#fallenchococookie

[sweetlittlevampire]

For the tea ordering ask: peppermint tea (because it's my favourite tea) :3

14. Peppermint tea: What is your favourite gif at the moment?

This one -

Thank you for asking! ♥

You are in a café with me, what tea do you order?

[xtoxictears]

A nice thing: In January, I will be moving to the UK in order to live with my boyfriend. We met online last year in March, playing Black Desert Online, and have been together for 1 year and 7 months today. He is such a wonderful person and my best friend. I'm very grateful I have him and he makes me happy every day. ♥

Ahh thats so sweet! I’m so glad you finally get to be together.:D

[bombcollar]

fallenchococookie replied to your photo: “weird shit happening to me in the witcher  horse cluster rain indoors...”:

Yeah, those wholes in the bog are really treacherous. I ended up in one of them before, too. xD

i'm terrified of these bogs now, i never know when I might fall in another death hole

[wankingtoday]

For the Witcher ask: 38. Food or Swallow? - 21. Sirens or Harpies? - 19. Botchlings or spotted Wights? - 16. Orgoids or Elementa?

38. Swallow

I worked on my potions diligently since early game because the perks seemed so good. My Geralt is super beefy and I regret nothing

21. Sirens

I’ve always liked the aesthetic.

19. Botchlings

I love their lore.

16. Orgroids

Rock trolls are my favorite monsters I don’t care.

[solipsistful]

fallenchococookie replied to your post: “becoming a parent while alcoholic is child abuse”...

@system-family​ I honestly never met anyone who’s parent(s) had an alcohol problem of any sort who wasn’t affected by their parent’s alcoholism. Just a personal experience on my side.

"Affected by” is quite the vague term ;)

If you mean “not traumatized by”, then yeah we exist. (i think there’s a bit of a self-selection bias going on, folks who have experienced trauma being more likely to be in a situation where “my parents were/are alcoholics” is actually relevant to say, i.e. in spaces talking about abusive parents, where “alcoholic parent” is an explanation unto itself)

- Ace

[the-redbaron]

For the "make me choose" Witcher thingy: 24. Vesemir or Crach an Craite? - 14. Beasts or Hybrids? - 25. Eskel or Lambert? - 37. Cerys or Hjalmar?

24. Vesemir. i love him he’s such a grumpy old witcher 

14. um i guess beasts seeing as they’re easy to fight

25. I fucking hate Lambert he’s a dick to everyone all the time, especially Yennefer. I mean I guess Eskel also doesn’t like Yen, but more because he’s protecting Geralt than just being an asshole. also Eskel is nice.

37. I really like Cerys as a ruler more than Hjalmar. She’s incredibly level-headed and tries to get to the root of problems instead of rushing into things. 

[bloody-bee-tea]

fallenchococookie hat auf deinen Eintrag geantwortet “I played The Witcher again today and let me tell you what a bad idea...”

I don't even know how to play this game for less than 5 hours at once and I played it through 3 times, haha.

Right?! People always tell me ‘Hey, you have two hours, maybe spend them playing The Witcher’ and I am just laughing cause they absolutely don’t understand. This is not a game you can play real quick. It’s just not happening.

(How did you play it through 3 times, dear god, I haven’t even managed once yet)

[forthechildrenofalcoholics]

fallenchococookie replied to your post “I have had a lot of people tell me how much they appreciate this blog,...”

I agree with you completely, even coming from Germany. Alcohol is everywhere and it's a completely normal thing. People don't even think about it being dangerous. The issue is ignored or brushed off, it's worrying. :/

I’m sorry to hear it’s a problem for you as well, and it is worrying, for sure. No one wants to take the idea of it being an issue seriously, so it just keeps getting worse and worse.

[xtremememeteam]

fallenchococookie reblogged your post and added: “Bullyhutners Opinion”

Nobody will ever be able to stop bullying for...

1. Bullying will never stop, I never stated that it would nor think that it can. I never stated nor think that blocking/muting or reporting is a bad choice but rather sometimes it’s not enough. When someones being a POS i will call them out on it because of my personal experience and what I've witnessed. 

2. I’ve been playing video games since i was 5 and have had full access to a computer since that age too. I got my first personal computer when i was 9 and have since had two more and a laptop on top of that. I play several online games, watch several content creators and streamers and have been in several gaming communities. You want years? I’ve been playing and watching league of legends for nearly 2 and a half years. I’ve also been watching CSGO and COD for the same length. I’ve been playing overwatch since the beta on console and got the game when it came out. I also play heroes of the storm. 

I do understand internet and gaming culture. Experiences and view points can differ and that does not cancel out someones knowledge and understanding. I think leagues reporting system is great and the way blizzard has improved overwatches report system is marvelous, i also think more can be done to help. 

3. I’ll respectively disagree with you. I think online bullying and harassment, whether they know you or not, does matter and can have an effect on someones life. Minor small doses may not matter as much or have an impact. However, from personal experience, I had a league match where one player was being so just unjustly rude that i ended up crying at the end of it. I felt like utter shit. I have never felt that way after a game before and i hadn’t felt that way in a long time. 

Being it someone you do know or don’t know makes a difference, however, reactions are not mutually exclusive. 

4. I think i’ll also need to add my replies to this because i touched on your last portion here. A company held the event and many sponsors were not away of what was going to go down. ZombiUnicorn and I suspect several others were held to a NDA (non disclosure agreement.) Natalie showed her script on twitter and admitted that all but I believe one incident were staged. Sponsors have since pulled and the site taken down i believe. I cannot remember the name of the marketing company but i believe it mostly goes back to them. 

Do i think it was a scam? Semi difficult to say. They were advertising a service but no one “bought” it as it crashed from the get go. It was misleading for sure, even i admittedly was misled (Link to that post here). I can see anger and possible lawsuits from the sponsors maybe coming for being mislead and misrepresented. Anything along the lines of a scam suit, as nothing was really “sold” aside from the possibility of it, will be hard 

[thelilknight]

Thank ya! I’m new to the Witcher series, but have heard great things and was able to get it for cheap ^_^

I was lookin’ for something to switch between while I play through Fallout 4 too ^_^

Just bought Witcher 3. Any advice?

[irailleth-archive]

For the Witcher 3 "make me choose" thing: 36. Sorceresses or Witchers? - 47. Crossbow or fists? - 3. Novigrad or Beauclair? - 39. Decoctions or Potions?

36. Sorceresses or Witchers?47. Crossbow or fists?3. Novigrad or Beauclair?39. Decoctions or Potions?

- Witchers!! I’m a big fan of Witchers. Sorceresses come in so close though- FISTS. I’LL BEAT ALL THE BANDITS TO DEATH WITH MY FISTS.- Answered!!- Potions!! Though they don’t last very long for me because I haven’t upgraded that stat :”))

[sweetlittlevampire]

fallenchococookie hat dich in einem Eintrag erwähnt

@sweetlittlevampire​ Just after he made a joke about me having feelings for him too! :'( I didn't mean to, I am still very sorry. I will get him a unicorn plaster.

Honestly that would almost be worthy of fan art.

Almost.

Also about having feelings for him - I mean you’ve been hitting on him quite literally, so...

[queen-haiz]

@fallenchococookie replied to your post ...

Firing you because you had a panic attack would be really shit to be honest. A panic attack should be enough to make clear it's not under your control.

i didn’t mean they’d fire me out of spite, i just meant if they think i’m not good for the job idk but i made a fool of myself n almost passed out :/

[filzmonster]

Think the old mutual comes closest to what you are to me. 😊❤

right back to you :D though it should probably be something like ‘that one real life friend that puts up with all your weird obsessions’ :D ♥

[thicc-kirk]

There definitely isn't enough public education on mental illness. That's part of the problem. Another part of the problem, in my experience, has been NT people who, even after exposure to and education about anxiety and panic disorders, still cannot or will not understand that they are real. Like, sorry dude but my anxiety attack that leaves me emotionally and mentally drained to the point that I sometimes dissociate is in no way comparable to you being stressed out about work. It's not something that taking off an hour early will fix. It's not something that I can always manage. I'm fighting a war with my own brain so offering me anecdotes about how stressful your life may be isn't helpful at all. I understand that they may have good intentions and they are trying to understand by using their experiences as a yardstick but it's really apples and oranges and it usually comes with advice like "just breathe" or "it's going to be okay, just calm down". Buddy, if I could just breathe and calm down don't you think I would? Why, in my 30 some odd years on this earth dealing with an anxiety disorder did I never consider just calming down? My eyes are now opened and I have conquered the beast thanks to your advice! Idk I'm super salty today and this rant is in no way directed at you lol! Everything you said is absolutely true.

[almostcorporeal]

fallenchococookie replied to your post: “Have you talked to Teri?” Oh yeah definitely I...

Wanting to change your therapist does NOT make you a bad person at all. If there is a reason you want to see a different therapist, any reason, that is completely fine. You should go to someone you are comfortable with & trust to be able to help you competently. Therapy is about you, not your therapist. It is supposed to help you & it can only be helpful and healthy if you have a therapist you are happy with! ❤

Thank you. Your reassurance means a lot to me.