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castleofravens · 4 months ago

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tbh as someone with bpd, the way people talk abt fitz makes me feel physically ill like wdym youre inherently toxic because you idolize certain people wdym youre evil because of mere thought patterns wdym there must be no reason for you to be this way youre just a bad person wdym you’re undeserving of love and literally being alive because you feel emotions really strongly

(the issue is that they take these traits he inherently has and says he’s toxic for stuff he can’t control it’s never his behaviors and if it is they blow it way out of proportion??)

also hi don’t use narcissistic psychopath sociopath etc as descriptors for yes even the villains (this part of the post isn’t meant to be really mean, ik that language is normalized but yeah let’s not use mental health language and/or outdated terms in a stigmatizing manner!)

#fitz vacker #kotlc fandom #lmao ive also seen that he’s manipulative bc he gave gifts to sophie #and like.. hi he’s autistic hope this helps <3 #(penguin pebbling)#anyways i only engage with keeper content here now and even then it’s like scary?#fandom spaces stop spreading ableist ideas challenge #and yes i get that a lot of bpd traits and symptoms can get toxic quickly #but we aren’t inherently evil (the same goes for npd & aspd & hpd)#and yeah ik he’s not canonically bpd but most of the bad stuff people say about him are things i relate to heavily as a person with bpd #and ive seen words like narcissist(ic) thrown around a lot and 🤕#don’t use ableist language <3 #okay rant over

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