#doesn’t respect my grey-asexuality even tho i helped her work through her sexuality and whether she was aro or not

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10,15 for the pride ask game

hey ty for the asks!!

10. Something that gives you gender euphoria (whether you're cis or trans): depends on whether i’m in a masculine mood or a feminine mood but for masc i have a sports bra that can act as a binder and if i wear that with an oversized tshirt and my designated ‘masc jeans’ i can look so androgynous imo. for femme i have my favourite dress <3

15. How has your identity changed over time? back when i was 14 i started to question my gender and i was sort of switching between bigender and using she/he and pangender and using she/they/he but one of my friends (who identified as nonbinary at the time!!!) was super bitchy about it – like she’d ask me my pronouns every single time she talked about me but she’d do it in a passive-aggressive ‘ugh what gender are you this time’ way, and it was very discouraging so i stopped questioning and just went with she/they/he even tho it didn’t feel right, and then eventually thought it was all internalised misogyny and went back to she/her. so it wasn’t until recently that i figured out my gender identity and i’m still pissed at that girl about it and she’s still passive-aggressive about my gender identity and uses they/them pronouns for me even tho i use she/he.