#stone dyke

[butch-bf]

yeah we all know (and love <3) all the butches with masculine personality; and let me make it clear that you’re all loved and valid!! but let’s talk about butches that cannot or simply don’t want to get rid of their “feminine” traits and energy.

like seriously i could never kill a spider without screaming or change your car’s tire but i’ll definitely cook you the best dinner when you get home from work and i’ll be more than happy to stitch the holes of your favorite shirt, with all the patience in the world; because that’s how my mother and my grandmother used to show their love to me. i could never ever ever imagine being affectionate to someone in any other way.

something that always bothered me as a transmasc butch was the fact that everyone would clock me the moment i opened my mouth, which is already something that causes me waaaay too much dysphoria. so, i would try to “compensate” that by being the most masculine being that i could ever be. but deep down, i knew that i wasn’t being fully me, you know?

not being “masculine enough” would often make me feel like i wasn’t butch enough, that i wasn’t doing the “job” correctly or something. at least where i’m from, people expect me to fill that role and pretty much just act like a man 24/7.

but as i was cooking some dinner for myself and my mom tonight, something hit me; i’ll never be 100% masculine when it comes to my traits, my energy or even the way i speak. i’ll protect you, i’ll be there for you and i’ll try my best to intimidate whoever tries something bad with you. but sometimes, maybe i’d wanna be protected too; maybe i’d wanna be the little spoon every now and then; maybe i’ll cry in front of you and expect you to dry my tears. and that won’t ever make me less masculine or less butch.

i hope that my future partner understands that, no matter what happens; at the end of the day, i’ll still be your guy. i’ll just be a sensitive guy, you know? it’s kinda scary to admit this out loud but i feel like someone out there would like to know that they’re not alone. butches come in all shapes and forms, and it may be scary to be this kind of butch in a world where masculinity is praised, but i think we’ll be fine.

and also my dinner was so delicious what the fuckkk 🤤🤤🤤 i’m such a good cook like i genuinely believe i’m the butch version of guy fieri

[opalstonedyke]

Letter writing anon here! I just ordered the last of the supplies I need to write the most perfect letters to my femme and I desperately want to share the vibe with someone (she will find out when she gets it hehehe)!!! Navy and gold and flowers! I'm writing with a dip pen and gorgeous ink too. I'm absolutely not chill about it, I can't wait for her to get it.

supplies ship faster please

Thank you for letting me rave about this in your inbox!

Also I'm so happy for you and your femme!! Y'all are so lucky to have found eachother :3 (Just saw your updated pinned post)

Howdy! Good to hear from you again!

Your devotion to your femme is admirable. I'm 101% positive she'll be over the moon receiving these beautiful femme care packages <3 (blessing your supplies with the speed of 1000 u haul lesbians)

Thank you so much on your wishes to me and my femme! I feel like the luckiest butch alive to have her. The most supportive, sweetest, silliest, adventurous drop dead gorgeous femme on the planet, and I'm all hers <3

[stone-queer-crow]

Y'know I was taking a long hot shower just a little bit ago, and my mind tends to wander when I do that.

Today my thoughts danced around my thoughts about my own identity. Mainly that of being a stone butch, and how sometimes I feel guilty about using that descriptor.

I feel guilty about it because I still heavily fantasize about being touched and being the bottom. Gods I fantasize about it a lot. But then I remember just how much actually being touched below the waist bothers me, like sometimes I even struggle to touch myself.

Truthfully idk if that's just the way I'll always be, or if it's directly tied to being trans. Maybe one day I'll get bottom surgery and it'll go away, but maybe not.

I guess I'm just rambling a bit, but gods my fantasies just make me feel like such a hypocrite some days.

[butchqueersapphic]

Strapped Butch Oil Painting

By Suzzane Shifflett

[lottielottieda]

some new buttons i made for an event i vended at! leftovers for sale here 💌✂️

[femmelily]

hug from handsome butch save me...handsome butch hug...save me handsome butch hug...

[sagefairies]

i really think being spanked by a butch lesbian would heal me rn

[thetorturedbutchdepartment]

need to fuck a femme so hard until i completely forget about all my stress and problems. the only thing in my mind will be her delicious moans and her tight little pussy clenching my cock.

[butch-bf]

low waisted jeans are the best 🫶🫶

cis men, minors and terfs DNI.

[ston3domm3]

Reeeeally need to hold a butch who just finished topping me and tell them how good they did and how much I appreciate them and run my hands through their hair while they lay their head on my chest and cuddle up to me and then we eat cheesecake together

[wlwwerewolfie]

Pillow princesses getting eaten out by their butch until over stimulation. They can't do anything but take it because each time they tell their butch it's too much, they just get laughed at and continue to eat out the princess out beyond overstimulation

[leonor777]

Pelusa de Durazno (2024)

[boytransmission]

Ackh oh noo youve found me in such conveniently erotic positions oh noooo……… haha

Please consider helping me w my affirming surgery fund :]

[kirkwall-age]

exploring Origins Toolset (a gift that keeps on giving) and the V.A. directions for Arl Howe are FASCINATING. he has a secondary thought appended to every line of dialogue during the opening scene of Human Noble Origin -- and the insight into his psyche is somehow even more fucked-up than I thought

Bryce: I'm sorry pup; I didn't see you there. Howe, you remember my daughter? Howe: I see she's become a lovely young woman. Pleased to see you again, my dear.

Friendly, but hollow. "Here's the necessary exchange of pleasantries nobles must go through. I'm kind of preoccuppied with making sure your father is on track for my secret plan."

Cousland: Is your family here, Arl Howe? Howe: Oh no, I left them in Amaranthine, well away from the fighting in the south. They do send their best wishes.

Distracted. "I left them well out of harm's way. Though I don't want you to know harm is coming."

Howe: My son Thomas asked after you. Perhaps I should bring him with me next time.

Gauging the player's reaction. "My son wants to marry you. I don't approve, but mentioning it may get you to trust me."

Cousland (version 1): To what end? Howe: Ha! "To what end", she says! So glib, too. She's just like her mother when she talks like that.

Friendly, slightly menacing undertone. "You don't fool me, girl. You're playing dumb, but you're smarter than your reply suggests. I won't underestimate anyone in your family."

Cousland (version 2): ...Thomas is a few years younger than I am. Howe: As you get older, those years make less difference. A lesson often hard won.

Elsewhere. "It doesn't matter how old you are. You won't be getting any older."

THIS IS CRAZY. THIS IS A CRAZY THING TO SAY. OR THINK SECRETLY AS YOU'RE EXCHANGING PLEASANTRIES

[genderqueerdykes]

honestly as a butch, i just gotta say it: that "chivalrous knight in shining armor" crap is objectifying as hell and it's not fun, cute, or validating to apply to us, it provides a burden for us to bear, it makes us paranoid, tired, weary and feel like we're being reduced to a stereotype, or like we're being forced into a mold.

i'm not a knight just because i'm a transmasculine person who looks tough and can theoretically protect femme queers. i'm literally just standing here, being transsexual. i'm not inherently "chilvarous," i don't have any obligation to protect people just because i adopted the label "butch". what if i'm weak? what if the butch needs to be protected? what if the butch is disabled, traumatized, or just scared? i'm a wheelchair user.

why can't femmes protect their butches? why does it always have to be the butch being the chivalrous knight in our yearning posts and poems? why do we have to weave a performative ass narrative of the masculine partner swooping in to protect their defenseless feminine partner? how the HELL is this progressive or subversive at all? this is literally reinventing the binary.

the way the (white) cis lesbian community treats its butches is alienating as all hell. we are not here just to protect other people. we are not inherently protectors. we are not all strong. we are allowed to be weak. we are allowed to be scared. we are allowed to be hurt. we don't HAVE to protect our femmes, if we like femmes at all. not every butch is attracted to femme people in the first place.

butch isn't a lifestyle, it's not a set personality type. it's not a specific set of actions; it's just queer masculinity, that can be expressed by a multitude of queers for a multitude of reasons. it's not one specific set of traits. masculinity is not just found in protecting others and acting tough, it's also in being soft, vulnerable, weak and tender.

just let butches be people, don't turn us into objects before we even get out of the gates. all of this removes the human element of being butch. if the queer community can't afford that, we can't get it from anywhere, because we sure as hell aren't seen as humans by cisheteronormative society.

don't force me to see myself as a knight when i'm the one who needs help just because i'm masculine, or just because i'm a man.

butches need help, too.

[butch-bf]

okay but do you guys really fuck with butches with tiny waists or 💭

cis men, terfs and minors DNI.