#ever had have been friendships!! theres nothing inherently better about romance than friendship fight me about this (maybe im biased cuz im
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blue and pink and i mean that in the most platonic way possible asjdkhfjdhf
awwww <3 we shall have a summer friend wedding :) <3
#i get u i get u...might have to frickin go off about this in the tags#where is the respect for nonromantic and nonsexual relationships where is it why cant we appreciate friendships#yeah im guilting of this but why does everything have to be romantic cant ppl be friends??? the closest and most important relationships ive#ever had have been friendships!! theres nothing inherently better about romance than friendship fight me about this (maybe im biased cuz im#ace but even if i wasnt. sure sex is fun but have u tried having friends????)#anyway. anyway what i am saying is why try to read romance into everything its so awful being friends with other wlw and having to#specify that everything affectionate u do or say u mean in a platonic way!! like maybe this is whats behind wlw feeling like theyre being#predatory even tho theyre not????#that fear that u being friendly will be read as an unwanted advance????#let ppl be friends!!!!!!! and let them be affectionate w their friends without it having to be romancey!!!! let me joke about marrying my#friends pls i am begging.... on that note honestly i would marry a friend. id get married in a friend way i need that kinda stability in#my life.. a life partner whos my best friend?? that sounds sick man sign me up#but i digress. the POINT is that friendships r valid and not everything has to be romantic and we as a society should stop reading romance#into everything bc im salty that every time i try to be extra nice to my wlw friends i have to specify i don't mean it romantically#let me tell my wlw friends i love them in a platonic way pls!!!!!#******guilty#im not goin back and typing all that yall can live with my typos#and ofc all this coexists with gender roles where women are allowed to be much more physically affectionate w friends so often its#impossible to tell whether someone is romantically interested or just being friendly.... lots of layers to this one#the point is im love my friends and i wanna tell them that without it being read romantically. that's the point#ask#misty.txt
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