#domme scam

[b-rello]

To all "Mistresses"

If you are going to be lazy and use a bot or some sort of AI, please invest in a good company or program. It's pathetic how predictable you all are!

They shouldn't have banned porn on Tumblr, they should have instead focused on ridding the site of scammers.

Folks.......MOST are scammers.

[goodboythoughts]

just got my first scam dom, a developmental milestone on every hornyposting blog out there

If I’ve said it once I’ve said it a million times, I am not interested in paying anybody, I am not interested in anybody paying me, power to the pro-dommes and the findoms but just no from me personally.

[crinklemommy]

I need your help. In your opinion, how is it possible to randomly meet a dominant woman/mommy girlfriend in real life in public…?

Unfortunately, kiddo, this is a bit of a tough one to give you a rock solid answer.

There are basically two issues: first, is just a numbers issue. At least in my experience, there are a lot more littles than switches and more switches than caregivers.

Second is finding those people in public. My vanilla friends have absolutely zero idea about this part of me. Anyone I meet in a bar would be likewise unaware.

I’ve had some success on FetLife finding more casual play partners around me, but I think coming as a domme, I had it fairly easy. I always suggest trying to make friends in the community first, rather than jumping straight in. And, if she asks you for a $30 registration fee, it’s a scam. Best of luck, little one!

[bimbosanddolls]

Some of the "findom/me" accounts on here make me laugh so much. This one waited all of four sentences before trying to "own" me.

"Hi. How are you?" "Where do you live?" "How old are you?" "Do you wanna be owned by mistress?"

I love my sex worker friends, but like... these kind of accounts are embarrassing. I legit told her to put a little more effort in next time. Because like, I don't think that kinda script actually works on anyone? Right? Please tell me y'all are better than that....

Because I'd bet my last two braincells that she's a scam. And, if she's not, she's an incredibly lazy domme and not worth your money.

[goddexvicious]

A sissy like you doesn't deserve to defile a God like Me with that open sewer you call a mouth. I would never soil Myself with a maggot like you. Dress up in your stupid frilly pink outfit and glob that lipstick on your piggie face while you pump that wallet dry for Goddex. What's that? Real Dommes don't charge? I'm a scammer? No loser. Not only am I all too real, I'm your worst fucking nightmare. Did you ever stop to think that you deserve to be scammed, humiliated, exposed, and ruined? Now shut the fuck up SUBMIT.

TUMBLR DMS CLOSED. All socials and contact in link below.

[kinkmanor-too]

Welcome Back!!

Yes, this is the resurrection of Kink Manor…your favorite luxury resort that caters to uninhibited sexual expression and kinky pursuits. On 5/22/23 the original Kink Manor was turned to vapor by the fucktards that run Tumblr. I lost my 3,000+ followers and years of posts. I will not let those assholes win. I know so many of you enjoyed the fantasies and stories I created and I enjoyed them too. So I’m back. If you’re a former follower. Follow this blog now and PLEASE spread the word to others. Accept no imitations or imposters. This is the one and only KINK MANOR.

Now the rules…it is adults only here. No minors whatsoever!!! That said, I want you to interact. Like, reblog, comment, ask questions, send submissions, DM me to chat.

If you reblog from here and delete my captions…I won’t follow your blog. If you’re a bot or an empty blog I absolutely won’t follow and I will probably block you. If you message me and start with just “Hi”, or are a Domme or Mistress trying to get a client, or are one of a myriad of bloggers who pull this bullshit of trying to be friendly but ultimately you want money or some other way to scam, I will block you. Trust me I have been on Tumblr a long time, I know your patterns and scripts by heart. I’m done playing games.

If you’re nice and genuine, I am too.

All genders, orientations, etc. are welcome to Kink Manor and I encourage you to have fun. I will treat you well here. But…break the rules of the manor or anger me and you will lose the privilege of coming to my world. I am The Lord ‘O the Manor, I am the master and the dominant here.

Now…enjoy my hospitality and the freedom I offer and have fun!! 😈🔥🔥

And one final message to Tumblr and their idiotic and arbitrary rules…

[mommymommy7410]

Okay I realised I’m being a bit mean to failed dommes.. And I wanna make up for it🎀

I’ll send $1000 to 7 new Submissive!

If you want it Like, comment, and rt and DM Mommy! Be honest

I have a whale sub that will reimburse me $7000 so it’s basically free money!

i’m here to help! If you miss out on the $1000, I will send you one of my subs instead✨

NOT A SCAM! But you’ll have to like, comment and DM!

[secretlytranced]

There seem to be a lot of scam mistresses / mommies / dommes in this space. Are there male equivalents here? Or have you been approached by any?

Anything common among them to watch for?

oh i'm sure there are guys out there trying to scam people as well. being a dick isn't gender exclusive lol

i've not been approached by any that i know of, mostly bc if you come into my messages being shitty or dropping a spiral or whatever, i just delete the message.

it can be hard to distinguish between scammers and dominants who are serious, but that comes with time and trusting your intuition. also not just throwing yourself at anyone who winks at you. Trust me, that can get you in a lot of trouble real fast.

just be careful and if it feels off... it probably is. ;)

[chardonnay-rose]

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I knowww….you totes think I’m being mean when I talk to you losers like that, but srsly…I totally have your best interests at heart. 😹😈 You’re aspie ‘tards after all. That’s like, a shit hand already on top of being literal beta fleshbags. Everything’s so hard for you…except that baby wee wee of yours 🤭🍆

Take money for example. You’re sooooo dumb with it that’s it’s like, 100% adorable how cringe it is to watch you with it. You waste it on multiple dommes, so even your “gifts” to them end up being watered down, or you waste it on pointless stuff like video games or urgh…food.😱🤮 Have you dummies not heard of food banks and dumpster diving?!?! You soooo need a finance manager, not gonna lie babes. Someone to… look after your money for you, keep it safe. Especially with so many…scam artists… around. 🤭

Look at me. I’m totes pretty enough to be your finance manager. 😇😘 I even have my own vault to keep all your money safe, stop you wasting it on dommes or pointless crap. And I’ll never give it to a scam artist so it’s 100% safe. Even if the scammer can imitate you perfect. And I’m not part of the establishment or system. I’m totes decentralised or whatever.

So, invest all your savings to my new banking Scheme System, The Chardonnay Rose Bank. Applications now accepted, and there’s a limited time offer* for all applicants to get early access to the Chardonnay Rose Crypto coin…. Just trust me with everything you have darlings… XoXo 💋

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[gynarchyboi]

I don't understand how men can be so stupid. A picture of a hot women on the internet who says she is looking for a "sincere sub" gets some of you all excited. She is not looking for a sub. She's not even a she. You are an idiot if you answer these ads. You are not following my instructions if you run the group and you don't immediately BLOCK them. Fin dommes prey on vulnerable submissive men. They are not really dommes. They are scam artists. They give FLR a bad name. They set the Gynarchy back a huge step each time they post and take advantage of a submissive man. Just stop. Really. Just stop. There are women who live in your own town who hate housework and are disrespected every day just for being female. Serve locally. Quit looking for online kink dispensers. No fin-dommes.

Msreneelane

[sissyraven88xxx]

I see this all the damn time and it drives me up a wall. IF you are wearing a collar, you're a damn sub. Collars are NOT an aesthetic. They are a symbol of surrender, by a Dominant. If you are claiming to be a Dom, Domme and you are wearing a collar, you ARE a liar, a loser, a fake, a scammer. No self respecting Dominant is going to portray themselves as a Dominant with a symbol of submission locked in them.

Subs, learn what to look for. You won't be able to get scammed by these moronic flat dicks l, if you pay attention. No profile, only 0-5 posts on their blog, collars on their neck, wanting a "loyal submissive for...", they are fake as fuck and don't deserve your time or recognition.

[princescribbler]

Hi little boy Scribbler. I'm sad. Iasked your mommy but maybe you can help too.

I'm scared I'll never find a mommy into AB/DL. It's so hard to be strong and stay brave when I wanna cry and be cared for by a mommy.

How did you find a great mommy like yours? How do I make sure she doesn't leave me or lose interest? How do i stop them from just ghosting me when they see I'm not rich, or into findom? And how do I find someone who will give me what I want not just what they want?

Sincerely,

All alone anon

Huh...I hate to jump to conclusions (and apologies if I'm judging incorrectly) but i'll admit you're setting off a few quiet alarms in my head!

I might be unfair, but when people push hard on the idea of only ever being ghosted, financially manipulated, and there being no mommies out there...It gets my guard up. Because often, very toxic or unhealthy behavior in subs or littles is sort of ignored, or accepted, and it really shouldn't be! And I'll admit, I wasn't the most healthy and mature participant in this community when I first got involved years ago, so I'm trying hard to not judge, but if you don't change your outlook and behavior, there's probably not much I can do or suggest to help!

That said: there are an astonishing number of people eager to take advantage of your needs and desperation, many who will probably ONLY have interest in your wallet and the like. The trick... isn't just in them. See, scammers and manipulators work by tricking you (or you being desperate enough) to ignore the many obvious red flags. Like, someone talking to you for 2 days, not knowing your real name, then insisting on knowing your address. Or, their entire blog is 4 days old and exclusively filled with the 10 easy to find posts tangentially related to your kinks... but they have no likes, no history, and their ability to communicate is shit.

THOSE people will immediately leave the second they no longer feel they'll have a good chance at scamming or manipulating. If something seems way too good to be true... it probably is. If a Dominant partner claims to be very well versed in BDSM, power dynamic relationships, and Ageplay... but jumps into offering you a new full time dynamic before even discussing SAFE WORDS or getting to know you? THAT SHOULD BE A SUPER CLEAR RED FLAG THAT THEY AREN'T A HEALTHY, REAL, SINCERE PERSON!!

So how did I get my momma princess and switch partner, @giggle-byte ? Well, first, don't forget that it's a two way street. Momma pursued me just as much as I pursued her. So step 1.... find someone who actually likes you. And SHOW OFF YOUR GOOD QUALITIES! Why would any domme or mommy want to care for a lazy, unkind, mean, demanding person? If you're just getting to know them and quickly start pushing for your kinks and desires to immediately be bowed to, you're probably not coming across in a good light.

Whether it's CG/L, BDSM, ABDL, ageplay, or just simple diaper fetishism, you need a partner who wants you, who sees your value, and enjoys you.. and you won't find that with random messages to 200+ online dommes in the hope that EVENTUALLY one'll fall in love with you. Instead, seek out actual meaningful connections with people, whether online or in person!

And my real best advice for avoiding toxic and fake mommies, findoms, and scammed is to focus on YOUR SAFETY AND SECURITY over getting off. If you truly can't tell if someone is a scammer... well, being honest, then online platforms to meet are a very bad idea for you. And if you need to know if someone is real or fake... recognize that a HEALTHY caregiver or dominant probably won't just jump into offering you a relationship (especially with strings attached), but a scammer or predatory findom probably will.

Good luck and I hope you find a way to get a happy and healthy dynamic, some day!

[ruinyourlifecf]

Treating submissives with basic respect is a mistake. Most subs that come to me come to me because I put off an aura of abusiveness. This is important to note because it is the initial reason, they choose to DM me. It's the reason they send me money, and the reason they come back. If you're in a similar situation, you should never make the mistake of "getting to know a submissive." Not only is this inefficient from a "time" perspective, but the sub will lose respect for you if you actual treat them like a friend. It may not seem like it at first, but they will lose interest. This is why I never play the friendship game with losers online. I take as much money as I can, as quickly as I can. I do not care about you, your day, your wellbeing, and I especially don't care about your financial plight. Subs ultimately can control who they serve, unless you are blackmailing them. You should understand there are always going to be other options for them, this is a very oversaturated market. So if they are in your DMs, if they are gooning, if they are sending, hit them hard. Don't think about all the potential money they could send in the future. Scam them NOW. If you are a sub reading this, I will take you for literally all you are worth and then dismiss your stupid ass. If you want to know what it feels like to go broke, only to then be told "Fuck off, Retard." then I am the Domme for you!

[volk2587]

Scam dommy out and about, fellow abdl littles and subs be alert if someone approaches you and immediately request your ID and cash it's most likely a scam. No one is free especially if it's a pro domme, but pro dommes have a protocol that involves a legit vetting process. So when you get suspicious and ask some questions and they do everything to dodge around and keep trying to push for your money regardless of the amount its a scam so please beware and take care

[kinkmanor-too]

Am a mistress of high class,I personal seek a slave, sissy, bimbo, or slut to serve me in person. Dm to enrol

At Kink Manor we have staff Dom/Dommes to help you learn and explore. But certainly many private Dom/Dommes come to the resort. Some bring their “toys” and “property” with them and some come in search of new subs to take into their care. It appears Mistress Abigail may be in the latter group. I’ll allow this request this time but if I hear from any of my visitors that you are not genuine or are running any scam or abuse and your privilege at Kink Manor will be revoked. 😈🔥🔥

[onetruefool]

Thought dating apps were too easy so I signed up for a kink one 😎

Seriously though idk what I'm doing. I'm getting more interest but it's all dommes that expect a tribute. Which feels like a scam but even if it's not idk that's what I want. I just don't know my dude...