#domestic fyosiglai my beloveds

[neonganymede]

Do u have any poly DoA headcanons you'd be willing to share with us plebeians? :3c

Do I have any poly doa headcanons I'd be willing to share????? You fucking bet I do~! Putting this under the cut because I got a little excited~

Nikolai is a classic blanket thief, but he doesn't steal the blankets for himself. He steals them for Fyodor, groggily making sure that Fedya is nice and tucked in so that he doesn't get cold during the night. This usually means that Sigma gets cold at night, and the only way to guarantee he'll get any sort of blanket coverage is to sleep in between Nikolai and Fyodor. Fyodor mentions that this arrangement was likely Nikolai's goal all along, but Nikolai refuses to comment on the matter.

Separately, all three of them are perfectly capable of cooking or baking without causing any sort of catastrophe. And together, Fyodor and Sigma work rather well together in the kitchen. The moment Nikolai enters the mix, all hell breaks loose. Not because Nikolai is bad at cooking. On the contrary, he's quite skilled in the kitchen, particularly at baking, but he can't resist causing problems when it's all three of them. After all, Fyodor and Sigma just look so cute when they're irritated at him, so how can he resist?

Nikolai never stops moving. He's always dancing or swaying or using his hands to fiddle with something. He's better at controlling himself when he's cuddling with Fyodor, who tends to prefer stillness when he's relaxing. With Sigma, Nikolai is always playing with his hands or pulling him into his lap or even braiding his hair. And when he is ready to settle down, it's that much easier to snuggle up with Fyodor once he already has Sigma in his clutches.

But when Nikolai's not in the mood to cuddle, Fyodor is quick to steal Sigma for his own gains. He's always cold, and Sigma's always hungry for affection. Even wrapped up in a blanket burrito, Fyodor is the most comfortable when he has Sigma close to steal his body heat to cozy up with <3

Sigma always keeps a small first-aid kit nearby. Nikolai tends to be destructive, both to himself and to their home, so he likes to be ready for whenever Nikolai inevitably hurts himself. He also keeps an eye on Fyodor, whose habit of biting through the skin of his fingers worries Sigma more than he would ever admit. Fyodor gets a little annoyed; why waste a band-aid when he'll likely need another one within the hour? But he finds Sigma's determination cute, so he lets himself be fussed over from time to time.

Sigma lived a sheltered, lonely childhood, so Nikolai makes it his goal to fill their daily lives with enough excitement to make up for it. This includes celebrating everything. He has a calendar, and it's difficult to find a week where every day isn't circled for one reason or another. From the smallest of anniversaries ("Look, Sigma! Six months ago today, you left the water running and flooded the kitchen!" "Why the hell are we celebrating that!?") to foreign holidays that they've never heard of ("Happy Fourth of July!" "Put the fireworks down, Kolya!"), Nikolai is determined to make a big deal out of it all. Sigma goes to Fyodor for help, expecting him to be the voice of reason capable of convincing Nikolai to stop. When he learns that Fyodor is the one providing Nikolai with the names of all of these random holidays, Sigma's not sure why anything surprises him anymore.

I should probably stop there before I end up rambling forever ^^; but thank you so much for asking!

[neonganymede]

Hi Moxie! As you know I love your modern fyosiglai and I’ve been wondering for a while if you had any hcs about them that you might wanna share (if not it’s totally ok ofc). Like how do you hc they started dating and how they entered their poly relationship, how do they generally display non sexual affection to each other, how is their dynamic in bed (is any of them ace or repulsed? Does any usually stick to a ‘role’?) etc, any hc you have! 💕

Hi Mune!!! dsjfaksldfjasdl is this fyosiglai day???? I'm absolutely not complaining <3 i'll take any chance I can get to talk about them~

And here are some other domestic headcanons in case you missed them

The way I write them, Fyolai were already a thing by the time they met Sigma, and both of them felt very happy and secure in their relationship. Sigma ended up living with them on Dazai's recommendation. Dazai knew that they had an extra room, and he thought they would shake up Sigma's life in a way that he needed.

Nikolai fell first, Fyodor fell quietly, and Sigma fell so hard that it frightened him. He tried to distance himself, not wanting to cause any problems in their relationship. He was so ordinary, so how could he ever hope that one of them felt something for him, let alone both of them? The idea seemed too absurd to even consider.

By then, Nikolai and Fyodor had discussed asking Sigma to be a part of their relationship. Nikolai thought that everything would go smoothly, but Fyodor was less confident that Sigma would agree to date them both. He knew that Sigma had affections for Nikolai, but he assumed that his naturally dismissive nature was what kept Sigma from getting too close to them.

And it did take some time to convince Sigma that he belonged with them, that they both wanted him equally. Not for the reasons that Fyodor had feared but because Sigma just didn't believe it. He was just an extra, wasn't he? Wouldn't they eventually get tired of him? But Fyodor and Nikolai had already decided that they were all dating, even if it took Sigma a little bit longer to realize.

Sigma's starved for contact, but he's also the least-likely person to initiate anything. He complains when Nikolai drapes himself over his back like the world's clingiest overcoat, but he never asks Nikolai to stop. He never pulls away, and he always stands and sits close to Fyodor, hoping that those chilly fingers will reach out and draw him close.

Fyodor has a habit of napping on Sigma, almost like a cat seeking out its favorite patch of sunlight. Sigma moves around less than Nikolai, so it's easier to relax with his head in Sigma's lap or on his shoulder. And Sigma loves it. Even if he's stuck sitting on the couch for most of the afternoon, he'll stay as still as possible to keep from disturbing Fyodor's impromptu nap. Nikolai lets them be for as long as he can bear, usually snapping a few pictures before diving on the couch to cuddle with them.

Sigma is an ordinary person who likes to get an ordinary amount of sleep at night. This was a big change for Fyodor, whose sleeping schedule was almost nonexistent, and Nikolai, who slept so erratically that Sigma genuinely feared for his health. They both agreed to try sleeping through the night but ultimately made no promises. Surprisingly, Sigma's grounding presence was all they'd needed to get a solid eight hours of sleep every night.