#dyke rant

[dykeweb]

“my love for her bleeds into my love for myself” but it doesn’t because she’s still so beautiful, women are so beautiful, and i feel so monstrous

[badolmen]

They don’t even attempt to assassinate US politicians anymore. You notice that? Not since the anthrax scare back for… who was it, Barack? And even that… pathetic. This new generation has no respect for an honest hitman. I’m not sure this new generation has any honest hitman - you see that shit with Boeing? Sloppy, fucking disgraceful - you kill the whistleblowers before they get halfway to a lawsuit. What kind of fucking amateur is doing faked suicides the night before testimony? Goddamn greenhorns. Back in my day someone tried to shoot Ronald Reagan in broad daylight. There used to be bomb threats to Congress. I took out a few union leaders in the utilities sector myself. Today’s generation? Won’t even threaten to throw a punch - not even over on that - what’s it now, ‘X’? They got no guts. None! And they don’t even have poor impulse control to boot! Too much of that - that panopticon anxiety bullshit. “Oh what if I get a called out post???” People used to send the president letters full of bioweapons. In the mail! Today’s generation? Not a chance. All because of woke.

[shanesevikasfuckdoll]

Girls with a tooth gap eat good pussy, you cannot convince me otherwise.

[burner-i-hardly-even-know-her]

why is tiktok so obsessed with hating on butch lesbians i hate all of you

[elle-girlylesbian]

I don't know if it makes sense but I'm not a goddamn ''girl who likes girls 🥺''

I'm a lesbian. I'm a dyke. I'm attracted to women, and there's a fucking word for it so imma use it.

I'm so tired of people seeing my sexuality as less than because it doesn't revolve around men.

Yes I'm a fem, doesn't mean I'm not gonna yell at you if you spit homophobic bullshit next to me ?

Yes I'm a fem, it does not mean I want you to shoot your shot at ''being the dick that's gonna turn me''

Yes, I look girly, it does not mean you can talk badly about masc, butch or any goddamn less feminine presenting lesbian near me.

Me being a lesbian isn't an opportunity for you to tell me about how you'd like to be attracted to women because it just seems ''so much easier''

I'm a lesbian, not a fucking wet dream for your rat looking boyfriend.

Fuck, sorry, I'm just so goddamn tired sometimes

[vampireharpy]

Imagine just getting a taste and being so desperate for more you arch a whaler 🙄🙄🙄

[whyalesbianstakingtestosterone]

Do you ever look at your partner and think “woah. They r the hottest person alive. How did I even manage to bag them?” and you just lose all interest for other people? I mean you find others aesthetically pleasing and attractive, but your body only reacts to your partner and they r the only person occupying your mind. No matter what they r wearing, how r they looking, you’re just so down bad for them that something is purring every time you see them?

Or is it just me?

[butch-bf]

yeah we all know (and love <3) all the butches with masculine personality; and let me make it clear that you’re all loved and valid!! but let’s talk about butches that cannot or simply don’t want to get rid of their “feminine” traits and energy.

like seriously i could never kill a spider without screaming or change your car’s tire but i’ll definitely cook you the best dinner when you get home from work and i’ll be more than happy to stitch the holes of your favorite shirt, with all the patience in the world; because that’s how my mother and my grandmother used to show their love to me. i could never ever ever imagine being affectionate to someone in any other way.

something that always bothered me as a transmasc butch was the fact that everyone would clock me the moment i opened my mouth, which is already something that causes me waaaay too much dysphoria. so, i would try to “compensate” that by being the most masculine being that i could ever be. but deep down, i knew that i wasn’t being fully me, you know?

not being “masculine enough” would often make me feel like i wasn’t butch enough, that i wasn’t doing the “job” correctly or something. at least where i’m from, people expect me to fill that role and pretty much just act like a man 24/7.

but as i was cooking some dinner for myself and my mom tonight, something hit me; i’ll never be 100% masculine when it comes to my traits, my energy or even the way i speak. i’ll protect you, i’ll be there for you and i’ll try my best to intimidate whoever tries something bad with you. but sometimes, maybe i’d wanna be protected too; maybe i’d wanna be the little spoon every now and then; maybe i’ll cry in front of you and expect you to dry my tears. and that won’t ever make me less masculine or less butch.

i hope that my future partner understands that, no matter what happens; at the end of the day, i’ll still be your guy. i’ll just be a sensitive guy, you know? it’s kinda scary to admit this out loud but i feel like someone out there would like to know that they’re not alone. butches come in all shapes and forms, and it may be scary to be this kind of butch in a world where masculinity is praised, but i think we’ll be fine.

and also my dinner was so delicious what the fuckkk 🤤🤤🤤 i’m such a good cook like i genuinely believe i’m the butch version of guy fieri

[femmenetuno]

my butch and i spent one day with his family and one day with mine this christmas. his mom and grandma thanked me for being in his life and my mom and dad think he is so polite and an angel.

being butchfemme and so accepted by both of our families is so so insane and nice.

it's been great.

[dykesevika]

fortiche studios please make her a canon dyke please and thank u

Men DNI

[sapphic-bimbo]

Things I've been told as a femme presenting lesbian ( who doesn't dress "queer/gay enough" apparently)

- You don't look gay

- Are u bi? You sure?

- But you dress like a straight person

- wow, you're a great ally to the lgbtq+ community

And it's even harder sometimes when you're a femme who's into other femmes

Like the most flagging I've ever done was wear a neon orange beanie, Oversized sweatshirt, denim, and doc martins - and that was because I had an interview at a local queer cafe

I have no urge to cut my hair in any way, I am not rolling up the sleeves of my t-shirts or the hem of my jeans, I don't even like hats or demin tbh, and I will probably lose my mind if I have to feel a keychain of any sort rubbing against my hip every time I take a step.

I know there is no right way to present yourself if you're gay, and I'm not trying to slander anyone's fashion choices, but ugh I guess I live in a small city where there is a femme4femme lesbian shortage apparently 😭

Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.

[shanesevikasfuckdoll]

Okay, I know I'm not the only one when I say I truly believe that Sevika isn't 100% dominant. She's definitely naturally dom, but shit, she'll take it if you want to. Those fics that say Sevika would put up a fight, or Sevika would be against it, I completely disagree. I feel like she'd be into getting tied up, while you fuck her senseless, and getting treated like a fucking ragdoll, and she'll put up a pretty smile, while you do so.

YOU CANNOT CONVINCE ME SHE ISN'T A BRATTY SUB THO.

I know. Because I was there. 🤭

[soapxbubbles]

What do you like about butches? And about being femme? And the dynamic as a whole really

My first thought is to answer all those questions with “Everything”, because it would be absolutely true, and also because I don’t think there are enough words for me to be able to really describe how much I love all of these things. But I’ll try my best.

For butches, one of the main things I love is how authentic their masculinity is, more true than any man’s could ever be. Another one is how much they love femmes, not a specific one but just how much they love femmes as a whole and as a part of the community, it makes me feel very welcomed and safe. I love how butches cut their hair, how they present their gender, how they dress, how they act and talk and speak and walk. All of it’s amazing to me, and when I say butches I mean to include studs and all butches who are POC, literally anyone who is a butch, everything I say I feel for them. I love when I see them in media, I love it when I see them have their own community with other butches, I love it when I see ten posts in a row about being a cowboy all reposted on my feed. I really just love them.

For what I like about being femme, I like how confident it’s made me in my own style and expression. Again, it’s mainly been because of the community, I really feel like I fit in as a femme, like no matter what I look like I know the people who get it get it, and that makes me feel really good. I also love the community I get to experience with other femmes, even if I don’t have much every like or comment or compliment means the world to me. I love how the label of femme has allowed me to explore my gender as a lesbian and someone who consider femme IS their gender, one way I’ve described it before is sometimes a princess, sometimes a prince but always royalty and I’ve stuck with that for a while.

For the dynamic as a whole, I love it in a romantic sense because it’s really one of the things I want most in life. I can’t see myself anywhere else in the future but with a butch, it feels so right to me, it’s hard to describe. Whatever being may have created me, I know for a fact they created me to fall in love with a butch. For the dynamic in a platonic sense, I love it so so so so so much. Ever since I’ve figured out I’m femme, having butchfemme friendships and interactions has really been my favourite thing. I love the community it brings, I really can’t state that enough. Butches just make me feel femme, just existing with that dynamic somehow is affirming, and I hope to affirm butches in the same way as well, or in any way really.

Quite the long rant, but honestly it could be a lot longer. Again, not enough words to describe how much I love this community and the people in it <3

[thuesdaynightdykelife]

Butches, I say this with all the love in my heart, but if your "positivity" posts on here about femmes are just thinly veiled criticisms of femmes who you've been hurt by before, you need to spend some more time healing on your own.

If your posts are all just you talking about the kind of butch you wish you could be for your hypothetical femme, if you think you can dictate what makes a 'real' femme and a 'real' butch, you need to spend time talking to, and making friends with other butches and femmes in your community, putting in the effort to become the kind of butch you want to be for the simple reason of being true to yourself and happy in your life. Not just to be good enough for your dream femme.

If you don't, you will project those insecurities onto another partner who doesn't deserve that treatment. You will set unattainable expectations for yourself and others that will never be met. You will spend more time feeling disappointed than feeling loved, regardless of the non-romantic love that may surround you.

You will be happy and in love one day, I promise. But not if you keep holding on to these wounds. These wounds may or may not be your fault, but you can't spend all your time trying to place blame either. And you can't spend all your energy yearning for the femme who will make life make sense. Your time and energy needs to be put into healing, and making as much sense of this short life you were blessed with as you can.

A romantic relationship, like most relationships, is give and take, on both sides, and if you want that beautiful, healing love, you need to be in a state of healing yourself too, and be a safe person for someone else to heal with. Otherwise, you will end up treating your femme like a mother.

As much as the idea of someone being your other half is lovely, in reality, you can't spend your days waiting around for someone to come along and make you whole. Imagine you will never find romantic love. It's a scary thought, one that has driven many insecure actions of mine in the past. But suppose that is what you are destined for. Who will you become? Will you rot, will you fester away, hanging onto how sad it is to not be loved. Or will you realise you are surrounded by a world filled with love, regardless of if it's romantic, and rejoice in it, embrace it, nurture it, and watch it grow. If you do that, the love you seek will find you, and on the small chance it doesn't, you will be happy and loved regardless.

[dykesevika]

I’m actually fine with the complete lack of sevika merch/content because my possessive dyke ass cannot handle the thought of other people liking her, let alone owning something of her 😭

MEN DNI

[crucified-bloodhound]

lesbian tumblr may have very well cured my body dysmorphia i feel so hot when i go on this site... even when i'm not posting myself just hearing dykez talk about bodies like they're so so precious makes me so content w myself in a way that the gay community never did 4 me when i id'd as a trans gay guy (i was repressing so much. oh my gawd.) so thank u dykez