#especially child celebs ESPECIALLY child celebs who are heavily online

[greencarnation]

never thought this would need to be said but don't make percy jackson thirst edits of the show it's fucking weird. even if you're their age it's still fucking weird to be sexualising children online

[diorbabe66]

Y’all really got to stop blaming celebrities for your insecurities regarding your appearance. Whether these celebrities have gotten work done or not they’re not telling the world that how they look is how everyone else should look and that their beauty is the beauty standard.

Just because they have a large following doesn’t make them responsible for your insecurities. They’re not forcing you or even promoting it to you too look exactly like them. If they got work done then they did something to make them feel better about themselves and now they’re just doing what most people do nowadays which is just post selfies and crap. And just because they’re posting their selfies and they look good and you get jealous because you want to like how you look but don’t doesn’t mean you need to place the blame for your insecurity on the first celeb you saw who you find pretty and made you acknowledge your insecurities.

Like I’m sorry you feel insecure about yourself but you have got to stop blaming these celebrities. Especially if you’re reading this here that means you know about manifesting and that you’re the god of your reality so you’re in control of everything. So instead of continuing the cycle of blaming celebrities on your insecurities and feeling insecure create a new story and get rid of your insecurities.

And before someone’s like “but they make young impressionable girls feel bad about themselves and promote impossible beauty standards!!” NO! Lmao. First, clearly nothing is impossible especially if those celebrities who are “promoting impossible beauty standards” already achieved those “impossible beauty standards” you speak off. Secondly, it’s no one else’s responsibility to raise your children. If your young child is able to access social media and see whatever they see that sounds like a parenting problem and not the celebrities. Especially when most of these celebrities clearly do not cater to young children because their grown adults with adult content. So where do we go from here?

And obviously this excludes the celebrities who may actually promote and tell you to look like how they look. And who are toxic and want their following to be toxic like them. Let’s not act dense here and try to use things that I obviously exclude/do not include in my “argument”.

Oh and one more thing a lot of y’all like to think you’re above getting surgery but if most people had the chance to alter their appearance with surgery lots of people would jump at that opportunity in a heartbeat.

Okay one final thing. Your appearance is just apart of your vessel. The vessel you’re in now to experience this human life. And just like everything and everyone else in your reality its easy to change and doesn’t truly matter. So y’all have to stop wasting your life with this whole “beauty standard” and appearance talk. Manifest your ideal appearance and go live your ideal life! There’s so much life to live that’s way beyond talking about yours or other people’s appearance 24/7. Plus, you can also just manifest a beauty standard you approve of for your reality because after all you did unconsciously manifest the beauty standard that exists in your reality right now.

there are certain celebrities that photoshop their pictures and obviously we all know how society is heavily based on looks and aesthetic so of course people are gonna try to achieve that most importantly there are children online (sadly) who see these things and try to emulate it, it does cause deep insecurities in certain people so much so that it causes eating disorders etc.

[jokers-sweethearts]

No parent is perfect so what areas do you think Jared would be heavily flawed in?

One thing I’ve discussed a lot is his work. I think Jared would struggle a lot not only separating work from his child but the amount of time he dedicates to work. His music, movies, other stuff is obviously very important to him but you have to cut back when you have a child. I think jared may make the mistake of over working a lot and not seeing it as a problem, so the child would have to confront the adult as opposed to the other way around. That also slides into his house situation. He may see it as good that the place he records is also the place he lives, but I think a child may see it as there’s no separation. A home is sort of supposed to be the place you go to to unwind and leave the rest of the world alone but if you work in your home then it’d be hard to do that. He constantly has people in and out and all over the place for work so I see a kid really struggling with that. Almost not feeling like they can let go and be comfortable 100% that way. With touring especially, that life can’t be easy on a kid. 

Some other things may include so strict he can be with certain things or how he let’s what he’s been through affect the child. Like his dad wasn’t around then his step dad skipped out so I think he’d have this overwhelming urge to always be present and involved but not know when to let the kid breath. Then because of his insecurity a bit and how he is with love, when the child says something he may take it as rejection or harsher than just “hey dad you’re being a helicopter”. Also hypocrisy may be a problem, I remember Jared saying him and Alessandro stayed out until the sun came up the night of the oscars. I see Jared being very very strict with curfews for his daughter so she’d have to be home by whatever time but then he’s out all night. And he wouldn’t budge on it and say he wants her home safe and he’s the adult blah blah plus a few other scenarios.

But the thing I think about most often is if he’d confront public/media problems. He’s very quiet and private about his life and doesn’t ‘make statements’ like other celebs do unless he absolutely has to and pretty much ignores all the gossip and shit on social media. Which has me always thinking like his kid would grow up in the social media age and have to deal with the clap back of what he does or gossip of who he’s dating, all the shit online for joker, et etc. His solution would probably be ‘just ignore it’ or something. I’m not sure I know how to explain it I’m sorry! 

I’m sorry this was so long and I rambled but all in all I’ll sum it up by saying, he seems to like to be in control and have things go his way and when they don’t he tries to direct it in his favor. I think he may lose sight of his kids feelings at times and just expect them to go on tour with him for example, etc etc. But once he’s confronted with it he’d make changes and it’s never malicious or anything like that. I see the dynamic not a very ‘normal’ father/child one. But they are growing and learning at the same time as well as Jared trying to direct them and parent.

[viralhottopics]

7 Famous White Feminists Im So Over

The Urban Dictionary

White Feminism is nowa popular term owing to the abundance of white celebs taking advantage of the movement to further their own interestand career, usually without extending female solidarity or tackling relevant social issues such as trans-womens rights, Hollywoods whitewashing, invisibility of the disabled, police brutality, cultural appropriation, or institutional racism.

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While this type of feminism raises a certain level of awareness to SOME feminist issues, it is harmful in that it paints a negative picture of the overall movement and thusgives dumb, ignorant boys an excuse to create sexist memes so they can call anyone who gets offended as Do not misunderstand me, I do not blame White Feminism as the sole reason why people, especially on the internet, immediately reject the importance and essence of feminism (sad online gnomes who are super bored with their lives and are desperate to be edgy should be held accountable for their own short-sightedness). My point is I would be very unglad if young women were led to believe by their idols that womens rights, solidarity, and empowerment are purely about #squadgoals, #actlikeaman, and #fuckdiets.

Rebecca Vorick, Feminism 101: What Is White Feminism?

Whether as individuals or celebrities, I dont hate the women that I will listbelow, but I do loathe their rejection of intersectional feminism, their habit of whining towards critics, and their collective willfulinabilityto acknowledge andlearn from their white privileged ways.

So here I present to you the role models for White Feminism and why they hella suck:

The Holy Trinity

1. Amy Schumer

Meghan Demaria

The first time I discovered Amy was from her movie after it got rave reviews from critics despite her character being obnoxiousas hell. Hollywood was abuzz with this funny, feminist, body-positive woman. Then I came across this article on her racist antics specifically about her controversial video parody of Beyoncs pro-black . I googled more and found out shes said a ton of racially insensitive things such as that time she joked Mexican men are rapists;or when she was bummed because no lesbians hit on her at a lesbian bar (was she thinking or what?); or when she implied men of color cat-call women more than white men do.

– If your career is built at the expense of minorities whom you mock and dehumanize, then your comedy is probably lazy, gross, and stale tbh. To quote Nathan Robinson but Amys jokes, as the Guardian explains,

If people pointout repeatedly you are racist and you can only respond along the lines of MAYBE you should self-reflectand make an effort to see WHY youre constantly criticized for your tasteless words instead of issuing another hollow Amys PR apologies, like many forced White Feminist apologies, count for nothing until she stops making feebleminded jokes that cater exclusively to a white American audience. Contrary to what Amy has claimed, she doesnt take responsibility for her words and doesnt use criticism against her in order to evolve as an artist and person. Instead she firmly stands her ground, proceeds to produce the same tired material, and shouts

TLDR, Amy, making and being slightly chubby does not a feminist make. No volume of laughter can drown out the fact youre a racist.

2. Lena Dunham

Lena, Lena, Lena. Oh, god, where do I begin?

Rebecca Carroll

If White Feminism were a video game, Lena Dunham would be that aggravating, seemingly unbeatable self-entitled boss villain at the end of the game that suddenly comes alive after you defeat it, cackling at you as it escapes into Video Game Part 2. Without her, the other mini-bosses might not have been enabled. She is the head of the White Feminist hydra whose foot-in-the-mouth diseasereaches far and wide.

"White Feminism" BINGO card. I have experienced ALL of these. Ugh. (From feministbingocards on Tumblr) http://pic.twitter.com/rUo4JubVeO

— Trudy (@thetrudz) February 6, 2015

Which brings me to why shes tied with Amy and why she is THE poster child for White Feminism (I only placed Amy first because I personally find her more unbearable). Because Lena, Amy, and friends are praised as feminist heroines, they and their careers get away virtually unscathed ifthey carelessly make racist, homophobic, or transphobic remarks. While Amy is guilty of proudly creating insipid humor, Lenas affronts are more unsettling.

Shes incredibly narcissistic as shown when she ranted (as in seriously, as in not a joke) about being offended by a black man not flirting with her and when she confessed shed never had an abortion but wished she had one (gurl, there are other ways to drawawareness on an issue without making it about yourself); her tv show supposedly represents feminism but only casts white girls and downplays sexual assault;she repeatedly objectifies black male bodies;she stated unbelievably ignorant gibberish about India and penned a sexist essay on Japan;she tweeted a racist joke about Asians; her view towards Rihannas abusive relationshipis perplexing; she doesnt acknowledge her success was heavily influenced by her wealthy familys connections; and she may have outed her sister to their parents without consent.

Theres also the questionable incident with said sister that Lena wrote of in her book I mean kids do weird crap and girls should be allowed to discover and explore their bodies and do naive stuff, but IDK what to sayabout this one so Ill just quote this anonymous comment on Jezebels article:

And this one by redditor scdi:

Plus this one by Victoria Brownworth:

While Im all for women being shameless in their self-love, theres nothing really new or groundbreaking with Lenas capitalist-centric feminism. Her work has indisputably raisedthe spotlight on important womens issues such as abortion and sexual autonomy, but is that enough given the harm shes done to feminism, to people of color, to LGBTQ+? She invites women to support her and her show because girl power, but hasnt bothered to address intersectionality and diversity, much less internalize any negative comments towards her regarding the above-mentioned stunts.

Lena Dunhams feminism is tone deaf. Theres nothing empowering about a classist, rich, privileged white girl who, like her counterpart Amy, contributes nothing profound or of actual substance for womens issues and is averse to improving her advocacy. I just I cant anymore. Lena, please ssssh.

If youre like me and youre done with Lena DONEham, check out some of the silly things shes saidhere.

3. Taylor Swift

My problematic fave! Who knew she was trouble when she walked in? T-Swizzles damsel-in-distress feminism may not be as toxic as Lena Dunhams, but its still clear as dishwater.

Taylor primarily rose as a status symbol for geeky shy girls, but even then people were already dissing Americas sweetheart. Somewhere along the way it became uncool to hate on Tay-Tay (whether legitimately or not), especially after Kanye stole her moment during the 2009 VMA.

Alas, regardless how polished and sweet your public persona is, if theres dirtunder all that sugar itll inevitably seep through bit by bit.Besides,any person who learns his/her feminism from Lena Dunham should not be trusted.

Ill sayTaylor is a hypocrite. Once upon a time she asserted she was not a feminist until one day she realized feminism is prettyradand helps her brandas an artist(plus it can be handy to dismiss your critics as). Of course its perfectly fine to change your opinion as you mature and learn from your initially confused view of feminism, but weve yet to see Taylor own up her missteps and strive for change.

She built an empire by portraying an angelic female whose biggest enemy is the sexualother female who steals her mans attention, and she exemplified this when she shit on Camille Belles career because Camille dated Taylors ex. She called her clique of BFFs to film a music video to drag Katy Perry after a feud. She accused Nicki Minaj of thereby overshadowingNickis discussion on her legitimate struggles as a black female artist and yet its Taylors character thats being assassinated? K.

Additionally, Taylor seems to be unaware of her privilege as a white woman; she culturally appropriates POC and uses them as props in her videos; her #squad is not inclusive; and her latest drama with Kanye contributes to the stereotypeof the angry black man vsthe innocent, faultless white woman. She also contendsthat if you are female and you do not support her, then there is aspecial place in hellfor you. Her self-serving feminism needs work because her white privilege is showing (and probably stressing out her PR team) and her constantly being marketed as a modern feminist despite her problematic-ness may detrimentally impact her young, impressionable fans.

For more examples of Taylor Swifts misguided feminism, I compiled a page of quotes on Quote Catalog which you can view by clicking here.

Honorable Mentions

4. Tina Fey

Jamie Peck

Tina, while undoubtedly very talented and funny, has stated in a 2009 Vanity Fair interview that (after her husband visited a strip club) she disapproves of strippers because “we need to be better than that”.Meanwhile she has no qualms about slamming sex workers as the punch line to her jokes. Self-worth does not equate to modesty, Tina!

Besides these, shewas complicit in a cast members terminationfrombecausethe actresswas not conventionally attractive. Then there was that episode from her other show that bordered on racist and the other one that parodied a famous doctors appearance which may or may not haveaddedto the doctors depression.

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5. Jennifer Lawrence

Ugh.

I wouldnt have included J. Law here but thenshe wrote that patronizing open letter about the US Presidential elections expressing that loving your neighbors was the answer to ending racial violence.

While were here, Ill point out she says a lot of dumb shitbelievingshes being quirky (like that time she roasted a foreign reporter for using his phones translator) when shes actually being an asshole. Recently she alsodesecrated and destroyed a sacred Hawaiian relic by scratching her butt on it because, again, she thought it was funny even after guides specifically asked herNOT to touch said relics. Ha. Ha. Ha. I guess?

Hopefully Hollywood realizes feminism isnt mainly about women eating pizzaandnot being a size zero.

6. Miley Cyrus

White Feminism, whats good?

Like every other proper White Feminist, Miley Cyrus uses the movement for her own agenda, exploits people of color, and remains mum on important topics such as Black Lives Matter. She is kind of an expert in perpetuating misogynoir and appropriating black culture. Like shes so good at profiting from black people and reformulating black culture into her own style (then whitesplaining about it) that Nicki Minaj called her out on the 2015 VMA stage.

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Thankfully, Mileys antics seems to have simmered down recently. Lets hope other White Feministstake heed.

7. Meryl Streep / Caitlyn Jenner / Tilda Swinton

This last one was confusing. Thereare just too many White Feminists to choose from! So I mergedthree instead.

Remember that time Meryl Streep erased black peoples struggles by saying or when Caitlyn Jenner (as important as her visibility is) transitioned butdenied that same right forother trans-people?; or when Tilda Swinton broke my GOT-fan-girl heart by playing the asian-friend card with Margaret Choto make herself feel better about accepting a role as a whitewashed character?

Hollywood is flocking with White Feminists who range from annoying to problematic to downright toxic. As much as Western Media tries to shove them down my throat as exceptional feminist figures, they do not successfully represent my generation, my gender or genders issues, or my feminism.

Alternatives?

If you want some examples of non-White Feminists, see: Zendaya, Angela Davis, Ariana Grande, Laverne Cox, Mia Mingus, bell hooks, Malala Yousafzai, Matt McGorry (yes, males can be good feminists, too),Amandla Stenberg, Carrie Fisher, etc.

Some of you may complain but pleaseread the sources. I encourage everyone, especially dissenters, to first click the links above if you have questions regarding the incidents, people, or statements written. The thought pieces/web pages the links lead to will likely be able to address your queries and offer more context and in-depth analysis regarding specific issues.

We need to become responsible for actively educating ourselves rather thanjeering should a feminist raise a concern. On the other hand, although its easy to call out White Feminists and leave it at that, this by itself will not help advance the feminist movement or strengthen solidarity. So if you spot a White Feminist, do not just call them out – call them in, too. Encourageothers to practiceintersectionalityand inclusiveness just in case they have not been schooled on the broader philosophies of feminism.

Last notes: critiquing White Feminist celebs does not diminish whatever kindnessthese ladies have done for othersor commendable work theyve accomplished in their fields or in charities (such as Meryls inspirational Golden Globes speech or Taylors altruism for her fans). You can simultaneously be a good celebrity and generous person, and still be a White Feminist.

Iacknowledge the celebrities mentioned may have already offered apologies or addressed certain matters.Thats fine– everybodys activism is messy or imperfect, and it is understandable that a public figures learning process can be more challenging. As long as one isvisibly trying to make an effort to do better it should be okay. Unfortunately most of the people I mentioned dont seem to care much.

Having well-meaning intentions that falter in execution is simply not good enough anymore.

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