#equalparenting

[ultra-dinogogoglow]

https://t.co/IhqktHlzZ1 #equalparenting #parentblogger #parenthoodshared #parentalalienation #parentingproblems #parenthood #equality #stopparentalalienation #sharedparenting #changethelaws #fatherlife #dadlife #fatherslove #narcissist #fathersrightsmovement #washingtonstatefrm #parentblog #TotalReform ⚖👁 Our Manifesto is clear we want equality for everyone and government services/agencies should not be profiting from our children! Only WE can make this change, so please support us in any way you can. (at Birmingham, Michigan) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrxvAkKHiRz/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=14ws74h53j9fy

[stephenkrasner-blog]

The more people that take notice of what transpires in these ordeals—the better chance for success at impacting needed and necessary reforms. Available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B07B5L77QX/ref=cm_cr_arp_mb_bdcrb_top

[betsyharmonyblog]

It's something I've struggled with over the years as my mum was a feminist of the 60s and 70s.

I grew up with a strong sense of self and independence despite being surrounded by my dad, my two brothers and my mother telling me one thing but showing me a traditionally female role.

She was also one of the first business women in the UK to sign up and receive women's self employed business bursary and for this she was highly praised abd successful. It was unfortunate that other women put her down and practically destroyed a business that she built up from nothing. This was feminism in the 1980s. Trample your way to the top. I didn't understand it at the time.

I have always battled internally with my place in society and when I've been in a relationship I have stepped back and defaulted to become my mother in the role of mother and wife, looking after everybody and everything within that relationship acceot my own career needs. With the career I now have, a career that I always wanted and needed, it's been very difficult to deny myself that and yet I felt that my place was always in the home in a tradition role. I wasn't comfortable there and haven't had a successful long term relationship because of that.

I cherish the independence my mother gave me, the independence of thought and action, although at times I really haven't known what to do with it and sometimes I still struggle, but we have come so far in accepting equality or at least the notions of equality and there is continual dialogue which is positive. There are still giant steps to be made but we are a far cry from the feminism of the 60s and 70s and 80s. For that I thank my mum for bringing me up with a sense of worth and to be a woman, a person in my own right, and to be ok not to be comfortable in the stereotypical woman's role.

I also thank the women who have gone before me. Regardless of how misplaced some actions have been without them we wouldn't be having this conversation about equality now.

Although I have been confused throughout my life about what my role is I now know that there is nothing wrong with wanting, having and enjoying a stereotypical female role the same as there is nothing wrong with a man wanting that same role. All I know is I may be good at it but it really isn't right for me, and that's ok. I also hope that other women see and understand this from my stories and my actions and the next generation of women are even more confident and sure about their rights as women, as humans.

Let's keep moving forward 💞

[byjanna]

All I have to say is, “Have I told you lately?” (Thanks, @vanmorrisonofficial.) . #mates #mymates #matememoir #lovelines #lovequotes #quotes #realmarriage #meaningofwife #equalparenting #sharedparenting #vanmorrison #weddingsong #oursong (at Trees of Mystery) https://www.instagram.com/p/BunCEKnHcgN/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=5d4cfviy069b

[resilientmama]

The Malicious Mother

Everyone has heard the term “bitter baby mama.”

This is often used to describe women that will go to any lengths to make the lives of their children’s father miserable.

The clinical name for this is Malicious Mother Syndrome.

What’s an accurate description of Malicious Mother Syndrome?

“The divorce-related, malicious mother syndrome -- has been identified in cases in which mothers not only try to alienate their children from their fathers, but are committed to a broadly based campaign to hurt the father directly.

Women with this syndrome interfere chronically with visitation. Though they also engage in serious attempts to alienate the child from the father, they are not always successful.

Some examples of the more extreme behavior observed in such individuals include the following: making one's children sleep in a car to prove that their father has bankrupted them; burning down the house of the ex-husband: making false allegations of sexual abuse; manipulating other people to harass the ex-husband: spreading vicious lies about the ex-husband; trying to get the ex-husband fired from his job.”

In addition. these women are skillful liars, highly manipulative, and quite adept at recruiting others to participate in the campaign against the father.”

Sound familiar?

Chances are we all know someone experiencing an unavoidable “relationship” with a malicious mother.

Control is the main factor associated with this syndrome. The mother has lost the ability to control the marital relationship that’s ended, so the children become pawns to assert control on the father’s live with the children and life outside of the children.

Finances and new romantic relationships often probe Malicious Mother Syndrome to rear its ugly head.

Inability to cope with the reality that they don’t get to partake in the financial security of their ex partner, aside from child support, along with watching their ex flourish in a new, more stable relationship are hard factors for these women to cope with.

So what can they do? Alienate the children, attack the new partner, waste away as much of the father’s income as they can through litigation, medical bills accrued on the children’s behalf and extensive extracurricular activities they demand the father pay for outside of child support, spread as many rumors and lies that they can dream up to harm the father’s reputation.

Often their own story is voiced to anyone who they can get to listen. The father then has to walk around with a tarnished reputation feeling defeated because he is doing the most that he is required to do.

Extra visitation is denied. Severe stipulations are put on the visitation he does receive and as stated above, the mother will tell any lie she can get away with within the court room to secure the father is getting the bare minimum when it comes to what he is seeking in court.

Malicious Mother Syndrome correlates with parental alienation on almost all platforms, as the children aren’t the main focus - revenge is.

Tips for dealing with a malicious mother are very similar to co-parenting with a narcissist. 

Use a black and white method. 

Disengage.

Communicate as little as possible.

Remember that a narcissist projects.

Don’t take to heart any threats, accusations or blatant lies about you.

Don’t ever deviate from the schedule.

Don’t bear the brunt of emotion for your children.

Set hard boundaries.

Pinterest, equal parenting rights forums, your state’s law library and accredited mental health websites are excellent sources for becoming more educated on this syndrome, how it affects children and coping mechanisms for making it through your journey with a woman affected by this.

I have been a victim caught in the cross fire of this syndrome. When its said the mother will stop at no length, its not a joke. I’ve had an outside party throw themselves into my own court proceedings just to secure there was some kind of blow to throw at my own husband during his court hearings - to which he had to suffer a ludicrous repercussion. I really enjoyed having to take a recess during an important and life changing hearing for myself, so the opposing counsel’s attorney could take a phone call from the party voicing their side of the story. A story that had nothing to do with my hearing or the lives of my own children. 

I’m going to leave this post open-ended as it will relate to my next two posts about my sweet husband’s journey and the alienation of him from his two children.

Happy reading yall. Stay positive and I hope you’re having a good start to 2020. I know we are!

[fathersrightsmovementutah-blog]

#ChildSupport #support #qualitytime #fathersrights #tfrm #fathers4kids #Awarness #deadbeat #deadbeatdad #Utah #FamilyCourt #TheFathersRightsMovement #Father #Dad #Daddy #FathersRightsMovement #ParentalAlienation #PAS #PTSD #ParentalAlienationSyndrome #EqualParenting (at Utah)

[ultra-dinogogoglow]

One day...until then, just know that it wasn’t because I chose not to. #fathersmatter #WashingtonStateFRM #tfrmwa #Fathersrightsmovement #youarenotalone #stopparentalalienation #narcissist #fatherhood #fatherslove #dadlife #fatherlife #changethelaws #Support5050 #sharedparenting #equalparenting #equality #familylaw #familylawreform #parenthood #parentingproblems #parentalalienation #parenthoodshared #parentblogger #parentblog #dads #family #kids - #regrann Reposted from @tfrmwa (at Royal Oak, Michigan) https://www.instagram.com/p/BtdH6lmHsMs/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=3haj00iryydj

[level3edutech]

Happy International Men's Day Being a man means accepting responsibility in all the ways

[jbquinnon]

This man exposed one of his fans to be a Baby Mama Terrorist and how this system is designed to destroy men. 🖕🏾👨🏾‍🦲🖕🏾 Child Support. #fuckchildsupport #Movement4Fathers #babymamaterrorist #fathersrights #equalrights #dadsofinstagram #bestdads #prilaga #share #mrpalmer #fuckcps #equalparenting #dads #spreadawareness #instagram #washyourhands #tellyourstory #parentalalienation #dad #coparenting https://www.instagram.com/p/CE9N6b4BSee/?igshid=1liefsvzythf6

[prettymummasays]

Raising Sons and Daughters as Equals

Raising Sons and Daughters as Equals

I am I raising my son and daughter equally? This is something I often ask myself. Even though my children are still young and they may not object to a lot of things I tell them or ask them to do, the fear of being not equal to them is constantly on my mind.

I am a firm believer in Gender Neutral Parenting. Now, especially, when I have a daughter and a son, I have to put a conscious effort to stay…

[daddygrambox-blog]

For those who feel alone in the battle, please reach out. There are those who are working on making a difference. Follow @daddygrambox . . . . #strength #daddygrambox #familycourt #childrencomefirst #fathersrights #equalparenting #divorce #fathers #coparenting #fatherhood #parentalalienation #parenting #narcissist #childcustody

[arango54321]

Regrann from @tfrmwa - #WashingtonStateFRM #Fathersrightsmovement #fathersmatter #stopparentalalienation #narcissist #fatherhood #fatherslove #dadlife #fatherlife #changethelaws #Support5050 #sharedparenting #equalparenting #equality #familylaw #familylawreform #parenthood #parentingproblems #parentalalienation #parenthoodshared #parentblogger #parentblog #dads #family #kidsLeearango123 - #regrann

[byjanna]

Or in our case, the warmth of winter in Hawai’i seems just as sweet as the cold of summer in the Arctic. In case you haven’t heard how the northern ice turned us south, check out saildogbark blog. . #mates #mymates #matememoir #memoir #saildogbark #nwpassage #lovelines #lovequotes #quotes #realmarriage #meaningofwife #equalparenting #sharedparenting #docklife #cruisinglife #travellife #livinthedream #seasons #winter #summer (at Molokai) https://www.instagram.com/p/BuHS7h5HY-D/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=irjxeub9seal

[rebecca-edelmann]

Some time ago I read an article by a dad who was tired that people would ask whether he was ‘babysitting’ his children, as if it was an unusual thing for a man doing the things parents are meant to do, and I liked that. So here’s some badges I’m working on that celebrate the good guys, the men who don’t expect a pat on the back for the occasional nappy change, and who don’t see it as a big thing to be a parent looking after ones children. I chose a merman because I’ve always liked seahorse males carrying the eggs through gestation instead of the female, and thought perhaps this could be the same with mermaids, plus I think mermen can definitely carry off a cracking dad-bod. Still working out the design for these little badges but should have them in my Etsy shop sometime in the new year #greathusbandandfather #equalparenting #fulltimedad #fulltimeparent #celebratethegoodones #ceramics #etsyshop

[jonathanbintaro-blog]

Interaction. Inter-action #interaction #interactionpeople Everyone we interact with has the capacity to surprise us in an infinite number of ways. What can first open us up to each of our innate capacities for love is merely to recognize that Sharon Salzberg #simplejoys #equalparenting #interact #infinite #innatehealing #caringissharing (at Gua Kerep Ambarawa)

[fathersrightsmovementutah-blog]

#Family #support #qualitytime #fathersrights #tfrm #fathers4kids #Awarness #deadbeat #deadbeatdad #Utah #FamilyCourt #TheFathersRightsMovement #Father #Dad #Daddy #FathersRightsMovement #ParentalAlienation #PAS #PTSD #Fathers #FatherSon #FatherDaughter #ParentalAlienationSyndrome #EqualParenting (at Utah)