#dealing with a manchild
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Damn I’m so tired nasty abusive stuff under the cut
Manchild got fired from his job a couple of days ago. He’s basically on a bender and he can’t go to his moms cause his sister has a friend living over there temporarily. Tonight I offered to take him to get his water that he so desperately wanted but along with getting water also got more beer which he proceeded to open and drink while having other beer containers in my car and one opened one sitting in my cup holder. He asked to go to Burger King and I said sure as long as you quit talking/shut up/ just be quiet he refused to do that so I gave him one more chance as I drove down the side street to do as I asked he still refused to so I drove past it and in typical manchild fashion he threatens to beat my face in and wreck my car all the while blaming me for not getting him his food. Btw he has food here that will be going bad soon. I gave him one more chance to just stop talking he refused so I drove home. Once in the garage he tried to push me out my car and when that didn’t work he grabbed my wrist hard enough or probably leave a bruise and also twisted it. I’ve locked him and his dog out of the room. I’m tired of his abusive shit but I don’t know how to get away from it. It’s been years of emotional/physical/verbal/financial abuse and it’s honestly embarrassing. Oh yeah his excuse for drinking so much is he just lost his job, and he gets mad when I flinch when he makes sudden movements. I think he tries to gaslight me by asking me when he’s ever hurt me but gets mad when I point it out. He also claims that I’m the abusive one he I hit back after he’s already hit me.
#personal#text post#dealing with a manchild#dealing with abuse#the good days were so good but now it’s more bad days then good#i just want to disappear from everyone and everything and start over but I can’t because I’m broke and honestly a little scared to
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Fighting under the cut and illness talked about
Manchild is at it again. He thinks just because he bought the food that I’m cooking for us while severely sick I should drop down and kiss the ground that he’s walking on. Like no I had high fevers yesterday to the point of the 80+°f weather felt cold and my head was so stuffed up I could barely walk and got nauseous in the car. Add on to the fact that I didn’t eat anything except a handful of chips and barely drank anything, all that to say I’m still weak and was shaking making the food. Oh yeah and this all while he’s pressuring me to say I feel better so he doesn’t feel bad for making cook,run the food down to him, and clean the kitchen all by myself. Like I’m having to take several breaks and have been cooking for 2 hours now because guess what I have no fucking energy. Plus he got mad at me because I peed downstairs in the bathroom and washed my hands but according to him I was doing sketchy shit but I have a food handlers license from my state and I don’t fuck with peoples food like that nor would I ever think about doing it. But he’s worked around sketch ass people and thinks that’s how everyone does it. Send help I’m sick and weak and feel like I’m this 31 year olds mom.
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I know that in the 2000s storylines just ran different on TV shows and the new CW was downplaying what ASP brought to Gilmore Girls so she had to walk away, but I still can't forgive Amy for putting Luke and Lorelai into the situations she did in S6 and destroying their relationship. Her giving the middle finger to the CW with that S6 finale really just screwed over the fans and her characters instead.
#gilmore girls#lorelai gilmore#luke danes#java junkie#luke x lorelai#it's june 3rd i'm in my java junkie feels#imagine if they'd had a baby together#lorelai having to learn how to really be a coparent and her dealing with richard and emily#but nooooo they had to bring back christopher that manchild#so many other plotlines they could have done
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ppl are always depicting cyno in fanon as a comic relief annoying idiot partner to tighnari that cannot read the room and is always making him angry and yeah he doesn't have the best social skills and doesn't understand other people that well, but he knows that. and he also knows tighnari well enough to know that if he truly was annoyed with his behavior to the point of getting angry, he would shut that shit down real quick. he's not the type of person to just sit there and take it if he's genuinely bothered, i think. cyno's just putting himself out there without letting himself be paralyzed by his own shortcomings or insecurities, and it's pretty clear tighnari doesn't want him to repress himself either.
if anything, i can see tighnari being the one with an annoying habit in private that he has 0 self awareness about because he's so used to being the one dealing with other people's bullshit that he may not realize when he's the culprit for once, and cyno is too much of an unbothered king to say anything about it, and too madly in love to stay annoyed for long lol
#cynonari#its especially baffling when ppl make tighnari be annoyed with cyno playing his funny card game and being goofy when at the end of his sq#tighnari shows up and sees that cyno isnt being his goofy self and immediately prescribes him playing cards to feel better. doctor's orders#and he plays with him himself. why would he participate in and encourage his friend's hobby if he hated it#i think they both smell like autism and both deal with socializing by projecting a lot of confidence and being bluntly honest#but in tighnaris case the way he expresses himself makes the confidence kinda mask the autistic vibes while cyno's puts them on full displa#basically i think cyno is fully self aware about his own autism swag he just doesnt feel like hiding it because that would just#make everything worse and more awkward#it rly sucks when people reduce their differences to tighnari being the smart mature adult and cyno being the idiot unserious manchild#feels like one of those situations where people are moreso applying fandom tropes that have been flanderized over time onto characters#without actually considering those characters as characters#i need to stop thinking about gay dog men and go to bed#occurs to me i should probably tag this as the ship in case someone's just looking up the characters and wants to filter it out?#idk tumblr's inconsistent about when it throws my posts into the spotlight and when it lets me stay in my corner
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i hate how both of my parent's retirement plan is "idk i will just die" like y'all don't even like each other enough to plan a joint suicide
#my mom has no retirement money because my dad had her cash out her retirement for him for REDACTED reason. and my dad has no retirement#because he's been a complete fucking manchild his entire life and why do this any differently#idk i just worry that i will finally get my life together in 10-15 years time and then i will get to spend the rest of my life dealing#with the fact that my parents cant make good financial decisions or have any foresight. which ass cause i already spent years 0-27 dealing#with those things and would love to live my life for longer than 15 years idk.#and everyone in my family lives til their 80s sooooooo.
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since nobita is lazy, he should have married suneo
I would not wish that upon Suneo ever.
#doraemon talk#if its not obvious i just dont think nobita clicks like that with any of his friends#but esp NOT shizuka and suneo#if i think its miserable that shizuka has to deal with a manchild i def wouldnt want the same for anyone else#also i think itd piss suneo off if he got stuck with that you can HEAR the divorce coming a mile away#if they even would make it that far bc lets be honest with ourselves... it wouldnt#im rly slandering nobita here but i blame the writers for often making his adult self obnoxious#if we were talking night before a wedding verse id be like Maybe but he isnt like... Lazy anymore bc he matured in that one
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in todays episode of Step Dad Hate Club, i just spent 20 minutes stuck outside while i was trying to avoid him which lead to me barefoot and ready to climb the side gate to get around through the front door until i heard him go back inside
#at least it's not winter#he was being an emotionally manipulative manchild and i simply didn't want to deal with his energy#so i just stayed outside with mum but i didn't want to bother her while she was trying to read so i was hanging out at the washing line#but the fucker wouldn't get out of the kitchen (which is where the back door is) so i was just sorta. hovering there like a weirdo#AND THEN he came outside to have a smoke!! and i was like ''fuck'' and had to hide around the side of the house#but he just Would Not go back in so i was like ''fuck it'' and decided i was going to climb over the side gate#and go inside through the front door#but right as i was trying to figure out how i was going to avoid the weird caging on the other side i heard him back in#and then by the time i managed to get to the back door he was nowhere to be seen so i slipped back inside#and then managed to sit down and put my headphones in before he appeared again#so i'm calling this a win#step dad hate club#captain speaks
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just chiming in to say that yes apparently tumblr is harvesting a fuckton of data with tumblr live and this is a universal social media thing
so like if you want to use non mastodon social media you’re fucked in any case
tumblr is not uniquely terrible in this sense
okay actually taking my sabbatical
#ta ta internet#I am not getting an apartment because they are more expensive then my mortgage around here#I will have to continue to fracture my psyche dealing with my manchild father#bats speaks
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“i wasn’t hurt that badly. the doctor said all my bleeding was internal, that’s where the blood’s supposed to be.”
↳ incorrect quote starter call. @opines
#・ ˖ ✦ ⋄ . IN CHARACTER ❝ stanley pines. ❞#opines#I knew immediately what one I was gonna use for stan#ford I wish you luck dealing with this manchild
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How the fuck is a drunk idiot who puts a lighter up to MY FUCKING EAR AND ACTUALLY LIGHTS SAY THAT IT DIDNT ACTUALLY SCORH ME????
Also learn fucking proper English and how to correctly use words, calling me illiterate and a scary cat when I say stop and prove him wrong constantly. Also trying to steal my keys while drunk? Yeah right
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Lmao my abusive boyfriend who I call manchild is butt hurt saying that I’ve posted his name and how his family would hate me for telling the truth about him
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Gnawing at the bars of my enclosure now because of that image. Oh I saw that image so clearly.
welp. good. at least im not suffering alone then
#what if i passed this au onto you though. then what#what if youre the one who was forced to deal with the manchild that is devil stone instead of me. would you still love me if i did that?#/lh#im. so lazy. i have the awooga worthy image but. i dont want to write that shit#cuz it sounds like a 3 parter to me at LEAST#and i suck at commitment like that#(case and point: none of my recent stuff being like over 1k words)#response#the-whispers-of-death
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Pray for your girl I'm Burning all the bridges with family (I live under said bridges)
#i just do not have the energy#to deal with their condescending “well-meaning” bullshit that just encourages me to fold myself into shapes of their liking#especially when they've been very much not present throughout my entire life#I'm trying to be as polite as i can but there's so much i can hold back when they lecture me on “how to be kind” for 30 mins#without even bothering to know the entire story#the unkindness on my part? saying I'm gonna be too tired to handle two tasks at once early morning#and one of those tasks being dealing with an incompetent manchild with no respect for me#just wow#mal talks#family bs
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i am so tired of passive aggression, just tell me!! most man action ever like hellooo u wannna uhh communicate??
#it makes me sick it disgusts me#because if i say anything about it they will respond in actual aggression. and feel validated because i was the one who spoke first#men kill yourself men kill yourelf men kill yourself#men take emotional intelligence classes then kill yourself. the women in hell dont deserve to deal with ur manchild shit
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"Heyyyy wassup Mikey!" Adam storms in Michael's training studio unannounced and unceremoniously barrels into the lithe warrior, picking him up and giving him a nougie, similar to what he did back in Eden in that short period of time after Lilith and Lucifer left. Sorry, not sorry Michael, you have to deal with this manchild. - ✧ ˖ ˙ 「 @meansman 」 ˙ ˖ ✧
「 ☆ 」 Chest heaving from an overexertion that makes every muscle burn as if on fire, blue hues are nothing but ice as they behold the training dummy before him. Ripped beyond recognition thanks to a heavenly blade, any foe would have long fallen… Michael, however, has yet to be satisfied. So this imaginary adversary— standing steadfast in the place of Sera Heaven Samael Lucifer Sinners —must suffer even longer, MERCY not a virtue found within Michael’s training studio. Wiping mussed locks from a sweat-slicked forehead, fingers then flex upon the hilt as he reaffirms his grip.
Preparing for another strike, focus is shattered thanks to an all-too-familiar voice. Startled by the sudden intrusion, sword clatters to the ground as he hastily lets go— disappearing in a flash of stardust-infused light —barely having enough time to ditch the weapon before he’s unceremoniously swept up by overbearing arms. With an undignified yelp, the small angel now dangles from Adam’s hold. Going limp with a huff, rosey cheeks dust gold in what he hopes is interpreted as indignation. Not the best look for someone of Michael’s position, but still better than the true source of his change of color.
Grumbling under his breath as fluffy hair is further disrupted ( so what if it was already messy? it’s the principle of the matter ) , he aims a practiced unimpressed look up at Adam. ❝ Michael. ❞ He insists, the composed ❛ authority ❜ in his tone rather comical considering the situation. Frankly, he's aware Adam isn’t the sort to forgo nicknames merely because he’s told. If anything, he could dig in harder. But the small warrior insists nonetheless. He used to hesitate on the matter, figuring it would be a show of ego to put so much importance on what he prefers to be called…
Then Michael decided it was fine. Heaven had bestowed the name upon him, after all. So it’s not unreasonable to defend it from being butchered.
With the retort taken care of, a whisper of a smile dares to hint Michael’s features. Alone save for Adam, the angel gives in to the urge to partake in a bit of teasing of his own… Albeit under the guise of a lesson. In a blinding flash, Michael swiftly switches to a smaller creature. A golden-winged butterfly, resplendent as the sparks trailing behind it, easily free of Adam’s hold as it swoops up and behind in hardly any time at all. Poofing back into his proper form behind the larger angel, Michael attempts to use the momentum of his fall to playfully tackle Adam to the ground. At the very least, he figures he might cling onto the other man’s back. A far more advantageous position than being trapped in his arms. 「 ☆ 」
#(( and 'deal with the manchild'; he shall dfgjndfjkgdf ))#burning-fcols#michael ic tbt#meansman#⭒ ˙ ˖ ✧ — ˗ˏˋ ❝ ᴛʜᴇ ᴏʀɪɢɪɴᴀʟ ᴅɪᴄᴋ ❞ ¦ 「 Adam 」#michael and adam tbt#⭒ ˙ ˖ ✧ — ˗ˏˋ ❝ ꜱᴏ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ɪꜰ ɪ ᴍɪꜱʙᴇʜᴀᴠᴇ? ɪᴛ’ꜱ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴇᴠᴇʀʏʙᴏᴅʏ ᴄʀᴀᴠᴇꜱ ❞ ¦ 「 Answer 」#⭒ ˙ ˖ ✧ — ˗ˏˋ ❝ ᴡʜᴇɴ ʏᴏᴜ ᴡᴀɴᴛ ꜱᴏᴍᴇʙᴏᴅʏ ɢᴏɴᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ʏᴏᴜ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ᴡᴀɴᴛ ᴛᴏ ᴡᴀɪᴛ ᴛᴏᴏ ʟᴏɴɢ— ❞ ¦ 「 Queue 」
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Posts about parenting just make me believe I'm gonna be a better parent than I thought because I have years of experience with parenting an alcoholic parent gekshsjegdjkdhdhje
#breaking up a fight in the car? done that#putting him to sleep and telling him to brush his teeth? done that#dealing with a tantrum over something nobody ever mentioned? done that#alcoholism pretty much makes you a manchild it seems#alcoholism#meh
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