#categorically awful

[overlord-of-chaos]

Hello who would like to stab some Tories with me

[enevera]

made of. tired

[heartscrypt]

"this isn't the proper meme format" yeah well i cant control them they're freaks sorry they defy the logic of the original meme okay

[lab-gr0wn-lambs]

I don't appreciate Gabe enough honestly. A++ character growth.

[arrowpunk]

Reading Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents is hitting me like a fucking Frieght Train

Can we like calm the fuck down for even 2 pages maybe my god

[tulsa24]

book percy was always this character who i thought was the coolest & who i experienced comphet for (& i still do.) tv percy, on the other hand, is this rightfully fed up kid who i adopted & is now my son.

[kaeyapilled]

. (tw heterosexuality)

[thespineoftherighteous]

I don't know if it is a aftg song but I feel like it, it's "happy pills" by wheaters, I feel like it's an Aaron song but it also could be an Andrew song, so maybe twinyards, but I don't know, I like it though

the way it flips from lyrics that are sooo Andrew to ones that are sooo Aaron like?? it's a twinyards tune for sure

[llycaons]

uh oh

[bsaka7]

its just constant. world athletics competition last week. the federal courts versus an eleven year old in west virginia. it's just awful.

[but-the-desserts-were-okay]

I saw a post calling Light Yagami an incel and I think that’s a little unfair. He’s obviously A Man With Something Wrong With Him ideology-wise but if anything he’s the opposite of an incel. The prototypical incel wants sex but cant get it because of his abhorrent personality, but despite Light’s multitude of flaws the man’s drowning in pussy. But does he want it? No! He’s so singular in his goals that he couldn’t care less about sex or the social capital it grants and requires. He’s like a nega-incel. An inchad? More research is needed.

[israbelle]

i found literally the worst thing ever (list of my favorite characters i made when i was 11)

[yanqings]

im keeping that post with lists of lesbian books as a reference since its a good resource i suppose but some of the books on those lists…. 😨

[cutiromer0]

a non-football mutual is posting Pulisic and Greasyman pics

[flaskoflethe]

Reblogging a twitter thread my husband sent me. Not something I see discussed often enough, memes about praise kink aside. Link to thread on nitter instance, image is of thread.

[shiredded]

Happy father's day!

This poll is about estranged fathers. If you are not estranged, congrats! You all get to share one answer.

Good lord! This sure did go. I'll answer some confusion as best I can.

This is a poll about estranged fathers. I'm interested in the timelines of people who don't talk to their dads.

Because I am interested in estranged fathers, I basically categorized everyone who is NOT estranged into one answer. If you have spoken within the last few hours or weeks: congratulations! You are within normal relationship parameters.

If it's been more than a month, something odd may be going on, especially if your culture normally observes father's day. After a year, it's definitely not normal.

If you want to be more specific within that month, make a poll, it's fine! No need to get mad, go hug your dad!

The results (aside from the volume holy shit) are pretty much what i expected: the vast majority of people are not estranged. Within that, some love their dad, some do not. But I don't personally care how recent contact was if it was within the last month.

I'm not trying to make a commentary about how fathers are all awful and everyone should reject them. I'm not an authority on dads either.

I am not "everyone" and I am not "tumblr"

I'm literally just a guy.

There's no goal here to try to fill every slot evenly, nor a message that you should.

Not every poll is all inclusive, and not every poll is about you.

For those who it is about, I see you. Father's day is weird for us, especially when surrounded by people who like their dads. We are rare in the grand scheme of things, and that's a good thing. But estrangement is about loneliness, either ours or his.

It's raw for some of us, an old scar for others, and for me: a turning point in life where everything started to get better. A year becomes two, a decade another, and someone who consumed your life becomes a part of the past so distant you stop remembering it so well.

We may not have dads, but we have each other.