#dyke rant

[wlw-wombat]

thinking abt how much weight i need to lose right now has me feeling so drained

[sophhic]

“my love for her bleeds into my love for myself” but it doesn’t because she’s still so beautiful, women are so beautiful, and i feel so monstrous

[badolmen]

They don’t even attempt to assassinate US politicians anymore. You notice that? Not since the anthrax scare back for… who was it, Barack? And even that… pathetic. This new generation has no respect for an honest hitman. I’m not sure this new generation has any honest hitman - you see that shit with Boeing? Sloppy, fucking disgraceful - you kill the whistleblowers before they get halfway to a lawsuit. What kind of fucking amateur is doing faked suicides the night before testimony? Goddamn greenhorns. Back in my day someone tried to shoot Ronald Reagan in broad daylight. There used to be bomb threats to Congress. I took out a few union leaders in the utilities sector myself. Today’s generation? Won’t even threaten to throw a punch - not even over on that - what’s it now, ‘X’? They got no guts. None! And they don’t even have poor impulse control to boot! Too much of that - that panopticon anxiety bullshit. “Oh what if I get a called out post???” People used to send the president letters full of bioweapons. In the mail! Today’s generation? Not a chance. All because of woke.

[burner-i-hardly-even-know-her]

why is tiktok so obsessed with hating on butch lesbians i hate all of you

[kalamity-jayne]

As a trans woman who’s slightly older than a lot of the trans girls on here I gotta say I find the widespread ageism insufferably annoying🙄

Like, I thought 40 was the new 30 but some of y’all act like you’re gonna get dragged off to a nursing home the second you age out of your 20’s.

[elle-girlylesbian]

I don't know if it makes sense but I'm not a goddamn ''girl who likes girls 🥺''

I'm a lesbian. I'm a dyke. I'm attracted to women, and there's a fucking word for it so imma use it.

I'm so tired of people seeing my sexuality as less than because it doesn't revolve around men.

Yes I'm a fem, doesn't mean I'm not gonna yell at you if you spit homophobic bullshit next to me ?

Yes I'm a fem, it does not mean I want you to shoot your shot at ''being the dick that's gonna turn me''

Yes, I look girly, it does not mean you can talk badly about masc, butch or any goddamn less feminine presenting lesbian near me.

Me being a lesbian isn't an opportunity for you to tell me about how you'd like to be attracted to women because it just seems ''so much easier''

I'm a lesbian, not a fucking wet dream for your rat looking boyfriend.

Fuck, sorry, I'm just so goddamn tired sometimes

[vampireharpy]

Imagine just getting a taste and being so desperate for more you arch a whaler 🙄🙄🙄

[whyalesbianstakingtestosterone]

Do you ever look at your partner and think “woah. They r the hottest person alive. How did I even manage to bag them?” and you just lose all interest for other people? I mean you find others aesthetically pleasing and attractive, but your body only reacts to your partner and they r the only person occupying your mind. No matter what they r wearing, how r they looking, you’re just so down bad for them that something is purring every time you see them?

Or is it just me?

[butch-bf]

yeah we all know (and love <3) all the butches with masculine personality; and let me make it clear that you’re all loved and valid!! but let’s talk about butches that cannot or simply don’t want to get rid of their “feminine” traits and energy.

like seriously i could never kill a spider without screaming or change your car’s tire but i’ll definitely cook you the best dinner when you get home from work and i’ll be more than happy to stitch the holes of your favorite shirt, with all the patience in the world; because that’s how my mother and my grandmother used to show their love to me. i could never ever ever imagine being affectionate to someone in any other way.

something that always bothered me as a transmasc butch was the fact that everyone would clock me the moment i opened my mouth, which is already something that causes me waaaay too much dysphoria. so, i would try to “compensate” that by being the most masculine being that i could ever be. but deep down, i knew that i wasn’t being fully me, you know?

not being “masculine enough” would often make me feel like i wasn’t butch enough, that i wasn’t doing the “job” correctly or something. at least where i’m from, people expect me to fill that role and pretty much just act like a man 24/7.

but as i was cooking some dinner for myself and my mom tonight, something hit me; i’ll never be 100% masculine when it comes to my traits, my energy or even the way i speak. i’ll protect you, i’ll be there for you and i’ll try my best to intimidate whoever tries something bad with you. but sometimes, maybe i’d wanna be protected too; maybe i’d wanna be the little spoon every now and then; maybe i’ll cry in front of you and expect you to dry my tears. and that won’t ever make me less masculine or less butch.

i hope that my future partner understands that, no matter what happens; at the end of the day, i’ll still be your guy. i’ll just be a sensitive guy, you know? it’s kinda scary to admit this out loud but i feel like someone out there would like to know that they’re not alone. butches come in all shapes and forms, and it may be scary to be this kind of butch in a world where masculinity is praised, but i think we’ll be fine.

and also my dinner was so delicious what the fuckkk 🤤🤤🤤 i’m such a good cook like i genuinely believe i’m the butch version of guy fieri

[femmenetuno]

my butch and i spent one day with his family and one day with mine this christmas. his mom and grandma thanked me for being in his life and my mom and dad think he is so polite and an angel.

being butchfemme and so accepted by both of our families is so so insane and nice.

it's been great.

[dykesevika]

fortiche studios please make her a canon dyke please and thank u

Men DNI

[wlw-wombat]

at this point my period is either coming or its not so imma let her paint the walls if she wanna 😍

[kaijugroupy]

I'm so crazy about butches. They're such resilient, funny, fantastic people. I started a new job recently and there's more bull dykes here than I've honestly ever seen in one place before. It was instantly amazing to see them, and to have that reciprocated. To immediately be adopted and have butches my age and older compliment my leather jackets, my presentation in general. It's an honor and something I've never experienced before to have an unspoken, physical community. To know they'll watch my back like I'll watch theirs. To feel safe in being butch because I'm not alone. To see butch people, respected and honored as highly competent, skilled, intelligent people has been something more than I ever thought I'd see in my state, or honestly in general. My boss is tough as nails and she commands a room when she walks in. The exact kind of butch I knew I wanted to be as a kid. I already look up to her so much. And even better? Her wife is butch, too. Which, as a butch who only likes other butches but didn't think I'd ever have something like that, absolutely ran me over. It's just, insane to see with my eyes that I'm allowed to exist and I have proof. Proof that people like me are alive and strong and making it. Absolutely insane.

[sapphic-bimbo]

Things I've been told as a femme presenting lesbian ( who doesn't dress "queer/gay enough" apparently)

- You don't look gay

- Are u bi? You sure?

- But you dress like a straight person

- wow, you're a great ally to the lgbtq+ community

And it's even harder sometimes when you're a femme who's into other femmes

Like the most flagging I've ever done was wear a neon orange beanie, Oversized sweatshirt, denim, and doc martins - and that was because I had an interview at a local queer cafe

I have no urge to cut my hair in any way, I am not rolling up the sleeves of my t-shirts or the hem of my jeans, I don't even like hats or demin tbh, and I will probably lose my mind if I have to feel a keychain of any sort rubbing against my hip every time I take a step.

I know there is no right way to present yourself if you're gay, and I'm not trying to slander anyone's fashion choices, but ugh I guess I live in a small city where there is a femme4femme lesbian shortage apparently 😭

Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.

[twowivestwoknives]

look while i'm greatful i had the media literacy to spot immediately that they were gonna do the "if we have a lesbian (esp of colour) she HAS to be a cop" trop with cait and thus was 0% invested in her and Vi from the start, this last szn was just. broke my heart to see what they did to Vi.

breaks my heart more to see so many young queer ppl unironically thinking that is a /good/ lesbian relationship.

like, I know fandom hates butches/gnc/trans lesbians and comma yall are just gonna go ham for a ridiculously abusive relationship? Vi's character has been beaten into submission by loss, by making the "wrong choice" over and over again; now that she has lost everyone who ever mattered, her desperation for Cait isn't out of love, it's out of need to have fulfilled at least one role, one expectation correctly. and she has no one else so she will do anything not to fuck it up. it's textbook trauma responses and coping.

Cait tried to kill her, tried to GAS HER ENTIRE CITY, cheated, tried repeatedly to KILL HER SISTER and isolate Vi from her entire community, demeans her, talks down to her, treats her like she's stupid, and only acts like she likes her when she's running from something and feels out of control herself so needs something (she doesn't even see Vi as a someone) else to control.

At the end, when she called her Violet? I nearly cried. That fucking hurt. And when Vi went back with a pet name? I knew that hurt her too, and she was just trying to appease, appease, appease. She has no one else, she's failed everyone she was told she had to protect, she can't fail anyone else again, but the price of that with Cait is failing herself.

Yall are so happy to see butches be abused and call it goals, and that speaks novels about how you feel about GNC dykes.

[khachmaxo]

one thing about frank furter and elizabeth sparkle is that they do NOT play around when it comes to their homunculus creations that they harbor complicated feelings towards.