#everything just costs money and money and i've been investing a lot in this little shop of mine but so far i've never seen any earnings
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you might remember i once said i've been busy doing merch for local cons etc. well, this is an acrylic keyring that i did!
however it didn't sell at all so i'm thinking of selling them online, would anyone buy it*, considering the shipping fee? (i am located in argentina)
(*i would offer more products so you can justify the shipping, this riddle keyring is an example)
(if yes but can't, just vote no, i won't get offended, i want to know the actual number)
(also reblogs are appreciated for a bigger sample size)
#tsun.txt#twst#riddle rosehearts#twst fandom#twst merch#fanmerch#idk#i will probably open preorders in general at some point but this is more to know if i should have an online shop with stock#yes i know that ppl who do fanmerch have fun shaped and colored keyrings and add shiny beds and stuff#everything just costs money and money and i've been investing a lot in this little shop of mine but so far i've never seen any earnings#at most i don't lose money but this last time i couldn't even get to that...#it's kind of discouraging but i want to continue
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long reaction to the update
ok. so they put out an update video! since i've been commentating for the last three days i might as well subject you all to more of my thoughts today.
main takeaway: this was a good apology video. i mean it. short and to the point, no overproduction, heartfelt and honest (and not a ukelele to be seen. thank god.) they took ownership of the situation, apologized, and restated how much they value their relationship with the fandom.
their solution is to make the watcher tv platform into kind of an iteration of patreon where content is available for early access before it is released onto youtube later. this is clearly a better option than paywalling everything for everyone. i'm not sure what the relative breakdown of costs turns out to be when you compare how much they were making on patreon after the platform took their cut VS how much it costs in overhead to run and maintain their own platform (how much it costs annually to contract via Vimeo, essentially). but i'm sure that's part of the calculation.
all things considered, that does seem like the best option out of all the alternatives. it allows them to not completely abandon any of the pans they have simmering over the fire for the time being. i don't think i ever thought they were going to just say "oops, forget about the streaming thing! let's pretend that never happened!" because at this point they've invested quite a lot of time and money into it, and i don't disagree that keeping it in some iteration may help them make up some of the funds they're lacking.
i would say, it's fine to keep the streamer. this is one of the ok outcomes, all things considered-- but if they're going to do it, they've GOT to do it smart from this point forward. listen to both the fans and the consultants intimately. both are going to have valid points, and both are going to be right. listening to too much of either side will sink this thing because each has motives and expertise that the other doesn't. if the fans say $6 is too much, listen to them-- but have conversations with business consultants about how much you realistically need to charge to make things work.
also, i'd use this whole situation as a learning experience. watcher is a young company, and it's literally inevitable that mistakes will happen. what's different is that the watcher crew haven't really been in a position before where they've been on the receiving end of the internet-angry-justice-hammer to this extent. it's one thing to watch it happen to others, but it's a position of extreme privilege (and a bit of hubris) to think "but that won't happen to me, because i'm built different." naw, man-- two things in life are inevitable: death and fuckups. the callout posts get us all in the end.
what's really important is that they use this as a wakeup call that even the most loyal fandoms will only follow you so far to the cliff's edge, and you don't want to push that. you have to strike a balance between the passion projects that you think are worthy and the stuff that maybe doesn't excite you as much anymore but the people want to see. a little fanservice keeps the lights on, as unfair as that might seem. i'm gonna make 50 markiplier choccy milk memes just so i can make one niche political joke once and a while for 6 likes. it is what it is.
i'd also use this as a chance to take a very careful look at company structure and finances. it's not fun to do and nobody likes it. trust me-- this is hard whether you're a single adult trying to pay the bills or the freaking US government (speaking from experience on both-- i have to read the president's budget for work frequently). but you all have to ask hard questions about the ratio of creative staff you take on VS staff for administrative and other business roles, as well as the costs and benefits of everything you spend money on. how many staff members are essential to location shoots? can this video be shot with 2 cameras instead of 3 and thus you don't need another cameraperson? you might even have to come to the decision that instead of pitching a new show it makes more sense to use those funds to hire your essential non-creative roles or contract firms or freelancers.
paying staff a fair wage with benefits speaks highly of what watcher wants their values to be. it's hard to find such a position in a creative role and still actually get to work on things you care about. but it would be much worse if watcher didn't make realistic decisions about finances and it lead to the death of the company and everyone losing their jobs. the whole watcher company can work, in my opinion, but not without some sacrifices. they're going to have to run it more like a business and less like a youtube-channel-turned-business in the future if they want to survive.
last thing i'll add is that while i do think this was a good apology video, i still think they hurt themselves by not putting out some sort of statement on Friday or Saturday just to say that they were formulating a response. As i've said in other posts, it's ok and in fact beneficial to not make a kneejerk reaction, but it's also very important to communicate that you SEE what's happening. you SEE what people are saying and THAT'S why you need more time to respond. saying nothing and leaving the angry public to wonder if you dropped your phone off the Hoover Dam or just don't care? that's a fumble. it's a common mistake companies make in a crisis, but that doesn't mean it doesn't erode trust fast.
this could have been handled better in many ways. we see that, and i'm glad watcher says they see that too. crucial going forward is taking all this and patching the errors that caused all this to fall apart and learning from the experience.
tbh at this point what i'm most sad about is that the watcher crew have probably been too stressed out and upset to appreciate some of the absolute bangers people have been laying down to clown on them. i think if it wasn't about them they might be touched by the collective attitude and creative spirit. /j
#watcher#watcher tv#after this post i have got to actually not spend time writing long reactions about this anymore because i too#have fires caused by my own fuckups to put out#alas
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@throwaway20506 so I'm alerted when this is posted
WIBTA if I asked my boyfriend to pay for things more often?
I'm currently dating a guy who is from a very wealthy family, like. Super wealthy. As in, he lives in a one bedroom apartment downtown in one of the most expensive cities in the USA. He knows a lot of like. Semi famous and famous people. He's currently studying in the city I live in and we met at a gay event. Since he's studying, his actual income is somewhat lower bc he doesn't work all the time, but he has Investments (I'm not sure what that means to be honest, but it's how he pays for stuff like groceries and going out when he isn't working) and his family pays for his rent and stuff. He's obviously not hurting for cash in any way. On the other hand, I'm not destitute or anything but I work two jobs to make ends meet and have three roommates, and generally try to not spend more than I have to.
We both like to eat, so we go out for food sometimes. I've usually picked cheaper options and he tends to go for fancier places, like a place we went had caviar that he ordered? I've always been poor and haven't ever really had any close friends that were wealthy.
I expressed before that I wanted him to know I wasn't trying to take advantage of him for money or anything, and I'm not. He's genuinely a very sweet guy. He's bought me a few gifts before, but I never asked for anything. I want our relationship to be like. Fair and even. So we always split everything cost-wise 50/50. Which can also be kinda weird for me sometimes, w my poor friends if something is cheap (like if we order McDonald's or smth) we're very comfortable spotting each other or just "oh you can get it next time" type thing. But with him every little thing is 50/50.
The thing is, when we split 50/50 at some more expensive places, it's kind of more than I really want to spend going out. Sometimes there really aren't any cheap options on the menu. I've told him before that I don't want to spend a lot when we go out, but I think he just doesn't really have a good idea of what "a lot" is for me, and he really really enjoys these places. I'm also very aware I guess that his going out expenses don't really detract from his ability to do other things because all of his money is pocket money, whereas I need to budget to make sure I can afford non-boyfriend related fun stuff and rent and boyfriend stuff.
I've considered maybe asking him to pay a bit more of a share when we go out, but I'm not sure if that's fair. WIBTA if I asked to split 60/40 or something when we go out? Or maybe cover the meal sometimes? I don't want to tell him we can't go to his favorite restaurant, I just can't really afford it as easily as he can, and I know it won't negatively affect his finances if he pays more since he has. A lottt of money. I also don't usually get a lot, I was taught to always order something cheaper than the other person orders.
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After seeing your weatherbugapp reblog i installed duckduckgo and tried it.
I don't know much about technology tbh but i downloaded this app less than 30 mins ago and in that time google tried to track me 112 times?? And they tried to collect finger prints? And my first and last name? And my gender? And my country, state and city? My gps coordinates? My postal code? My network carrier? My fricking battery level for whatever reason? Can you please tell me if this is normal at all, because i'm freaking out right now. I just turned 18 and started using mobile banking and stuff and this shit scares me
Why tf does it need to know my screen density???my system volume????my charging status????? What tf are they cooking
Now it's at 476 tracking attempts bro???? barely 5 mins passed.....
I condensed your three asks into one for readability!
And yeah, I'm very far from an expert about any of this, but as far as I know that's just. Normal. That's the normal amount of spying they're doing on your phone. I assume the numbers we see are to some extent because having been foiled, a lot of these scripts try repeatedly, since I can't imagine what use thousands of trackers per phone would be even to the great aggregators.
Tracking the phone stuff like screen resolution and battery level is because (apart from that definitely not being considered remotely 'private' so it's Free Real Estate) in aggregate that data can be used to track what phone use patterns are like on a demographic scale and therefore. Where the smart money is.
Almost all of this is getting sold in bulk for ad targeting and market analysis. This does presumably make it very hard to notice when like. Actually important stuff is being spied on, which is why I feel better about Having Apps with the duckduckgo app blocker thing.
My bank's app reportedly sells data to a couple aggregators including Google. Not like, my banking info, but it's still so offensive on principle that I avoid using the app unless I have to, and force stop it afterward.
The patterns that show up on the weekly duckduckgo blocker report are interesting. Hoopla attempts about two orders of magnitude more tracking than Libby, which makes sense because they're a commercial streaming service libraries pay by the unit for access, while Libby is a content management software run by a corporation that values its certification as a 'B' company--that is, one invested in the public good that can be trusted. The cleanness of their brand is a great deal of its value, so they have to care about their image and be a little more scrupulous.
Which doesn't mean not being a little bit spyware, because everything is spyware now. Something else I've noticed is that in terms of free game apps, the polished professional stuff is now much more invasive than the random kinda janky thing someone just threw together.
Back in the day you tended to expect the opposite, because spyware was a marginal shifty profit-margin with too narrow a revenue stream to be worth more to an established brand than their reputation, but now that everyone does it there's not a lot of reputation cost and refraining would be sacrificing a potential revenue stream, which is Irresponsible Conduct for a corporation.
While meanwhile 'developing a free game app to put on the game store' is something a person can do for free with the hardware they already have for home use, as a hobby or practice or to put on their coding resume. So while such apps absolutely can be malicious and more dangerous when they are than The Big Brand, they can also be neutral in a way commercial stuff no longer is. Wild world.
But yeah for the most part as far as I can make out, these are just The Commercial Panopticon, operating as intended. It's gross but it probably doesn't indicate anything dangerous on an individual level.
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Sometimes self-care is telling yourself that it's okay to work towards goals you've had for years, a little bit at a time.
Long story short, I am terrible about investing in myself. When finances come into play, I hit the brakes so hard a student driver in the next town over thinks it's their teacher. A lot of it is because I've been having to cover the costs of repairs and replacing multiple appliances, in addition to medicine and doctor's visits. It's a real fear that we're screwed if I don't have the money to fix something if it breaks, so all of the things I was inspired to do last December haven't happened.
I needed some flat cards (well, one but it was more cost effective this way) for something and as I was poking about at the online calculator I thought "I could do a few sheets. It won't hurt" and I did and you can't imagine how much it helped. The print quality is so nice, and the stock really makes the colors pop. I even got doubles in my order of everything but the flat cards, which was a lovely surprise.
But this tiny thing didn't put me in the red. It didn't make the air conditioner I just replaced quit working. It's fine, and the prints I got yesterday were the kind of quality I've wanted for years but never thought I could afford. As dumb as it is, this tells me that it's okay to invest in myself from time to time. It's motivating because for years I've felt like I missed out, but I haven't. The opportunity just hadn't come around yet 💜
The best part, and this might be the most satisfying, is knowing that I am the one that has total control of this. No one telling me it's too much, or do a different design. No one trying to take it away from me.
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i thought you were different.
in the residence, in the quiet, with her sat perched on the edge of a windowsill and leaning back out into the bitter d.c. air to blow a stream of smoke, he's struck by just how oddly unique his life has shaken out. he's met presidents, heads of state, otherworldly beings -- but he's never really been held in this kind of a circle. he's seen the extraordinary, yes, but there is something about witnessing the ordinary side of it all that has him particularly in some sort of way.
it's what makes him feel somewhat comfortable with broaching the topic that's been sitting a little too close to him lately; he does so hate politics. and he hates to play it with her. " tell me again why the public school funding riders got tossed out at appropriations? "
she looks at him then, over her shoulder, amused and not at the same time. there's a beat before she says i'd rather not talk shop, phillip. which does nothing more than make the goosebumps on his arm rise. (he's in his undershirt, the belt of his slacks loose, a scotch that he hasn't touched since she poured it.)
" school vouchers aren't enough, you know that. it's not going to do shit for the kids in the worst areas who, even if they did get picked up for college investment, can't afford to move anyway. what good is a kid from st louis getting selected for a spot in iowa? "
she just blows a stream out the window and tilts her head at something happening down on the courtyard.
he's not deterred. " by asking congress to approve not just a little but a lot more money for public state schools, we could --"
she interrupts him -- her tone final, resolute, borderline snotty and suddenly, the cute way he's always thought of her as his uptown girl dies quickly, a pinched balloon. public education has been a public policy disaster for forty years. we've spent four trillion dollars on public schools since the sixties and the result has been a steady and inexorable decline in every measurable standard of student performance, to say nothing of health and safety. she scoffs and it sounds rehearsed, dismissive, annoyed at a fly buzzing at her food. but don't worry about it, because the u.s. house of representatives is on the case. why, i feel better already. "
he sets his glass on the side. " please, don't talk to me like that. " and that she does look around for, an eyebrow raised. " don't talk to me like i've been doing your homework and you're about to get your football player boyfriend to shove me in a fucking locker. i know gun reform is your silver bullet, but education is everything -- claire, for christ sake, do you think i'd be sat here if school vouchers had been my only option? the house i grew up in cost about as much as your parents fucking pool. "
almost in an instant, he feels embarrassed by the outburst. almost makes to apologise and then doesn't. she watches him for a long time - long enough to finish the cigarette, long enough to stub it out and tuck a delicate finger behind the strap of her heel and let them drop to the floor below her. she tucks her legs under herself and sighs. i thought you were different.
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One of the things I occasionally get paid to do by companies/execs is to tell them why everything seemed to SUDDENLY go wrong, and subs/readers dropped like a stone.
So, with everything going on at Twitter rn, time for a thread about the Trust Thermocline /1
So: what's a thermocline?
Well large bodies of water are made of layers of differing temperatures. Like a layer cake. The top bit is where all the the waves happen and has a gradually decreasing temperature. Then SUDDENLY there's a point where it gets super-cold.
That suddenly is important. There's reasons for it (Science!) but it's just a good metaphor. Indeed you may also be interested in the "Thermocline of Truth" which a project management term for how things on a RAG board all suddenly go from amber to red.
But I digress.
The Trust Thermocline is something that, over (many) years of digital, I have seen both digital and regular content publishers hit time and time again. Despite warnings (at least when I've worked there). And it has a similar effect. You have lots of users then suddenly... nope.
And this does effect print publications as much as trendy digital media companies. They'll be flying along making loads of money, with lots of users/readers, rolling out new products that get bought. Or events. Or Sub-brands.
And then SUDDENLY those people just abandon them.
Often it's not even to "new" competitor products, but stuff they thought were already not a threat. Nor is there lots of obvious dissatisfaction reported from sales and marketing (other than general grumbling). Nor is it a general drift away, it's just a sudden big slide.
So why does this happen? As I explain to these people and places, it's because they breached the Trust Thermocline.
I ask them if they'd been increasing prices. Changed service offerings. Modified the product.
The answer is normally: "yes, but not much. And everyone still paid"
Then I ask if they did that the year before. Did they increase prices last year? Change the offering? Modify the product?
Again: "yes, but not much."
The answer is normally: "yes, but not much. And everyone still paid."
"And the year before?"
"Yes but not much. And everyone still paid."
Well, you get the idea.
And here is where the Trust Thermocline kicks in. Because too many people see service use as always following an arc. They think that as long as usage is ticking up, they can do what they like to cost and product.
And (critically) that they can just react when the curve flattens
But with a lot of CONTENT products (inc social media) that's not actually how it works. Because it doesn't account for sunk-cost lock-in.
Users and readers will stick to what they know, and use, well beyond the point where they START to lose trust in it. And you won't see that.
But they'll only MOVE when they hit the Trust Thermocline. The point where their lack of trust in the product to meet their needs, and the emotional investment they'd made in it, have finally been outweighed by the physical and emotional effort required to abandon it.
At this point, I normally get asked something like:
"So if we undo the last few changes and drop the price, we get them back?"
And then I have to break the news that nope: that's not how it works.
Because you're past the Thermocline now. You can't make them trust you again.
Classic examples of this behaviour are digital subscription services, where the product gets squeezed over time, or print magazines (particularly in B2B) that constantly ramp up their prices a little bit each year until it's too late.
Virtually the only way to avoid catastrophic drop-off from breaching the Trust Thermocline is NOT TO BREACH IT.
I can count on one hand the times I've witnessed a company come back from it. And even they never reached previous heights.
So what's the lesson for businesses here?
- Watch for grumbling and LISTEN to it. - Don't assume that because people have swallowed a price or service change that'll swallow another one. - Treat user trust as a finite asset. Because it is.
And I will admit this is one of the reasons I am (with sadness, because I've got a lot of value out of this place) watching Elon's current actions wrt Twitter with curious horror.
Because I've NEVER seen someone make such a deep dive for the Trust Thermocline, so quickly.
It's why I've got about 20 big accounts I'm watching on here to see when they personally feel he crosses that Thermocline and begin shifting their main effort and presence elsewhere.
Because that'll be the moment I suspect things will start changing very quickly. /END
ADDENDUM:
Been reminded of the time I was brought in to talk about this to a gaming company who I can't name.
The marketing manager got SUPER angry and was like:
"rubbish! we did lootboxing like this five years in a row and people kept paying!"
I'm:
"Mate. That's my point."
For those asking, I'm bet-hedging myself while I wait to see what happens. So you'll find me now on:
Mastodon: mastodon.social/@garius CounterSocial: counter.social/@garius CoHost: cohost.org/garius
(Although Mastodon is the only one I'm cross-posting to right now).
Tumblr is doing death by a thousand cuts to itself, and it is so sad to see
the thing is this dashboard change isnt the end of the world ill get used to it whatever im just fucking dying of embarrassment that its supposed to look like twitter
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27.06.2024
It's been more than two years since my last blog. I don't really come here often except when I needed an escape from reality. I can't say I enjoy going through my brain dump when I was five to ten years younger - it's an awkward phase; lots of cringe and no sense drama. But hey, this is my secret refuge! Why??? Maybe there's comfort in knowing that "this too shall pass" and that "things will get better." After all, what felt like carrying a big boulder then seems just carrying a stone in my pocket now.
Life hasn't been great lately, but it's not too bad either. It's just right. Nothing too grand to celebrate. But there are little moments of joy to still make you want to live. I don't want to sound ungrateful, but I'm bored of the stability. I have a decent job that pays enough to get me through the next month and invest a little for the future. But am I hopeful for the future? I don't know. I question myself a lot lately, "what's next after I pay off my mortgage?" I said I wanted to retire by forty-five, and just take history, psychology, or art appreciation courses. But do I really want that?
When you stripped me off my job, I'm naked. It's hard to admit that I don't have life outside work. And it's not like I'm even great at work. I practically gave up the workaholic badge because it drained me like a lemon squeezed out of its juice. And with that gone, what's left of me?
I have a very loving and caring partner. We've been together for 14 or so years now. I'm not exaggerating when I say he's the best one could ever ask for. He's smart, kind, good looking, and a people person. But he's just too great! He does so well in almost everything. I'm proud of all that he's achieved and I'm sure there's much more in the future. But I wonder, is he ever proud of me?
I've been living abroad for 6+ years now. I don't come home often because flights are too expensive. There was a time I haven't been home in 3 years - mainly because of the pandemic but mostly because of money. I feel guilty for taking out-of-the-country trips but never home. But to my defense, my entire trip sometimes cost just a few bucks more than my flight home. And it's a new place! I love going home, but sometimes I feel like an outsider. I don't know where people kept things anymore. I have to watch and learn. I can't figure how to turn on the tv. I'm too shy to check the fridge when I get hungry at middle of the night. I've become a guest in my own home. Do they think of me as that too?
I don't have friends.
Five or ten years from now, I only hope I read this and laugh at myself just as how I laugh at my younger self now. The questions of today's what's next would be tomorrow's what's become. I don't feel excited, but we go with the flow. At least we're stable.
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A Trip Back in Time: How People Talked About replica handbags 20 Years Ago
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Some baseline thoughts:
It's interesting to me as a storyteller that they've been so direct and open about taking their foot off the gas. Where WoW has suffered in recent expansions from having each world-ending threat be world-endier than the last and then, upon dying, choke out, "But I was doing it to protect the universe from an even greater threat, available in the next expansion bluggggh-" FFXIV recognized that saving all life in the universe from an avatar of ultimate despair qualifies as a peak, and in order to have something that feels like a peak again we've got to spend a little time coming back down. So...VACATION EPISODE!
No sign yet of a new job. The Warrior of Light in the trailer wields a rapier, which has been the Red Mage weapon up to now, but also doesn't cast anything. So maybe people's theories of a Corsair class will bear out. It'd certainly fit with the Adventure on the High Seas vibe.
Typically these expansions have involved 2 new jobs, but there's also been some discussion about how that's just unsustainable. Between using up the design space, and just the raw hours of having to produce the new stuff for the next ten levels for every class that exists when you up the level cap...something's gotta give.
But also...there's got to be a leveling process, right? From a design perspective I honestly wonder. It feels like there's the part where you're meeting audience expectation, which is certainly important, but the cost is growing and return on that investment is diminishing. In some ways it feels like after a first run the leveling process is just something that's in there because it's always been in there. I've found that I always appreciated games' attempts to alter that paradigm, from Warframe or Monster Hunter statting out by slapping a lot of cool gear together with internal synergy, to Guild Wars 1's system where you level to 20 almost immediately and then the level caps at 20 and everything else is about gathering interesting ultimate skills with a pokemon-meets-blue-mage style "grab the spell off the monster with a Skill Rune" system, and making clever party compositions. I dunno. Personally I feel like I'd be just fine if they decided to cap the level at 90, but I think enough other people would get up in arms about it that safe money says they'll raise it to 100. Maybe 99 if they're feeling cheeky and want to nostalgia-bait. I expect if they were going to make a change that big they'd be doing damage control on that messaging already, a full year before the release.
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I feel so miserable in my relationship, yet I am unable to leave it because of cost of living. I'm so sad. I'm sad and I'm angry and I'm alone. It's not like I can get help from my family. I don't speak to them. I have nobody I can ask for money from, to help me move out of here.
All I need is like 3k for a downpayment on a house trailer for sale a couple towns over, still close enough I can keep my job. And I could afford the mortgage payments, it would be cheaper than where I am right now. But I can't save money. I'm constantly having to spend it on things I need. And my partner never helps me with those things. He only covers our rent and hydro. I pay for everything else, which is a lot these days.
I need to buy ramps for my one dog because he injured his knee and he can't do stairs or jump off the couch anymore. That'll run me like $350 ish for some ramps off amazon. I wanna ask my partner to pay for them, but I know he's just gonna bitch about it.
I just had to drop some money on computer parts because my computer is being weird. And I don't even know for sure if it'll fix it. So I may have to spend more. I'm sure my partner is peeved about it. I know he's mad I bought myself a new camera and a paddleboard this year. But I'd been waiting to upgrade my camera for a decade and I figured if I don't just do it now I might never. And the paddleboard is for me and my dog to have fun this summer. But his relationship with money is so toxic. He never spends it on anything fun or enjoyable or literally anything that won't make him more money. He only buys things as investments. He never buys things just so he can have something. He did buy himself a laptop this year, which honestly surprised me. I didn't think he would. But it was less as a fun thing and much more because he needs a computer for work stuff and doesn't want to use mine.
He's so angry all the time. Over every little thing. There is no calming him down. There is no state of calm. It's just always anger. Unless we are with other people.
We went to hang out with some friends this afternoon and the entire time before we left he was freaking out over what to wear because he only has 1 pair of shorts and he wore them last time we hung out with them and also he doesn't like the way his crotch looks in them, he feels self conscious. Then we had a lovely time with friends, but even in the vehicle on the way home he was winding himself up because he was gonna go dig an engine out of the bush and it looked like it was gonna rain so he was mad about that and then he was mad about all the shoes by the door (his were the ones that were in the way).
I find myself looking forward to when he leaves to go do other things and I get to be home alone. It's the only time I get to relax and feel calm because the rest of the time he's raging over something. And idk what to do anymore. I've told him this is an issue. I've told him how it makes me feel, but it doesn't change.
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channel and it's not easy I'm gonna be honest with you it's not but it's gonna pay you time and time again Okay and all you have to do is not give up it may sound easy but it's not it's simple but it's not easy okay and all you got to do is be consistent upload videos pick a niche and you can do it too I promise you so number one is my All-time number one recommendation to make money online drumroll please and that is legendary marketer okay this is by far the one thing that changed everything for me and I only discovered it a couple months ago right and I didn't get into it until up until recently but going through the Training it changed everything and there's a lot of bad rep online about this and I don't know why because either you're gonna find people who are promoting it and say it's the best thing are people who hate it but promote something else right so for someone who Got into it recently and has completely unbiased review of it it is completely game-changing especially if you're new to the game right so I'm a little more advanced right I'm not gonna say I'm a professional I've been doing this for years right but I know what I'm doing Okay and I understand things but for someone who is brand new and even for me the training on here is top-notch there is nothing in the market anywhere near this and that's 100% truth okay and once again this isn't completely free but they have revamped the whole website Where it's so simple to get involved and I'll have a link below to get into it but this is the 15 day challenge okay this just breaks down and rebuilds your entire mindset teaches you how to make a business from start to finish and then also the thing that I really truly love Is the marketers Club and this is only $30 a month and they show live classes every week and it's just insane they have all these interviews with Kevin Harrington from shark tank Nathan Lucas from YouTube right freedom influencer mark harbert and then they have the journey to 250,000 subscribers with Nathan Lucas and then they have all this stuff look 12 videos 149 minutes for videos 42 minutes six videos 66 minutes nine videos 84 minutes this stuff is insane and David Sharpe me and him relate a lot right he went through heroin addiction I went through heroin Addiction and when you go through stuff like that you truly see the world from a different angle right and I haven't really talked about this stuff on my youtube channel much but I'm not just saying this to try and sell you right I truly believe that this could change Your life and make you see the other side right it's all about mindset it truly is so I really hope you enjoyed these websites but even if this is the only one you choose and this is the one I suggest you can change your life guarantee it's gonna be the First link in the description my number one recommendation and I'm not gonna tell you that it's easy just like I said before nothing's easy online there's no easy way to make money in life right but this if you work it it will reward you so much more than any job or freelancing Or anything like that I promise you so if you're ready to work and you're ready to make some money this is the number one recommendation hundred percent so again first link in description and if you want to learn more about affiliate marketing make money online you can watch these videos Right here but just make sure to press my face right here so you can subscribe to the channel to see more videos just like this one and if you really liked it give me a like and that's all I got I'll catch you next week [ad_2] #Websites #Day #Perfect #Beginners For More Interesting Article Visit : https://mycyberbase.com/
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Tipping and Ad-free Tumblr (and Post+ a little bit)
I just noticed, totally by accident, that Tumblr has introduced tipping. It's only for people in the USA for now (as in, only people in the USA can enable it on their blogs), but I love this as a thing?!
Subscribing to lots of individual creators' content in an ongoing way, like with Patreon, isn't a realistic option for me but I do love being able to pay people for making stuff I enjoy if they don't have a thing for actual sale that I can buy.
I also really like the idea of being able to enable tips (Tumblr, please make this available elsewhere) because I don't want to sell books, short stories etc but it would be awesome for people to be able to contribute something if they want to and are able to. This is how I'm planning to publish my work on my own website and being able to do it on other sites would be epic!
Also, the ad-free subscription. I know this is probably very unpopular-opinion of me, but I'm all for that. Websites, especially big ones, cost an absolute fuckload to run. I used to work for a very large creative platform and it blew my mind that people got legit ANGRY, as if they were being horribly exploited, about having the option between paying for a subscription or seeing some ads and using the site and all its services for free.
Yes, it would be beautiful if everything in the world could be free. Yes, it fucking SUCKS not having enough money to pay for things (not going to get all life story on you, but I promise I am very familiar with that experience on a pretty catastrophic level). But paid subscription or free-with-ads is a very normal internet thing and $4.99 per month/$39.99 per year is not an unusual amount to charge for a sub to a website you use all the time.
That last bit. The all the time bit. If you can't afford to pay for no ads, or you aren't bothered about ads, or you feel very strongly about not paying for websites you use for whatever reason, this isn't for you. If you can afford to pay for no ads, you are bothered by ads, and you're ok with paying for stuff and/or actively want to support things you get a kick out of on the daily, it's not a terrible idea to be able to do that if you choose to.
Same with tipping. And Post+ actually, although I know very little about it. If you can't afford to engage with those things or don't want to, fair enough. Cool. You do you. The option is absolutely there to simply not.
But seeing people complain about subscription formats existing at all blows my mind. While we live in a world where it costs money for services to exist (yes, a website to share your creative work and consume other people's, or even just where you share and enjoy memes and fun stuff, is a service) and where individual people need money to live, having options for people who can afford to contribute to do that is surely a good thing.
I fully get that not everyone is going to agree with me here. Maybe this is partly an age thing? I don't know. I'm old as shit - 41, which is pretty much a reanimated corpse in Tumblr years (and I've been here under different usernames since Tumblr started, so I'm not a new person Having An Opinion without understanding).
Maybe it's also about being deeply invested in people being able to explore options for making money through creativity outside of a limited range of societally imposed structures of labour. I'm chronically ill and disabled (which I never talk about here, but hi, here it is), and while I can absolutely do things, I am literally unable to perform to the required level within those existing external structures of labour (which I know, because I did it for years out of necessity and it's kind of miraculous I'm still breathing tbh).
There's a massive difference between being able to do things and being able to do specific things within externally set boundaries, with externally set requirements, and with the consistency and reliability necessary to earn a regular income from employers, clients and customers. OK, tangenting. Back on track.
I'm not saying everything should be one particular way because it suits me. I'm saying let there be options, even if they're not your ideal options. Open up new possibilities. Open up ALL the possibilities. Let people do beautiful chaotic creative things outside of highly gatekept systems where those things wouldn't be accepted and still thrive. Let these options exist and evolve. Let them have fully-featured, active, well-funded platforms to exist and evolve that don't vanish overnight because there wasn't enough money.
Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
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hello hello mädchen <3 i hope you're doing good today and it is lovely where you are
i am slowly feeling better thank you - i'm still have trouble with sleep but i hope that it gets better soon. 😢😢😢 your words. you are super amazing too and so kind. i feel we have very similar tendencies too and it's a really good thing sometimes but can also be a not so good thing. idk if you've tried this but i'm trying to try less hard? not that like i don't want to work hard but it feels like sometimes i cross that line where it's too much and it actually makes it worse? like to let go enough to be able to appreciate my work as opposed to try and kill myself over it? idk i don't know if it will work but i want to try? i've just moved to a new agent/rep that will hopefully be better for my mental health just cause they seem nicer and will stress me out less.
your job sounds really thorough though. do you enjoy it? i 100% agree with you though! i like to buy good quality clothes too, but that's probably because i really don't buy loads either so each piece feels like an investment? what did you get? is it warm where you are? or have you been investing in more wintry stuff? i so so rarely get multiple versions of albums! i always really to but then i wonder if i;m going overboard and if i end up looking at the photobooks? i got the comma and xiesta photobooks last year and now i'm not sure if i wanna sell them on to a monbebe that will appreciate them more? hmm just me overthinking probably? leather platform shoes sound AMAZING. hahah i do the same though if i know i want to spend some money so i usually wait for the following month sometimes even though i know i'm gonna get the thing anyway? haha.
i'm back to heaven as my fave now!! i'm so so so looking forward to mx eng2 but i agree with you. like these careers are so so so short i'm sure they're aware of this and just want to live their career to their full.
ahhhhh 😢😢😢i love you lots and honestly i was so scared my last year of uni too. i don't think older generations get how much harder it is for people our age when we leave uni and stuff to just start a live that is nice and happy and fulfilling. so you're not alone and honestly even now i feel the same way just after i left uni. BUT you know you have the ability and that means you'll always be able to find a way. i was gonna buy five versions of an album today so i am deffo not the most responsible haha XD but thank you and also know that being insecure means that you're human and not an asshole because honestly all the people that were so overconfident that i've ever known (and i don't mean like - putting it on to help them get through stuff or performing but legit thought they were all that) have all been assholes. so it means you have a good heart and you will always find a way. i don't deserve being looked up to honestly but i'm honored you think i am <3 i'll always keep working hard - i wish i could give you a hug in person and let you know that things will be okay! please always feel ok to tell me your troubles and anything as well. am always here for anything you need too <3
love you lots and lots and lots xxxxx 🦢
babe i am finallyyyyyyyyyy answering this now ;___; i'm so sorry i kept u waiting but i wanted to answer this with all of my attention and not when i was busy bc that wouldn't have been fair to u :( so i hope u have been well and thank u so much for being patient !!! also u used my full name ........ what if i loved u with my whole heart <3
have u finally been able to get the rest you need ? i know work can keep our anxieties on high alert, which makes us even more inclined to burn out :( i hope u are able to rest well soon and not worry too much about work in the future ;____; but like i always say i'm really proud of u for pushing thru anything bubbie like u could easily just give up or have a mental block but if there's one thing i know both of us pride ourselves in it's always finding a way to handle stress no matter what the cost it does to our mental heath etc ....... which could be a bad thing but also there's lots to be said about how our work ethic is right ?? also LDSKFJS not trying hard .......... i think u mean like not stressing myself over every little thing right? there's a saying "don't cry over spilled milk" like CHILL it's okay it's just a mistake just clean it up and move on :') i really wish i can learn this mentality in the future ...... i just don't have those types of ppl around me in nursing school bc all of us are always on edge so i think i'm missing ppl like that in my life (besides my family but to an extent they can be classified as type A personalities too skjflfj) but anyways; u said u moved onto a new agency?? i hope that works well for u and they are able to allow u to grow and create things freely <3 good luck !!!
my job is just okay !! i won't be doing this in the future but it's nice to know that for a fact i don't think i could work in an office setting like this for the rest of my life HHH but it's okay, i don't mind organizing things for other ppl esp if it will help the company in the long run !!! and about my clothes SLKDFJ i totally agree !!! like we said we don't like our bank account hitting below a certain number so everything i buy is like an "investment" like u said hehe so most of the things i buy for example jeans are over $70 for me but i know i'll probably go a whole year not buying another pair and wearing those most likely everyday lol u know ? it's very warm where i am (most days lol) so i've been buying some light weight clothing !!! i don't like wearing jean shorts or anything like that, my fav material to wear in the summer is linen and cotton so i've been buying a lot of flowy linen pants <3 i got a pair from the store madewell, and bc i was on holiday this week i went to this one swimsuit store called everything but water and they sell pricier swimwear but i get so fed up trying to go to cheaper stores to look for swim tops bc i have bigger boobs hhhh and nothing makes me feel comfortable in my own skin so i don't mind spending money on something i feel comfortable in !! anyways i bought a bathing suit from there and then i think that's it ?? i was going to buy some jo malone perfume but it's so expensive so i didn't ;____;
U ARE BACK ON THE HEAVEN TRAIN WOO HOO <3 lol it is such a good song ....... i told u it's in my top 3 comfort songs <3 and about the eng album !!! yes i totally agree, i think they're aware of how much they're doing and honestly i think they should take advantage at every opportunity that comes their way as long as they feel that have control of the situation :)
and ALL OF THIS LAST MESSAGE MADE ME CRY WHEN I READ THIS :((( i tell my mom about all my anons lololol and she knows about u and ur work and i read this last part to her and she thought it was so sweet of u to say ;_____; it's kinda comforting knowing i am not the only one who has these doubts about the last year of uni :( i don't get much feedback from my family (besides my mom and grandparents) about if they're proud of me or not , i don't think they really get how hard it is for me being a nursing student but i just want to do well at whatever i do :( i want to be able to look at myself and go "hey u know what ur doing and ur doing really well".... i just hope i get there someday ;____; i have so many anxieties and maybe i need to talk to someone about them bc i think they hinder my nursing performance rather than help me but just knowing someone like u cares out there ........ i mean u know me but we have never met and u are so sure about my abilities and i can't tell u how thankful i am for someone like u <3 truly brings tears to me eyes <3 i want to give u a hug too :( thank u for ur kind words always i could cry right now ;_____;
#asks#💥 anon#angel thank u so much for being patient i know i kept u waiting for a little while#i love u and thank u for always being here for me :( i love u like no other :(#pls take care of yourself this week for me okay? i'll be here if u need it !!!! love u !!!!!!!
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Hiiii. Person from the ugly room here lol thank you so much for your answer. My room is so stupidly small I dont think any small changes could be done to fix it and make it fucking less ugly. So I've been taking measures of stuff in my room and thinking of ideas to hor to remodel my room. The other day I told my mom about it and I thought she wouldn't ñet me because that would mean to get a new bed, but she was chill and said yes. So I've been thinking about if remodeling my room is really worth it. Due to the pandemic, the country I'm moving to has a new covid variant so there's probably gonna be a new lockdown and a new flare up. Besides there is some fucking family issues on my mom's family and I'd like to stay and advise her and help her stay her ground (she's very fucking soft) at least until the first anniversary of my grandpa's death (died first semester of last year) because then I think things will be much less tense. So I've decided to wait until June 2021 because I think then I'll have a clearer vision of these things. If everything goes right, it would take me another six months to finish my paperwork, rent an apartment there, etc. So I'll have my new room for maybe a year if everything goes smoothly perfect and maybe 1 year and 1/2 or 2 years if shit gets real. Do you think its worth it to get my new room?
It sounds like your room really bothers you, so I do think it’s worth it to change some things around if you’re going to be there for the next year or two. But I really don’t think you need to invest in big pieces like beds, and it might be worth saving the money for your move. There are lots of things you can do to change up the look of your room without spending a ton of money. If you want to tell me what your room looks like, I’m super happy to give specific suggestions, but here are a few ideas I had off the top of my head.
To make your room look bigger, hanging a mirror or two (or tons of small mirrors) can make a huge difference because it gives the illusion that the room is twice as big:
You can often get small mirrors in bulk for cheap:
If you have a window, hanging your curtains a few inches above the window frame can help to make the space appear taller. Choosing light, breezy fabrics like linen will also increase that feeling of airiness and space:
You can create the same effect with two-tone paint. The light paint will pull your eye upward, creating the illusion that the space is taller than it is:
Using the vertical in other ways can also make your room seem bigger. Hang shelves near the ceiling or all the wall up your wall to add storage space and extend the visual line, or put up floor-to-ceiling artwork:
You can also wallpaper or add other accents to the ceiling to make your room feel taller. You could even make accents out of tape for a high-impact, low-cost change:
Using a light, monochromatic color palette will help to make the room feel more open and airy, and you can achieve it by changing out just a few details (blanket, pillow covers, sheets). You could even paint your walls a light color (if they’re not already) or add a white rug to open the space:
A monochromatic room with a pop of color can also be really visually interesting:
Wallpaper can also really change how a room feels. You can get “peel and stick” wallpaper, which tends to be inexpensive and is removable for when you move out:
Stripes can elongate your space visually, even when the room is small. Try adding an inexpensive rug, a striped duvet cover, or even striped walls:
You can even create a gallery wall just with items you’ve printed from the internet and some cute tape, which gives the whole room a new feel without costing much:
Another tape-related hack you can try is creating a headboard:
If you have a little more DIY know-how, you can make a headboard for yourself with pretty much any materials you can find:
This one was made with mirrors from the dollar store:
You can also try just moving the furniture that’s already in your room around. Maybe put it against a different wall, or position it at an angle.
Adding storage can help to make your space feel bigger (by removing clutter) and more peaceful, while also giving you the opportunity to add a new, interesting piece:
My point is, if you’re creative (or just google enough “bedroom decoration DIY” projects), there are a lot of things you can do to change the look of your bedroom without feeling like you’ve made a big investment that you’ll regret when you move. And plus, it gives you a project to focus on for the next few months until the world starts getting back to normal.
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Don't be an asshole; don't be like Trump. Give a fuck.
I'm not and have never been a liberal (I've never voted for a Clinton) - I'm a registered Independent and always have been, and I agree with every word of what's below the dotted line.
I don't consider this to be a liberal standpoint at all. I consider it to be a "I'm not an asshole" standpoint, or a "We could solve these problems if we actually gave a fuck about other people" standpoint, but too many people in power or privilege are too threatened by these ideas. They think liberty and dignity and rights are finite commodities, and if someone gets equal amounts, another person might get less - less liberty, less dignity, fewer rights. This is stupidity in action, but Americans, in general, are not known for critical thinking, and politicians prefer citizens dumb and pliant.
Think again. In a country that put a man on the moon and won two world wars, we can't solve these problems? Sure we can. But we won't because too many people are too happy to let their neighbors suffer. If you're one of them, read this, then go slam your hand in a door, then come read it again and get a fucking clue...maybe the pain will help you think clearer and you can salvage some of your humanity.
You're welcome.
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"I'm getting a little tired of being told what I believe and what I stand for. I'm liberal, but that doesn't mean what a lot of you apparently think it does.
Let's break it down, shall we? Spoiler alert: Not every liberal is the same, though the majority of liberals I know think along roughly these same lines:
1. I believe a country should take care of its weakest members. A country cannot call itself civilized when its children, disabled, sick, and elderly are neglected. Period.
2. I believe healthcare is a right, not a privilege. Somehow that's interpreted as "I believe Obamacare is the end-all, be-all." This is not the case. I'm fully aware that the ACA has problems, that a national healthcare system would require everyone to chip in, and that it's impossible to create one that is devoid of flaws, but I have yet to hear an argument against it that makes "let people die because they can't afford healthcare" a better alternative. I believe healthcare should be far cheaper than it is, and that everyone should have access to it. And no, I'm not opposed to paying higher taxes in the name of making that happen.
3. I believe education should be affordable and accessible to everyone. It doesn't necessarily have to be free (though it works in other countries so I'm mystified as to why it can't work in the US), but at the end of the day, there is no excuse for students graduating college saddled with five- or six-figure debt.
4. I don't believe your money should be taken from you and given to people who don't want to work. I have literally never encountered anyone who believes this. Ever. I just have a massive moral problem with a society where a handful of people can possess the majority of the wealth while there are people literally starving to death, freezing to death, or dying because they can't afford to go to the doctor. Fair wages, lower housing costs, universal healthcare, affordable education, and the wealthy actually paying their share would go a long way toward alleviating this. Somehow believing that makes me a communist.
5. I don't throw around "I'm willing to pay higher taxes" lightly. If I'm suggesting something that involves paying more, well, it's because I'm fine with paying my share as long as it's actually going to something besides lining corporate pockets or bombing other countries while Americans die without healthcare.
6. I believe companies should be required to pay their employees a decent, livable wage. Somehow this is always interpreted as me wanting burger flippers to be able to afford a penthouse apartment and a Mercedes. What it actually means is that no one should have to work three full-time jobs just to keep their head above water. Restaurant servers should not have to rely on tips, multibillion-dollar companies should not have employees on food stamps, workers shouldn't have to work themselves into the ground just to barely make ends meet, and minimum wage should be enough for someone to work 40 hours and live.
7. I am not anti-Christian. I have no desire to stop Christians from being Christians, to close churches, to ban the Bible, to forbid prayer in school, etc. (BTW, prayer in school is NOT illegal; *compulsory* prayer in school is - and should be - illegal). All I ask is that Christians recognize *my* right to live according to *my* beliefs. When I get pissed off that a politician is trying to legislate Scripture into law, I'm not "offended by Christianity" -- I'm offended that you're trying to force me to live by your religion's rules. You know how you get really upset at the thought of Muslims imposing Sharia law on you? That's how I feel about Christians trying to impose biblical law on me. Be a Christian. Do your thing. Just don't force it on me or mine.
8. I don't believe LGBT people should have more rights than you. I just believe they should have the *same* rights as you.
9. I don't believe illegal immigrants should come to America and have the world at their feet, especially since THIS ISN'T WHAT THEY DO (spoiler: undocumented immigrants are ineligible for all those programs they're supposed to be abusing, and if they're "stealing" your job it's because your employer is hiring illegally). I'm not opposed to deporting people who are here illegally, but I believe there are far more humane ways to handle undocumented immigration than our current practices (i.e., detaining children, splitting up families, ending DACA, etc).
10. I don't believe the government should regulate everything, but since greed is such a driving force in our country, we NEED regulations to prevent cut corners, environmental destruction, tainted food/water, unsafe materials in consumable goods or medical equipment, etc. It's not that I want the government's hands in everything -- I just don't trust people trying to make money to ensure that their products/practices/etc. are actually SAFE. Is the government devoid of shadiness? Of course not. But with those regulations in place, consumers have recourse if they're harmed and companies are liable for medical bills, environmental cleanup, etc. Just kind of seems like common sense when the alternative to government regulation is letting companies bring their bottom line into the equation.
11. I believe our current administration is fascist. Not because I dislike them or because I can’t get over an election, but because I've spent too many years reading and learning about the Third Reich to miss the similarities. Not because any administration I dislike must be Nazis, but because things are actually mirroring authoritarian and fascist regimes of the past.
12. I believe the systemic racism and misogyny in our society is much worse than many people think, and desperately needs to be addressed. Which means those with privilege -- white, straight, male, economic, etc. -- need to start listening, even if you don't like what you're hearing, so we can start dismantling everything that's causing people to be marginalized.
13. I am not interested in coming after your blessed guns, nor is anyone serving in government. What I am interested in is sensible policies, that just MIGHT save one person’s, perhaps a toddler’s, life by the hand of someone who should not have a gun. (Got another opinion? Put it on your page, not mine).
14. I believe in so-called political correctness. I prefer to think it’s social politeness. If I call you Chuck and you say you prefer to be called Charles I’ll call you Charles. It’s the polite thing to do. Not because everyone is a delicate snowflake, but because as Maya Angelou put it, when we know better, we do better. When someone tells you that a term or phrase is more accurate/less hurtful than the one you're using, you now know better. So why not do better? How does it hurt you to NOT hurt another person?
15. I believe in funding sustainable energy, including offering education to people currently working in coal or oil so they can change jobs. There are too many sustainable options available for us to continue with coal and oil. Sorry, billionaires. Maybe try investing in something else.
16. I believe that women should not be treated as a separate class of human. They should be paid the same as men who do the same work, should have the same rights as men including decisions about their own bodies, and should be free from abuse. Why on earth shouldn’t they be?
I think that about covers it. Bottom line is that I'm liberal because I think we should take care of each other. That doesn't mean you should work 80 hours a week so your lazy neighbor can get all your money. It just means I don't believe there is any scenario in which preventable suffering is an acceptable outcome as long as money is saved."
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