#child rape

[mycptsdstory]

[breakingbobcat]

Child neglect

Something I've never heard mentioned is this:

child victims of sexual abuse, even when they are believed,

are not grieved with. Never once in therapy across my adult life, with friends, and with people online...

has anyone grieved with me. Empathized. No one has shown me how to grieve, or really tried to connect on more than a factual level. The best people can do?

It wasn't your fault -- and -- admitting it was wrong,

and those two admissions are RARE, let alone the least compassionate things someone can say to their client, friend, sister, or family.

MY ENTIRE LIFE, I HAVE CARRIED THIS BURDEN LARGELY ON MY OWN. The burdens of child abuse, child neglect, and worst of all: CHILD RAPE.

There aren't words enough to describe how these experiences have hobbled me. It only gets worse as I get older, not better. Therapy barely scratches the surface, and that's WHEN I CAN EVEN FIND THERAPISTS WHO ARE QUALIFIED AND WILLING TO DEAL WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS THE LEVEL OF PROFOUND ABUSE IN HER HISTORY as I do.

Most therapists turn me away and ask me to seek services elsewhere. They say they are simply not equipped to deal with the type of therapy I need. I'm not even that difficult to handle in a therapeutic setting. I've seen and heard stories a lot worse. The fact that I am articulate and respectful is the only reason I have received treatment over the years.

You people have NO IDEA WHAT'S IT'S LIKE FOR US VICTIMS. And I wouldn't want you to know what I know. I just want some sympathy, patience, and a chance, I'd imagine, just like everyone else, victimized or not.

I just want a little forgiveness if I'm a little hard to handle. I have literally busted ass my entire life to become a better, easier person to be around. Being diagnosed with BPD, Bipolar, PTSD, and a host of other guesswork diagnoses offered by professionals is difficult enough to weather.

How are people like me supposed to become autonomous, healthy members of society? I can't fucking figure it out.

[thepro-lifemovement]

Lianna Rebolledo was only 12-years-old when she was brutally raped by two men near her home. At the hospital, doctors told her she was pregnant and advised her to have an abortion. However, Lianna decided to keep her baby after she asked the doctor if abortion would ease her pain and he replied ‘no.’

She said, “If abortion wasn’t going to heal anything, I didn’t see the point. I just knew that I had somebody inside my body. I never thought about who her biological father was. She was my kid. She was inside of me.”

Now Lianna, 35, says she has no regrets about choosing life for her child and that her daughter has helped her overcome suicidal thoughts. She said, “It was really hard, but just to see that little person telling me how happy she was that I gave her her life. When she said that — and she was only four years old when she told me: ‘Mommy thank you for giving me life’ — I realized that she was the one who gave me my life back.”

She concluded, “In my situation, two lives were saved. I saved my daughter’s life, but she saved my life. Even though [the rape] was a very hard moment, if I had to go through that [again] just to know and to love my daughter, I would go through that again. She’s always been there for me. She’s the only person who has shown me a real love. And I always will be grateful.”

[vergess]

Hi, in one post you mention that punishment for rape that is equal or worse to that for murder leads to rapists murdering their victims because the punishment can't get worse anyway, and that this is the reason the US stopped the death penalty for rape. I found that really interesting, do you have the source/something where I could read more about it?

I was somewhat mistaken. Although that IS in precedent now, the original judicial declaration was based on proportionality NOT victim endangerment!

Rather, the justification of "removing a protective incentive to keep the victim alive" comes up later, in Kennedy v Louisiana

by in effect making the punishment for child rape and murder equivalent, a State that punishes child rape by death may remove a strong incentive for the rapist not to kill the victim

Further reading about death, murder, and rape rates:

On the flaws of the death sentence:

Statistics backing the claim that the death penalty increases murder rates generally:

Further evidence that the death penalty for rape is used nearly exclusively to target marginalized men, NOT to protect rape victims in general:

Of course, victims and families are harmed psychologically by executions anyway, especially if they knew their rapist prior to the assault. Even in cases where the perpetrator was an unknown, heaping death upon disaster for the many years that an execution trial takes? Tends to trigger suicidal breakdowns in the very victims the penalty is supposed to "give closure" to

[tenaciousmoneymuffinzine]

I went and saw Sound of Freedom in theaters with my sister last night, and it was beautifully done. I cried so much. It's such a tragedy, all these kids who are sold into sex trafficking. We need to protect them. God's children are not for sale.

[asoiafzambi]

Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: A Song of Ice and Fire & Related Fandoms, House of the Dragon (TV) Rating: Mature Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Relationships: Aemond "One-Eye" Targaryen/Daemon Targaryen, Alicent Hightower/Daemon Targaryen, Aegon III Targaryen/Jaehaera Targaryen, Aegon III Targaryen & Baela Targaryen Characters: Aegon III Targaryen, Viserys II Targaryen, Jaehaera Targaryen, Baela Targaryen, Daemon Targaryen, Alicent Hightower, Aemond "One-Eye" Targaryen Additional Tags: Truth Bombs, Torture, Rape, child rape, family dysfunction is over 9000, Repression, that stupid dagger, Violence, Angst, Insanity, Attempted Patricide, Blood, elder abuse (but he deserves it), trigger flashback, rapist/victim relationship, Alternate Universe - Canon Divergence, Age Difference, Targcest | Targaryen Incest (A Song of Ice and Fire), Anorexia, Murder, Hypersexuality

Summary: If he fell down the stairs tomorrrow and broke his neck his brother would be king and ... the little chubby holy terror after him. So he should better watch his steps then, until his own seed took root.

And now to the creepy stuff. You don't have to get too scared about the tags for now though, most of the stuff is just finally acknowledged to have happend at some point. 

[tocitynews]

Rochester New York Police Shawn Jordan Gets 10 Weekends In Jail For Rape Of 13-Year-Old –Rochester New York reporting

Shawn Jordan also was sentenced to 10 years probation under an initial plea agreement. Jordan pleaded guilty earlier this year to raping the girl in 2022 in South Bristol.

The mother of the now 15-year-old girl begged Ontario County Judge Kristina Karle to send her daughter’s rapist to prison, but the judge accepted the plea agreement.

Rushing to his car after the sentencing, Jordan avoided answering any questions after sentencing.

“I’m not entirely satisfied with the sentence … but ultimately as a prosecutor I have to weigh things like the impact of actually having to testify on the victim of this crime, And she’s a child, and she was going to have to face her accuser in the courtroom. And when I was given the opportunity to consider whether or not we’d take a guilty plea – absolutely, all day, in a circumstance like this,” said Ontario County Assistant District Attorney Kelly Wolford.

▶︎ Jordan Will Start Serving His Sentence Later This Month — A Sentence That Wolford Says Jordan Reportedly Has Been Bragging About.

“”We Had Heard From Members Of The Community That He Had Indicated That He Had ‘Gotten Off’ On These Charges. And That Is Not Unusual For Us To Hear. Unfortunatley People Say Those Things. But It’s Concerning If It Is (True),” She Said.

An order of protection has been issued, and Jordan will be on the sex offender registry.

She said: “I’m thankful that it’s over for the victim and her family who were here today in court. It’s been a long process to get to this point but ultimately, just thankful they can move on and start to heal.”

[republicansexscandals]

[spit-out-the-dust]

When all you do is see people get away with child rape over and over and over again.

And then you get on social media to see people trying to defend actual rapists and child rapists and murderers — people who probably have no idea the reality of the world because they aren’t working the trenches with people like me.

You remember why you truly hate this world and why it’s failing. God please save our children. These people are morons and the burden is becoming too much.

[ernestbruce]

these fucking hypocrites are a disgusting bunch of deplorables

head deplorable and groomer:

Robert Morris

[dailyworldecho]

[niranjanadhikari]

जधन्य जबरजस्तिकरणी गरेको भनेर जिल्ला अदालतको निर्णय यस्तो थियो, हेरौला पुनरावेदनले कुन आधारमा हतारमा सफाई दिएको!