#find your peace within

[londonadayatatime]

Serpentine Golden Hour, February 2015

[bunniesbearsandadventures]

*my happy place*

[maybe-boys-do-love]

Peaceful Property ON SALE "Scared of ghosts? In the middle of the day?"

Ghosts from episodes 1, 2, 3

[soulinkpoetry]

That’s why we’re not at peace. Because we don’t listen to our soul’s needs.

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[bunnyboy-juice]

ngl. every time i see someone talk about a fairly standard/innocuous bong or pipe that isnt that structurally complex and they talk about the way it would be "impossible" to keep it clean my concern for the ways y'all treat your glass (and therefore your lungs) rises by 10 notches........

[lvstharmony]

​beyond grateful for the people that are surrounding me in my life, just as i am grateful for the people i’ve parted ways with, for without them, i would not be the person i am today.

[iniziare]

Now these are some serious thoughts that I'm having, and I'm also having them for specific reasons that I'll note at the end of this post (or its own separate one, we'll see):

— I don't see how Jing Yuan wouldn't know about the deal that Jingliu made (which I still firmly believe to have been with Lan), because otherwise I don't see how he would blindly trust her to go about the Luofu. Because ultimately, he could trust her as much as he wants to because of their past, but he also witnessed how she lost all control, and subsequently fell to the mara. The trust in this scenario isn't in her, it's in whatever it is that’s restraining the mara. — On that note, I don't see how he would trust anything tied to that, unless it was tied to someone or something that he trusts: Lan. Yes, Jing Yuan himself is another reason why I believe it's the Lan, the Aeon that opposes Yaoshi. — Keeping this in mind, it makes this final sentence to Jingliu extra interesting in my opinion: 'Then I will see this gamble through.'

On that note, as a treat to myself because I'm so close to signing my lease, and because I desperately crave to write the male muse in this franchise that I love the very most (listen, I'm happy to see my two big favorites in Genshin written well, but I just want to write my actual male favorite in HSR myself as well on top of seeing great portrayals)— no matter how popular he too, is. Jing Yuan, welcome home.

[icewindandboringhorror]

January 2025 moodboard

[seiya-starsniper]

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[stinkbeck]

my cottagecore toxic yuri cousins who claimed to have good taste totally ruined me for a second there lmfao

[sadpeopledancing]

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[chewtoyboytoy]

No hate whatsoever, I'm just interested in the discussion, but I don't think Dabi and Jason are really that similar? I mean, 100% they both of the replacement baggage going for them, definitely.

But at their core, they're different?

Oh yeah I'm sure. I made that post as soon as the thought popped into my brain, lol. There's loads of differences. But I think the similarities between them r the things that make me interested in both of them as characters. They scratch the same itch for me (die. become emo and morally gray. haunt the shit out of ur dad and make him cry).

[uncanny-tranny]

Hi. this might be long so feel free to delete but i would like some advice/help. so i am trans i have known i am trans for years and years. since i was a toddler. i came out first when i was a preteen and i sort of fluctuated between identifying as 'just' binary male and various nombinary genders for a while until settling on binary male a couple years ago. but lately ive been wondering whether im trans het or a nonbinary butch lesbian. i am only attracted to women and im only comfortable with masculine terms he/him pronouns all that stuff. but idk. it's complicated and i am also both intersex and autistic so i feel kinda weird about it anyway. i tried identifying myself a s a butch lesbian a few days ago but i changed my mind after about 20 minutes because im worried about people interpreting me as a woman when really my gender is very masculine with some other stuff like an alien. idont know how else to explain it sorry

I definitely get where you're coming from, and I don't think I'll have the "right" answer for you - not because of anything you are, but because you are the expert in your experiences. I'm sure you know that, but I always want to remind people of that, sometimes we get caught up in making sure that we are "right."

There are plenty of other butches, genderqueer people, trans guys - whatever, really - who are in the same boat. It can be hard to navigate and make sure who you are is understood. I think a lot of times, people will interpret you based on their own ideas, and that does suck, but it often doesn't indicate a lot about what you are doing. I definitely think if it makes you comfortable, you should claim it, though I get how complex that can be.

And like... I know so many butches and whatnot who totally get where you're coming from, and I think finding those people can make it so much easier to see yourself claiming it, if that makes sense. If you haven't, please do surround yourself with a bunch of people who have those similar experiences.

You contain multitudes. You are multifaceted, and that may include being "contradicting." Whatever you feel best in is right for you. I don't know what is best for you, but I do know you deserve to be heard and not judged. I hope you extend that curtosy to yourself.

[fallingforfandoms]

Persönlicher Krimskrams incoming.

Ganz früher war das hier mal ein Zuhause.

Dann aber ganz lange nicht mehr. Weil ich zugelassen habe, dass andere Menschen mir dieses Geborgenheitsgefühl wegnehmen.

Und dann habe ich letztes Jahr einfach selbst den Schalter umgelegt. Weil ich es mir im Kopf so zurechtgebogen habe, wie's mir gefallen hätte, ganz ohne diese Menschen.

Und heute bin ich das erste Mal seit fast zehn Jahren hergefahren. Um zu sehen, dass es doch gut geht. Und ich bin froh, dass ich hier bin. Und ich bin froh, dass ich mich das getraut habe. Weil's irgendwie doch ein Zuhause ist, wenn ich das so will.

(Ja, auf die Sehnenscheidenentzündung vom Ästeschneiden hätte ich gern verzichtet. Aber irgendwie auch nicht. Weils hier so viel zu tun gab, dass man gar nicht groß ins Grübeln kam. Mochte ich sehr.)

Paar Impressionen to go, oder so:

[insanechayne]

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[sylvasystem]

Never forget, things likw your gender and sezuality aren't supposed to be a mark in a checkbox - they're a part of your human experience.

Question it.

Live through new experiences time and time again.

Allow yourself the space to be curious.

Life isn't about marking off boxes of defining traits; it's about experiencing the unexperienced and allowing yourself to grow and BE, through everything.