#can we please stop romanticizing unhealthy relationships thx

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okay i KNOW this is unnecessary but i need to say it lol i still can't believe certain people thought that the femidiah hc was a joke,,, it's a headcanon?? how can a headcanon be a joke it's a headcanon like if you don't think it's plausible that's fine but calling it joke is kind of,,, off-putting

it's not even harmful in any way like the only part of it that could be clash with the story is that sydney's gay and might be only really attracted to like masculine men but like. please don't come for me for this, but i don't really care if seddie doesn't work out and i genuinely don't understand why people ship them or think that they will eventually make up and everything will be fine [idk if their relationship was ever even truly fine tbh]

like even if jedidiah doesn't have to do his project anymore and he can spend as much time as he wants with sydney we can't ignore the fact that he literally gaslit him and also hurt him to the point that he stopped caring about his own wellbeing like the gaslighting was a choice that he made knowing that it was gaslighting knowing sydney's history with mental health duhfuufu

both of them have the tendency to abuse power over the other person when given the chance [mommy issues] and sydney literally said it himself that that's not good for a relationship

and the fact that jedidiah literally only went to medical school b/c sydney wanted to,,,,

for this relationship to be healthy [and i'm assuming you do want them to be in a healthy relationship], they would have to change fundamental aspects of themselves

this is not "oh yeah they're opposites opposites attract" they're actually not that different the more you think about it and then the parts of them that ARE different clash so fufking hard helpp

like does nobody else see what the narrative is trying to tell us??? im literally losing my mind over this