#father mention

[crippled-peeper]

my dad when I ask him to remember what my disabilities are (he was in the room when I was diagnosed with them)

[ribghoul]

The amount of obligation I feel towards my family even though catering to them comes at the cost of my own health is sooo... like I'm seriously considering going to visit my dad even though I don't have the time, energy, or desire to do so just because he's sad.

I don't understand why he moved far away to a town that is dangerous to drive in and out of in the winter if seeing his children regularly was something that mattered so much to him. I normally see him once a month and he keeps complaining that that's not frequent enough. But like I feel like I'm the selfish one for not wanting to drive a 10 hour road trip to visit him for 1 night, around my 40 hr/wk work schedule and in the midst of trying to prepare to move and socialize and keep my apartment from being a huge fucking mess like I barely have time to take care of myself let alone my grown ass dad.

[lovecore-muppet]

Today we’re gonna go to a late Christmas party at our dad’s house and hopefully make funfetti dip for there— /pos

—Popcorn

[spamtondoingthings]

spamton celebrating fathers day by screaming in a nest of pipis at the top of his lungs on the roof of your apartment while you sit next to him with hot chocolate. yes he has one too and drinks it between screams.

happy fathers day

[buffdyke]

having a complicated relationship with your father sucks

on the one hand he told me he wouldn't come to my wedding if i get married to a women (or afab people my dad is not very trans friendly)

but then on the other hand tonight he stood up for me when literally no one else did and made me feel heard and loved

how can one person be at the same time horrible and wonderful?

[go6jo]

taking geto to meet your parents for the first time.

[sunbedo]

Bro got more than he bargained for

[chaossequence]

This 3 year course may be stretch into 4 but ummm..... My dad's paying out of pocket.

[wworthington-xmen]

Dude you should probably check on your dad or something. He's been getting harassed.

He can-

Look, if he needs help he is capable of saying such. Or getting bodyguards

[cptsdhaver]

i know im only like this bc of my father and how he treated me. but i am really tired of feeling like everything is my fault. like i have to fix everything. im just one person and im filled with hatred for the man who made me this way. i am not at fault, i was just a kid with the world on my shoulders.

[transmascgoblin]

Can we please stop glorifying weight loss

I've lost 40 pounds. I used to weigh 200 pounds, back in December 2023. over these last 8 months, my appetite disappeared nearly completely. I've been nauseous, lightheaded, and I can hardly stay awake all day anymore. I nap for hours after school, and sleep all night long. I'm fatigued, my body hurts, and my hips feel nearly bruised after simply wearing a belt.

It's not pretty. I currently weigh 164 pounds, and I'm losing roughly half a pound every day.

When I was at my doctor's office, with my dad, this question arose.

"so... have you been having any self-image issues? have you been wanting to lose weight?"

and I reply, wholeheartedly, this all had started *after* I came to the conclusion that I didnt care about my weight, and I was perfectly happy with it. and that, if anything, I missed my weight.

my dad snorts, looks away

"well, like, I feel terrible all the time. I hate the way I look, and I want to be able to move things again" I say

he rolls his eyes, again. looks back at the wall. "well, you had the weight to lose". I look at my doctor, and then down at my hands. I want to vomit. because why wouldn't I want to be skinny. why wouldn't I want to be like him, like everyone else.

the appointment continues, my doctor tells me I need to start forcing myself to eat, even if I don't want to.

a couple of days later, I'm putting on a turtleneck sweater with some jeans I hadn't worn for years due to them being too small. they now bunch and gather when I sit down.

"you're so tiny" my mom says. her eyes are full of envy. I'm 3 inches shorter than her, and I weigh as much as she does. "your waist is so small" "you're so pretty"

I haven't heard her call me pretty in a long, long time. she had had eating problems when she was my age. closer to anorexia than the nausea I've been feeling.

"yeah, but I feel terrible" I reply. my poor mother still has jealousy in her vision. I wish I could gather all of my weight back from her, if only to make her feel truly pretty again.

This isn't glorious. this isn't a success. this is me rotting away in my own skin. my own body, eating away at itself. and it feels terrible. so let's stop glorifying weight loss. please.

[circusgoth-dotcom]

Time for my annual Father's Day schpiel!

Shout out to f/os who are dads. Shout out to selfshippers who are dads. Shout out to the familial f/os and fankids that made selfshippers and f/os dads.

If you don’t have a good relationship with your irl dad or any relationship at all, your f/os are here for you. I wish you peace on this day.

[starstruckxstray]

Ooc: I'm torn, there is a character I really don't want to see, but also I see Kero as being like the kid that badly wants love and approval from this character (which is like the dad that never left his fraternity)

And with it being Father's Day, well...

It's one of those things I'll always wonder about and never find out.

[peppenispizza]

peppino definitely, totally, absolutely not starting to cry after celeste gives him a strawberry patterned chef hat. guys he ISNT CRYING. theres just a leak on the ceiling dripping onto his eyes while he’s crying. ...wait DANG IT

[mausoleumepilogue]

Rest your weary eyes o' extinguished one, you have fought well. Rest eternal in the many arms of your Father. His Primordial Majesty, Sleep.

[sweetpeauserboxes]

[id: two light gray userbox with a gray border and gray text that reads “this user sees argo as a father figure”. on the left is an image of argo from 7 Days! : Mystery Visual Novel and the prequel Argo's Choice: Visual Novel. /end id]