#caregiver hayley marshall

[anewkindofme]

Hayley: *tries to appease to Kol with kindness*

Kol: *continues to tantrum*

Hayley: Elijah!

Elijah: *uses dad voice*

Kol: *shuts up*

Aka, all of Starting Over, summarized.

[fandoms--fluff]

Similar to caregivers Kol and Davina could you do one for Hayley and Elijah with a little reader? Xx

Caregivers Hayley Marshall and Elijah Mikaelson Headcannons

Little female reader x Caregivers Hayley Marshall and Elijah Mikaelson

Warnings: None

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Hayley would be Mama

Elijah would be Daddy

They would be the most protective people you've ever met

Will always make sure you're safe and happy

Hayley would be the more cuddly and soft one

She could cuddle with you for hours and not get bored

^Elijah has many pictures of you two cuddled on the couch on their bed

You love being carried around by your Daddy

And playing with his tie>>>

Hayley would definitely sing you lullabies before bed

When you're upset, your Daddy or Mama will pick you up and rock you while they walk around the room

They always know what to do to make you feel better

Hayley loves feeding you your bottles, having you cradled in her lap while she runs her hand through your hair

You love giving kisses to your Mama and Daddy's noses

Clinging to your daddy in the morning>>

You love seeing your Mama in her wolf form

She's always so gentle with her while she's a wolf

Elijah doesn't like you seeing his vampire face

He doesn't want to scare you

He would feel tremendous guilt over it if he ever scares you. He never wants to be like Mikael was.

You once got into your Mama's makeup and convinced your Daddy to let you give him a makeover

^Hayley has a lot of incriminating evidence

You love it when your Aunt Rebekah and your Mama take you out for a girls day

You'd love cuddling with your blanky and then going over to them and cuddling up with them as well

[bluboothalassophile]

Hello,

Okay, I just kind of need to rant, and I have no place to put this but the last few days... I'm just so fucking done with bullshit.

I know I haven't been 'active' in terms of writing for a while. 2020 sort of knocked us all on our asses, in my house, so it's just... it's really hard to be motivated about anything really as of late. I am not a fan of living in California, but I don't miss where I was either. I'm bummed I haven't gotten to enjoy a new, fresh start, or make friends, or have a life, I feel like I've lost so much of my youth to being a caregiver and now thanks to the pandemic, I really feel more disconnected than ever.

Anyways, I ran out of things to engage with during the pandemic because I caught up on everything, there weren't a lot of 'new' things in my life, so I started binging Netflix, Hulu, and so forth. I watched Vampire Diaries, Originals, and Legacies to laugh at it's ridiculousness; because it's ridiculous. It's like Grey's Anatomy! It's ridiculous. I found I enjoyed the characters though, mainly in the Originals because I lost interest in the Elena nonsense pretty quickly.

The Originals though... I like that one a lot. And you guys know me, I sort of pick my favorite characters and stick to them; i.e. JayRae, SessRin, SasuSaku (to which we will never mention ever again), and so forth. I love Davina Claire, Kol Mikaelson, Marcel Gerard, and Hayley Marshall.

I wasn't going to do any new projects, I wasn't because I have been getting back into the swing of writing fanfics, but I really loved Davina and Kol so I decided fuck it, and I'd do the project Anonymously. Ao3 has that wonderful Anonymous feature, which I had never used and so wanted to try out because I just sort of wanted to do a thing and leave said thing when I was done. The TVD and Originals fandom scares me, because they kind of strike me as a very Naruto like fandom and that went so swimmingly for me obviously. I mean, nothing wrong could happen, right? HAHA, wrong. So, in a vain attempt to avoid repeating the Naruto fandom nonsense; because I really do not have the mental capacity for drama anymore, my bullshit meter has been thoroughly burnt out; I went about being Anonymous.

Anyways, so I started a story, the Vixen & the Fox, for FUN! It was a word vomit idea, write when I could because it was fun. There was no expectations on me or it! I could just fly under the radar. I also could feel productive because I was writing regularly again, and posting, and that made writing my originals easier, so I felt productive! Which was awesome because I missed it. I figured I'd finish that story and just go back to Hopes for a Bastard, because that series is my baby; also finish Never Be the Same too.

And then some asshole started posting my story on Wattpad claiming they had my permission and they didn't! And that theft has really fucked me up and fucked me over because despite all the other shit, and all the other drama I've endured No One Has Ever Stolen A Story From Me! I have never felt so infuriated, livid, offended, betrayed, and fucking used in my entire goddamn life! What the Hell Do They Gain By Doing This Though!? Seriously!? It's 500k words! It's fanfiction TAILORED to a particular fandom universe! You Can't Exactly Get Famous Off Of It Even With Changing It Up! And it doesn't matter if they weren't claiming my story as theirs, they were posting it without my permission, or consent, and they claimed to possess both, and no one bothered to tell me until recently.

So Why!? Why the fuck would you take my story; Anonymous or under a Name, cross post it, boasting to have my permission to do so, and NEVER Asking!? I know I don't interact with you guys a lot, I'm not a responsive author to reviews, or anything (sorry about that, but FFN was my first platform ever and interacting with readers just was not something I thought to do, and now it's because I'm shy and I'm terrible about not replying to questions when they're asked in reviews. My sisters call me spoiler queen because I just answer the question! So no, no I'm not an interactive writer in that sense!).

Anyways, with the help of people like @shewhowillnotbenamed1, @alerialblu, @bookaholicpt, @xaphrin, @chromium7sky, I managed to not lose my shit, and also to put my story under my name, and get the cross posting thief to take my story down; to which I want to say THANK YOU! Again, to you guys, because you're awesome.

But I'm still sitting here, and I want to know why. Why do people do this? Just... why? I'm sitting here very confused about this, and pissed, and I can't seem to process it, despite it being over, and now I'm using fucking Wattpad, to try to reach the readers who were reading it there, and I just... Why would someone do this? Do my stories really need to be under my name to be somewhat safe? I mean, really? I just wanted to be Anonymous for a minute and write, so why is it they felt the need to do this? Because the moment I put this story under my name, they acted like they'd been doing me a favor, not screwing me over, and they said it wasn't theft, but it was. Why did it matter if I was Anonymous or under BluBooThalassophile? Why do people do this.

I'm sorry about the rant, but I really can't wrap my head around what's happened, or process it, and I'm so fucking angry, and hurt that I can't even express all of it because I don't know how. Why would someone do this? Just, why?

[anewkindofme]

Does Kol like fireworks and how many times does he drop? And is there signs of him dropping?

thanks and Happy New Year

Fireworks are overstimulating for Kol. He never goes to see them and the family won't light them if he's around. They live far enough away from neighbors that hearing them isn't an issue. If he was ever around them, he'd put on his noise cancelling headphones.

I'm unsure to answer how often he drops. There's not a specific amount. He does it regularly, at least once a week.

The usual signs that he's dropping is he gets very cranky, unable to describe why he's getting upset and speaks younger, kind of slurring his speech as a toddler would. He's also usually clingy and wants either Hayley, Elijah or Klaus. He'll usually start sucking his thumb or chewing on certain things. Once he settles, he's very playful and climbing all over everyone.

Happy New Year!

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[anewkindofme]

Rob Lowe and Ian Somerhalder resemble so much! Damon isn’t exactly like Owen, but they have some personality overlap.

Similarly, I don’t think Stefan and TK look alike but their personalities are similar. They’re both sweeties that battle addiction. (Stefan’s issues with human blood are soooo addict coded, it’s why I hate people trying to force him to drink it. No one would tell TK to do opioids…sorry, rant for another day). They can snap at the wrong times and like to play hero too much.

I clearly have “a type” when it comes to writing agere. Mark and Jackson fall into “soft boy Little with impulse control and sarcastic, jerky with a heart of gold caregiver” too.

Very rarely I switch that up. Kol, Nathan and Tyler are the seemingly jerky Littles with the soft side, paired with their sweet yet protective caregivers. It’s all about balance.

Please excuse my ramble, idk what this was lol.

[anewkindofme]

Kol & Hayley, Alex & Meredith and Stefan & Damon vibes.

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Little!Kol & Caregiver!Hayley

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On a scale from 1 to 10, how jealous and insecure would Kol be if Henrik was resurrected?

20 billion.

Like, he waited so long to have his family pay attention to him and love him. He’s the baby of the family.

Except, here’s the real baby.

He’d probably start acting out again, convinced he’s replaced.

Elijah and Hayley would have to baby him a lot to remind him that he’s still their heart and the family has room in their hearts for everyone. Klaus would also have to prove he wouldn’t neglect Kol in favor of him. Overall, the poor bean would need a lot of reassurance.

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[anewkindofme]

Marcel with Klaus and/or Kol with Elijah

They’re mama’s boys and know their mamas run the house.

[anewkindofme]

Hi, can you do ‘hey, hey. i’m not going anywhere.’ for any of your tvdu verses? Completely up to you which one <3

Thank you for sending this in! I chose to put this in my Haylijah/Kol verse where Elijah returns from his year in France.

Feel free to send in prompts from this meme for any of my verses/dynamics I write for!

So don’t believe it’s all in vain (Cause I’m on my way): Chapt. 3 [Back To School]

Kol struggles with returning to reality now that Elijah has returned.

On AO3

[anewkindofme]

Oooh I love that ask game!!! Could you maybe do ‘ stop squirming and let me see that cut!’ for marcel in “Don’t you cry no more” and ‘What happened to your eye?!’ For kol in “Starting over”??? Thank you so much and I hope you have an awesome day! 🥰

Feel free to send me prompts from this meme!

Hi there! I did the Marcel one a couple of days ago, so I hope you saw it! Thanks so much for sending these in. :) Hope you had a great weekend!

Here is the Kol one!

Starting Over: Chapt. 30 [Saving Kol]

The family rescuses Kol from a coven's torture. The road to recovery is long. But hey, at least he finally has all of his family's attention!

On AO3

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So don't believe it's all in vain (Cause I'm on my way): Chapt. 1 [Daddy's Home]

After a year in Paris with zero memories, Elijah returns home. Except, it's not New Orleans nor Mystic Falls. No, home is with his wife and little boy. And he underestimates just how much he was missed.

On AO3

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Kol in Baby Vampire Universe:

Hayley, upon meeting him:

Literally got cute aggression on the spot and started pinching his cheeks. Such a mom.

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Starting Over: Chapt. 28 [Bonfire Wishes]

The Mikaelsons finish up the New Year in the only way they know how: a bonfire.

On AO3

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Caregiver Hayley! She’s the affectionate, nurturing mom…with a serious side as Kol knows all too well. Still, she’s the one offering endless snuggles, kisses and cheek pinching. If she could, she’d probably cuddle him all day. She plays peacekeeper in the home, often helping Elijah and Kol understand each other better. She’ll always nurture Kol’s interests and looks into ways to best care for him, both in and out of space.

[anewkindofme]

Can you do 8, 9, 10, 11, 13, 14 for Elijah and Hayley please?

8) Are they a go with the flow cg or do they keep their little one on a routine?

Routine! Elijah would go crazy without one. He has one for about every detail of his life, why would it be different with Kol? Hayley used to be pretty laid back, but now she also has that running checklist. Kol needs to be in bed between 9-10 PM. Beforehand, he needs his shower/bath, lotion, diaper and jammies. Same with meals, as well as naps on the weekends.

9) How do they help them handle big emotions?

They remove Kol from the situation and allow him to stim, cry or scream. He always knows they're right there. They don't force him to talk, they just wait until he's ready.

10) Favorite endearments to use?

Elijah doesn't have many. Just "Little Prince", "sweetheart", "baby boy" and "wily fox". Hayley has about a hundred: "lovebug", "bug", "bugga", "squish", "handsome", "pumpkin", "precious", "little pup", "puppy", "mama's boy" and probably so many more.

11) How did they figure out that they were a cg?

it came naturally to them as they cared for Kol. They realized what he needed and that it was an intuitive part of them as well.

13) Favorite game to play with their little one?

Hayley plays peek-a-boo, "got your nose" and different finger games ("this little piggy", "finger family", etc). Elijah isn't much for games, but he will play hide-and-seek with Kol.

14) Random Headcanon!

Hayley is a big believer in attachment parenting. Wolves keep their pups close to them and while Kol isn't one, she tends to treat him as such. It's why she's such a big believer in co-sleeping, carrying Kol everywhere and breastfeeding. She wants to keep him as close as possible so he feels secure, especially coming to them when he's independent. Elijah didn't realize he was following most of it to begin with, so he doesn't disagree with it all. Hayley even pointed out that him feeding Kol blood from his wrist is a form of attachment parenting. So, Elijah does it a lot more.

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