annoy me again, I quickly turned back and started running, I wanted to go back to balcony and sit there peacefully but Jeonghan.

“Noor, stop, don’t run” did I look like a fool that I would stop because he wants me and my mehendi is not even dried up, it’s fresh. It takes minimum three to four hours to dry up, and he wanted to mess up with me; I ain’t letting him do that.

Back when we were campus couple, he wasn’t pulling out pranks and he wouldn’t even tease like he does now, in his defence he said since I am with him and officially his wife he can tease me all he wants.

My mind was still, how he looked so beautiful maroon sherwani during our wedding, that smile when my hand was given to him, he looked so precious, I just wanted to protect his smile always and wanted to continue being the reason of his smile.

That one smile changed everything, and now here we are, husband and wife.

I was suddenly pulled by my arm and I was in his embrace in another second. My hands were safe, nothing happened to my dear mehendi and here he was holding me in his embrace tightly, his hands were holding me securely. “I wouldn’t dare to mess up with your mehendi noor, how could I do that”

I lifted my face too see him, “Jeonghan…”

“Meri jaan, I was just teasing you because I love teasing you, but I wouldn’t dare to do this. You look so cute when you runaway from me.”

“Jeonghan… we are not in our room” I was hesitating because what if someone saw us, “and we are married, I can do anything I want and this is my house” this guy, he is impossible.

“I don’t want to let you go when you are finally in my embrace.” His hand was on my head, and my head was pressed on his chest, I could hear his heartbeat, it was just like me.

After few seconds, he let go of me carefully. “Where were you heading to?” “Balcony, I wanted to sit there, because I had nothing to do and since I am getting a bit sleepy, I rather go sit there and read something.” he fixed my dupatta and held my shoulder. “let’s go” I looked at him and he was careful with my mehendi, he is such a tease and I love this tease so much.

We got into our bedroom and he closed the door, I was standing behind him, without taking any more step. He turned to look at me, “You should know whenever you wear this type of kurti and patiyala and a dupatta with it, you look like you came down from heaven, look at yourself now.” He took me towards the mirror and he was standing beside me, “you look the best in green, no matter how many times I tell you, nothing changes the fact.” I looked at us, he was holding my shoulder delicately, he was in casuals now, grey sweatshirt and sweatpants. He was looking at me, I could see it through the mirror.

I turned to look at him, “Jeonghan” his hands were on my shoulders, “Yes?”

“I love you” he looked surprised, well it’s not me who always tells him how much I love him or adore him, it’s always him. I can’t say it on his face, it takes time for me to say. He quickly kissed me on my lips, I was still looking at him, “stop being so adorable or else your mehendi would be ruined because I am holding back my urge to kiss you and pull you in my arms right now.” I laughed at him and laughed as well. The sound of his laugh is the most comforting one.

He took me to the bed, “you can get some sleep, I will stay here and take care of your mehendi.” I looked at him with a confused face, how did he even know that I am getting sleepy, “it’s okay, Hannie”

“You must be sleepy because of fasting and I bet you were the one who did everyone’s mehendi first and then yours was done in the end.”

How did he know?

“I just know you Noor, I know you.” she smiled at me. Since I couldn’t use my hands, he took my dupatta and kept it on the bed, and helped me to adjust. Since I was still in sitting position, he pulled the comforter to cover half of me.

How can he be such a loving husband, when I started dating him, I never thought I would get such an loving husband and will discover this side of him as well, because back then he was just full of fun and brainy guy, I never saw this coming.

“You can get a nap, Noor. It’s fine trust me.” he got up from the bed and gave me a forehead kiss.

[5:10 pm]

“Noor, noor. Wake up”

“Noor”

I slowly opened my eyes, I saw the lights on and Jeonghan’s face inches apart while he was holding my face softly. Did I really fall asleep? “What’s the time Jeonghan?”

“It’s 5:10 pm already, you need to take this off as well, right?” his another hand was holding mine.

“OH MY GOD YES” I was about to get up in a hurry but he held my hand, “slow down Noor, it’s fine. There’s no hurry and mom didn’t come yet. You’ve time to get ready and I think you already have everything you need today.” I nodded, remembering mom came few days ago and gave me the lehenga and saree, she told me to wear whatever I feel like. That saree was pretty one though, wearing a lehenga, umm.

I slowly got up and went to get over with my mehendi, because it’s fully dried up. After I came back to my room, I saw Jeonghan taking out my saree and jewellery. “Jeonghan” I saw him standing infront of our closet.

I walked towards him, and hugged him from back. “Noor” and he turned to look back at me, his loving eyes were the first thing I ever fell for. He removed the strands of my hair and tugged them behind my ears which were covering my face. “Are you feeling, okay?” I nodded, “Are you sure?” I nodded again, “meri jaan” and kissed my forehead.

He should know that I can never get used to these two words whenever he calls me ‘meri jaan’ I feel like I melt then and there, the way he calls me ‘meri jaan’ it feels like he makes me melt with his voice.

“You should get ready because I will get ready as well, and I took out the saree maa gave to you, because I felt like maybe you want to wear saree tonight.”

“How do you know everything I want to do Hannie~”

“Okay, now go get ready and I will check what will I wear.” I nodded and let go of his waist. I turned around and was about to go towards the bed because he kept my everything there, but he suddenly pulled me by my arm. I collided with his chest lightly, he held both my hands, “your mehendi looks so pretty and the colour looks so beautiful” he was tracing the mehendi design, “Jeonghan, I need to get ready” I slightly pushed him and left him there. I heard his chuckle from back.

After few minutes, I was almost ready and walked back to the room, I still had to fix my saree and check the pleats if they are done or not. The moment I looked up, my eyes met with Jeonghan, he was looking so beautiful in white kurta. The colour looked so nice on him; I was in awe. It’s very rare to see Jeonghan in traditions and this happens only in occasions which is still rare for me to see him like this.

I was awestruck.

I walked towards him slowly. he was wearing white kurta and it was looking beautiful because of the embroidery on the collar. I almost couldn’t take my eyes off him. “Noor” he called me name and I walked closer to him.

“Yes?” he suddenly knelt down and patted his thighs, I was confused for a second then I saw him holding my payal, “tumhari payal meri jaan”  I was so flustered, oh god, this man, yes my husband is making me go insane.

I gently gave my leg and he put the payal around very gently. Once he was done, he stood up “and it’s done” he smiled at me. I got ready, I wore my kajal and eyeliner, and applied lipstick. Once I was done then I did my hair, I did half braid quickly. I looked at the mirror and saw Jeonghan smiling at me through the mirror. I picked up my earrings and wore it. I was done and suddenly Jeonghan came closer, the close proximity, his breaths were hitting my bare neck, more over because I was wearing a blouse today rather than the kurti I wear usually. He leaned towards the dressing table and picked up a chain, I was about to turn to look at him but then he held my shoulders and stopped me from moving. “Don’t move”

He put the chain on my neck very carefully, then gave a quick peck on my neck. I was taken aback because of this sudden act, “this is for you. I wanted to give this to you today” I turned to look back at him and hugged him tight. I would literally tear up because of the love and affections he gives me.

We heard a knock on my door and I went to open the door, “maa”

“you look so pretty and Jeonghan you’re ready as well” she smiled at us, she held my cheeks and gave me a kiss on my cheeks. I smiled at her, “now let’s go down and let’s do the remaining rituals” I nodded and we went downstairs.

I saw everyone sitting there, I walked carefully along with Jeonghan. After going down I saw, the way everything was kept and decorated, we had to decorate the kalash and other things. Once everything was done, and kept in the thali (a big plate), we had to go the terrace, because we would see the moon there.

After few minutes, the moon came out. I heard maa “the moon is here” then I went to pick up my thali which was on the table and had my head covered with pallu. Then I had to lit up the diya, then kept the diya on the Chhanni then while looking at the moon through the chhannie I had to pour the water from the kalash. Then after keeping the empty kalash on the other side, then I turn to look at Jeonghan and the moment I looked at him, I saw him holding a chhanni and looking at me. I was surprised to see him holding a chhanni and looking at me, “Jeonghan yeh kya kar rahe ho?” (Jeonghan what are you doing?)

“Wahi jo tumhne aaj mere liye kiya hai” 

I was still confused, what was he trying to say, “meri jaan” and once again he goes with ‘meri jaan’ “fast rakha hai tumhare liye meri jaan” (I kept the fast for you my love)

I was taken aback, he kept fast for me and I didn’t know.

“this is the first time Jeonghan ever kept fast for anyone, and you’re the one for whom he kept the fast, this shows how much he loves you” I heard maa say this while completing and almost breaking her fast, she was almost done.

“Ab mujhe yeh chaand ko dekhne ki zaroorat nehi kyunki mujhe apni chaand mil gai hai” 

“Jeonghan…” how could he just say these words so casually, I was tearing up slowly.

“Ho gaya? Kyunki mujhe abhi bhook bhi lagi hai”  I nodded trying not to tear up.

I had to take out the diya from the chhanni and keep it on the thali and chhanni on the table. After that I had to do the arti, once done I smiled at him and he smiled at me. he take the kalash from the thali and helps me drink the water and I do the same. And now I had to hold the thali and bow down, but before I could bow down after fixing my pallu, Jeonghan was quick to touch my feet and I was in disbelief. How could he do, and he didn’t let me touch his feet. He took the kaju katli, from the thali and gives me a bite, I saw him checking out our sides and suddenly he comes closer and takes a bit of the kaju katli as well, our lips touch and he pressed his lips more.

I was too flustered to even react, once he takes a step back, he could see how flustered I was. What if maa saw us, what if- I turn to look at my sides, and no one was here, not maa, papa aur Nishi. They all left and it was just us. I let out a small relief sigh, Jeonghan is insane.

“you’re insane, tum kuch bhi karte ho kahin pe bhi”  I looked at him,

“Haan, I’m insane because of you” he took a pause before speaking, “pata nehi hai tumko?”  and then he kissed my forehead, and says, “lambi umar k liye sirf tum hi kyun dua maango chaand se, maine bhi maang li aaj chaand se tumhare liye lambi umar meri jaan” he took another pause, “jisse ki hamari dono ki lambi umar ho aur mai tumhe issi tarah pyaaar kar sakun hamesha hamesha k liye” I was feeling overwhelmed and couldn’t resist anymore, why was he like this. I quickly gave him a peck. I wanted to love him more than he loves me

He smiled at me and says “Let’s go down now, I’m hungry” we were about to leave and maa comes and says “tumdono ka romance khatam ho gaya ho toh khane chalen?” and all of us burst out laughing and I got so shy.

Jeonghan held my shoulders and we went down, before going down he says, “tujhme raab dikhta hai yaara mai kya karu”

“I love you so much Noor” and kissed my cheeks.

[atimefordragons]

LAILA MAIN LAILA AISI HOON LAILA HAR KOI CHAHE MUHJSE MILNA AKELA

☾♔; March 17, 2024 ☾♔; 4:56pm ☾♔; sotd: What Jhumka? (from Rocky aur Rani Kii Prem Kahaani) ☾♔; cotd: Rani Chatterjee ☾♔; Thistle Grove Academy ☾♔; Storyboard/Important Connections

𝐓𝐢𝐭𝐥𝐞: lyrics from "Laila Main Laila"

I've always sucked at making storyboard type sets, but YIKES. lol, whatever.

【 𝐎𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐕𝐈𝐄𝐖 】

Laila is an heiress of 𝓡𝓪𝓲𝓬𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓭 Industries, an Indian multinational conglomerate founded by Laila's great-grandfather, Thakur Raj Raichand, in the early 1950's after Partition. While the company has long since gone public, it is still majority owned by the Raichand Family, and they run every aspect of it. Now Mumbai (Bombay) based, the Raichand's originate from the state of Rajasthan where the family once owned a fairly large piece of land that was sold off when Laila's grandfather was young. After succeeding in Bombay, the land was repurchased, as well as much of the surrounding area and a large palace named Chandshah Haveli was constructed in the Indo-Saracenic architecture style.

Karshvar is the seven-story Raichand estate in Mumbai, located on Altamount Road (also known as Billionaires’ Row), the name of the estate comes from Zoroastrian mythology. The Avesta, the primary collection of religious texts in Zoroastrianism, describes seven Karshwar, climbs or zones, that organize the world into seven circles superimposed on top of one another, separated by waters, mountains, and forests. Until the completion of the Ambani’s Antilia, Karshvar was the most expensive private residence in the country, possibly the entire region, and yes, it is more expensive than their literal palace in Rajasthan (as an FYI, Antilia is the most expensive private residence in the world, as of 2014, might’ve been surpassed by now). However, Karshvar still claims the most ground floor square footage of the road.

The Raichand's are a relatively traditional family, certainly in western standards, though they are considered very progressive amongst other Desi's, having a very religiously mixed and accepting family, and very matriarchal family. Women have long held authoritative power over the family, though that has passed matrimonially, with the wife of each successive head of the family gaining that authority. Overall the Raichands are a Hindu family, however, their spouses have come from all over India and beyond, of varied faiths and sects, due to this, the Raichand’s also have large celebrations for holidays of multiple religions, obviously Hinduism, as well as Sikhism, Jainism, and Islam. Their biggest events are Diwali, Durga Puja, Vaisakhi, Navratri, Karva Chauth, Eid, the First and Last Iftars of Ramadan, and Holi. They also have a fairly large, but private, family only event for Raksha Bandhan.

Laila is not close to her maternal family at all, neither is her mother. She's asked about them a couple times before, but her mother doesn't have the best expression when talking about her family, so Laila stopped asking. If they want to know them, they can find them, it's not Laila's problem. She’s not even completely sure if her mom’s original last name is even Burakgazi, her parents have changed the story a few times, but have more or less stayed consistent that they met while her father was working. At one point the story was almost identical to the plot of the film Bang Bang!, wherein a RAW agent supposedly stole the Koor-i-noor diamond back from the British, something involving multi-national terrorists, and her mom being a bank teller caught in the middle after her dad hijacked her blind date, none of which made any sense, but it was a fun story.

【 𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐒 】

𝓐𝓵𝓮𝔂𝓷𝓪 𝓑𝓾𝓻𝓪𝓴𝓰𝓪𝔃𝓲 & 𝓥𝓲𝓴𝓻𝓪𝓷𝓽 𝓡𝓪𝓲𝓬𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓭 FC: Beren Saat & Hrithik Roshan

Mama aur Papa!

【 𝐆𝐑𝐀𝐍𝐃𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐒 】

𝓨𝓸𝓰𝓮𝓼𝓱 𝓡𝓪𝓲𝓬𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓭 & 𝓜𝓸𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓲 𝓡𝓪𝓲𝓬𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓭 née Tiwari FC: Amitabh Bachchan & Jaya Bachchan

Dadaji aur Dadi (paternal grandparents, literally means grandpa/grandma, ji is a respectful suffix, not always used, and can be omitted based on the personal relationship or the situation).

Dadi does not have a favourite grandchild, she loves them all equally. She does, however, have a favourite child, and that is Veer. Papa and Auntie Riya do not like to talk about it.

【 𝐀𝐔𝐍𝐓𝐒 & 𝐔𝐍𝐂𝐋𝐄𝐒 】

𝓥𝓮𝓮𝓻 𝓡𝓪𝓲𝓬𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓭 & 𝓩𝓪𝓪𝓻𝓪 𝓠𝓪𝓭𝓻𝓲 𝓡𝓪𝓲𝓬𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓭 FC: Shah Rukh Khan & Kajol

Tauji & Taiji

(if you see chacha, chachi in the set, no you don't. look, I'm a Bengali okay, not Indian, and in Bengali, there is no Tauji, your dad's brothers are all chacha)

Zaara is publicly referred to as “Zaara Bhabhi”, by netizens, Raichand Industries employees, and other industrialists, all of whom regard her as the true head of Raichand Industries, as even though she does not work in the company, Veer’s love for her and deference to her is well-known, and she has the last word on everything. Because of this she is often the target for schmoozing campaigns (though it doesn’t necessarily work, a lot of Laila’s judgey and stubborn personality comes from her).

𝓡𝓲𝔂𝓪 𝓡𝓪𝓲𝓬𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓭 & 𝓡𝓪𝓱𝓾𝓵 𝓓𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓻𝓪𝓳 FC: Shilpa Shetty & Suniel Shetty

Phuphi (which Riya hates being called, so Auntie Riya instead), & Phuphaji

【 𝐂𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐈𝐍𝐒 】

𝓨𝓪𝓼𝓱 𝓡𝓪𝓲𝓬𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓭 FC: Varun Dhawan

Bhaiyah, also Bade Bhaiyah if with Vijay,

𝓩𝓸𝔂𝓪 𝓡𝓪𝓲𝓬𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓭 FC: Alia Bhatt

𝓥𝓲𝓳𝓪𝔂 𝓓𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓻𝓪𝓳 & 𝓟𝓪𝔂𝓪𝓵 𝓓𝓮𝓼𝓪𝓲 FC: Kartik Aaryan & Kiara Advani

【 𝐁𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐒𝐓 𝐁𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐈𝐄𝐒 】

Aka the Mean Girls! They are so judgey and bitchy, and kinda ice cold. Very much alienate others by speaking in languages only the three of them will understand, usually Portuguese while in Dubai, and Arabic elsewhere. The three are neighbours, living in the same residential Skyscraper in Downtown Dubai, though all three's families have additional properties in Dubai, and with Kiran in particular, the Desai's have a villa right next to the Raichand one on the Palm Jumeirah. They also went to the same private school until Laila and Isabella started attending Thistle Grove.

𝓚𝓲𝓻𝓪𝓷 𝓓𝓮𝓼𝓪𝓲 FC: Ananya Panday

𝓘𝓼𝓪𝓫𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓪 𝓡𝓲𝓸𝓼 FC: Valentina Zenere

【 𝐅𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐍𝐃𝐒 】

𝓢𝓸𝓷𝓲𝓪 𝓚𝓪𝓹𝓸𝓸𝓻 FC: Suhana Khan

Definitely not OK and Sandi's daughter. (She is and I'm totally not making a bollywood "movie" of bollywood movies).

𝓛𝓪𝓻𝓪 𝓚𝓱𝓪𝓷 FC: Shanaya Kapoor

Do I think I'm being funny by flipping their filmi fam's? Yeah.

𝓚𝓪𝓽𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓪 𝓚𝓪𝔃𝓲 FC: Mimi Keene

Kat is Payal and Kiran’s second cousin (probably), her paternal grandmother, Rashmi, is the sister of Yogesh Raichand’s best friend and Payal and Kiran’s grandfather, all three (Yogesh and the Desai siblings) grew up together, Rashmi and Yogesh even dated with talks of marriage until he met Mohini. Rashmi eventually married Kat’s paternal grandfather, and the couple moved to London for his work. A couple years younger than the Emirati trio, Kat lived most of her life in the UK, until her parents company moved them to their Dubai offices, and she built a closer relationship with Kiran and joined her friend group. Having grown up abroad, Kat’s Hindi isn’t great, though she can understand the gist of what is being said, her Arabic is far more fluent.

𝓐𝓷𝓽𝓸𝓷𝓲𝓪 𝓓𝓮𝓿𝓻𝓮𝓾𝔁 FC: Meghan Roche

Kat’s cousin-in-law (I do not know why I’m asoiaf noble housing this situation),

𝓐𝓪𝓻𝓸𝓷 𝓜𝓮𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓸 𝓡𝓸𝓳𝓪𝓼 FC: Manu Ríos

A new addition to the Emirati gang, Aarón joined the friends after moving to Dubai following his mother’s marriage to Siddharth Singhania, and making him the younger step-brother of Vikram Singhania, both of whom are part of the Raichand generational family friends group. Senior Singhania being a close friend of Veer, Vikrant, and Riya, while Vikram is besties with Yash and Zoya.

【 𝐄𝐗𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐃𝐄𝐃 𝐑𝐄𝐋𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒 】

I am very normal and not creating 80 thousand additional relationships.

𝓢𝓪𝓶𝓪𝓻𝓪 𝓡𝓪𝓷𝓭𝓱𝓪𝔀𝓪 FC: Kriti Sanon

A slightly more distant cousin (second I think, don’t ask me), Samara is the granddaughter of Yogesh Raichand’s youngest sister, Sriti. Samara grew up primarily in Delhi with her paternal family, but often celebrated religious holidays with the Raichands.

𝓢𝓸𝓷𝓪𝓶 𝓑𝓪𝓴𝓼𝓱𝓲 FC: Pooja Hegde

Vijay's cousin, daughter of one his dad's sisters. Studied at the University of Orléans (Université d'Orléans)

【 𝐀𝐃𝐃𝐈𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐀𝐋 𝐍𝐎𝐓𝐄𝐒 】

This is literally for me because I’m losing track of all the notable Families affiliated with the Raichands and their histories. I keep expanding my family tree, and forgetting things I don’t put in the bio sections. Laila took keeping things in the family too literally, by her I mean me, but literally everyone mentioned up there is bound in her family tree through one method or another, even got Is in there cause I decided that her half-brother is Laila’s eventual endgame. Far in the future, cause he a lot older (like red flag), so he doesn’t show up now, it’ll be creepy if he does.

Desai’s, friendship dates back to before even Yogesh, the Desai’s were heavily involved in establishing Raichand Industries, and outside of the Raichand family, own the most shares of RaiI, in the current generation, Vijay (grandson of Yogesh) and Payal (granddaughter of Dushant) are engaged. Yogesh once dated Dushant’s sister with semi-serious marriage talks, but forgot all of that after meeting Mohini, so that was awkward and dramatic. Lol Dadaji is a slut.

Khan & Kapoor filmi fam’s, friendship from the Veer/Vikrant/Riya generation, very thinly veiled references to bollywood things for my enjoyment. This Khan and Kapoor branch are also connected to each other, I think they are cousins by descent, while the Raichand connection is through a marriage, oh wait, the Raichand connection is even further away, cause it’s through the Dhanraj’s marriage! So at most, Vijay’s something, something cousins, but not Laila, Zoya, or Yash’s.

Singhania, frienship from Veer/Vikrant/Riya generation, but working relationship from Yogesh’s era

Churail dadi/nani

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mehndi design

Mehndi, also known as henna, holds a cherished place in various cultures, celebrated not only for its aesthetic beauty but also for its cultural significance. Originating from ancient India, Egypt, and the Middle East, mehndi is applied to the skin in intricate designs, typically during weddings, festivals, and other significant ceremonies.

The art of mehndi design involves intricate patterns drawn with henna paste, which leaves a temporary stain on the skin. This natural dye comes from the leaves of the henna plant, Lawsonia inermis, and has been used for centuries for its cooling properties in addition to its decorative value.

Mehndi designs vary widely across different regions and cultures. In Indian weddings, brides often have elaborate patterns covering their hands and feet, symbolizing joy, beauty, spiritual awakening, and offering protection against evil. These designs can include motifs like paisleys, floral patterns, peacocks, and intricate geometric shapes, each carrying its own symbolism and cultural significance.

The process of applying mehndi involves skill and creativity. Artists use cones or syringes filled with henna paste to create delicate lines and designs. After application, the paste is left to dry for several hours, allowing the dye to penetrate the top layers of the skin. Once dry, the paste is gently scraped off, revealing an orange stain which darkens to a rich reddish-brown over the next 24–48 hours. This stain can last up to two weeks, depending on factors such as skin type and care.

Beyond weddings, mehndi is also popular during festivals like Eid in the Muslim world and Karva Chauth in North India, where women adorn their hands with intricate designs as part of cultural rituals and celebrations. In recent years, mehndi has gained popularity worldwide, with artists experimenting with fusion styles blending traditional patterns with modern influences.

The appeal of mehndi design lies not only in its visual allure but also in its cultural heritage and symbolism. It serves as a form of self-expression, celebration, and connection to tradition. Whether it’s a bride’s hands adorned with intricate bridal mehndi or a young girl’s first experience with henna at a festival, the art of mehndi continues to weave its magic across generations, embodying beauty, tradition, and the spirit of celebration.

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Easy To Style Outfit Ideas For Authentic Indian Karwa Chauth Look

Karva Chauth celebrations have existed since time immemorial. Though Bollywood movies have glamorized the entire ritual, this occasion has a deeper significance.

In Mahabharata, Draupadi was urged by Lord Krishna to follow Karva Chauth fast for Arjun’s protection at the battle. To upkeep the safety of their husbands, married women follow a no food, no water fast till the moon shines out. Post that, they deliver the first sip of the sacred water to the moon followed by other rituals. It is believed that couples who commit to this receive the asked blessings.

If you celebrate Karva Chauth, here are some outfit inspos by Vishnu for you to worry less and savor the day more!

1. Mustard Ajrakh Print Maxi Anarkali

Though red outfits for Indian Karva Chauth look are popular, we say dial it up a notch with this stunning color! Designed in a classic silhouette, this printed anarkali kurta can be worn with or without a dupatta.

2. Dual Layered Ajrakh Print Flared Skirt

This dual layered skirt is a mesmerizing pick for all newly wed women. With a flare reminiscent of their wedding lehenga, it is versatile enough to pair with a kurta, tunic or peplum top.

3. Hand Blocked Ajrakh Printed Light Brown Anarkali Dress

When it comes to Indian karva Chauth look, you can never go wrong with a printed anarkali kurtaor dress. Pair this off-beat anarkali with statement earrings to watch your husband fall in love with you all over again!

4. Solid Red Chiffon Dupatta With Gota Patti

Don’t want to splurge on your karva Chauth 2023 outfit and yet look ravishing? Just grab this super flowy Chiffon dupatta! Its red color matches the occasion and any outfit!

5. Multi Print Maroon Kurta-Dress With Pockets

This zari detailing + gold rogan imprinted kurta-dress is for women who want their karva Chauth outfit to be lowkey yet eye-catching at the same time. We promise you’d want to wear it for every occasion!

6. Hand Block Kalamkari Print A-Line Dress

This Hand Printed Kalamkari Dress is equal parts desi and modern. Featuring a modern neckline, its aesthetics are certainly vintage. Just the kind of hand printed kalamkari dress you want to flaunt on a day as special as karva Chauth!

7. Indigo Blue Angrakha Kurta

An indigo printed kurta is certainly an unconventional choice for karva Chauth. But we say, why stick to stereotype occasional dressing? This Karva Chauth 2023, go different, sport an indigo printed kurta! Don’t forget to team it up with matching palazzos, a cutesy bindi and of course banjara earrings!

8. Solid Red Panelled Dress With Pintucks

A classic karva Chauth outfit idea that can be styled in countless ways even after the occasion! We know you’ll adore the pintucks detailing. To take the glam quotient of this dress a tad higher, pair it with matching palazzos, a printed dupatta and a big stack of bangles.

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Parineeti Chopra's Post-Wedding Getaway with Her Mother and Mother-in-law - Photos Inside!

Parineeti Chopra and Raghav Chadha, who recently had a grand wedding at The Leela Palace in Udaipur, are opting for a delayed honeymoon. Parineeti took her "girl gang" to the Maldives for a post-wedding getaway with her mother and mother-in-law. The couple shared photos on Instagram, showcasing their post-wedding style and celebration of Karva Chauth. The images have gained significant traction on social media. Parineeti Chopra and Raghav Chadha's grand wedding took place at Udaipur's The Leela Palace on September 24. While their dreamy wedding photos flooded social media, the newlyweds chose to postpone their honeymoon. Parineeti, on the other hand, embarked on a fun-filled trip to the Maldives with her girl gang. Parineeti shared numerous pictures on her Instagram account, featuring her posing by the seaside with her mother and mother-in-law. These photos have gone viral on social media. https://www.instagram.com/p/CzawERpIhS1/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== One photo captures Parineeti in a relaxed mood by the seashore, enjoying the beautiful surroundings. In another image, Parineeti is seen wearing a stylish black outfit, exuding her charm. In the caption, she reminisces about the coolest throwback when she went on a trip with her girl gang, which included her mother and mother-in-law. https://www.instagram.com/p/CzHHLqDJ3oX/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Following her wedding, Parineeti celebrated her first Karva Chauth, sharing several pictures of herself adorned in a red salwar suit, sindoor, and a mangalsutra. Raghav Chadha looked dashing in a mustard yellow kurta, white pajamas, and a Nehru jacket. Also checkout: Read the full article

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Karwa Chauth and Fasting in Guru Granth Sahib

Fasting, Vrata in Guru Granth Sahib

For a clear understanding of Significance of fasting (Upvasa) e.g. Karwa Chauth, Ekadashi Vrata etc, let's have look on the following verses of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji first. ਧੰਨੁ ਗੁਪਾਲ ਧੰਨੁ ਗੁਰਦੇਵ ॥ ਧੰਨੁ ਅਨਾਦਿ ਭੂਖੇ ਕਵਲੁ ਟਹਕੇਵ ॥ ਧਨੁ ਓਇ ਸੰਤ ਜਿਨ ਐਸੀ ਜਾਨੀ ॥ ਤਿਨ ਕਉ ਮਿਲਿਬੋ ਸਾਰਿੰਗਪਾਨੀ ॥੧॥ ਆਦਿ ਪੁਰਖ ਤੇ ਹੋਇ ਅਨਾਦਿ ॥ ਜਪੀਐ ਨਾਮੁ ਅੰਨ ਕੈ ਸਾਦਿ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ ਜਪੀਐ ਨਾਮੁ ਜਪੀਐ ਅੰਨੁ ॥ ਅੰਭੈ ਕੈ ਸੰਗਿ ਨੀਕਾ ਵੰਨੁ ॥ ਅੰਨੈ ਬਾਹਰਿ ਜੋ ਨਰ ਹੋਵਹਿ ॥ ਤੀਨਿ ਭਵਨ ਮਹਿ ਅਪਨੀ ਖੋਵਹਿ ॥੨॥ ਛੋਡਹਿ ਅੰਨੁ ਕਰਹਿ ਪਾਖੰਡ ॥ ਨਾ ਸੋਹਾਗਨਿ ਨਾ ਓਹਿ ਰੰਡ ॥ ਜਗ ਮਹਿ ਬਕਤੇ ਦੂਧਾਧਾਰੀ ॥ ਗੁਪਤੀ ਖਾਵਹਿ ਵਟਿਕਾ ਸਾਰੀ ॥੩॥ ਅੰਨੈ ਬਿਨਾ ਨ ਹੋਇ ਸੁਕਾਲੁ ॥ ਤਜਿਐ ਅੰਨਿ ਨ ਮਿਲੈ ਗੁਪਾਲੁ ॥ ਕਹੁ ਕਬੀਰ ਹਮ ਐਸੇ ਜਾਨਿਆ ॥ ਧੰਨੁ ਅਨਾਦਿ ਠਾਕੁਰ ਮਨੁ ਮਾਨਿਆ ॥੪॥੮॥੧੧॥ { ਰਾਗ ਗੋਂਡ, ਭਗਤ ਕਬੀਰ ਜੀ, ਪੰਨਾ 873} ਅੰਨੁ ਨ ਖਾਹਿ ਦੇਹੀ ਦੁਖੁ ਦੀਜੈ ॥ ਬਿਨੁ ਗੁਰ ਗਿਆਨ ਤ੍ਰਿਪਤਿ ਨਹੀ ਥੀਜੈ ॥ ਮਨਮੁਖਿ ਜਨਮੈ ਜਨਮਿ ਮਰੀਜੈ ॥ (ਮ: 1, 905) ਨਉਮੀ ਨੇਮੁ ਸਚੁ ਜੇ ਕਰੈ ॥ ਕਾਮ ਕ੍ਰੋਧੁ ਤ੍ਰਿਸਨਾ ਉਚਰੈ ॥ ਦਸਮੀ ਦਸੇ ਦੁਆਰ ਜੇ ਠਾਕੈ ਏਕਾਦਸੀ ਏਕੁ ਕਰਿ ਜਾਣੈ ॥ ਦੁਆਦਸੀ ਪੰਚ ਵਸਗਤਿ ਕਰਿ ਰਾਖੈ ਤਉ ਨਾਨਕ ਮਨੁ ਮਾਨੈ ॥ ਐਸਾ ਵਰਤੁ ਰਹੀਜੈ ਪਾਡੇ ਹੋਰ ਬਹੁਤੁ ਸਿਖ ਕਿਆ ਦੀਜੈ ॥ {ਪੰਨਾ 1245} ਵਰਤ ਨੇਮ ਮਜਨ ਤਿਸੁ ਪੂਜਾ ॥ ਬੇਦ ਪੁਰਾਨ ਤਿਨਿ ਸਿੰਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸੁਨੀਜਾ ॥ ਮਹਾ ਪੁਨੀਤ ਜਾ ਕਾ ਨਿਰਮਲ ਥਾਨੁ ॥ ਸਾਧਸੰਗਤਿ ਜਾ ਕੈ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ॥੨॥ {ਪੰਨਾ 393} ਸਿੰਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਬਹੁ ਕਰਮ ਕਮਾਏ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਤੁਮਰੇ ਦਰਸ ਬਿਨੁ ਸੁਖੁ ਨਾਹੀ ॥੧॥ ਵਰਤ ਨੇਮ ਸੰਜਮ ਕਰਿ ਥਾਕੇ ਨਾਨਕ ਸਾਧ ਸਰਨਿ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਸੰਗਿ ਵਸੈ ॥੨॥੨॥੧੫੧॥{ਪੰਨਾ 408} ਇਕਿ ਤੀਰਥਿ ਨਾਵਹਿ ਅੰਨੁ ਨ ਖਾਵਹਿ ॥ ਇਕਿ ਅਗਨਿ ਜਲਾਵਹਿ ਦੇਹ ਖਪਾਵਹਿ ॥ ਰਾਮ ਨਾਮ ਬਿਨੁ ਮੁਕਤਿ ਨ ਹੋਈ ਕਿਤੁ ਬਿਧਿ ਪਾਰਿ ਲੰਘਾਈ ਹੇ ॥ {ਪੰਨਾ 1024} What is Fasting, Upvasa? There are numerous, varieties of fasts in the religious traditions of India, not possible to calculate the exact number, how many there are? Fasting refers to the denial of food and drink for a specified time while keeping the mind in a particular emotional state. Fasting is based on human desires, which are related to their belief that they are devoted to God, demi-God, or the one they worship and want to achieve divine favor through their ability to fast. There are numerous rituals centering on the worship of multiple gods and goddesses in the Puranic ideology, where devotees practice certain methods to please individual Gods. Some of these include Navratri, Shivaratri, Janmashtami, Karva Chauth, Ahoi, and Ekadashi. Karwa Chauth Vrata Hindu married women fast on the fourth day of the waning moon in the month of Kartik, known as Karva Chauth. They have a happy procession in the early morning just before sunrise. A pre-dawn meal known as 'Sargi' is also sent by their parents where they consume food items before sunrise. In this meal, fennel seeds and fruits are offered, and the moon is worshiped. Secondly, fasting women do not take in any food or drink for the entire day. They worship the moon using a clay pot and break the fast by looking at their husband’s faces at night. The keeping of a clay pot represents the wife’s loyalty to her husband, which is a representation of how she was malleable and unformed like a clay pot at the time of the wedding and has remained true to her chosen mate. The tradition puts a lot of importance on morality and yet, why don’t men also have a tradition to show their morality? This tradition keeps gender unbalanced and may create an impression that women are servants of men though this does not necessarily say anything about the woman’s husband’s moral character. Traditions of Karwa Chauth Suhagans (married women) have plates of honey, almonds, dates, and money (Beya) before breaking their fast in the evening. This ritual is done after the sunset. These women dressed in red attires with makeup, sit in the circle. Later on, they share the 'Beya' from their plates with each other. The image of the moon is placed in the middle of the moon-like circular formation. All the women pay their homage from their place of seat and offer prasad from their plates. Eventually, they pass the plates around the circle. In Punjab's folk tradition, they keep singing in Punjabi like; ਕਰਵੜਾ ਨੀ ਕਰਵੜਾ ਲੈ ਨੀ ਭੈਣੇ ਕਰਵੜਾ, ਲੈ ਵੀਰੋ ਕੁੜੀਏ ਕਰਵੜਾ, ਲੈ ਸਰਬ ਸੁਹਾਗਣ ਕਰਵੜਾ, ਲੈ ਇੱਛਾਵੰਤੀ ਕਰਵੜਾ, ਲੈ ਭਾਈਆਂ ਦੀ ਭੈਣੇ ਕਰਵੜਾ, ਕੱਤੀਂ ਨਾ ਅਟੇਰੀਂ ਨਾ, ਘੁੰਮ ਚਰਖੜਾ ਫੇਰੀਂ ਨਾ, ਸੁੱਤੇ ਨੂੰ ਜਗਾਈਂ ਨਾ, ਰੁੱਸੇ ਨੂੰ ਮਾਨਈਂ ਨਾ, ਪਾਟੜਾ ਸੀਵੀਂ ਨਾ ਕਰਵੜਾ ਵਟਾਇਆ, ਜਿਵੰਦਾ ਝੋਲੀ ਪਾਇਆ... During singing this particular song, Brahmin performs a ritual of worship and takes something from each plate. Story of Karwa Chauth The story associated with Karva Chauth goes as follows: A long time ago there was a king with a queen named Veero. She loved her sister Vero who was the daughter of their stepmother. Once, during a Karva Chauth fast, Veero saw that the moon was hidden for a long time. Veero’s brothers couldn’t bear their sister’s hunger, therefore, they made a fire in the forest, and spread their cloth sheet, so that Veero could see the moon through a sieve. Veero thought she was right and Veero broke her fast. However, the king had left the palace earlier to go hunting, and thorns from the forest pierced him 365 times, making him unconscious. Sad indeed, the queen picked up the body of her husband and started plucking the thorns one at a time. A year passed before the king regained consciousness. In the end, the queen finally pulled out 364 thorns from the king’s body. This is how the origin of Karva Chauth took place. At this point, a bangle seller came around and caused a fuss outside. The queen went shopping for bangles, leaving the last thorn on the king’s body to be removed by the maid. Therefore, the king assumed that the maid was his queen. Unfortunately, this meant that the real queen had to serve as a servant. She made dolls out of a piece of cloth, and played with it, repeatedly saying, ‘Rani Si So Golli Hoi, Golli Si So Rani Hoi’ ਰਾਣੀ ਸੀ ਸੋ ਗੋਲੀ ਹੋਈ, ਗੋਲੀ ਸੀ ਸੋ ਰਾਣੀ ਹੋਈ which means the queen became maid, and the maid became queen. Later on, the lie was discovered and the real queen was reinstated.' Examination of this story and the Karva Chauth rituals brings about many questions. Which king was mentioned in the story? What country was his kingdom and when did these things happen? On what basis were there 365 pricking thorns on him and why was no doctor invited to remove these thorns? Why were 364 thorns plucked off while only one remained, and why did the king regain consciousness after the last thorn was removed? After removing the first 364 thorns why couldn’t he wake? Is a husband allowed to marry another wife if his wife fails to take care of him for one day, as shown in the story of the king? Spiritual Significance These questions are never fully addressed by the story and the Karva Chauth rituals, which have no element of fact or religion. There are a number of notable issues that must be considered in this whole process. Firstly, fasting and abstaining from food and water in order to fulfill a desire or wish is not in accordance with Gurbani. It also discourages obstinate actions because the Lord cannot be pleased in this manner. These acts are often imagined products and are not truly religious. Guru Granth Sahib Says, 'ਮਨਹਠਿ ਕਰਮ ਕਰੇ ਸੋ ਛੀਜੈ॥ ਬਹੁਤੇ ਭੇਖ ਕਰੇ ਨਹੀ ਭੀਜੈ॥' (ਪੰਨਾ-1059) 'ਮਨਹਠਿ ਕਰਮ ਕਮਾਵਦੇ ਨਿਤ ਨਿਤ ਹੋਹਿ ਖੁਆਰੁ॥ ਅੰਤਰਿ ਸਾਂਤਿ ਨ ਆਵਈ ਨਾ ਸਚਿ ਲਗੈ ਪਿਆਰੁ॥' (ਪੰਨਾ-66) The second idea revolves around the belief that fasting with demands and wishes causes a long life for one’s husband. On the other hand, this goes against the normal way of affairs. Is it really possible to achieve a longer lifespan by fasting? Would it not be as if one was trying to please God with starvation against nature’s will? Can anyone imagine a benevolent God known as a mother, father, and guardian, taking pleasure in witnessing a person’s hunger? If fasting was truly related to longevity, there would be so many people in this nation whose lives should be exceedingly long owing to the lack of food. However, this is not true. The teachings of Gurbani highlight the need for understanding, accepting, and living in line with nature. The truth is that every person is born to die. This is an indisputable fact, and no one can avoid this unavoidable fate. As many spiritual traditions suggest, fasting or observing Vratas can have physical health benefits. Nevertheless, when fasting is purely motivated by desires and the hope of being rewarded by God, it ceases to be a genuine spiritual practice. 'ਜੋ ਆਇਆ ਸੋ ਚਲਸੀ ਸਭੁ ਕੋਈ ਆਈ ਵਾਰੀਐ॥' (ਪੰਨਾ-474) 'ਬਾਦਿਸਾਹ ਸਾਹ ਵਾਪਾਰੀ ਮਰਨਾ॥ ਜੋ ਦੀਸੈ ਸੋ ਕਾਲਹਿ ਖਰਨਾ॥' (ਪੰਨਾ-740) Is it possible for one's actions to extend another person's life? Can our efforts truly alter the fundamental laws of nature? 'ਧੁਰਿ ਲਿਖਿਆ ਮੇਟਿ ਨ ਸਕੀਐ ਜੋ ਹਰਿ ਲਿਖਿ ਪਾਇਆ॥' (ਪੰਨਾ-789) Read the full article

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KARVA CHAUTH : A FESTIVAL WITH A HUGE DIFFERENCE TO CONSOLIDATE RELALTIONSHIP

HAPPY KARVA CHAUTH : A FESTIVAL TO CONSOLIDATE RELATIONSHIP BETEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE  Bhagwad Gita teaches us to see others as ourselves. In love when we see others as ourselves we will not mistreat them. To have the easiest of love relationships put the other person first and see how beautiful your life becomes. Lord Krishna,  tells us: I am the same to all beings, and  my love is everthe same;…

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Satranga Out Now!

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Trendy Karwa Chauth mehndi designs for the groom

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Happy Karwa Chauth 2023 Messages and Wishes

Celebrate Karva Chauth 2023 with greetings messages, Karva Chauth quotes and wishes. Share few lines of Karva Chauth or send First Karva Chauth wishes to her.

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Karva Chauth 2023: First Karwa Chauth Gifts for Wife

One of the most classic and cherished gifts for Karwa Chauth is a beautiful saree. Opt for a traditional silk saree with intricate embroidery or a designer piece that reflects her style. A saree is not just an outfit but a symbol of elegance and grace, making it a thoughtful gift for your wife on this auspicious occasion.

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Shibani Dandekar gave a befitting reply to those criticizing Karva Chauth post: 'You are as bad...'

Shibani Dandekar gave a befitting reply to those criticizing Karva Chauth post: ‘You are as bad…’

Actor Shibani Dandekar, who recently celebrated her first Karva Chauth with husband, actor Farhan Akhtar, responded to the haters trolling her post on the festival. On Karva Chauth, Shibani posted a selfie of herself wearing a designer mangalsutra. The debate on the internet centered on whether the actors were actually celebrating Karva Chauth or it was just a monetary ploy. one of the users by…

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Atharva expresses his love for Chini and says her I love you. Imlie with Arpita and Rupali visits same temple and thinks its her first karva chauth fast, she is heading on a path of love and god should protect her if she stumbles. She prays god for her and Atharva’s happiness. Chini acts and asks if she loves really loves her, what about his marriage with Imlie. She reveals even she loves him and…

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The Romantic Karva Chauth of Mouni Roy and Suraj Nambiar

Karva Chauth is a special occasion for couples, and for Bollywood actress Mouni Roy and her husband Suraj Nambiar, it was an extra special celebration. Mouni Roy celebrated her first Karva Chauth after tying the knot with Suraj Nambiar, and the couple's romantic bond was on full display.

A Traditional Celebration

Mouni Roy embraced Karva Chauth like a true bride. She adorned herself in a beautiful golden saree, complemented by red bangles and a rose in her hair. After completing the fast, her husband Suraj Nambiar lovingly broke her fast. The couple's love and affection were evident for all to see. https://www.instagram.com/p/CjqS5MotGv_/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

The Beautiful Mehndi

Before the Karva Chauth rituals, Mouni Roy shared pictures of her intricate bridal mehndi. The purple outfit and playful poses added to the charm of the occasion. She proudly displayed her mehndi-adorned hands for the camera. https://www.instagram.com/p/CjpExuZNOi2/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

A Blend of Traditions

Mouni Roy's Karva Chauth wasn't just about the traditional customs but also a blend of cultures. She even got a mehndi design of Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati, reflecting her deep-rooted beliefs.

A Year of New Beginnings

Mouni Roy and Suraj Nambiar's love story culminated in marriage this year. The actress tied the knot with businessman Suraj Nambiar in a beautiful Hindu wedding ceremony in Dubai in January 2022. In conclusion, Mouni Roy's first Karva Chauth as a married woman was a beautiful blend of traditions and new beginnings. The pictures from the celebration showcased the love and happiness shared by the couple. It's a testament to the enduring charm of this age-old tradition, celebrated with a modern touch. Also checkout: Read the full article