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#embrace the salt
uncanny-tranny · 11 months
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I love you smile lines and worry lines and grey and white hair and wrinkles and purple spiderweb veins and the process of aging and living in a body that is standing the test of times. I love you experiences that make you wiser and stories that make you laugh, and every little process that happens to get to the point where you have so many memories because you have the fortune to be here and be so radiant
#positivity#pro aging#also i hate you 'anti aging' scams that capitalize on fear of aging. death by 1000000 papercuts for ye#saw a hair video where they restored the salt-and-pepper colour in an older clients hair and it looked SO GOOD at the end#i love when people throw in the towel and embrace their aging however that looks#it isn't productive to shame people who are ashamed of aging and i just want to. celebrate aging#in a world that simultaneously venerates youth and adulthood and hates BOTH you need to find some sense of freedom#as a Young Adult(tm) please please PLEASE older folks seeing this/following me know that i look up to you#older folks i need you to know that your worth NEVER diminished when you added a new number on your birthday cake#and your body and mind and soul NEVER lost worth because it started to creak a little at the joints#and i might be wrong about this because i'm still young but it can be SO tempted to miss your youth when you feel like...#...you've somehow LOST part of yourself by growing older. and so much of aging is about change and some things don't stay the same...#...and that IS scary and i will never once fault somebody for that. but please don't fall into the trap that because you've aged that...#...you somehow have forever lost fundamental pieces of Who You Are and you could never come back from that...#...for your own sake and sanity you deserve to find comfort and solice and understanding in who you still are...#...because you are still - at the core - the same. you can never take this away from yourself#and i know this might ring hollow because i just don't get what it's like to be older#but i have looked at my elders and felt awe at their age and their experiences#and i know what that is like and it's awesome. i just wish more older people knew that so many of us look at you with awe...#...and - if you can believe it - some of us ENVY your age or experiences or even body#i'm watching an 'older' content creator (older by internet standards 🙄) and i envy him for how eventful his life was#i envy that he experienced a different world - one that i have only heard about from my dad because i was too young to remember it#and i admire this person for their wisdom and thoughts because they've come from his experiences living in a Different World#it's that type of stuff that makes me unafraid to keep on living#inspired by following somebody like. twice my age posting about their excitement abiut growing older and !!!!!!! YEAHHHHHH#didn't realize they were closer to my dad's age but that's so cool???????????
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thebookworm0001 · 3 months
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realistically i think varric's hair is darker now because he aged and many blonde people, myself included, end up looking pretty brunette as the years pass
it is, however, much funnier to think the man has always had dark hair and has been coloring it since da2
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tj-crochets · 17 days
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Hey does anyone else with one or more forms of dysautonomia* have a thing where if they have a moderate-to-severe physical stressor (like a severe allergic reaction, getting a vaccine, stuff like that), they get a new bonus dysautonomia for a few days to a few weeks? I thought it was a side effect of allergic reactions for me**, but this vaccine I had pretty much zero allergy symptoms but am having new issues, so I think it might be more general. A few times, I've had increased issues with low blood sugar for usually only a few days, but sometimes as much as a month or two after a severe allergic reaction. Once, I had waaaaay over-sensitive adrenaline reactions for a while (bad enough that I watched an episode of gamechanger and had to stop because I got too tense and my heartrate shot up). A few times, including this time, my thermoregulation seems to be very off. Like, it's not great in general, but now I am sweating so easily which is not normal for me (and not good with my salt issues) *my diagnoses that fall under that umbrella, more or less, include but are not limited to: salt wasting syndrome, POTS, possibly MCAS, tachycardia (separate from the POTS), and "something is weird about your endocrine system, maybe Addison's?" **I did bring this up with my allergist! He said "Allergies don't do that". I said "If it's not allergy related, then why does benadryl help?". He stared at me for a while, then said "I don't know. Allergies shouldn't do that"
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rosesutherlandwrites · 6 months
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Pausing for a deep breath this evening, and thinking of this scene from A Sweet Sting Of Salt. Thank you from the bottom of my heart to everyone of you here on Tumblr who have shown such kindness, enthusiasm, and support to Salty and me on our journey to this precious moment. There aren't words to express how much it's meant to me. You have, quite literally, changed my life. Tomorrow, this book isn't mine alone anymore...Salty belongs to you. With all my love, Rose
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aroaessidhe · 8 months
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2024 reads / storygraph
The Salt Grows Heavy
dark fairy tale novella
a deep sea mermaid and her children devoured her husband and destroyed his kingdom
now she and a mysterious plague doctor travel together, and come across a strange cult-like village of ageless children and dangerous saints
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shrikeseams · 16 days
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Torn between 'elves appreciate wigs as a display of artistry and enhancement of natural beauty' and 'elves think wigs are scandalous shallow and trashy like breast implants were 20+ years ago.'
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kyngsnake · 1 year
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dilf avery? 😳
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I’ve drawn Avery in his dilf era before but it wouldn’t hurt for me to draw him like this more often
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Dawn’s Embrace: Rafayel’s Private Trip
This is a recording of the entire memory/date of the card (not just the kindled part).
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iwasbored777 · 2 years
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I hate it that whenever I hear a Marinette stan it's always "she's not perfect but she's amazing and she's trying and she's always leaning towards the better and she's getting better and better" - which is how I feel and how they say it in the show too and it's totally ok and true, but for every other character the fans are always like "the most perfect character ever, the best and the only normal character ever in this show", and it sucks cuz no one in this show is perfect nor normal nor flawless and they've all made mistakes and I'm tired of pretending that Marinette is the only one for whom we can say so cuz you don't seem like real stans to me. You either accept both character's wrongs and rights and stan them for their rights only or you stan them for their wrongs only (which is something you do for villains mostly). But I'm sick whenever I hear someone turning a character into a saint who's never done anything wrong just because they like them. Every character is in their story and they do things that are right or wrong in their story and that's how it is. They all fight for their places and you don't have to love them all but stop acting like your favourite is immaculate and everyone else is bad.
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dootznbootz · 9 months
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lkjsf just wrote a scene tyfuihgujhkl Penelope being the Water Wife™, plays with Argos like this.
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motherhenna · 3 months
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dude the shinigami eyes extension sucks now??? I've had to fully remove it from chrome. I'm seeing perfectly reasonable, trans-friendly (or at least trans-neutral) creators getting marked red constantly for not being extreme far-left ideologues. Like SomeOrdinaryGamers has been turned red now because he made a video criticizing an absolutely despicable scam artist of a youtuber who happens to be trans, even while he continually affirmed the importance of LGBTQ rights. Several other perfectly reasonable creators have been marked red as well who may be a tad edgy sometimes and fall more on the centrist section of the spectrum but always use correct pronouns when discussing issues and never actually take issue with trans people existing and living their lives. Just more proof that our communities are turning into echo chamber hug boxes that can't handle even the slightest variation in outlook and behavior.
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OOC | Dad Fact #3
Glenn’s not really a Halloween guy, mostly because of his attachment to Christmas. In fact, Halloween was the day he hung up his outdoor Christmas decorations; after Nick was done trick-or-treating, the two of them would stay up late to celebrate and hang these things up.
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telltalebatman · 7 months
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i think the bi lesbian shit annoys me (a bisexual) so much bc it did take me quite some time to fully embrace the bi label instead of the pan bs, but after doing some research and talking and thinking i did come to a conclusion that it's a wonderful, inclusive term that doesn't need anything else - so why, pray tell, are other people so hellbent on slapping some bullshit modifiers on it!!!!!!!!!!!!
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mari-monsta · 2 years
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the ppl in my notes who have not seen adrien get hate for being weird i wish i was you because this website was borderline unusable a year or two ago because of how vocally people hated adrien for being weird actually
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steinbit · 2 years
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i cant believe im starting to find my first coupla grey hairs,,, ,
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transmutationisms · 1 year
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your post on r/running is so real...half the discussions i had w my college teammates was abt shitting in cornfields
ok this is truly like, the closest thing to a universal running experience. i never lived anywhere with cornfields but i have such a vivid core memory of being like halfway thru a xc 12k when i was 11 and just like entreating the heavens LMAO. it's literally a sport of gastrointestinal endurance
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