#everyone treats me so onviously like a cis man that its like. doesnt even occur to me to be upset | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

marmorenshud · 1 year ago

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I remember when I read a lot of 'being called sir at the store' as a gender euphoric thing and while I did get that experience when being called 'he/him' etc we generally don't refer to each other as sir/madam here so that specific gender thing I never got

all that preample just to say. I was on the plane and got called sir by an east european man speaking english and. even tho I am 4 years on t and been passing for a long while now I was just like. woag. It was almost like being transported back to being called 'him' for the first time. crazy

#caw #idk how to end posts #like he/him is so normal to me now and ofc it should be #but being called sir its so uncommon it was almost like being called lord #like....#also that post abt at some point transphobia just becomes funny i have double ds the waitress thinks you have dementia grandpa #generally my extended family calls me the right things etc #but my grandpa dropped a she and continued to do so throughout the visit #and i just like. didnt rven really react with anything other than like confusion #everyone treats me so onviously like a cis man that its like. doesnt even occur to me to be upset #like when my long haired cis friends get confused for a woman and they just react with confusion #it was very refreshing to be so far removed from dysphoria #just fully out here living the cis lifestyle hello

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