#ever since cutting my hair short/more masc its always “wear more jewelry cause you know..” and “you wear more make up”
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youd think that out of all my homophobic/transphobic family members that my queer ally mother wouldn't be the one forcing me to present more feminine
#like excuse me???#ever since cutting my hair short/more masc its always “wear more jewelry cause you know..” and “you wear more make up”#and its pissing me off#cause i do want to and like too but not in a “i want to be perceived as feminine” way and it just feels ruined#i want to be able to do it on my own terms#idk of its a protection thing? like she doesnt want me to me misgendered but she knows i dont mind it#cause its only ever in passing from people i’ll never see again and i do sort feel complimented#that people arent perceiving me as strictly fem and i can be androgynous#like my mom knows my pronouns so why is she pushing me to be feminine#yeah 👍#if youre seeing this#sorry#i need a journal i know#im just so so pissed#vent#personal#gender stuff#it took late for this#good night#vio yaps
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