#especially bc at the beginning of the year i had a horrible hair dresser appointment that left me super dysphoric
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tkbrokkoli · 9 months ago
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passed to a stranger for the first time ever yesterday c:
#not fandom related#personal log stardate#so it's not like ive not ever passed before like in my early teens i was read as a boy when being w other boys#but since being an adult it has never happened. ppl probably just read me as a butch lesbian#anyway yesterday i was at a concert and before going inside everyone's bag was checked and we were being pat down#ppl being read as men were pat down by men and ppl being read as women by women. not ideal#so i assumed i would be read as a woman so i went to one of the women but she looked at me and gestured for me to go on to one of the men#that rly caught me by surprise bc i dont think ive changed that much on T just yet. been on it only for almost 5 months#i do have some more hair on my chin and upper lip but that's only visible when up close. im letting my hair grow out rn as well#so ig i must be giving off the right ~vibes~ now or whatever. i was dressing the same as ive been for years too#made me giddy w happiness tbh#i know passing isnt the one and only and some ppl never pass and ig just bc ive passed to that lady yesterday#doenst mean ill pass to other ppl but it was a nice little moment for me personally#especially bc at the beginning of the year i had a horrible hair dresser appointment that left me super dysphoric#bc despite having booked a men's cut i was not read as a man at all. in fact after the appointment when i wanted to pay#the lady was like 'you booked a men's haircut but you're not a man right?' uuuughhghhgnnghjghjghjghjk
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