#especially in a community where gays are already at each others throats for a variety of stupid insignificant shit

[redwoodrroad]

what’s the difference between a bear 🐻 and a twink 🍰🍦

not that im an expert but bears are usually burly and twinks are usually effeminate. theyre not like opposites on a scale, and you can be both fat and effeminate and still be a twink. you can also be both fat and effeminate and still be a bear. it’s about the vibe ultimately

this might be a hot take but i have never really been the type of person who cares about labels, so for me, if someone calls themselves a bear, i’ll accept it no matter how they look. it’s about the vibes and it’s about how the label makes YOU feel while using it. if using a certain label makes you feel good, you should use it! it doesnt really matter, if some mean gays try to say “you cant use that because you dont look like it fits for you” then fuck them honestly