#domme scam

[b-rello]

Fake scammers ----- GO AWAY! NO ONE IS PAYING YOU!

[ssensualsecretss]

@dominatrixmadonna is scammer claiming to by a dom hypnotist

they are a catfish who will take your money then ghost you once you "pledge" to them

do not be like me and trust her or her "recordings" which are fake too

[goodboythoughts]

just got my first scam dom, a developmental milestone on every hornyposting blog out there

If I’ve said it once I’ve said it a million times, I am not interested in paying anybody, I am not interested in anybody paying me, power to the pro-dommes and the findoms but just no from me personally.

[bimbosanddolls]

Some of the "findom/me" accounts on here make me laugh so much. This one waited all of four sentences before trying to "own" me.

"Hi. How are you?" "Where do you live?" "How old are you?" "Do you wanna be owned by mistress?"

I love my sex worker friends, but like... these kind of accounts are embarrassing. I legit told her to put a little more effort in next time. Because like, I don't think that kinda script actually works on anyone? Right? Please tell me y'all are better than that....

Because I'd bet my last two braincells that she's a scam. And, if she's not, she's an incredibly lazy domme and not worth your money.

[b-rello]

To all "Mistresses"

If you are going to be lazy and use a bot or some sort of AI, please invest in a good company or program. It's pathetic how predictable you all are!

They shouldn't have banned porn on Tumblr, they should have instead focused on ridding the site of scammers.

Folks.......MOST are scammers.

[mephorash]

How do you do sex work and what advice do you have for a trans person getting into it?

I post on bluesky and twitter, bluesky is WAY better for getting actual engagement. twitter is 99% bots and 1% other dom(me)s if you're doing sex work so I can't recommend it I just crosspost my bsky over to twt and get zero interaction as expected. you can also post on Reddit however for complicated reasons I don't have a photo id right now so I can't do that.

personally I'm ftm (medical transition wise) so I just play up the whole girl/femboy part of being bigender* and always shave before taking pictures. my voice is androgynous but good enough, I rec if you have a deep voice to do voice training because you'll get paid way more if you can record videos/do voice chats. I'm working on voice training but I am a master at putting it off

maybe this is because I do findom aswell as sell content but never talk to a client for more than like 3 messages max without being sent money. I have a tribute listed in my bio for my minimum to talk. lots and lots of scammers esp. with findom don't bother with people who have like "paypig" in their name or anyone that says they're sending to new dommes. anyone that needs you to pay a fee for $ is scamming you

I know you likely need money bad as do I but do NOT post about how like, everyone in your dms are just scammers or how desperate you are. it ruins the illusion and makes people more likely to take advantage of u. don't ruin your mental health for clients either. it's the easiest way to burn yourself out and feel like complete shit. I promise you that $20 is not worth feeling raped. figure out what makes you uncomfortable and tell clients you will not do it. be firm. you have to realize ur dealing with the most bottom of the barrel cishet men, you just have to be an asshole a lot of the time to get your point across. don't be afraid to ask for your initial every DM you get. if someone can't pay a little upfront fee they are highly unlikely to be open to paying you at all.

ppal SUCKS for sex work. like do not list it publicly if you use it at all or they'll freeze your account with the money in it. throne is good and lets you receive cash you can withdrawal (fyi they need a photo id for this but u can also use it to purchase from their vendors thru the app incl. amazon and ebay). I also list my cashapp and my monero wallet (privacy focused crypto)

hope this helps nonnie stay safe out there. fyi it takes a while to get ur first client so don't lose hope

*my gender is actually just "has DID" but I say femme bigender when I really am pressed to put something

[goddexvicious]

A sissy like you doesn't deserve to defile a God like Me with that open sewer you call a mouth. I would never soil Myself with a maggot like you. Dress up in your stupid frilly pink outfit and glob that lipstick on your piggie face while you pump that wallet dry for Goddex. What's that? Real Dommes don't charge? I'm a scammer? No loser. Not only am I all too real, I'm your worst fucking nightmare. Did you ever stop to think that you deserve to be scammed, humiliated, exposed, and ruined? Now shut the fuck up SUBMIT.

TUMBLR DMS CLOSED. All socials and contact in link below.

[kinkmanor-too]

Welcome Back!!

Yes, this is the resurrection of Kink Manor…your favorite luxury resort that caters to uninhibited sexual expression and kinky pursuits. On 5/22/23 the original Kink Manor was turned to vapor by the fucktards that run Tumblr. I lost my 3,000+ followers and years of posts. I will not let those assholes win. I know so many of you enjoyed the fantasies and stories I created and I enjoyed them too. So I’m back. If you’re a former follower. Follow this blog now and PLEASE spread the word to others. Accept no imitations or imposters. This is the one and only KINK MANOR.

Now the rules…it is adults only here. No minors whatsoever!!! That said, I want you to interact. Like, reblog, comment, ask questions, send submissions, DM me to chat.

If you reblog from here and delete my captions…I won’t follow your blog. If you’re a bot or an empty blog I absolutely won’t follow and I will probably block you. If you message me and start with just “Hi”, or are a Domme or Mistress trying to get a client, or are one of a myriad of bloggers who pull this bullshit of trying to be friendly but ultimately you want money or some other way to scam, I will block you. Trust me I have been on Tumblr a long time, I know your patterns and scripts by heart. I’m done playing games.

If you’re nice and genuine, I am too.

All genders, orientations, etc. are welcome to Kink Manor and I encourage you to have fun. I will treat you well here. But…break the rules of the manor or anger me and you will lose the privilege of coming to my world. I am The Lord ‘O the Manor, I am the master and the dominant here.

Now…enjoy my hospitality and the freedom I offer and have fun!! 😈🔥🔥

And one final message to Tumblr and their idiotic and arbitrary rules…

[secretlytranced]

There seem to be a lot of scam mistresses / mommies / dommes in this space. Are there male equivalents here? Or have you been approached by any?

Anything common among them to watch for?

oh i'm sure there are guys out there trying to scam people as well. being a dick isn't gender exclusive lol

i've not been approached by any that i know of, mostly bc if you come into my messages being shitty or dropping a spiral or whatever, i just delete the message.

it can be hard to distinguish between scammers and dominants who are serious, but that comes with time and trusting your intuition. also not just throwing yourself at anyone who winks at you. Trust me, that can get you in a lot of trouble real fast.

just be careful and if it feels off... it probably is. ;)

[chardonnay-rose]

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Take money for example. You’re sooooo dumb with it that’s it’s like, 100% adorable how cringe it is to watch you with it. You waste it on multiple dommes, so even your “gifts” to them end up being watered down, or you waste it on pointless stuff like video games or urgh…food.😱🤮 Have you dummies not heard of food banks and dumpster diving?!?! You soooo need a finance manager, not gonna lie babes. Someone to… look after your money for you, keep it safe. Especially with so many…scam artists… around. 🤭

Look at me. I’m totes pretty enough to be your finance manager. 😇😘 I even have my own vault to keep all your money safe, stop you wasting it on dommes or pointless crap. And I’ll never give it to a scam artist so it’s 100% safe. Even if the scammer can imitate you perfect. And I’m not part of the establishment or system. I’m totes decentralised or whatever.

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[sissyraven88xxx]

I see this all the damn time and it drives me up a wall. IF you are wearing a collar, you're a damn sub. Collars are NOT an aesthetic. They are a symbol of surrender, by a Dominant. If you are claiming to be a Dom, Domme and you are wearing a collar, you ARE a liar, a loser, a fake, a scammer. No self respecting Dominant is going to portray themselves as a Dominant with a symbol of submission locked in them.

Subs, learn what to look for. You won't be able to get scammed by these moronic flat dicks l, if you pay attention. No profile, only 0-5 posts on their blog, collars on their neck, wanting a "loyal submissive for...", they are fake as fuck and don't deserve your time or recognition.

[princescribbler]

Hi little boy Scribbler. I'm sad. Iasked your mommy but maybe you can help too.

I'm scared I'll never find a mommy into AB/DL. It's so hard to be strong and stay brave when I wanna cry and be cared for by a mommy.

How did you find a great mommy like yours? How do I make sure she doesn't leave me or lose interest? How do i stop them from just ghosting me when they see I'm not rich, or into findom? And how do I find someone who will give me what I want not just what they want?

Sincerely,

All alone anon

Huh...I hate to jump to conclusions (and apologies if I'm judging incorrectly) but i'll admit you're setting off a few quiet alarms in my head!

I might be unfair, but when people push hard on the idea of only ever being ghosted, financially manipulated, and there being no mommies out there...It gets my guard up. Because often, very toxic or unhealthy behavior in subs or littles is sort of ignored, or accepted, and it really shouldn't be! And I'll admit, I wasn't the most healthy and mature participant in this community when I first got involved years ago, so I'm trying hard to not judge, but if you don't change your outlook and behavior, there's probably not much I can do or suggest to help!

That said: there are an astonishing number of people eager to take advantage of your needs and desperation, many who will probably ONLY have interest in your wallet and the like. The trick... isn't just in them. See, scammers and manipulators work by tricking you (or you being desperate enough) to ignore the many obvious red flags. Like, someone talking to you for 2 days, not knowing your real name, then insisting on knowing your address. Or, their entire blog is 4 days old and exclusively filled with the 10 easy to find posts tangentially related to your kinks... but they have no likes, no history, and their ability to communicate is shit.

THOSE people will immediately leave the second they no longer feel they'll have a good chance at scamming or manipulating. If something seems way too good to be true... it probably is. If a Dominant partner claims to be very well versed in BDSM, power dynamic relationships, and Ageplay... but jumps into offering you a new full time dynamic before even discussing SAFE WORDS or getting to know you? THAT SHOULD BE A SUPER CLEAR RED FLAG THAT THEY AREN'T A HEALTHY, REAL, SINCERE PERSON!!

So how did I get my momma princess and switch partner, @giggle-byte ? Well, first, don't forget that it's a two way street. Momma pursued me just as much as I pursued her. So step 1.... find someone who actually likes you. And SHOW OFF YOUR GOOD QUALITIES! Why would any domme or mommy want to care for a lazy, unkind, mean, demanding person? If you're just getting to know them and quickly start pushing for your kinks and desires to immediately be bowed to, you're probably not coming across in a good light.

Whether it's CG/L, BDSM, ABDL, ageplay, or just simple diaper fetishism, you need a partner who wants you, who sees your value, and enjoys you.. and you won't find that with random messages to 200+ online dommes in the hope that EVENTUALLY one'll fall in love with you. Instead, seek out actual meaningful connections with people, whether online or in person!

And my real best advice for avoiding toxic and fake mommies, findoms, and scammed is to focus on YOUR SAFETY AND SECURITY over getting off. If you truly can't tell if someone is a scammer... well, being honest, then online platforms to meet are a very bad idea for you. And if you need to know if someone is real or fake... recognize that a HEALTHY caregiver or dominant probably won't just jump into offering you a relationship (especially with strings attached), but a scammer or predatory findom probably will.

Good luck and I hope you find a way to get a happy and healthy dynamic, some day!

[ruinyourlifecf]

Treating submissives with basic respect is a mistake. Most subs that come to me come to me because I put off an aura of abusiveness. This is important to note because it is the initial reason, they choose to DM me. It's the reason they send me money, and the reason they come back. If you're in a similar situation, you should never make the mistake of "getting to know a submissive." Not only is this inefficient from a "time" perspective, but the sub will lose respect for you if you actual treat them like a friend. It may not seem like it at first, but they will lose interest. This is why I never play the friendship game with losers online. I take as much money as I can, as quickly as I can. I do not care about you, your day, your wellbeing, and I especially don't care about your financial plight. Subs ultimately can control who they serve, unless you are blackmailing them. You should understand there are always going to be other options for them, this is a very oversaturated market. So if they are in your DMs, if they are gooning, if they are sending, hit them hard. Don't think about all the potential money they could send in the future. Scam them NOW. If you are a sub reading this, I will take you for literally all you are worth and then dismiss your stupid ass. If you want to know what it feels like to go broke, only to then be told "Fuck off, Retard." then I am the Domme for you!

[volk2587]

Scam dommy out and about, fellow abdl littles and subs be alert if someone approaches you and immediately request your ID and cash it's most likely a scam. No one is free especially if it's a pro domme, but pro dommes have a protocol that involves a legit vetting process. So when you get suspicious and ask some questions and they do everything to dodge around and keep trying to push for your money regardless of the amount its a scam so please beware and take care

[sissytrixy]

Have you been practicing crossdressing in private with no one to guide you on what to do to get to your sissy goal or You might be looking for a Mistress in your area with little luck or you may need to keep your kinky interests very private for any kind of reasons. An online relationship with the pretty sissy academy is a perfect fit for situations like these. Most of you have been scammed in the process of looking for a dominatrix to serve

Now I am here to help you ,Starting a  dialogue with a Dominatrix online first is a great way to get to know her and eventually lead to sessions or a long term Mistress/slave relationship.

Thank you. There are just so many people on here trying to scam by pretending to be a Domme. We find it basically impossible to believe anyone now. I would love to get to know you if you are genuine

[kinkmanor-too]

Am a mistress of high class,I personal seek a slave, sissy, bimbo, or slut to serve me in person. Dm to enrol

At Kink Manor we have staff Dom/Dommes to help you learn and explore. But certainly many private Dom/Dommes come to the resort. Some bring their “toys” and “property” with them and some come in search of new subs to take into their care. It appears Mistress Abigail may be in the latter group. I’ll allow this request this time but if I hear from any of my visitors that you are not genuine or are running any scam or abuse and your privilege at Kink Manor will be revoked. 😈🔥🔥