#consensual thramsay

[fanficdoggo]

Rainy Day - Drabble

Ramsay sat quietly in the window sill, book perched in his lap, reading with a cup of tea sitting by his hip. Rain pattered softly against the window, a soft rhythmic sound. The world was peaceful. Well, almost. Theon sat snoring only a few feet from him in their bed.

The brown-haired man had woken up ridiculously early and had only recently fallen back asleep. Ramsay silently wondered how long he would rest before realizing it was raining.

The last time it had rained, Theon had all but pleaded for them to go out into the dreary weather and enjoy it -something he never asks for on sunny days- and Ramsay is too weak to deny him anything even if that means looks like a wet rat in the rain while Theon laughs and carries on through puddles and streams. 

But for now, he snores loudly in bed, buried to his neck in soft blankets and items that smell like home, like Ramsay, and the dark-haired boy can read in peace. The rain isn’t meant to stop until well into the night, so he waits with a small smile for the other to notice.

[deadgirlwalked]

Boyfriend by Dove Cameron is such a fem!thramsey song, at least in the consensual au

[itrhymeswith-freak]

consensual but not safe or sane thramsay has set up camp in my brain and alas it is all my thoughts now

[haunted-by-shadows]

Trans Theon Brainrot (NSFW marked)

Okay so I’ve had severe transmasc Theon brainrot for the past few days after going on a very GoT/Greyjoy themed holiday

These are 99.9% based on showverse Theon in a modern AU but there are a few elements from the books sprinkled throughout. Most of them are pretty angsty (it is GoT) but there’s some fluff and crack-ish ones too

This is based on personal experiences/fantasies as a trans man. They’re also just my personal headcanons, which I separate from actual canon events/characterisation <3

Minors DNI, NSFW headcanons included

SFW Content Warnings:

Dysphoria, transphobia (internal & external), attachment issues, Balon’s A+ parenting, abusive childhoods, fucked-up views of gender norms/roles, self-destructive behaviours/poor coping mechanisms, mental illness, self harm, unhealthy/abusive relationships, menstruation (transmasc character), implied pregnancy (transmasc character), injection/surgery mention, Ramsay Bolton, consensual Thramsay

NSFW Content Warnings:

Explicit consensual Thramsay (Theon is totally onboard with everything but I cannot stress this enough, Ramsay can be a mean SOB), AFAB terminology, feminisation, established power dynamics, general BDSM mention, vaginal penetration (trans man), humiliation/degradation, Daddy kink, breeding kink, size kink, ownership kink, marking/biting/scarification

Personality:

* For all his outward arrogance and inflated self-importance, Theon is deeply insecure and anxious. He attempts to keep the people in his life distant and detached emotionally, believing that it’ll hurt less when they inevitably abandon him

* His tendency to act like an asshole is half mimicry of the adults in his childhood, especially his uncle Euron, and half defence mechanism. Years of being a disappointment to his father has created a toxic, twisted persona that he believes Balon would finally be proud of. In reality, he’s just a scared little boy who wants to be loved

* During his teenage years, Theon suppressed anything about himself that could be construed as feminine, worried that others would question his identity or that he wouldn’t be ‘trans’ enough

* (Before meeting Ramsay) In order to gain any sort of attention and feel desirable, Theon acts overly flirtatious and puts himself in toxic intimate situations. Robb and Jon have had to step in to rescue a very-intoxicated Theon from many unsavoury characters on nights out

* Deep down, Theon is very sentimental and soft - he adores the ocean, animals and flicking through books his mother used to read to him

* Now in his mid-twenties, Theon is more authentically confident. He’s grown his hair out a little, paints his nails and wears eyeliner, steals Sansa’s cropped shirts - he looks damn good and he knows it (besides, Jon does it too)

The Greyjoys:

* Theon’s relationship with his father is nonexistent, aside from the lasting emotional scars, fear of abandonment and chronic insecurity stemming from his childhood

* Even as a child, Theon was regarded as the ‘weakest’ Greyjoy heir. Pre-transition, he was already much more sensitive, gentle and emotional than his older sister, Yara, who took after their brothers

* Yara is fiercely supportive of Theon’s transition, she has always known her baby brother was a bit different and loved him regardless. After Alannys’ death, Yara takes over protecting Theon from their father the way their mother used to. However, she takes a tough-love approach rather than Alannys’ coddling one, fearing that Theon will not be able to defend himself should she not be there

* Balon’s neglect and abuse of Theon is less to do with the fact that he’s trans, and almost entirely to do with the fact that he fails to live up to the image of Maron and Rodrik - if he’s suddenly going to have a third son, he bloody better act like a traditional Ironborn man (Theon does not, at all)

* In all honesty, Balon doesn’t give enough of a shit about his kids to care about their gender identities - he just wishes his only living male heir could’ve turned out to be Yara instead. In his eyes, at least she would be tough and gritty enough to take ‘the role of a man’

The Starks:

* At first, Theon deeply resented his adoptive family and the bond they share with one another - it wasn’t fair that he couldn’t have what the Stark children could. It took many years but eventually, Theon let his guard down and truly felt like part of the family; he now considers Ned and Cat his parents, and the Stark kids his siblings.

* When Theon came out, he told Sansa first. She proceeded to kick everyone out of the house to plan a gender reveal party with Margaery and Dany. Though he pretended to be embarrassed, Theon had never felt more affirmed in his life

* Jon and Theon used to despise each other; the latter would go out of his way to demean his adoptive brother because at least he wouldn’t be last in the pecking order anymore. As time went on, both realised they were as lonely and rejected as the other. Theon began dragging Jon out to socialise with their classmates, while Jon introduced Theon to his favourite bands, his favourite emotional outlet. Ned eventually converted part of the garage into a makeshift studio for the pair to thrash out all their frustrations. They’ve seen Nine Inch Nails live together four times. Jon cried every time, Theon hasn’t told a soul

* Once, when he was seventeen, Theon injured himself by swimming in his binder and wasn’t allowed to wear it for a week. He hid in his room for three days before Robb and Jon burst into his room, both wearing bras they stole from Sansa and stuffed with socks. They refused to take them off and kept attention away from Theon until he could safely bind again

* Arya bonds with Theon as he helps them explore their own gender identity and expression, constantly reassuring them that they can look and act however they want no matter who they are

* Even though he’s now starting high school, Rickon still introduces Theon to everyone as his big brother. Theon doesn’t think he’ll ever stop feeling gender euphoria when he hears it

* Ned is a little awkward around Theon for a while, he’s out of his depth and doesn’t want to offend the boy. In his office, he spends hours pouring over forums for parents of trans youth, medical documents and trans charity webpages. If anything, he goes into extreme, unnecessary detail in his research, which is mildly embarrassing but Theon appreciates the effort all the same

* In Cat’s eyes, Theon is a troubled, problem child: starting fights at school, excessive drinking, cutting himself, disappearing for days at a time. However, when he finally receives his first appointment with a youth gender specialist, she holds his hand the whole way to the clinic

* Bran finds comfort in the fact that Theon is different too. At times he considers himself an outsider compared to his siblings, but Theon listens to his rants and truly understands how he feels

Ramsay:

* A brief overview of how I headcanon Rams in this scenario before I get into his and Theon’s relationship. Ramsay has a dysfunctional family, anger management issues, a major obsession with Theon Greyjoy and some form of antisocial personality disorder. He’s nowhere near as depraved as he is in the show/books but he is still controlling, impulsive, violent and all-round antisocial. His attachment insecurities due to his relationship with Roose has led to a warped view of love and a desire to ‘own’ those he has deep feelings for - Roose has drilled into him that showing affection and vulnerability are signs of weakness. This manifests most aggressively around Theon (who he truly loves, adores, cares for usually tolerates)

* Anyways, Ramsay doesn’t strike me as the transphobic type - he hates everyone equally. He’s quite supportive, in the sense that Theon is still his pet regardless of what his body looks like. In fact, Theon being trans gives Ramsay more opportunities to control/change his appearance

* Ramsay gladly plays the role of ‘daddy’; he has his own daddy issues to work through and Theon is desperate for any kind of praise and validation. Sometimes all Theon wants is a firm hand to guide him and put him in his place, which works perfectly for Ramsay

* Their attachment to one another is undoubtedly unhealthy but it’s a perfect dynamic: Theon finally feels wholly wanted and Ramsay knows that Theon can’t won’t ever leave him

* They met in university; Theon studying art and Ramsay, biology. Well… Ramsay notices Theon from afar, sees right through his mask of confidence and makes it his life mission to rip it off forever. Robb and Jon are immediately suspicious when Ramsay begins cosying up to Theon, but Theon is smitten; a handsome, intelligent guy is interested in him and knows exactly what to say to validate him, almost as if Ramsay already knows everything about him…

* Theon’s hormone treatment begins after he starts being owned by dating Ramsay, as up until that point hormones and surgery have been financially unattainable (Balon has never lifted a finger to help). Luckily, the Bolton’s are loaded from their totally-legal business practises and Ramsay is more than happy to pay for Theon to attend a private clinic. Although this comes across to everyone else as uncharacteristically sweet for Ramsay, he secretly plans to hold Theon’s testosterone hostage should he ever think of leaving :)

* Ramsay insists on administering all of Theon’s testosterone shots and blood tests. Theons knows it makes Ramsay feel in control, but finds it endearing nonetheless

* Rams absolutely gets agitated whenever Theon gets his period, because how dare his boy bleed and be in pain when it’s not by his own hands. This is the main thing he can’t control and hates feeling like he doesn’t have complete ownership over Theon’s body. Theon has had to explain repeatedly that he can’t just ‘hold it in’, as Ramsay is a possessive motherfucker and has convinced himself that Theon is purposefully depriving him of his bodily fluids

* This belief is in spite of Ramsay’s biology degree because whenever Theon is concerned, the laws of science cease to exist because ‘the little bitch has to be doing this just to spite me’

* When Theon announces that he has found a surgeon for top-surgery, Rams almost has an aneurism from jealousy - no one else is allowed to scar or mark his precious pet. Subsequently, he pays his way into a plastic surgery course in order to perform Theon’s top surgery himself (in the Dreadfort’s basement)

* Roose is almost pleased when Theon moves into the Dreadfort; Ramsay is completely infatuated with the boy and is ‘behaving himself’ more than usual. He is unbothered by Theon’s transition, but dreads the possibility of mini Ramsay’s wreaking havoc in the future

NSFW Headcanons

* Ramsay lives for the spike in Theon’s libido a few days after his T-shot, loves how needy and insatiable he gets for any kind of stimulation, constantly dripping wet and ready for Ramsay to use whenever he pleases

* No matter where they are, Ramsay has a filthy mouth and it drives Theon insane. Rams loves watching his boy squirm after whispering something dirty to him during family gatherings

* Though he used to suffer from a lot of genital dysphoria, Theon adores bottoming for Ramsay; the man has an impressive dick and a damn oral fixation, he eats pussy like a god

* A size queen through and through, the size/build difference between Ramsay and himself really gets Theon going; it’s so easy for his boyfriend to pick him up and slam him against the nearest surface, or pin him underneath his weight. It makes Theon feel so incredibly small and it takes his breath away. Similarly, Ramsay loves how slim Theon is and incorporates it frequently into his bedroom talk - “Aww, is my cock hurting you, sweetling? Is it too much for your little pussy to take?..”(Theon almost cums from words alone)

* Rams 100% has a breeding kink; marking Theon from the inside, carrying his baby, showing everyone else who he belongs to - Theon isn’t exactly opposed to that fantasy either ;)

* Speaking of kinks! Both have a hardcore daddy kink, self explanatory. They pretty much have a 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic and enjoy many aspects of BDSM

* The first time Ramsay, jokingly, used the nickname ‘Princess’, Theon tried (and failed) to hide the fact that his boxers were soaked through. Now, Rams drops it casually into conversations for the satisfaction of watching Theon attempt to hold himself together

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I absolutely have more headcanons in the deepest darkest recesses of my brain but these are all I can put into words atm

[bravelittlescrib]

The ironic Thramsay to serious Thramsay pipeline. I want them to kiss. Maybe even consensually.

[koipepo]

This is very petty, but I couldn’t enjoy Sabu’s art after I learned that they’re a man. I can only enjoy noncon when it’s *not* drawn by a guy.

That's fair actually! The fact that it's drawn by a man could make his het noncon art feels too close to irl misogyny, or at least that's what i used to feel (and still feel a fraction of)

But so far Sabu has done/say nothing to indicate that, in fact he's been really polite even towards people acting antagonistic. I'll be a hypocrite if i judge his real life moral standing based on his art, since i also draw noncon thramsay... 🤧

Maybe you'll like his femboy art better? (sabs_art in twitter) They're all consensual and pretty cute tho it's not for me. Honestly noncon het is also not my cup of tea but damn, this guy is too damn good haha

[cbrosa-archived]

hey guys!! ✨ here's my list of all the pending writings i plan to make and publish little by little, all inspired in the mentioned shows, characters and ships that caught my eye so far, will be updated soon.

hemlock grove:

untitled | roman godfrey/female oc/female oc | dark/bloodplay/kinky nsfw - threesome - one-shot

untitled | roman godfrey/female oc | nsfw make up sex breeding one-shot

untitled | roman godfrey/male oc | nsfw one-shot

untitled | roman godfrey/male oc | dark nsfw one-shot

a chance with me | roman godfrey/male oc | fluff and/or romantic one-shot

battlecreek:

untitled | henry pearl/female oc | nsfw - romantic - honeymoon related

possible mlm fluff stuff | fic series or one-shot

westworld:

wonderful electric | logan delos/ stripper female oc | nsfw - possible one-shot or a two-part fic.

game of thrones:

untitled | modern au consensual thramsay | nsfw - breeding - mpreg - one shot

our honeymoon | modern au consensual thramsay ~ marriage | nsfw

untitled | 80s au consensual thramsay | nsfw - softcore - fluff - romantic

untitled | 80s au theon greyjoy/female oc - nsfw -  softcore - first time sex

untitled | 80s au consensual thramsay | fluff

untitled | modern au ramsay bolton/female oc | daddy kink - filthy nsfw

to turn you on | modern au consensual thramsay ~ sugar daddy/sugar baby | nsfw or possible fic series

untitled | modern au consensual thramsay ~ marriage lifestyle | nsfw 

do you love me? | modern au consensual thramsay | softcore nsfw one shot

john wick:

untitled | iosef tarasov/female oc | nasty and dirty nsfw with daddy/babygirl kinks one-shot

go to town  |  iosef tarasov/female oc  | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

the punisher:

kiss it better | billy russo/female oc | nsfw - make up sex - one shot

untitled | billy russo/female oc ~ marriage | nsfw - breeding

please like or reblog this post if you'd like to be tagged ♡♡♡

[kitathyy]

Soft Thramsay AU for a fic I’m writing :)))

This scene will only take place in the future but I couldn’t stop myself from making this.

Here is the link to it if you want to take a look: https://archiveofourown.org/works/19792228/chapters/46857790

[vkayv]

thramsay 램지테온

[lordramsaybolton]

Honestly Daemyra is one of the only things I’ve shipped that’s actually canon and it feels weird. I mean, you could argue thramsay is canon in a way, but I mean something less strictly dark and, uh, totally non consensual. Also less subtext.

I guess I was writing Reylo for a hot second(when I could still imagine it was incest after TFA lol) but let’s stick to ASOIAF. Obviously looking at fandom stuff it’s a very different vibe from the sort of content I’d been consuming before (tho as a side note it’s been wild to log back in and see thramsay stuff is still being created…if you remember me and don’t hate me due to years old drama & slander feel free to hmu or follow lol)

Anyway I’m glad to be along for the ride for the new ship??

Edited bc I spelled the ship name wrong duhhh my b

[wine4thewin]

This is an old fandom, but I can’t help it. I love your Dungeon Master series. Perfect consensual thramsay - toxic and fluffy and hot.

Old fandom that might become new again once the next GoT series comes out LOL!? I’m still mad about the end of GoT, too many goofy plot choices in the mad dash to wrap the tv show, so who knows how the next will go 😓

Anyway, glad you enjoyed The Dungeon Master. Though, I always hesitate to call it ‘consensual’ Thramsay, simply because the subject matter of the AU is very, very dark and frankly, quite dubious. There is technically no ‘happy ending’; Theon is an individual who is spiraling out, consumed by trauma, drugs, daddy-issues, and abandonment issues. By the end, he acknowledges he’s making a bad choice, but decides he wants to continue spiraling downward, because he knows no other way 😢

I can’t even begin to explain how much research went into the fic, between the dungeon scenes & the psychology. Especially around making sure Ramsay’s depicted personality disorders rang true and were not downplayed or exaggerated in a false manner (which, I had some individuals with similar disorders tell me that it did feel realistic for them, so perhaps I did something right).

Anyway. Very dark, toxic story. I’m glad people appreciate it for what it is. It was the first story of that magnitude and size I ever finished and it taught me so much about writing.

[cealtrachs]

You said that you don't like noncon? Why Theon x Ramsay?

I’m Roman Catholic. Jk.

The pair relates well to themes/motifs I find compelling. Identity, transcendence vs immanence, father issues, the grotesque, hedonism vs morality, free will, redemptive suffering, intimacy vs dehumanization, forest as the uncanny, and many more. Theon exhibits traits that, while human, are antithetical to the way I approach the world. And Ramsay, well. He’s a monster.

Any canon iteration of them is a story of abuse, terror, and (on Theon’s part) being pushed to the brink of human suffering and surviving.

These facets can be emphasized or minimized at one’s discretion. Probably why there’s a large variety of good fic out there (ranging from canon-compliant whump to fluff to Stockholm Syndrome to 100k+ word consensual BDSM AU). It’s a very Gothic and intimate dynamic, regardless of which “flavor” you choose.

I’m chronically tender hearted, and would not be particularly effective when writing noncon, or even “harder” dubcon/domestic violence. There are some very good thramsay works that do include them and I’ve enjoyed these, albeit in a “risk aware” way where I take ownership of what I expose myself to. That being said, I do love power play and toxicity.

My own writing is p much G-rated thramsay, with cloying sweetness and lots of nature imagery in distinctly non-canon settings. Catch me in my softgirl hedge garden. Tending to my fennel blossoms or w/e.

[asongoflivinganddying]

Tell us your thramsay thoughts.

I am so fucking glad you asked.

Okay, so thramsay is a ship that gives me free reign with torture. If I want to write something where A gives B the head of C (the former lover) and fucks B while B is mourning C (which could be considered rape) I go with thramsay because that is made for them.

C is Robb

B is Theon

A is Ramsay

Modern au thramsays are hard to write.

Consensual thramsay is harder to write but @cealtrachs does a fantastic job with that.

There is a lot of tension and subtext with thramsay. In both show and books.

There is something so beautiful about how Theon is completely honest and vulnerable at Ramsay's hands. Ramsay broke down all the walls theon put up and i find it hot.

Now, the fact that the scenes in got where ramsay tortures theon are so bloody intimate make it so much better.

Thramsay helps me find red flags in actual people cause I know 'em so intimately.

The other thoughts i have are just HOT SEXY HOT and being mindly creeped out by ramsay.

[koipepo]

Thramsay kiss?<3

The best. Any romantic/intimate gesturr will be automatically non-consensual and anxiety-inducing in thramsay context. Since Ramsay went out of his way to kiss Sansa just to unsettle her in the show, it's not far-fetched to think he'd kissed Reek in their time together.

Kisses to carve more shame into Reek, out of mischief/perversity, or out of rare appreciation for how loyal his pet has been to him; all of the flavors are equally good

[cbrosa-archived]

personal jesus by depeche mode is a thramsay anthem.

[kitathyy]

 I’m backk with my first Thramsay art

 I KNOW it’s a little too romantic for the pairing but I live in a world where Theon and Ramsay didn’t die, found each other and lived as much as a normal and sane life as they could live being with each other.